Below you will find some cultural differences that may pop up when dating German men and also some general advice on how to deal with cultural differences.He May Not Chat You UpIn America it’s common to walk up to someone and start talking randomly, in Germany less so. It’s not that the Germans don’t talk, but they tend to stick to themselves unless they are at a party or some other social gathering where the purpose is to meet new and old friends. So if you spot a hot guy in the supermarket and want to make contact, you will most likely have to do the talking and he may even get confused as to why you are talking to him.Because of this you might find German men to be a bit shy as they are not as used to randomly talking to strangers.
They don’t usually know how to walk up to strangers and start conversations as they haven’t witnessed it happening around them. This may also be why they like getting drunk and partying…Chit Chatting Isn’t the NormIn America it’s more common to approach people randomly and also to talk about random things. Everyone here tends to ask how you are doing and have a little chat with you without for that matter actually wanting to make friends with you. This means they get into much deeper discussions and they will reply with a lot more candor to your questions. If you ask them how they are doing they will assume you ask as you want to know, not to be polite. Likewise, if you talk to them they will assume you do so because you want to get to know them, not because you are being polite (unless you are left alone with them in an uncomfortable situation, of course). They will also most likely end the conversation if they aren’t enjoying it.Because they don’t chit chat as much, Germans might come across as more reserved.
However, if you take the time to get to know them, they will open up to you.If You Ask Their Opinion, Chances Are You Will Get ItWhilst Americans like glossing things over, Germans are much more to the point.
Then you go for a couple of dates, eventually kiss and by the third to fifth date sex enters the picture, unless you express you want to wait further, but are still interested.
Sex doesn’t mean you are in a relationship with them though, it doesn’t even mean you are exclusive. You hang out with someone if you like them and if you get romantically involved you become a couple by default, which means you are pretty exclusive. Of course, some men are a bit more old-fashioned, but chances are he will expect you split the bill. Advertisement Likewise, don’t expect him t pay for drinks at the bar if you meet him when out and about.What to Bear in MindThere are, of course, always exceptions to the norm and you might meet a German guy in America who is totally into the dating scene here, or he might have different views on dating and relationship than most Germans.


The best thing to do is to ask.In general, you have to talk in a friendly (not accusing) manner about things you find peculiar, or things you expect to happen that aren’t happening. 40 Questions for Couples How to Get a Guy to Kiss You How to Get a Guy to Kiss You Dating an Introverted Man Dating an Introverted Man How to be Irresistible to Men How to be Irresistible to Men 12 Comments Southerngrl February 15, 2016 at 8:50 amThank you Maria!!! I’m patient so only time will tell and distance (lol)Reply web admin February 15, 2016 at 8:59 amGood luck! As long as you are okay with the long distance aspect and the long wait for his return, go ahead and be in the relationship. You will never know what could be possible unless you take that risk, and it seems like he could like you.
Good luck, Southerngrl!Reply Southerngrl February 13, 2016 at 3:49 pmI met a German guy at a friends party here in the US. He started talking to me first which I was the one shy there until my friend and her spouse came.
While talking and such he said that someone thought we were dating (by the way we were conversating you would have thought we’ve known each other for years but that was the first time meeting). He ran back out to stop me and said he was sorry (I guess he wanted to spend time with me but cause of our friend it was just a crazy night). We talked and met later that night but just to see each other because he was leaving to go back up north (Still in the US).
Maybe he is just shy when it comes to expressing his feeling and more of as let me show you kind of person. The last thing he wrote when I said have a good night Hun he said good night sweetie sleep tight. He may think you were trying to brush him off and let him own easy, or he may just realize that a relationship is not possible right now. It is also possible that he realized by reading that message that you like him, and he feels uncomfortable about leading you on. Getting along with you that well, texting all the time and trying to spend more time with you are all signs that he likes you. If you do like him, would you be able to date him considering how busy you are?Reply Xcarl December 29, 2015 at 4:05 pmIjust meet a moth ago a German guy and we did have a good connection.


Have you ever gone on a date, had a long conversation or really talked about what you guys want in life? If you think that he likes you (and he is obviously physically attracted to you, at least), then why don’t you ask him on a date and get to know him better?
I feel he work hard at wooing me and now he feels that he has me and we are making long term plans he does not need to do the same thing as earlier on when we started to speak. My birthday was a week ago and he send me a recording singing me Happy Birthday, I think that was so sweet of him.
I am learning about Germans Guys, he always let me know when he has to go out with friends or family or to a party. But you are so right when you tell me that in a long distance relationship, you have to assume the best always, so what I’m doing if I do not hear from him I would reach out and text him.
For me I had to get use to him being German because American Guys tells you a lot of things they do not mean. I had ask him recently if he still wanted me to move in and he did not hesitate he said yes. I am planning to move back to the Uk but he is studying he told me he can not move anywhere until he is finish with his studies which would be in another two and half years. I told him I would love to but have to work out details about my job I travel for work all over the world. So I left it alone the next day same thing he normally would send me a text in the morning no text. So later on I text him he did not answer right away he eventually did and I and we text and then we spoke on the phone I had a long talk with him letting him no matter I would be there for him in his corner and he can speak to me about anything that is bothering him, he said something to do with his family and work.



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