Fresco of Approving of bylaw of Society of Jesus depicting Ignatius of Loyola receiving papal bull Regimini militantis Ecclesiae from Pope Paul 3. This group bound themselves by a vow of poverty and chastity, to "enter upon hospital and missionary work in Jerusalem, or to go without questioning wherever the pope might direct".
They called themselves the Company of Jesus, and also Amigos En El Senor or "Friends in the Lord," because they felt "they were placed together by Christ." The name had echoes of the military (as in an infantry "company"), as well as of discipleship (the "companions" of Jesus). I was interviewed yesterday by a researcher at Harvard's Kennedy School of Government for a case study on the role weblogs played in the downfall of Trent Lott.
Another cool thing about driving to NY is when you get close enough to see big green Interstate highway signs that say New York City. We're getting close to June 14, when, last year, to people who read this site I just disappeared.
Ed Cone links to a story from Mark Tosczak, a NY Times stringer, on getting credit for his work.
I've given Tim Bray his share of grief, but in this piece about the state of CSS, he nails it.
Four years ago: "Salon (justifiably) brags that they've matured to the point where they could send a reporter to Yugoslavia. Cory Doctorow reports on an Apple update that makes it so that iTunes can only stream to people on the same subnet. On Thursday I'm giving a keynote at the Open Source Content Management conference, or OSCOM. There's been a bit of discussion about my last DaveNet piece, mostly users talking about what they're willing to pay, as if they have all the power.
The power of the software developer not to develop is largely silent, so people don't consider it.
A professional software organization for a well-supported product has 10-20 people, maybe as many as 30 to 40. Let's say you spend 100 hours a year using a piece of software and assume your time is worth $50 per hour.
I don't know if this means anything but there are no stories on Google News about Colorado Governor Bill Owens's veto of the state "Super-DMCA" law. Robert Wiener writes to say that searching for Colorado and veto gets a bunch of hits on Google. Speaking of Google, I was kind of bored and wanted to see how my investment in John Doerr was doing, so I fired up Google, and lo and behold, my story is #3. I wonder why some weblogs so openly say things that are just plain wrong, that are so easily refuted, without presenting the opposing data, or even suggesting it might exist with a disclaimer like imho, or ymmv, or ianal. Most places I don't expect journalism, but some places I do, and they disappoint often enough to make it noteworthy.
One thread on a respected blogger's site gives the whole weblog tools market to one of the companies.
BBC: "Jodi Plumb, 15, from Mansfield, Nottinghamshire, was horrified to discover an entire site had been created to insult and threaten her. Ellen Ullman: "To listen to Mr Engelbart that day almost five years ago was to realize that the computer industry, when it started, was not simply about becoming a chief executive or retiring on stock options at 35.
Sjoerd: "It is noisy outside, and 2 riot police cars are racing by, because ADO Den Haag has won the 1st division soccer leage.
Flying over Boston or NY it's astonishing how much real estate is used to house dead people. I was sitting in a law school cafeteria yesterday thinking how far away I was from the threat of terrorism.
Ben Edelman, a Harvard Law student and fellow at Berkman, has been studying Gator, one of the leading advertising servers. Marketing Profs: "Blogs offer the human voice, which can be loud, controversial, and even wacky. A few people have suggested asking people to send Google API keys they aren't using and rotate them to work around the fatal flaw.
BTW, some people said the Nikon took better pics than the Sony I use now, but I don't think so. Evan Hansen: "Paralyzed by fears of piracy, the record labels have taken years to get their act together for online distribution. Bloki is "a Web site on which you can create Web pages, right in your browser, with no additional software required. Microsoft's decision to support RSS without arguing over what it is looks smarter every day.
Scoble, who works at Microsoft now, says he likes using a desktop app to write his internal weblog. Disclaimer: I've been trying to work on weblog-tool compatibility issues with Google for the last few weeks. By Max Nachamkin - Get free updates of new posts here“I’ve discovered that a man finds his best in the worst of moments.
This week on the Inner Gladiator podcast, I interviewed Christian Hudson, a highly influential men’s coach based out of New York City. I’ve learned from Christian over the past 5 years, and since he has been a huge mentor to me, I had to interview him to spread the knowledge to as many people as I possibly could. As always, you can download the podcast through iTunes and listen to it later if you’re on the go.
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While conflict can be an opportunity to grow, we too often let our passions get the best of us. Mara logs onto Facebook, takes a sip of coffee, and begins scrolling through her news feed. When I read this passage, I sometimes wonder what caused the disagreement between Euodia and Syntyche. Though I can't know what turned these sisters-in-Christ against each other, I do know that the fire between them was big enough for Paul to feel its heat 800 miles away in a Roman prison. Jesus said, "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God" (Matthew 5:9).
I wish I could say things eventually got better for Mara, that her relationships were restored and that she now crowds into those group photos with her old friends. If you’ve enjoyed this article, will you consider giving a tax-deductible gift to Boundless right now?
My friend Liz is like hundreds of single Christian women I have met over the years: She is bright, beautiful, funny, godly, a great catch … which the right guy has yet to pluck out of the sea. Ask your close friends — the ones who will be honest — whether you come across as confident or as desperate around guys.
When promised total anonymity, the men in my research for For Women Only were honest about something awkward to discuss but important to know. Many men told me that when it comes to women, "guys are chicken." They won't risk humiliation if there's a chance they'll be rejected, so they need to have a pretty good idea that you're interested before they'll take that step.


Now you may think Dave's advice sounds pretty generic, but as you'll see shortly, some vital wisdom is buried in those words — both to begin a relationship and as you deepen it. That means not pursuing him, letting him make most of the first moves to ask you out or turn a friendship into a romance, and — perhaps hardest of all for us gals — stopping yourself from rushing or forcing your relationship over time.
Well, this was my first lesson in learning how to respect and trust a man: by not trying to control everything, which, since respect is a man’s greatest emotional need, is what a man most needs to see in a woman for a long-term relationship. Finally, as you deepen your friendship and eventually your romance, the guys were very clear about what most appealed to them: They love knowing that their woman admires them. Another thing my research taught me is that no matter how confident a guy looks on the outside, on the inside he is always afraid that he's going to be found out as an imposter. Tell him you're proud of him for being so good at something he does well — whether it's his job, the way he handled that difficult situation at church, or even beating the last level of his favorite video game. Ignatius of Loyola, who after being wounded in a battle, experienced a religious conversion and composed the Spiritual Exercises to closely follow Christ. The fresco was created by Johann Christoph Handke in the Church of Our Lady Of the Snow in Olomouc after 1743. There's something for everyone, whether you like Bill Gates or Richard Stallman, or neither. Bragg's colleagues on the national staff had exchanged phone calls and e-mail messages, angered by comments from Mr. As OSCOM starts, the issues of interop betw content management tools is very hot in the open source world thanks to work by Paul Everitt and Gregor Rothfuss. Using my wingy-dingy new search engine, I found a great reference, a mini-article entitled Oh Lieberman, which should have been entitled Oy Lieberman.
Sure the original author may toil at a money-losing labor-of-love long past the point where it has been proven not to be viable, but what about the people he or she is not hiring, the manual writers, testers, more programmers, a sales person, a marketing person perhaps, to work on ease of use and to keep the website current.
So when you hear yourself complaining about software quality, think about how much money the developer of the product has to fully support it. They link to one press release from the Music Indistry (sic) News Network commending the governor for the veto. BTW, I wasn't thinking Google might have been holding back, I was thinking the newspapers were. Microsoft's developer program was kaput, everyone who was anyone wanted to develop for the Web, and that led them to Netscape and Sun, and away from Microsoft.
Being in a dead software market is no fun, even when you haven't signed on with the dying platform vendor. He's got a Web app that simulates a Gator client, and sends messages back to Gator asking for ads to display on certain sites. Somehow MS has taught its people not to care about issues that are not related to success or failure of products. I've noticed that it colors how I think about them, not in a positive way, and felt I should disclose that, since I write about them here on Scripting News. I wanted Christian on the podcast because his advice is not one of the pickup artist — it is genuine, authentic, and honest information that will help you become better with women (and a better man) without being a skeezball.
It works well because it takes the pressure off of you feeling like you have to impress her. An example of this would be surrendering to the guy to figure out the date details, or where they’re going next. About 20 of her old college friends crowd around a picnic table, laughing faces posed to commemorate a summer afternoon. Now the only connection she has with her one-time close Christian community is a lingering digital facade.
He repeats, "I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God" (Galatians 5:19-21, ESV).
That is, we feel alienated from people who are friends of the person our friend is alienated from! When she realized rumors were circulating about her disagreement, she kept her mouth shut, hoping that vacuum would smother the flames.
At one point a couple friends even tried to help, but their attempts to douse the flames were useless.
It took two years for her to realize that sometimes a fire gets so big that you can't fight it without a lot of support. Yes, I ask you also, true companion, help these women, who have labored side by side with me in the gospel together with Clement and the rest of my fellow workers, whose names are in the book of life (Philippians 4:2-3). Two years after the conflict started, Mara found out about yet another rumor circulating about her — this one particularly slanderous. We are all called to help people be reconciled to God, and part of this process is helping them be reconciled to each other (1 John 4:20-21).
Instead of siding with one friend or the other, they side with Christ and gently hold people accountable to reconcile. Since she knew I'd studied how men think, she approached me for advice knowing that it might not be "her" but still wanting a reality check just in case there was something she was doing (or not doing) that was preventing her from winning a man's heart.
Face the fact that you tend to snap at people under pressure, or stretch the truth when cornered; that will pay off in a more appealing character and confidence anyway.
The brain wiring governing attraction simply functions differently for a man than a woman; most men have to be visually, physically attracted before they can see a woman as anything other than a friend.
In fact, the guys emphasized they loved our individuality and wished we weren't so paranoid about it. Suppose you are in fact in a good place physically, spiritually and emotionally, and a certain someone has caught your eye. We got to be good friends over the course of six months, did a lot of things together in groups, went to lunch after church with just each other, and spent a lot of time hanging out — all with absolutely no signals from him as to whether he was thinking about anything more. If he doesn't seem to be interested in deepening your relationship (even your friendship), there’s always the possibility that you're holding onto a hope that isn't going anywhere. Every day he worries that someday, someone is going to realize he has no idea what he's doing at work, as a boyfriend, in his activities, and so on, and everything is going to fall apart.
To me it was the day I quit smoking, and also the day I checked into the hospital (when I wrote that post I didn't know for sure I'd have to go into the hospital, but I wasn't surprised when I did). In my talk yesterday I said this was a species of software developer with a lot of power, a beast of the 80s, extinct this century.
Before that I told the story of how XML-RPC came to be, and how Eric Raymond liked it so much. By making my position public about the equivalent issues in the weblog world, I will be joining with them in requesting that we put aside our differences (I'm not sure there are any) and establish a set of principles on how we build from here.
Financiers invested, and gave back to the university so the next generation of technology entrepreneurs could be educated, nutured and launched." It wasn't clear that financiers invested in the companies started by the students, not in the work done at the universities. He met up with the proprietor of that site at a place in NYC called Alt.Coffee on Avenue A in Manhattan. How about a couple of tech support people (so they can take a vacation once in a while, it's a tough job). When you buy a new computer you probably pay a few hundred dollars for software, most of it going to Microsoft. How much self-respect is there in paying nothing for software that leverages so much of your time?


So even if you don't want to pay for the time-leverage software delivers, would you pay money to keep your money safe?
Is it based on features, or any deep understanding of how the products work, or the economics of the market? Hosting is a tricky business, as we found out, there are ISPs who now host MT sites that must somehow be included in their plans, yet there seems to be no mention of them in the FAQ.
Here's how I like to look at it -- formats and protocols are tools, details; the important thing is functionality delivered to users. In extreme cases, we may have to warn our friends about a dangerous individual (2 Timothy 4:14-15).
I once had a friend confess to getting counsel about a conflict we were having from four of our mutual friends.
Sadly, the wind only blew stronger in her direction, as friend after friend heard the "other side" and started treating Mara differently. When the issue is serious, however, we may need accountability from the wider Christian community (Matthew 18:17). What's more, guys can often tell you're subconsciously expecting a Superman that they can never live up to, so they back away.
You may find you've been signaling desperation by something as simple as always putting your hand on a guy's arm or always trying to sit next to him when the gang goes for pizza. But it does mean that the physical "spark" more likely comes when a woman takes care of herself and stays healthy (which is also another signal of that confidence we talked about earlier). A world he ultimately wants to share with a special woman, just as much as you want to share it with a special man.
That's all there is to it, except when you really want to get it you should let just a hint of an R back.
Shortly after my reappearance, Seth Dillingham said something really nice and very memorable.
Apparently he went over his allotted time, I wanted to ask him to comment on the opportunities for open source projects to integrate with commercial software. I polished my skills as a user, and watched other people learn weblogs, saw what they got, and didn't. Then I hazarded a guess that if Eric had dinner with Bob Atkinson, one of the co-designers of XML-RPC, that they'd agree on a lot, and probably enjoy each others' company, even though Bob is a senior guy at (you guessed it) Microsoft.
I've tried to explain the issues in non-technical terms, yet of course as soon as words like APIs and XML appear a lot of ordinary people tune out. Some of them are great writers and have passion for the truth and aren't serving the same masters that the bigtimes at WSJ, NYT and CNN. It's about a 20-minute drive to the office, not as convenient as living in Cambridge, but very sweet. If you pay nothing for software, you probably won't die from it, but you may lose data, you're virtually certain to waste time, and at some point, money.
I have data that contradicts theirs, fairly superficial stuff -- why, on investigation didn't they uncover it? If there are any busdev people I need to talk with at Google, I guess now's the time to do that.
If someone is avoiding you because your friend is mad at his or her friend, there is no "wrong" that you can confess or repent for.
Finally, she did the only thing left for her to do: She contacted everyone who was aware of the conflict and asked for their help. Well, the best thing you can do is get to know him as a friend but in a way that lets him know you prefer his company over others. Guys are stirred to action by both sensing a woman's interest and by feeling the need to be the leader in the relationship.
Like most guys, Jeff needed a woman who would be willing to trust him both initially and for all the years to come. Does anyone think I'm good at what I do?" And he is looking to those around him for the answer to that question. Also, reading the highway signs I kept seeing Oxford, which I wanted to write as a hex number: oXF08D. And for sure, on May 31, 2002 I had chest pain, and was in denial on how sick I really was. I asked other people for ideas of what made weblogs different from professional pubs and Wikis. They still are, but after SOAP and XML-RPC they could just as easily be running on a server farm.
And most of them don't have websites, yet, largely because it is too complicated and expensive to have one. And if you pay $10 or $20 to use a piece of software, the software isn't paid for if the software isn't generating enough money to be fully supported or developed. Why don't a small number of users of the popular weblog tools work together to create an authoritative review of the category and show us how the products compare.
It takes better pictures than the Nikon if I actually have it with me when I see something photo-worthy. Unfortunately I don't have any money to pay them for this, but I'm afraid that's what they're going to want to talk about. She asked that they would encourage those spreading the rumors to come to her and work things out. Didn't he realize that if he graduated without any kind of definition to our relationship that the distance would sink us? You can certainly feel good about giving the money, but you're probably not going to get what you want or think you deserve in the way of support or upgrades for that kind of money. I'm working on a taxonomy of weblogs for the two conferences I'm keynoting in the next two weeks.You can start there if you want but you probably don't need my help. That's what I liked the most about Ringo, he needed a little help from his friends, and he appreciated it too. If you have a pain inside your chest where your heart is, go to see a doctor now, don't think you can exercise your way out of the corner. In other words, I did something rather unlike a weblog to try to get to the core of what one is. And get this -- this isn't just for Radio users, we created an open system that anyone can ping. The first hit took me to a guy about the right age, living in about the right place, but on further inspection I noted that (gullp) he died. Since there's no year on it, it's impossible to know if it's the Mitchell Stern I knew as a kid.
Here I sit 4 hours by car from NY, if I want a good pizza, I have to go there, they don't make it here. Think of all the bandwidth that's wasted by search engines looking for changes on pages that never change.



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