So for the next 5mins whilst we were both waiting to be served we scanned the pub & had bets on if we thought these people were single or not. Sorry boys (if there are any who have stumbled across this site) I’m gonna go a little girly here.
About eight years ago I ended up in hospital for over a week and eventually they worked out I had a cyst on one of my ovaries, about the size of a tennis ball that had twisted and it was causing me immense pain.
At the time of the operation I asked if it would affect my fertility and if I would need to look into getting some of my eggs frozen?
This time of seeing a mortgage broker, putting an offer on the house, counter-offers, renovating, buying furniture (I didn’t even own a toaster, the only household item I had was my bed) was a very daunting one! The first of which I wasn’t head over heel for but he was a nice guy and I wanted to see if something would develop.
Not long after this I met another guy who was REALLY keen on me and told me he was putting all his eggs in my basket.
So as we get ready for this season of Christmas functions, New Years celebrations, family get togethers, work parties and so on. A few years ago 11 (yes you read that right, ELEVEN) of my friends got married in one year and I was maid of honour at 3 of them; March, April and May. Leading up to this time as each of my friends (especially the close ones) started to get engaged, I was dying inside.
I spoke to a wise friend and just said I really want to go into this time with a true sense of joy and not one of bitterness. Looking back on this time I can honestly say somehow I did have complete joy at each if these celebrations. Then in the last few weeks this crazy idea came over me about terminating all three accounts. If I was being totally honest I suppose having these online profiles was like my way of trying to control dating or finding a man.
So I debated what to do for a few weeks until something snapped (I think it was the 56 year old, short divorced man who sent me a kiss) and that was it, I deactivate and permanently deleted all three accounts in a space of ten minutes. Whilst travelling I meet this guy (who looks identical to Avery from Greys Anatomy) with piercing blue eyes, olive skin & a body like he should be the next Kelvin Klein model.


Well I immediately wanted to say the three craziest and furtherest countries from where I thought he might be from..
I read this quote recently and it really struck a cord with me “If he wanted to be with you, he would. This statement and a few others got me thinking about the opposite of chasing and the fact that nothing will keep me from the man who is for me. Welcome…I am a 30 something single writing tales about my frustrations, revelations and brilliance in this season. Single is more than a facebook status, it's a plethora of emotions and a journey of discovery.
Comment Disclaimer: Comments that contain profane or derogatory language, video links or exceed 200 words will require approval by a moderator before appearing in the comment section. I spent my life dreaming of becoming a working mom (a teacher to be exact) and finding a loving husband having a house full of kids the white picket fence, the cat, the dog, the whole 9. I would rather willingly raise my child as a single parent than get married and end up in a bitter divorce. I still have a few years to wait, but whether or not I have a child in the future will not depend solely on if I find the right guy. MadameNoire is a sophisticated lifestyle publication that gives African-American women the latest in fashion trends, black entertainment news, parenting tips and beauty secrets that are specifically for black women.
It’s a daunting step to consider these things when you are single and to potentially look at having your eggs frozen in the hope that you can have babies when you are ready.
But when you are suddenly 30 and still living at home, with no prospects on the horizon you have to re-think the situation. He was going to up and move his life five hours south to live closer to me, find another job so we could make a real go of our relationship. I just thought it was better to cast a wider net and hopefully give myself a better chance of meeting someone). Not just taking a break so I could re-activate them when I came to my senses but deleting them all for good.
Searching through a catalogue of potential partners and judging them based on a few photos and how they had described themselves.


But yet I still tried to help him and I felt like having these dating sites was like a crutch to fall back on. I also have had lots of friends who’ve met their current partners on these sites and some have married those they met online. I was so far from either of these things that when I turned 30 I wanted to skip the whole occasion and pretend it never existed. Children are people not accessories and while you may want one or feel you deserve one think of the effects of knowingly depriving a child of the two-parent experience because you want a baby. Black women seek information on a wide variety of topics including African-American hair care, health issues, relationship advice and career trends - and MadameNoire provides all of that. As I started paying a mortgage I was finishing my part time job (my only regular income) to work full time for myself. But I think it’s also good to realise this and make sure we spend time with the people we love rather than staying home or being by ourselves.
That didn’t happen but I certainly experienced my fair share of great wedding snaps & a handful of new profile pictures! I was an only child and to be alone and be faced with that as a future potential not healthy at all. However now that I’m older I have an elderly mom no brothers no sisters just me and her after my dad died. But when I questioned him, he said I was reading into things and he was just a private person.
The level of AMH in a woman’s blood is generally a good indicator of her ovarian reserve. I still had no peace and a few weeks later I caught him out, he was cheating and seeing another person.



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