In the first article on the female body language we covered some of the basics of the body signals of a woman. Women like to tease and provoke the man they are interested in, but they usually use words for that. Synonym(s): Hip Canting, Pushing A Hip Out, Hip Swing, Hip Jut, Hip Sway, Hip Roll, Pelvic Tilt, Rotating The Pelvis, Tilting The Pelvis, Rolling The Pelvis, Pelvis Roll, Wiggling.
In One Sentence: The hip tilt is a feminine gesture meant to emphasis the allure of wide childbearing hips. It has been noted that even girls as young as five to six years of age will “strike a pose” by jutting their hips out to the side. Cue Cluster: The hip tilt gesture might be accompanied by a sideways glance and slightly parted wet lips, which could be unconsciously exaggerated by saliva or lipstick. Body Language Category: Amplifier, Courtship displays, Indicators of sexual interest (IOsI), Leaked or involuntary body language, Metronomic signals, Micromessaging. Please note that all links in this article are done by me personally and will open in a new tab and you should explore these links to gain a more thorough understanding of courtship. Some of the most common ways women indicate sexual interest, and the first class of signals, are displays of submission. The second class of signals relates to a woman’s health and youth – her sexuality and sexual assets. The third way a woman indicates sexual interest are proximity related and the desire to increase proximity. In order to understand women in dating, we must know that women want and enjoy sex as much as men. In the mind of women, she has given off enough nonverbal cues, and has incited interest through nice dress, make-up, and cues of submissiveness, then the rest if up to him. The rule of four states that in order to be sure that a woman is unequivocally displaying non-verbal sexual interest, four separate positive signals must be present simultaneously, and they must be directed at a specific person. We must also be careful of signals that are evolving during the development of a new relationship. Remember that body language is a representation of the unconscious and very often we deal with limited and incomplete information. When it finally comes time to speak, it is essential to once again ramp up our mindfulness of what is going on non-verbally since things might change dramatically.
A woman who is sexually aroused might display one, or a great variety of cues, but they might be directed toward a room in a “fish-and-lure” or broadcast display, and not at anyone specifically.
Increases in female sexual hormones influences female behaviour causing women to act flirty during a specific moment in her cycle.
Eye contact turns a fairly benign gesture like touching the hair into one that is directional. Available women and non-available women (those in a relationship) all display the same types of body language when they find someone attractive. It is important to watch for these gestures so that you don’t waste your time pursuing someone who is already taken. Height can be artificially reduced by sitting, standing at the bottom of a staircase, slouching, drooping the head and so forth. Acting childlike is a demonstration that her guard has been let down and she is prepared to open up to a man and his advances. Thus, a woman whose pupils become particularly large when looking specifically at a man is probably aroused. If she is doing something she has done a thousand times before, but it looks as if it requires additional concentration, she might be caught in a fright response. You can imagine a group of girls conversing when a man walks in and he’s the topic of conversation. Eye widening is any act done to make the eyes appear bigger than normal through raising the eyebrows or lifting the eyelids. Removing the hair to expose the neck is submissive and says that she is trusting and comfortable around him. While the neck is not inherently sexy on its own, it is a way that people signal trust when facing authority. The neck exposure display is done by removing long hair or by simply canting the head to the side. You can imagine a woman might seductively remove her long hair by bringing it over to one side, or twisting it around a finger then flex it to the side flashing her neck.
It is thought that women wish to send a more childlike image with their head cant in order to elicit a protective response in men. Men and women also cant their heads to the side outside of a dating context and it says that a person is interested and engaged in what is being said. This sexual cue involves removing clothing or pulling up a long sleeved shirt, stroking the wrist with the other hand, turning the palms up while gesticulating, holding a wine between the fingers palm-up, or casually playing with an earring or the side of the face causing the wrists to be exposed. In the sideways glance over raised shoulder, a woman will turn her back slightly facing the object of her interest, raise her shoulder, and gaze adoringly over it with eyes cast upward. Many biologists think smiles have roots as a fearful gesture, as a sort of “fear grin.” Today though, human smiles are a universally submissive gesture but they can also symbolize pleasure, amusement, aggression, or anxiety (grimace).
Smiling can sometimes be sexual, but accompanying signals must be cataloged to create certainty. Subordinate people will laugh simply to appease more dominant people, and dominant people exclude themselves from the laugh so as to maintain their dominance.
Women will show their meekness and submissiveness by softening their voice and lowering their voice volume. In contrast, there is the military posture, in which the toes turn outward and the hands are held behind the back. When women are sexually interested, they will shrink the body so it takes on a smaller profile. This form of gesturing is often unconscious so it makes for an accurate indicator of interest. These include palms up rather than down, hands gesturing rather than stuffed in pockets, arms and legs uncrossed, torsos facing toward rather than away, not hiding behind barriers which can include drinks held across the chest, stools or tables, relaxed facial expressions, and smiling.
Open cues are cues that say that a person lacks defensiveness and wishes to carry on an interaction.
Learn the basics of body language quickly and easily by taking one of our tailor-made video courses! When checked, Shutterstock's safe search screens restricted content and excludes it from your search results. The second article of the series dealt more with the body language minutia that can give away woman’s lust, while in the third and final article of the series we are talking about the mixed and negative signals as it goes without saying that knowing the negative from positive signals and deciphering the true meaning of the mixed ones is crucial in a successful interaction with women.
If you are talking about any subject that she may be passionate about and say something you shouldn’t, her lips will get tighter and her eyes will get narrower.
For example, a woman can use put-downs when talking to you, she can mention that another man is handsome or successful, she can throw a subtle joke about anything you may be sensitive about, she may be sarcastic or talk about her short-term plans that exclude you, but all of these are actually very positive signs, provided that the words are accompanied with the usual repertoire of flirtatious signals. If she is looking all around the room while you are talking, she is rarely smiling and she is not trying to get closer to you, specially if her arms are crossed, that’s it. For example, she may  be listening to you closely and laughing at your jokes and then suddenly look away. She made her way across the room to the bar to order a drink and every man’s gaze was drawn in by her cat-walk. We see women slouching to one side forcing their hips out to emphasize their curves, or walk in an exaggerated way, bouncing their hips up and down as if on a pendulum. This suggests that its origins are innate, though it could also be mirrored from fashion and magazine advertisements.

Body weight, waist-to-hip ratio and breast size correlates of ratings of attractiveness and health.
Assessment of Waist-to-Hip Ratio Attractiveness in Women: An Anthropometric Analysis of Digital Silhouettes. Person Perception Through Gait Information And Target Choice For Sexual Advances: Comparison Of Likely Targets In Experiments And Real Life. Beauty is in the eye of the plastic surgeon: Waist–hip ratio (WHR) and women’s attractiveness. You may also wish to skip back to the Table of Contents and read from the start to gain a more comprehensive body language education.
By displaying in a certain way, a woman is telling men that she is willing to head to a man’s dominance. These cues indicate that approach by men is welcomed and permitted or that courting which is already in progress may increase in intensity. A woman might initially be interested in a man and give off positive cues of attraction, but once communication is established, she could change her mind and so change her postures. I doubt that anyone would show attraction to anyone else if their full set of flaws were showing all at once and initially upon meeting. Keep an eye out for what scientists call de-courting skills, where the overall attentiveness of a person falls over time. Usually, these cues are propelled by her ovulation cycle, and serve to indicate a woman’s general demeanor, her mood, and thus her receptivity to courting. Should she begin to dress more overtly by wearing skin-tight jeans, a low cut blouse, or a short skirt, a give off more sexual body language, it could imply that she is nearing the middle of her menstrual cycle and is nearing ovulation.
Research has shown that women we seek out sexual opportunities during ovulation and even prefer the manly musk of men during this period of high receptivity. The eye contact ties the sexual signal to a specific person of interest rather than the room at large. This is why body language is so universal; it occurs regardless of whether or not a woman is in a relationship with someone else and therefore reflects a woman’s true attraction toward all men. These gestures include having a flushed appearance or blushing in the presence of a man of interest, open postures such as palms up, and generally making attempts to get noticed.
This includes the head shrunk into the shoulders, sitting down from a standing position and so forth. Tall women might find their posture suffer because they tend to slink down to fit in with the rest of the crowd rather than standing tall. For example, she could begin to tease or tickle a man, sneak up from behind and steal a hat or other belonging.
When women become playful, it shows that there might be something more than just friendship at hand.
This might explain why we seek dimly lit places for intimacy as it causes the eye to dilate further amplifying the romance. This in turn causes her to freeze or alter her thought pattern causing her to fumble over her task. It says, “I’m trusting and submissive to your dominance and am showing you this by exposing my vulnerable neck by canting to the side or removing my hair. She might tilt her head to the side by dropping her head and bring her hand up to carefully stroke and caress the skin on her neck just lightly, so as to draw a man’s eyes on her. It says, “I wish to submit to your dominance so I’m exposing my delicate and vulnerable wrists.” Exposures of the wrist, palm and neck are a visceral responses linked to submissiveness.
It makes it’s appearance at anytime by you might imagine it over a drink, as she reads a book, or during dinner. In contrast, the opposite posture, where the head is titled back, eyes cast “down the nose”, is considered a direct threat.
Instead of squaring themselves off and looking straight into his eyes, her body faces away and she looks over the shoulder which seductively teases him. These other emotions never truly supersede the most common purpose of the smile which is to show submission.
Women will smile for a great variety of reasons and will smile regularly to appease men for no other reason besides habit. Controlling laugher therefore, can help control our dominance or submission to others, as well as show our acceptance or rejection of others. However, when they become aroused, their voice volume will increase, they will speak faster and seem giddy, their thoughts will race, they may also show nervousness by stuttering or be at a loss for words and freeze up. She may speed up or slow down speech, increase or decrease volume, alter pitch or finish sentences.
It occurs when one leg is tightly pressed against the other making it appear extremely toned. It is given by someone who is prepared to let their guard down to someone else and take on a smaller overall profile. Getty Images reserves the right to pursue unauthorized users of this image or clip, and to seek damages for copyright violations. Attraction is a chemical process for the most time, so nothing you say or do will make her interested, but there’s no need not to remain a gentleman you are. While walking, a hip sway is particularly effective in attracting or maintaining male attention.
Picturing this parade or “cat-walk” in the nude and you get the sense that there is an obviously hypnotic purpose to the method. Curiously, boys are rarely seen performing this posture unless in jest, suggesting it’s sex specific. High Heels As Supernormal Stimuli: How Wearing High Heels Affects Judgements of Female Attractiveness. Others signals are designed to showcase the physical assets of a woman, primarily her youth and health.
This includes leaning in, the room encompassing glance, crossing the legs toward, pointing toward with the fingers and toes, torso orientated toward rather than away, fluttering of the eyes, high blink rate and high chew rate (if eating), increased touching, hugging with the hips pressed against hips, shallow breathing and panting, flared nostrils, and mirroring. The bravest of men blessed with confidence, charisma and charm will succeed in approach and solicitation.
The impressions we make on people are continuously changing and so is the body language that people are emitting.
Therefore, no signals of seduction by a woman will ever be foolproof and accurate as a representation of her complete impression of someone, since the impression itself is incomplete. For example, a woman who otherwise gives off positive cues and jokingly pushes you off saying, “get away,” is probably just teasing you and really does want you to continue to pursue. However, during this time, she may deliver a higher frequency of cues and they may be omnidirectional. We must also never forget that body language, can, at times, be total devoid of underlying meaning.
Women who are not in a relationship, however, will display certain gestures and actions that non-available women typically will not.
Available women will also be more likely to isolate herself from her friends and will often appear alone.
All techniques indicate the desire to reduce overall size so as not to appear threatening and that she wishes to submit and be cared for. When someone is aroused, their brain is being stimulated which then causes the pupil to open up allowing more light to come in which in turn allows them to see better.
As the heart rate rises, the body begins to consumer more oxygen and its temperature rises. This has the effect of creating more space around the eyes causing others to perceive them more favourably.

Eye widening evokes protective feelings in others and women will use this to gain sympathy from men during courtship. A woman’s neck is also far less robust, more dainty, longer than men’s, with less musculature.
In more overt cases, woman can even display sexually by coming so close that the neck invites a kiss. The head tilt happens by tilting the head at forty-five degrees and delivering eye contact in a come hither type, coy, teasing, type look with plenty of neck exposure. Smiling is a natural part of being a woman and while smiling alone is submissive, it doesn’t necessarily indicate sexual interest.
In a dating context, watch for laughter and giggling that seems uncontrollable proving that a woman is really lost in the moment. It is another gesture that indicates submissiveness and by extension shows that a woman is smitten in your company. Coupled with legs pressed together tight, woman, during seduction, will rub her upper thigh.
It can be as subtle as a small lift in the shoulders or could be a full shrug and hold of the shoulders. She may be a nice person and a good friend, even if she’s not sexually attracted to you.
This all means that she is either not sure about your intentions (body language goes in two ways, of course) or she may like you but she may also be distracted by her personal or professional problems. Girls are known to adopt this posture early in life which may be the result of modeling older women, or perhaps a genetic predisposition. Because the hips move about a center pivot, the eye is drawn front and center to the woman’s genitals which act as a beacon. The Allure of Vulnerability: Advertising Cues to Exploitability as a Signal of Sexual Accessibility. Impressions are fleeting and ever-changing, especially at the initial stages of a relationship. A woman’s true intentions are never quite clear, but body language can help uncover what is hidden to others and sometimes even to her.
For example, a woman can lick her lips, toss her hair and cant her head to the side, but all this lacks meaning until gaze anchors it to a specific person. Preening the hair might mean, in simple terms, that a person wants to fix their hair so it doesn’t obstructing their view. The body begins to have a flushed appearance as blood vessels dilate in effort to cool itself. She raises her hand to her mouth, catches a glimpse of a man she fancies, pauses stiff, looks down, then after a moment takes a drag. Research has shown that when women widen their eyes, men release hormones, the same hormones that motive them to protect and defend others.
The neck is an extremely vulnerable part of our bodies which we defend rigorously if attacked, and the genes we have as a result of eons of evolutionary history supports this. When women do it in a dating context, it signals interest because unlike eyes that move left and right – scanning, eyes down punctuations the eye contact to a specific person.
If she makes a lot of eye contact, smiles, blushes, and acts animated in your presence; she probably really likes you. Often, the voice increases in pitch and laughing takes place more readily and often in unison with the person they feel attraction towards. This adds an extra element of intensity to her appeal for approach and shows men the type of touching she is expecting and imagining. It can often happen very quickly though, and can occur in accompaniment with an eyebrow flash as well as eye contact.
Studies show us that women out of committed relationship naturally walk by exaggerating the hips to attract attention.
A narrow waist versus broad shoulders: Sex and age differences in the jealousy-evoking characteristics of a rival’s body build. Abdominal Depth and Waist Circumference as Influential Determinants of Human Female Attractiveness. Show me how you walk and I tell you how you feel — A functional near-infrared spectroscopy study on emotion perception based on human gait. Something in the way she moves: The influence of shoe altered gait on motion and trait impressions of women. It is the woman’s job to indicate that approach is welcome, but it not her job to approach. She believes that she is courageous in sending signals and also thinks she is being obvious and overt, despite what a man might think. However, since body language occurs naturally and instantly, we can gauge and watch the evolution of people’s perception of us over time. There is always conflict going on in our minds, we need to expect there to be conflict in the body language we use. If that person fails to catch and read the signal correctly, she will simply send the signal to another man she fancies with no great loss to her. Conversely, women who aren’t interested in romance will clump up together to gain security in numbers. A telltale cue that a woman is becoming excited includes flushing of the cheeks and upper chest near the collar bone. This is viewed as a change in stride pattern while walking, or a momentary pause in speech.
Eye widening is a positive nonverbal cue indicating that someone is observing positive stimuli, stimuli that bring them joy and happiness or surprise and shock. Its primary motive is to expose vulnerable parts of the body, the neck, to show submission and trust in a man’s dominance. If a woman makes a point to smile at you every time she sees you, then she is probably interested in you. When laughing happens during more benign conversation and conversation is directed at the expense of involving others, it’s a signal that things are intensifying.
To her, eye contact toward a man of interest is risky and also direct and she fully expects you to empathize with her on this “emotional” message.
Under normal circumstances, she would simply carry on, but when intimidated by a thought of attraction, her mind froze her body to protect it from drawing attention to itself. Waist–Hip Ratio Predicts Women’s Preferences for Masculine Male Faces, But Not Perceptions of Men’s Trustworthiness.
If her nonverbal screams do not lead to approach, then you will be cast aside as an unworthy mate. Here, watch for double takes, a look up, followed by eyes down, coupled with associated cues such as grooming the hair or a smile. Eyes down coupled with grooming, torso and toes toward, indicates that a girl is shy, rather than in the process of rejecting. Courtship is a measure of a man’s strength and weaknesses – its very nature is to weed the good from the bad, the valued from the value-less.

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