European girls often want someone from Europe (home team) or the Americas while India (visiting team) is unknown. European girls assume that Indian men have Indian girls waiting for them back home and will get married so what is the in dating an Indian guy.
Indian guys are often, but not always are physically smaller frame than Europeans, largely because of the diet. Do not be a geek – Indian guys are generally smart and hard-working, but often are shy about flirting, OK they tend to be geeky.
Explain your real intentions–  If you are getting an arranged marriage back home, be honest.
Try online dating – You would be surprised how the walls of culture fall when you start to write poetry online and via sms text messages. I live in Krakow, Poland and have had an Indian guy randomly start talking to me on the street and inviting me for coffee twice. So if you are an Indian guy looking for a girlfriend in Europe, my advice is just take your time and make friends first. Polish girl dateI met this Polish chick at the dog park in Melbourne Australia, I am not gonna ask her for a date or anything.
Good question, Polish girls are into culture, you can talk about Poland and what you know about the history and culture, read up on it. How girls see Indian guysThis is about how women see guys from Indian, there are pluses and minuses.
The answer to your above question is that if a guy like me will meet your girl who you are trying to be friends with then you will be dumped in friend zone forever. I am surprised, I really am, here is a fact and no one can deny is, when you meet a female. Fashion – There is a famous term in PUA community called Peacocking, which is essential to strike a conversation. Come out of their comfort zone – This is very rare in Indian community, often when I ask my friends to talk to someone (opening line is provided), they say, no man I am too shy or not interested while he is staring her too much, this is all bullshit excuse, just go ahead and talk to her, apply 3 sec rule.. It is because the vast majority of Indian men are seen by both men and women in the west as being immature, loud and unhygienic. The world health organization estimates that 587 million Indians use nature and public places as their rest rooms. Many Indians guys also fail to connect to non Indian cultural diaspora around the world; yet they are obviously attracted to the exotic beautiful girls.
I will say at least german girls are honest here, if they will open they are open in same way to all and if not then to no one. 6.) Indians are more successful with Romanian, Poland and with spain girls, I felt girl from these countries are very friendly and really believe in friendship,unlike with german in most of the cases they commit as friendship but its all about sex (trust me its true). I personally like afghan girls more although very few of them are good but I can guarantee you trust in such relations at least more than any other country.
Sorry if you find it offending, I wrote what I have seen in shopping malls, railway stations, in grocery stores.
I want to say not all Indian guys are miser and kinky, but such guys are misunderstood or facing consequences, cause of actions of stupid boys who spoils their own image and their country’s reputation and so there is a less rate of success but in USA it is exactly opposite, visit few weeks continuously to a same club or pub and you will a good girlfriend or mayb some girl who is very clear that she only want to have sex no marriage. My experience with women has been nothing but positive be she English, European and even Indian girls themselves.
Most foreign men do come across desperate and it appears they are looking for visas and sadly is true for vast majority and very disrespectful to the ladies. I’m a French woman, 30, and I can tell you that some girls just love Indian guys, no worries for u! This type of girls go to Indian restaurant, Bollywood or traditional dance courses, and temple.
They ay be the best for you (at least in Europe, no comparison with India of course :) because they understand and enjoy pretty much the culture. I tell you a trick by which you can figure out whether this guy has a girl at home or he can get serious with non-Indian chick, (although I shouldnt be saying that).
So the first thing you should notice in 5 mins of conversation (of course provided you are interested in him).
These traits of personality shows how much curious he is about other things than India, if he has those that means there is a good chance you guys would date awesome as he will enjoy discovering your interest and so would you.
Additionally, Indian men should be open to explore these relationships with the same standards applied for all women. From my personal experience,(I am from Punjab) it make a huge difference where do you come from, I mean your culture, heritage and lifestyle. Depending on how she is responding at right time ask for a date (actually asking for a date is old crap stuff) if you pay right you will get the her in some time .
Once I get a girl when she was leaving a pub and going to other one round the corner and we chatted and I had her in two days. Remember you cannot force a girl in western society, as soon as she feels you are desperate she will leave. Indian women compared to Western WomenThe purpose of this is to compare Indian women Vs Western women so people go in with eyes open about the cultural differences before dating girls.
You must always remember that the best white western woman are no where to match ordinary Indian or south-Asian woman. If you are ready (fall in love and wants to get into committed relationship meaning marriage) then first evaluate the honesty level and tolerance towards you, your family and your culture and ability to integrate. Looking for just physical relations then go to pub often with little extra bucks for paying your pleasure lady drink cost and taxi fare.
At western women: if you can not find Indian man, be sure you will never know better man or better things for you. Comment from the DiasporaMy mother’s family were imported by the British to work as indentured labourers to what was, about 150 years ago, the British colony of Natal, South Africa.
I would say in my limited experience of observing European and Indian marriages, the marriages are solid, however, the parents are always an issue.
Most European women judge Indian men negatively because of the stereotypes associated with them even if they find them to be relaxed, easy going and well adapted to living in the west.
I am Indian myself and have spent so much time in Europe (learned its ways and so on) that its hard for anyone to believe that I am from India ( I hear all the time: Are you from Italy?
What I have seen happen is that the women from Europe who show a proactive interest in Indian men are either old (above 30 and ready to get married and look for Indian men cause unlike European men, Indian men are committed and do not run away from a married mans responsibilities) or they are below average looking (so not many white guys are interested in them anyways). I go to clubs and pubs in major cities in Europe and I have found one common thing there about the dating scene of and Indian (or for that sake any non-European and non-White guys).
How I an Indian married a girl from the westWell I am a south Indian male grew up in the States married to an Aussie woman. My conclusion that because Indians are so disregarded on a social level and deemed with all these negative stereotypes, this makes women and people in general look down on Indians on a subconscious level. I think this kind of subconscious bias probably affects women more than men, when it comes to dating alone but not in other aspects of society. Oh one last thing, remember to live the questions in life and at some distant time in the future when you do not even realizes it you will be living the answers. Indian boy dated an Ukrainian girl.Sorry for the name but I just want to keep myself discreet. She liked me, loved me too(not sure about love) but I don’t know where things went wrong.
For any guys Indians just be careful when you dream to have a relationship with Europeans or east Europeans they are tough either you must learn to let it go easily just like they do or you would feel it for years to come. Remember respect everyone not all girls are piece of fun to entertain or to boast around to your friends. I met my wife when I was out with my friends in a Restaurant and she was celebrating with her friends at an adjacent table. So instead of looking for a European girl, most important thing is to look for that connection.
But at the same time if you are one of those guys who like to ask each and every woman out. I have had (some even long term) relationships with Dutch, Italian, English and Belgian women.
I am happy to know your story it was really nice and to be honest I envy you but in a positive way. Indian Men and European WomenEuropean women do go for Indian men but it depends upon the country and that being said, after they have relations with you, and after a while they tend to bore with you and leave you.
Indian men have a craving for white meat so they get enchanted by white skinned European girls, sure European women will come across as friendlier than Indian women initially but once you have relations with them, they will get bored with you, they are lousy life partners. If you think they treat you bad because you are Indian you are wrong, the divorce rates in European countries are very high, so they treat their own kind very badly too, in fact many frustrated white men want Indian and Asian women because they want traditional wives and families rather than stuck up feminist European women who do nothing but spread their legs.
If you really crave white European women as an Indian man, the women most likely to go with Indian men are those from France, Spain, Romania, Hungary, Ukraine, Russia, and Bulgaria.
Countries in Europe where Indian men are welcomeI would say the countries where Indian men do well are some of the Eastern European and Southern European countries, also the UK, but the UK is more of about money and status.


Spanish women are super friendly but will not have relations with you unless you are their husband, so courtship is a long process there, they will flirt with you though. It has nothing to do with race and more to do with religion, having relations outside of marriage is seen as a bad thing to most Spanish women who tend to be very religious, they value marriage and a husband, and they tend to be traditional in their outlook. I list Germany as a country to not try to establish relations because most German women are very race conscious but do not really show it on the outside. I’m an Indian guy, age 50, lived in London all my life, and modern thinking, open minded. There are plenty of same culture & also international marriages which have both succeeded or failed. Usually one partner will have to sacrifice to the other partners way of life, for a marriage to be successful. From a business viewpoint, cross cultural marriages are a huge loss deal, for either a white or Indian person. It takes great understanding and flexibility to overcome this, and as one ages beyond 50, one may understand more why I say it. A cross cultural marriage often destroys the cultural background and religious identity of the children. WHY: Probably because people aren't buying enough Papa John's online, so they're using the Super Bowl as an excuse to get you to order pizza before you watch their spokesman Peyton Manning get crushed by the Panthers defense. Premier League executive chairman Richard Scudamore is not in favour of a breakaway European Super League. Sassuolo will qualify for the Europa League if Juventus win the Coppa Italia following their impressive victory against Inter in Serie A.
They are highly educated, peaceful and friendly but have little to no luck with girls from Europe. Sure almost all Indian marriages are still arranged and many have Indian girls waiting back home. I ethically vegetarian diets are better (I am not one), but it does affect protein intake and growth rates. Indians from Bombay, Tamil to Kerala usually come to Europe to study and often make higher earnings based on the power of the currency exchange rate of the rupee to the Euro or British pound. I see the above as a common problem with Indian guys, that is they make very few inroads with European girls. If you are looking for a marriage for a visa to Europe  (I am not recommending at all) be honest. If you are a man from India what has been your experiences with love in the UK or Europe or chatting with Polish or Russian girls for example?  If you are an American gal or a European girl would you date and Indian guy?
First time it happened I was in a rush so I said I couldn’t, but he was too old for me anyway (about 30, and I was 19 at the time). The problem was, from the very beginning he made it obvious that he was looking for a relationship, even seemed a little desperate so it made me think he just needed to get married for a green card rather than was interested in getting to know me. Long story short, I met with my wife (Kasia) Online and must say that I agree with your advise. Hope that soon I will come two Poland and meet all my friends and my Polish in laws.They love me so much and I love them most. I am taking my time to get to know her first, can you tip me on how Polish girls are and what steps I should avoid? Surprisingly for me, I have more friends (girls) in Europe in these 3 years than in India (specially Polish, Balkans and Russians). I was stun with her reply, they don’t have such nice skin so of course they will be jealous and that is the way they react like that. I agree that you may have more girlfriend’s in Germany than in India but trust me that has little to do with your connectivity with Indians.
Their mind circuit is designed in a way that they make decision in 10 minutes whether she would dump you in friend zone or in boy friend zone. Ask any foreigners who have travelled to India what they thought of the hygiene and constant harassment of women by Indian men. With time all psychological boundaries can be crosses with dating from other cultures with patience and understanding. Thus many a times they end up somewhere in the middle which might send wrong vibes to a girl. Srilankan, Tamilian, Pakistanis, it is difficult to recognize by looking them and most of the people are very miser in behaviour specially Pakistanis so it create a bad impact on girls in europe and in fact very few indians are really good in behaviour, sorry to say that but it is true and Pakistani they made it worst as a result as people see any asian specially from pakistan, india or Sri Lanka, they opt to stay away from them. On the other hands, girls are able to get german guys, somewhere I felt even being a german but german guys are also unable to get girls easily so when a frustrated Indi girl meets with frustrated german, they hang up and in most of the cases I found girl start being sleazy or start acting like a bitch (3 cases out of 5), more interesting in the same event if an indian guy will do the same thing with an indian girl (talking or touching) she minds it but she is open to a german even for much more sleazy body language. It’s a cultural thing and just because Indians populate more, smaller percentage of indecent or boring male look bigger.
I am not sure about rest of the India but being a Punjabi I was always confident talking with people, social skills you know, and getting girls is just about positive communication, from last eight years since I am in Europe. Well, a stereo type and dual standard boring article with almost hyped comments and imposing rules on just Indian men. Take your background into consideration, talk to your family members and follow what your family wishes for you sincerely. My great-grandmother was imported labour, a midwife, who provided for the medical care of the wives of the indentured labourers. I believe that as a third generation South African I am not Indian any longer, but I find that white South African woman (themselves not European any longer probably third generation South Aficans as well) have problems seeing me as date-able. Reason why I say this being an Indian, there are 26 states in India with 26 different languages with 26 different cultures, foods, dances, music, literature, behaviors, dresses, living styles, customs, marriage styles, even how they call out their mom is all different. My Indian friend has an Irish girlfriend and I have seen how her Irish colleagues give him looks as if he has committed a crime and they cock block him by putting him down in her eyes.
One more known obvious example is when some women call any Italian man handsome, because of the stereotype surrounding Italian men. If you were to marry it would not be the first time people in history have disobeyed their parents for love. She gave me her number and we met and after few times we started dating everything was beautiful. During first part of our relationship I had said that the relation isn’t clear and I have no girl waiting for me. She sometimes used to say she would come and she wants to come because she felt unhappy, she says she has money to spend, place to live and good expensive chocolates she didn’t felt being loved.
Also here my prejudices would come-even no exception for Aishwarya Rai, who is taken anyway, up.
Indian women are better for marriage and long term commitments than any European easy girl.
French and Spanish women are the only Western European women who seem to like Indian men, other nationalities are not so friendly. Russia though is dangerous and does have a good number of race oriented but the women are open towards Indian men. The Spanish women who will sleep around are those who are divorced and a bit older and lonely.
They won’t curse at you or attack you but they will go out of their way to avoid you. We should therefore look, at the underlying person, their values connection deeply , before marriage.
Indian men are from the same basic ethic group as Europeans, that is Indo-Europeans, but the culture is radically different and they are from a far off exotic land. Or maybe we all have watch too many Bollywood movies and think this is reality, but Indian girls are beautiful and know that if you give your heart to a guy he would just go back to Indian and marry someone that looks like Katrina Kaif, Aishwarya Rai, Priyanka Chopra  or Tabu. In contrast, I have seen Indians raised in the  USA on a high fat meat diet become huge.  This is in one generation and no one can tell me this is genetics. In fact Middle East guys seem to do better even though Indian guys are more connected to Europe ethnically and in some cases culturally.
All I can say is, ” be a gentleman (not only with the girl u like with every girl) and you will find ur self a magnate. Individual opens himself more in foreign land and I am assuming that people are more socialize in the sense of talking to strangers in Germany rather than India. I am a doctor from Mumbai living in Australia for 20 years or I have a vantage point of seeing my culture from afar.
Because if he talks about india too much than the probability is he has not been anywhere else and hence chances are he has too much indian culture in him (rest you can imagine).. A real guy and a real girl wont really care about race when it comes to date or long time relationship. We were Catholic, and my great grandmother spoke English as well as Tamil (originating from the south of India). I even had one of my friend saying this to me once that he thought it was his duty to do that even if he has no interest in the woman whatsoever.
In fact I think the greatest way you can honor your parents is live the life you want to live, not their life.


Although we would share same religion, enjoy same music (I have a sweet spot for Rafi) and food, we would have a different world view.
I have visited these countries and have had mostly positive experiences with the local women. Too much risk for a girl as she wants someone to take home to her mother (to like) and marry, not a player a foreign culture.  Therefore, I can see how some European women do not go for Indian guys unless there are strong feelings of love.
European girls will never admit this but the risk of flight of an Indian guy is high if she competes with a beauty who also cooks Chicken Tikka Masala and does it with a smile. Women like to date men either taller or broader than themselves as it give them a sense of security. Except for the culture you guys are basically the same as Europeans, there is not reason to feel funny or self-conscious. That is if an Indian girl goes to Europe or America guys are all over her, but the converse is true also. You have different priorities, at 20 all you want to do is have fun and at 30 you are probably about ready to settle down. It is much better if you ask her to help you with something and have a casual conversation to start with. Because when I was new in NZ I met couple of kiwi girls and they said you got nice skin it’s not dark not too white.
European women in my option are happy to meet and chat with clean, mature intelligent men from from most races, but when someone has a backward slum dogs mentality and can’t keep there hands to themselves, this is not winning over any foreign women.
More importantly, I have dated European women and have been in a long relationship; adaptability, flexibility and communications are very important especially in an inter-cultural relationship. I mean I came here to do something in life not to go after girls(and I don’t follow no girl much) but I have had quite a number in my list, some decent ladies(couple of them from oxford.
We do not throw woman out of home while it is freezing outside and lost interest in her(when any new and attractive woman found). During this communication she also said that she is still in love with her Arab bf who is already married, have a baby girl and expecting for a other baby later this year. Don’t have any relationship with an European girl thinking she is easy to get laid with.
Not the one who prefers security and admits to have used you, still in love with the Arab, interesting.
That being said the social night life scene in Germany is super race conscious, if you got dark skin, you will not get into a club in the bigger cities, even the clubs run by Arabs and Turks will turn away dark skinned men. Come to think of it are you sure you guys want to date a ‘liberated’ German girl? Indians are attractive people, look at the Bollywood stars, do you think they have any problem attracting someone to date? They don’t like to go out too much and rather prefer to stay back and do some indoor stuff like cooking and watching movies.
This resulted in my grandmother not learning her venacular and of course my mother feeling alien to Indian culture. And I still find dating very hard here cause women simply begin with as assumption that I am just looking to have relations and then leave them with no long term plans (when what i am looking for is the exact opposite). Honestly the white guys were striking outta luck and we were like kings Because the girls loved our skin color.
Unlike other Indian guys I am a bit open (actually very open) and like to make friends, go to parties, drink (even polish and russians say that I drink too much), dance. The majority of my colleagues are European and Chinese whom I have a wonderful professional relationship with. You have to come up with a decision where you know how it would affect you, your family, family values in society. I know I am born and bought up in Indian but I have no idea why my thoughts and wishes are different of a stereotype Indian. The purpose of this post if to tell you the reasons why and how to over come these issues with cross cultural Asian European dating.
I do not know what to tell you, try with smiling and ask probative questions here and there about that they study and their interests and whatever it is, show some affirmative facial expression of interest. And she came two India we got Engased and I decided to move to New Zealand so we can live in an English speaking country and live happily. I never try to flirt with any girl if I don’t know her and to my surprise this behaviour attracts them the most and this is how i get girls.
To get good marks in exam, we must write good in test and for that hard working is necessary.
I’ve studied or worked for extended periods in Denmark, the United Kingdom and Canada and English is my home language. I am kinda in love with him, but he will marry one day an Indian girl because of his parents. I know I had made mistakes in life and in this relation(I didn’t cheat on any other girl). You have to either know or try to understand if you can take care of a foreigner, support her and protect her because there is going to be lots of staring going to happen in India if you are going to travel locally. Anyways I have to accept what my destiny has for me and probably I will have to adjust with an Indian girl for the rest of my life. Only the metropolitan guy from India is going to be open enough to understand and accept this fact. So much to leave you with confusion about Indian guys and proceed with actual question of the forum. All those tender words, those dreams for future family, all those moments we shared was it really true from her side? European beauties are visible and Indian state beauties not visible but are going to even shake hands after marriage (Not the metropolitan beauties as they are just like any other Euro girls due to their liberated nature and dress sense). The only thing is, if he would be here and not have this arranged marriage thing, he may would love me, we may could marry and be together forever.
During this time I had financial issues and couldn’t give her gifts or flowers this thing was very important for her. The guys who make up to other countries are not always rather lesser from metropolitan towns of India. So the only thing which I don’t like from India is the caste system, and the arranged marriages, which make some people who are in Love unhappy, cause they cant be together.
She always complained about me that I am not matured, my character is not strong enough, she often brings out her past two relationships. For example, a Punjabi girl from Last Name “Mehra” will not marry a Punjabi guy whose Last name is “Sharma”.
Of course we had good moments together, we had plans together we had thought names for our kids too but couldn’t hold on her. Now this is ridiculous in the same nation guys are not getting looked upon for marriage and they want cross countries cultural gaps to be abolished because they want some Euro girls. Though she supported me when I had bad time, when I had problems in university but she was not ready to support me till the end. Sorry dear dudes I am just trying to set an example that Indian girls need help as they want to get liberated and trying to find your way out to already liberated girls is so mean. She knew I was at stage where I lived her so dearly that I would exchange her for anything in this world. I hope we will meet one day, even if this means my heart will be broken, cause he doesn’t feel the same I feel and cause we cant be together. But she then started having doubts in her mind about me.She was just too worried about poverty, she felt she would be homeless.
Though she knows I am not having much money in Ukraine both family soundly settled in India. The problem is most men, everywhere just want to have sex as fast as possible and think that with western girls they can have it easily, but they don’t care to break their hearts. I was ready to take her but after two years she just finished the relationship and started dating another guy, a Jewish Ukrainian.
Western girls should be like in the other cultures, be more conservative and wait until marriage. But anyway, women have a problem to be respected all over the earth, because we live in a chauvinistic world. She said she is not loving this guy she chose her because he is matured making good normal money. I always tried to say to come to me I will take care of her but she never just believed me. She says she want to live separately without parents or anyone else she wanted to feel as if it’s her home and make her own decisions.



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