Arras is a WordPress theme designed for news or review sites with lots of customisable features. By Hayley Quinn on October 27, 2010 Comments: 15How many times have you got that hot girl’s number, thinking that it’s ON only to get no reply from a girl to your first text?
In my first series of blog posts I’m going to give you some top tips on follow-up text game to ensure that not only do you get the girl you want replying, but on a date, and into your bed. The problem with a ‘cold’ number is that there may not have been enough time during the initial interaction to build sufficient rapport to get her out on a date with you…. People have busy lives full of competing demands from work, friends, family, and now you texting them. If you just about got her number in a rush, if she seemed to hesitate when she gave it to you, or if there has been no significant sexual escalation yet (such as a kiss) then you need to pay attention to this. Ok guys next time I am going to write about how to go for the day two now that you’ve got that text conversation flowing.
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I'd say text soon though (within hours)- seeing someone gives great plausible deniability for getting in touch. If it weren't for you I would still be a virgin (at 20), severely depressed, constantly contemplating why I'm alive and thinking things will never change and that life will always be lonely, empty, and average at best. My life has totally changed right from the way I act to the way I think to the way I dress.. Be approachable – If you can make him at ease with you then chances are he will feel comfortable asking you out. Let his friends know you are interested – Sometimes all it takes is a push from someone he knows. Be funny – If he is having a good time around you, and feeling good because of you, then he is going to likely want to be around you more. Ask him for a favor– Don’t ask him to do something like carry your books or something that might make him upset at you. Be available for a limited time – If a guy thinks that he doesn’t have a lot of time to ask you out the he may be more likely to put some instant effort into it. If you’ve just got a girl’s number on the street you have to be realistic that you may be low on her priority list, and competing against a doctor’s appointment, a work deadline, or a friend going through a break-up.
If possible, tie this relatable statement to the circumstances under which you met: from your initial interaction figure out what she maybe interested in.
An even more effective way of doing this is to tie your text to the conversation you shared with her when you last met: If she mentioned something to you in conversation like what she was up to that day, or if you shared a joke or some rapport over a certain topic recall it in the text.


Also always keep the tone of the text friendly, light hearted and upbeat as texts can be easy to misconstrue negatively.
If you have left it a while before you text her, you may also want to nickname yourself so that she remembers who you are.
In the future I’ll also hopefully be covering ping game, teasing and challenging via text. I met this girl last month I think and she was nice and all and I didn’t see a good reason for not going after her.
Be cool about it, nonchalant, and whilst you don't want to make a bee line for her be non reactive and cool around the girl. Her noticing you, noticing her, without you saying anything doesn't make you appear very confident. I think the female perspective made it more interesting as I have never read anything on texting from a girl's perspective.
I've now got hot women begging me to take them out…They even go as far as running their fingers through my hair in the first few minutes we meet can you believe that so thanks a lot you guys are awesome!!!
Then you may need to give him an extra hand at asking you out by sending the message to him without him actually knowing what you are doing. Make sure you are very easy to approach and do not reject him in any way when he says something to you.
Maybe you can say something like “If you hear about when that event we were talking about is coming up, text me.” This will give him your number and your open permission to text you. If he finds out that you are actually hoping he will ask you out through a friend of his then he will be more likely to do it.
This doesn’t mean you should be flirting with every guy that comes your way, but just be as attractive as possible and get as many guys as you can looking at you with a twinkle in their eye. By making a reference to these things she will feel like you share a perspective on something, which will create rapport. This is effectively jump starting the conversation again from where you last left it as you raced off to catch your bus, or stumbled out of a club at 3am. Leave it two days before you make contact and rather than seeming blase she may have forgotten a lot of the positive feelings she would have received from the initial approach.
If there is any other area of text game you want to hear about then please leave a comment below for me to give you my best HB opinion on.
It will make it easier for him (take the pressure off) and it will give him an excuse to do it. For instance, if he is a pro at building bird cages (it just came to mind), then ask him if he can make you a bird cage for your new parakeet.


If he sees this, he is likely to put a rush on asking you out, before he misses his chance. If you go straight in and ask a girl for a date then it’s a high demand to make off of someone who was uncertain about you.
If she says she is free tonight then she will feel social pressure to agree to whatever ‘date’ you suggest. Unfortunately for him, I was so worried about the second option that I never replied again. If he had tried to build rapport first, then gone for a far less demanding and more specific date the outcome could have been very different.
Remember you don’t want her to feel confused, bemused, or pressurized when she receives a text from you. Hopefully you’ll be hearing a lot more from me on text game, conversation skills and seduction in the future. I searched around web, came to this site and some others ’till I finnaly got the knowledge necessary to get out of the buddy zone. Chances are he will try to arrange a time to get together and hash out the details, and even if he doesn’t it will give you a stronger bond and cause him to be more likely to ask you out in the near future.
If so I’d probably classify this as a ‘warm’ interaction which I’ll discuss in a later blog post- but right now I’m going to focus on numbers that have been got when the woman isn’t already nearly certain that she wants to see you again.
Problem is, at this stage she maybe so worried about what date you could suggest (‘Do I really want to go to dinner with that guy I met in the street yesterday?’) that she is more likely to not respond, or make an excuse for why she might be busy (‘Maybe. After I stopped sending her any texts, made a kick-ass re-entrance in her cellphone with very good messages, jokes and rapport and called her out again, she said yes. I just told her to tell me when she would be free so that I could be sure I would be there (I’m not really that busy). If you still get nothing don't give up completely, just give her a whole lot of vacuum, then try to re-engage her a week or two later with a ping text. I saw some posts about me having to keep the shit going till day 2, and for me that was ok.
It has been only 2 days that we marked the date, I sent her a message just now and everything went fine… Then she talked about the date.



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