There is really no standard opening statement for a guy who is trying to win his ex-girlfriend back.
Say ?I?m sorry.? These two simple words, when uttered genuinely, could make a big difference. In this post, I’m going to discuss 7 different ways that a guy can get his girlfriend back after a break up. The exact approach that you need to use to get your girlfriend back will depend on what stage of the break up process you are in and how bad the break up was. She will then feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you and will be willing to forgive your past mistakes, give the relationship another chance and continue on for now. However, if you and her have already broken up many times before, have broken up months ago, you’ve cheated on her or she is moving on with another guy, you will need to add in a few more steps to the process of getting her back.
When getting a girlfriend back after a break up, the most important thing that you need to do is meet up with her in person. It’s only in person that she will be able to clearly see that you already have changed the way that you think, feel and behave around her. Phone calls are good, but the most effective and efficient way to get a girlfriend back after a break up is to get her to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you in person. Due to the popularity of smartphones and how much people tend to text these days, a lot of guys now make the mistake of hoping to get their girlfriend back via text. As you will discover from the video above, the only real way to get your girlfriend to notice real changes in you is to get her on a phone call and then meet up with her in person. Sometimes a relationship will break up because the man and woman simply don’t know how to make each other feel how they really want to feel when in a relationship. This may happen if a guy is inexperienced with relationships, if he takes his woman for granted or if he just wasn’t ready to be the type of man that she really needs. In cases like this, a guy needs to tell his girlfriend that he believes the relationship is worth investing a bit more time in because all relationships go through ups and downs.
He needs to tell her that what makes a relationship last is when they can grow and learn together in a relationship and become closer, happier and more fulfilled as a result. Couples that are still happy and in love after decades give each other that time to grow and learn together and become better at loving each other, making each other happy and having the type of experiences that they want when in a relationship. He then needs to say something like, “If you want to break up, I will accept that, but just answer this question for me: Hypothetically speaking, if we did decide to give our relationship one last chance, what are two or three things that you would need from me to make this relationship work?
When talking to a woman about these sorts of things, you need to make sure that you aren’t coming from a place where you are begging or being desperate for her to give you another chance. When you can sincerely be confident and emotionally secure when you talk to her, she will be able to look up to you and respect you as well as feel attracted to you, which will make her want to reconsider her decision. On the other hand, if she sees him having a great time without her (whether he tells her in person, over the phone or she sees it on social media), it can help to remind her that she is losing a great guy who has the emotional strength to get on with life regardless of the pain of the break up. In my program, Get Your Ex Back: Super System, I talk about how to make a woman feel all sorts of painful and positive emotions that combine together to make her want to get back with you or at least meet up with you as soon as possible.
Getting a girlfriend back is not all about making her feel the painful emotions of jealous and loss when she sees you enjoying yourself without her. To get a girlfriend back after a break up, it’s also very important that you make her feel a range of positive emotions when she talks to you on the phone, interacts with you in person or even just stops by to check you out on social media.
A lot of women will block their ex boyfriend on Facebook and other social media sites after a break up, but they always tend to stop by every now and then to have a quick look at how he is doing.
So, in cases where the girlfriend hates her ex boyfriend and is not willing to meet up with him, he at least needs to ensure that the way he is being represented on social media is making her feel a combination of painful and positive emotions, which will cause her to either unblock him, get in contact with him or finally answer her phone when he calls. A great way to get your girlfriend back after a break up is to get her to agree to have sex one last time. Of course, not all women will readily agree to have sex one last time, so what a guy needs to do in cases like that is meet up with her in person and get her laughing and smiling and feeling a renewed sense of respect and attraction for him before he suggests it.
When a guy wants to get a girlfriend back, he will rarely want to start dating other women because he will simply want to get his ex back. However, one of the ways to get a girlfriend after a break up is to start dating other women who are as attractive as her or even more attractive than her.
This approach helps when a woman has broken up with a guy because she feels as though he’s not good enough for her.
A lot of guys delay the process of getting a woman back by allowing her to access to text him back and forth whenever she feels like it. If you want to make her feel some loss and be willing to talk to you on the phone, you’ve got to cut off her access to text communication with you.
The reason why you should only talk to her on a phone call and in person is so she can feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, based on the changes and improvements you’ve made to how you think, feel, talk to her and behave. Trying a show a girlfriend how much you’ve changed by texting her is nearly impossible because without her being able to see your body language, hear the way you are expressing yourself and assessing how you are behaving, she has to guess what state of mind you are really in when sending her those texts.
If your girlfriend currently has a negative perception of you, she’s most likely going to look at your texts in a negative light.
However, if you speak to her on the phone and get her smiling and laughing, she will be more open to listening to you, talking to you and respecting how much you’ve already changed and improved as a man. Some guys make the mistake of thinking that they might be able to get another chance with their ex girlfriend by making her feel guilty or making her feel pity for him.
For example: He will slip into begging, pleading, promising her the world if she gives him another chance, declaring his undying love for her, threatening to kill himself, saying that he is nothing without her and so on. She’s not going to be interested in cute, romantic or sweet gestures until you get her to feel respect for you first and then begin to reattract her by displaying the personality traits and behaviors that are naturally attractive to women. For example: When you call her up, you need to be able to let her feel your confidence and emotional strength by talking to her in a confident, masculine and mature way. However, you should also be confident enough to make her smile and get her laughing by adding in some humor, rather than being afraid to do that because you’re worried that she might not like it.
Women are attracted to confident men who aren’t afraid to be attractive during interactions. Don’t shut yourself down and become neutral, too friendly or too nice now that she has broken up with you. My name is Dan Bacon I am 100% committed to helping men succeed with women and relationships.
I've already helped countless men to get their woman back and I know that I can help you too. If you want me to help you get her back, don't leave my site until you watch this FREE video training on how to get your woman back now.
Watch the free training and you will learn how to get her back NOW without having to waste time ignoring her, or waste energy trying to convince her to give you another chance.
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Of course, as time ticks by you begin to realize just how much she meant to you.  How in love with her you really were. Before you sent that text your hopes were so high, you were daydreaming of your future together with her. So, the question you are probably wondering is how the heck are you supposed to navigate a situation like this where you want your ex girlfriend back but she has moved on to a new boyfriend.Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back? I suppose the best place to start is by taking a look at the potential risks of trying to get an ex with a new boyfriend back. For example, you obviously came to this page because you want your ex girlfriend back and she has a new boyfriend. Men, by nature, are very protective of their women so I guarantee you that to the new boyfriend you trying to get his girlfriend back is going to paint you in a light where you are an enemy. So, obviously the big risk you run by trying to win your ex girlfriend back in this case is that you could become a common enemy between your ex and her new boyfriend which will ultimately cause them to be closer together. Being a common enemy between your ex and her new boyfriend is one of the worst positions that you could possibly be in. If you can be subtle but effective in your intentions to win your ex girlfriend back you will most likely NOT be looked at by your ex as a common enemy.
Lets say that you are very subtle in your intentions to get your ex girlfriend back but over time your methods start to work. Inevitably she is going to talk to the one person who is supposed to support her and understand her no matter what, her boyfriend.
She may not be completely honest with him about what is going on in her mind but she is going to say things to him to try to test him to see if he is ready for the truth. Eventually the truth is going to come out and how do you think the new boyfriend is going to react to discovering that his girlfriend (your ex) is still hung up on you? In fact, a massive fight or breakup might occur and now you are looking like you are in a really good position. Again, YOU didn’t physically cause this breakup or fight, your ex did because of her feelings for you. So, I am not going to sit here and tell you that if you follow every little step I outline on this page that your ex girlfriend is going to break up with her current boyfriend and come running back to you. Ok, let me put this in simpler terms so you really have a good grasp at what this page is going to do for you.


Imagine for a moment that in every single breakup that occurs between a couple a certain percentage is assigned to it. You may have noticed that I gave people whose exes have moved on to another man a 20% chance of getting back together.
Well, that 20% number is based on you trying to get your girlfriend back without any of my advice.
Imagine that you follow the advice on this page and get to a place where your ex girlfriend is confused about her feelings for you and her new boyfriend. Anyways, I think it’s safe to say that your ex girlfriend is going to be comparing her relationship with her new boyfriend to her relationship with you. If your ex girlfriends new boyfriend does that during their relationship and you didn’t during yours with her then when she is going to make the comparison between you and her new guy she is definitely going to think the new guy is better and that is going to put you at a disadvantage. Because usually a girl who has a better guy isn’t going to leave him to put herself back in a situation where she is treated poorly.
One of the biggest assets I can bring to you with this page is my experience in dealing with thousands of couples.
That some of these women want their exes back even after they have done HORRIBLE things to them. For example, there was once a girl that came to my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, who was dating a new guy but wanted her ex back even though he cheated on her six times with six different women. So, what did this guy (who had done horrible things to her in the past) have that drew her in so much that she wanted to leave her perfectly good boyfriend?
At first that was what I thought but the more I talked to her about her particular situation I began to realize that there was something else going on in her head. In other words, even though some women find themselves in a situation where they are clearly better off relationship wise sometimes the appeal of the connection can trump everything.
For example, if your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend that treats her like a queen she may still be more drawn to you because she has a connection with you that the new boyfriend can’t top.
So, if you were to ask me how to get your ex girlfriend back in a situation where she has moved on and her new man treats her well then I would say you would have to hit her where she will be affected most, her romantic feelings for you.
Like I said, a comparison between you and the new guy is eventually going to happen no matter what it just a question of when. Well, lets pretend that your ex girlfriend has been dating her new boyfriend for 2 months exactly.
Then that is a very good sign because it means you are winning the comparison battle against her new guy. If your ex girlfriends new boyfriend isn’t treating her the way a woman should be treated in a relationship then she could soon be maneuvering to go back to the thing that makes her feel better than anything, YOU!
Believe it or not but your ex girlfriend moving on may actually be a good thing in the long run. For example, if your ex girlfriend breaks up with you and starts dating someone new who treats her really well like we talked about in the comparison section above your exes GIGS is going to be verified and as a result it is going to be much harder to get her back.
I want you to be aware that the GIGS exists and could have been a possible reason for the breakup between you and your ex. The game plan is divided into four major steps and as usual I will be giving you a lot of in-depth insight into each one of these steps.
First though, lets take a look at the steps you will need to successfully complete to even have a chance of getting your girlfriend back. I have been doing this for quite some time and I have seen firsthand how hard it is for some men to stay in NC when they see their woman with another man. If you could compare a relationship to a fire a woman would expect the man to start that fire. One of the greatest fears for men who enter into the NC rule during this situation is that their exes are going to get so close to their new man that they will completely forget about their old one.
Ok, imagine if you completed your no contact rule and called your ex and begged for her back.
I know that may sound a little controlling or possessive but the truth is I honestly don’t care at this point. I know that may sound weird and counterproductive but if you really think about it, it’s not. Like I said above, it is very rare for a man to be ok with the fact that his girlfriend or wife is good friends with her ex. In other words, you becoming friends with your ex is going to cause your exes new man to go absolutely ballistic when he finds out that she is talking to you and this is what you want. Providing emotional support for your ex girlfriend (when you become friends) is really where you are going to shine.
If she can’t get the emotional support she needs from her own boyfriend but from you then when she makes that inevitable comparison between you and the new guy she is going to take that into account.
A big mistake I see a lot of men making is the fact that they jump into the deep end instead of wading into the shallow one when it comes to building attraction.
Ok, lets say that you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back and she has just gotten a new boyfriend.
I am a fan of a subtle build up with text messages which eventually lead to phone calls which eventually lead to a face to face meeting. Using the guide in the link above you should be able to properly build attraction with the build up technique. So, don’t take it personally if your ex declines your offer to meet up for a hang out. Because a woman who is truly in love with a man wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize that relationship.
Luckily for you, if she accepts your offer for a casual hang out, it means that she doesn’t care enough about her current boyfriends feelings to not hang out with you. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. My ex recently admitted she misses me and still has feelings for me even though she has a new guy. Moving on she moved over to Melbourne and she has been there for just over a month while i am still stuck in Auckland New Zealand, I will be moving to Australia in 2 months either to live in Sydney or she takes me back I will move to Melbourne to be with her.
We have been consistently talking to each other while she has been in Melbourne, we have face-timed, called and message each other multiple times until this week where she has stopped all contact with me, she traveled to Bali with 3 work friends (2 guys, 1 girl). She regularly updates her Snap chat story and I find it hard not to look at it, do I look at her story during the NC period? After the NC period how do I start communicating so that she gets comfortable with the idea of seeing me in 6 weeks? If I ask her to meet up, it would have to be within a few days of completing the NC period.
And should I build rapport with her after I reestablish our friendship or should I provide her with emotional support before doing so? So she hasn’t replied or sent any messages regarding my last text about missing her grad show. Oh also I went on one date, it helped with confidence cause she really likes me but I don’t feel the same as hard as I tried to tell myself to give it a try. When you notice that she is no longer angry, usually after a couple of days, try to invite her on a date. Meet up with her in person and get her to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, forgive you and become open to being with you again. You cannot show that to her via a text message and you can only half get that across to her on a phone call. Then, when she sees him with other women, she starts to realize that maybe she has made a mistake and is now losing a great guy.
You must get her respect back, get her to feel attracted to you again and when that happens, she will naturally begin to have feelings for you again. However, even though you’ve broken up with your girlfriend, that doesn’t mean you’ve lost her forever. Sure, you will probably want to cry yourself to sleep and beg her to get back together with you. Distance does make the heart go fonder and while you should message and call her every so often, you should always strive to get her to call or message you first. While we do all we can in order to update any review and to keep it accurate, it is possible that there will be some changes to different products that we may not be aware of.
Time has a funny way of making us realize our mistakes and without a doubt letting your ex girlfriend go was a big one.
You figure the easiest way to do this is to send her a non threatening text message to check up on her.
Of course, after you sent the text that daydream was shattered and replaced with anger, heartache and jealousy. Well, what do you think would happen if the new boyfriend caught wind of the fact that you wanted your girl back? Of course, sometimes you will get a boyfriend who can tell when something is off without her even having to say a word.
Of course, the situation you currently find yourself in is one of the hardest to experience as your chances for success are slightly lowered.
While that is certainly the outcome that you are praying for it isn’t realistic to assume that, that is going to happen 100% of the time. However, with that being said it doesn’t hurt to have an expert on your side (me) who has seen so many situations and put so many relationships back together that he can drastically increase your chances of succeeding in almost any situation.
Now, most of you who are in that situation are going to see that number and immediately freak out because it’s pretty darn low. Well, all of a sudden that 20% chance of success is bumped up to 50% because you know eventually she is going to have to choose between you and her new boyfriend.


I am talking about someone who provides emotional support, someone who listens and tries not to judge, someone who truly cares about her and she realizes it. You see, I have a sister site to this one called, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, where I have helped thousands of women. You will need to find a way to get her to tap into those feelings for you and when she does that is going to dramatically increase your chances of having her run back to you. Humans in general are drawn to things that make them feel good and flee from things that make them feel bad.
If your ex broke up with you because she thought she could do better and discovers that she can’t then all of a sudden she is going to be scrambling to get YOUR approval.
Well, if you find yourself in a situation where you are trying to get a girlfriend back who has a new boyfriend you may find that waiting 45 days in no contact is too long.
While I am not a fan of becoming overbearing or annoying but I don’t think there is anything wrong with doing very subtle things to remind your ex that you are out there. Perhaps I am a bit jaded because I have seen so much with regards to exes and I know that any time that exes are friends it usually doesn’t work out. If you can get her to open up to you and trust you enough to let you in then I guarantee that you are going to come out looking like a star. When I talk about providing emotional support I am not talking about helping her with her own relationship.
Of course, in order to do that successfully you have to create this build up to gain the attraction momentum that you need.
It just means that she is being a good girlfriend to her boyfriend and she shouldn’t be punished for that. I had walked in on my ex cheating on me with another guy whom we both met hours ago at a party.
We were together for just over 2 years, we lived with each other for over a year and broke up 5 weeks ago due to the fact that she needed to move to another country and i wasn’t ready for it. For the first 2 days of her trip she was with just one guy friend and I got jealous so I asked her questions about whats happening if there is a spark etc.
If she says she wants to get back yes, but other than that, if it’s just a casual hi, nope. If she ended the relationship after a heated argument, never cry nor beg right there and then; that will only make you look very pathetic and desperate.
It is not a bed of roses, but a package deal wherein at the onset you agree to be happy and to get hurt as well. I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too. Yes, you can definitely get your ex girlfriend back and in this article we will be looking at a few tips and guidelines to help you do just that.
You do this by being the cool and interesting guy that she fell in love with in the first place! While you want to look attractive and well groomed, you definitely don’t want to look like you’re trying too hard. You see, on the one hand she has strong feelings for you and on the other hand she has strong feelings for her current boyfriend. Obviously we are hoping that the new boyfriend is treating her horribly so you look like a prince but lets just say that, that doesn’t happen. I think it’s safe to say that I have heard just about every single story there is when it comes to breakups. Besides, men often have to be the hunters when it comes to relationships so that means that we have to do all the work to get the relationship started or re-started in your case.
You have done a shortened NC rule, you have worked on re-establishing your friendship with your ex. What I want to do now is to show you how you should go about creating this perfect build up. Keep building the attraction until she chooses to leave her current man in favor of the better option, you. Messages were about funny storie connected with me and also about tv shows which she likes, I tried also for some emotional support but she did not aswer.
We had a special relationship, we were inseparable, did everything together and we were each others first real love, I mean random people we have never met used to comment about our relationship being special and filled with love. I have already booked tickets to go to Melbourne in 6 weeks (which she is unaware of) to see other friends I grew up with. Never attempt to pick up some portions of the points she raised earlier, and then use the same to prove that she committed a mistake too. View customer success stories, browse my products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women. It is best that you recover on your own for as long as you need and this is the best time to focus on your friends and other relationships in your life. Once she is calling you and messaging you first, you can then move on to meeting with her in person. Therefore, leave the suit at home and put on a well-fitting pair of jeans and a shirt that accentuates your features and makes you look your best.
Let’s go to the worse case scenario (for you) where the new boyfriend is treating her incredibly well.
If she asks you for relationship advice on him I want you to decline as politely as possible. Eventually the new boyfriend got so upset about this that it has caused a bit of a rift in their relationship.
After we broke up I was angry with emotions and everytime we met it was not confortable also because I was jealous on her new boyfriend. She attempted to date this guy which lasted a week, but now is with a whole new guy and is in a relationship two weeks after the break up. I was hoping that during this trip I would be able to hang out with her rekindle our relationship and eventually get back together. While reconciling, it is a big no-no to tell her that the break up happened not because of you, but because of someone or something else. After that, emphasize that nothing in the world is more important to you than to have her back.
Once you have recovered emotionally from the breakup and loss, you can get to work on getting your woman back.
Once you meet her, you should definitely try your best to be outgoing, confident and interesting while also flirting with her.
Now, a really good girlfriend wouldn’t see her ex boyfriend out of respect for her new boyfriend. Now I want to show her that I?m fine with it and that I can support her and be friend as she always wanted when we broke up.
I truly do love this girl and am hurt at the fact she could cheat on me for one and move on to a new guy so quickly. I know time is the best answer but why should I try and connect with others when I found a connection worth fighting for?
Since you don?t want to appear like you are rushing things, saying ?I miss you? would suffice in the meantime.
You may find it hard how to get your girlfriend back after a break up because there is nothing left in you. You definitely don’t want to bring any old issues, fights or arguments that would make her remember why the two of your broke up.
This will help to rekindle her romantic interest in you and in time, she might even approach you to get back into a romantic relationship. So, as you can see just calling a girl up and asking her out without any of the romance or build up doesn’t usually work.
I would like to ask you how to react when we meet again and build up attraction again although she has new boyfriend who probably does not know about our textin which was neutral and about meeting?? I told her i needed my space after the break in which i had NC for about a month which ended around her birthday so i causally wished her a happy birthday which in return I got a pretty neutral response of Thanks.
I still have faith that I can get her back, but sometimes it’s just hard with everyone telling you to move on. I proceeded with a follow up question on how she was doing to which i didn’t get a response at all. I found out from her that she has been telling her parents about me for a very long time and her parents always reject me because they are rasicts and she respects her parents to much to go against them.
So my question is, do i go back into a period of NC to work on myself to become more of an Alpha Male to have her chase me or do i start with the steps from where im at and take it slow and let things fall into place. Ultimately, I love this girl and have seen the full potential of her love as well thats why i was so caught off guard of all the things that happened. I really want to ask her one more time to reconsider before she gets too serious with the new guy.
I have insomnia so I spend my nights overthinking about her and during the day i keep myself busy. I really dont know what to do besides trying the no contact rule and just trying to speak to her after then. I just feel if i approach her as a friend then ill stay in the friendzone because of how much she respects her parents wishes. Im sorry if this post is a bit rambly, havent slept for 4 days and just in a constant state of wtf since the break up.



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