If so, then you are ready to take those first important dating steps into attracting a guy, and ultimately  getting a guy to ask you out,  but how do you begin?
Well thankfully, guys are fairly easy to understand, it’s just a case of recognising how his mind works. So with you in mind, I have put together my list, my 20 foolproof ways on how to get a guy to ask you out, so let’s cut to the chase and begin going through these dating golden nuggets. Men need a clear signal, a green light, from you that it’s OK to come over and approach you, so don’t be afraid of being obvious. Ok so think about your friends, family and work colleagues, and anyone else who is around you right now. So learn to love being yourself, learn to love what it is about you that makes you so special, and as I know you are a wonderful and beautiful woman there will be so many things, just make yourself more aware of them. Let’s face it, no one wants to approach someone who looks bored, who is constantly looking at their watch or mobile phone, so don’t be this person. So spend time with your friends, be seen in the right places and indulge yourself in fun activities. Try to make time to distance yourself from your friends or colleagues for a brief period by say getting drinks at the bar.
Pay close attention to the fragrance you are wearing.  Guys love a girl that well, smells like a girl. Try to keep your arms by your side as much as possible and refrain from touching your face or hair, as you want your body language to remain open and not to look nervous. Once you become more comfortable with him you can get a little more playful now with your body language. Whilst being natural is always best, try to be at your fun loving, happy most positive self.
By revealing your passions, interests and loves in life, and by asking him about his, who knows, you both may have a shared interest. If everything is going well and you think you would to go on a date with him then you can drop hints to instigate this, but do this in such a way that will leave him thinking he thought of it first. So hopefully these 20 foolproof ways  will have given some ideas on how to get a guy to ask you out. As ever I would love to hear your thoughts and your experiences, so please get in touch and leave your comments below. Who Else Wants to Put an End to Loneliness and Find Your Soulmate FAST…Without Going on Endless Boring Dates with the ‘WRONG’ Sort of Guys? Many actors rebel against their most iconic roles, but you seem really comfortable with being forever known as Westley. If you want to say yes, the guy won't even care what you say as long as he is lucky enough to dance with you! I am going to assume you have been single for a while now, and the feelings and the thoughts you once felt and had for your ex are now maybe starting to fade with each passing day. It’s all about accentuating your strong points and playing to his desires and you will have him eating out of your hand in no time at all. Also if you have time, please sign up for the FREE four part video series for even more information on how to get completely date ready. Smiling has a snowball effect, the more you do it, the more people will smile right back, and the more they will want to be in your company, and that’s the result we are after. Make your joie de vivre shine like a magnet to potential dates out there, and you will be well on your way to finding your soulmate. Nothing is more appealing than looking at someone who is out having a good time, it’s infectious.
If he thinks you’re too keen, too desperate to catch his eye then yes he likely will notice you, but no, he will never approach you.
So be choosy with your perfumes, make sure they smell good on your skin, and make sure you walk close enough by that he can appreciate them…..how can he resist!
I know this is not always easy, and first introductions can be uncomfortable, nerve wracking and awkward. Tilt your head in his direction when he talks, it’s a great way of forming an instant intimacy, and touch his arm occasionally.
Try teasing your hair, licking your lips occasionally and talk in a quieter voice so that he has to move in towards you to hear what you are saying. This is a great start to a relationship as it creates an immediate bond between the two of you. So for example, if you are talking about a specific area in your local town then you can mention the new restaurant that has just opened there, and how you are dying to trying it out. Enjoy his company first; see if he is right for you, just as much as if you are right for him. I know it may seem like a lot to take in, but as ever, try and be relaxed about it, and try not to take it all too seriously. You can flaunt your stuff all you want, but sometimes they just remain completely clueless.
This can be a tricky one to get right, in finding that perfect balance….too little action and he won’t notice you, too much and you risk scaring him off. Especially since it may have been months, if not years, since you last needed, or wanted guy to notice you.
Are the people you know, who are in your circle, who act more confidently, more appealing and more interesting to be around?
You know the script you don’t need me to tell you this, but what goes on in the inside reflects on the outside.
It’s that ‘does my bum look big in this’ syndrome, but even if you think right now that you could never appreciate how you look, believe me you can, and it’s so easy! Don’t you notice them first, the group that are laughing and joking together, and it makes you want to go and join them doesn’t it?
Think how much easier it is for the poor guy if he can start a conversation with you, without your 5 best pals staring at him, judging him and maybe thinking he’s an idiot. This will give him the time and space to get a good look at you and appreciate you when you’re looking away. But hey look at it like this, this guy has made the effort to come over and talk to you so he likes you already! If you love to scuba dive in Egypt, tell him how exciting the first time you dived was, how it felt, and what you saw.
Or say, if find out you both love opera, you can mention how there is a performance showing at your local theater and you love to see how well they do it. Although it can seem like there’s no hope some days and you’re doomed to spend eternity alone, you won’t have to! Someone there for you at the end of each day because, let’s face it, you have now had enough of being alone, and want to have that that special someone back in your life, and to feel special to someone in return. OK so maybe you don’t feel happy with your weight right now (and by the way, there is something you can do about that, see point 2), but maybe you have the thickest most beautiful shiny mane of hair, or maybe you have great skin, that glows, or the biggest most beautiful brown eyes. You can also get great insight about what he is actually like in a more informal and relaxed setting.

So always be keen to talk and engage with people wherever you are, and smile and laugh regularly. Guys are crafty ladies, and when you are busy socialising or whatever else, and then they can get a good look at you, and fully appreciate you! Its nerve wracking enough that he has to make the first move anyhow so do your guy a favour, and try and make it as easy for him as possible.
Have a destination in mind, don’t just aimlessly walk past, and make sure it’s not too close to him either, but close enough that he can appreciate, erm let’s just say, all you have to offer! It doesn’t mean you have to stare at him continuously, but just maintain eye contact enough for him to know you are interested in him and enjoying his conversation. So for example if he says ‘have you ever been paint balling’, then don’t just respond with a 'no', say something like, ‘no I have never been, but I would love to try it. Whatever it is in life that gets your heart beating, that makes you want to get up of a morning, tell him about it and show him your lust for life.
You could even make the hint more obvious if you are feeling bold, and say you have this Saturday afternoon free for once, and not sure what you are going to do with this unexpected free time, though you intend to do something fun. However for the bold among you, there is no harm in making an open ended invite to say a friends party, or gathering, and it’s a great way to get to know him better in a relaxed and informal setting.
Just be your own beautiful self, and chat nicely to this guy, who has plucked up the courage to come over to you, because hey he likes you! It not only reinforces some of the above, but also tells you how much a guy will appreciate you for it! 6 Tips to Kick the Ex HabitHow to Get a Guy to Ask You Out in 20 Simple StepsSoulmate Searching? Here are the top 20 ways to get a guy to ask you out.Flirt a LotFlirting is always a perfect go-to when trying to get a guy to ask you out. So the first step in getting a guy to notice you is to make your body language appear open and responsive, make it shout ‘yes you can come over and approach me, and I won’t bite or scream at you like a banshee!’ How do you do this?
Why, because the like themselves, they love themselves, they are content in their own skin.
Guys seem to really respect ladies that take care of themselves and have a healthy lifestyle.
Maybe your shapely legs are your strongest asset, or it’s your sexy uber feminine hour glass figure. Guys just love this, and it will set you apart from all the other women out there who have nothing to say!
And the really great thing about getting healthy is that the healthier you become, the more confidence you gain. Whatever your best qualities are, I want you to concentrate on them now and make the most of them, accentuate them.
Even if you don’t feel it on the inside, by acting like this, even if it is pretence, will soon have you feeling like it, believe me, you won’t be able to help it. Even better if you can greet a friend nearby to him, then he can see your smile just that little bit closer! You want it to be just enough to tell him you might be interested if he plays his cards right and that you would likely chat to him should he approach you. If he realises you like him, then you no longer become a challenge, and he won’t bother coming over to talk to you.
If you are happy in your own life, if you are happy with whom you are, and with who you want to become, and what you want from life then you have an inner confidence, which cannot help but show on the outside. So go show your legs, those killer pins, off in a dress or skirt, and avoid trousers if they are your best asset, or wear your hair down and show it to its fullest if this part of you is strong. Then once you catch his eye, smile, and he will be unable to resist coming over to talk to you.
Keep that smile and a warmth to your face, keep your body language open, no arm crossing and be pleasant and polite. Twirl your hair, flash those pearly whites, maybe even send him a wink or two – but only if you can wink because otherwise he might just think you’ve got something stuck in your eye.
So the trick here is to look at him once, and have him keep looking back at you until he falls for you.
Keep the conversation light and friendly, and show him your fun side with an occasional joke to let him see what a terrific sense of humour you have. Yikes!Get NoticedIf he’s single and hot, odds are you might not be the only girl trying to go for him.
However if you are not happy, if you are withdrawn, and constantly look to others for reassurance, you will just come across as needy and desperate. This will then make you feel more positive, and more up for tackling the areas that you don’t like so much and you will do it with more enthusiasm, and determination. Wear those feminine outfits that make you feel special more often, spend time on yourself and wear some makeup, it need only be enough to make you pretty. Respond to some of his conversation, laugh at his jokes, pipe in when he’s talking about a hobby that you also enjoy.
Any of those are great ways to make sure he has his eye on you and not some other girl that could be standing in your way.Be YourselfDon’t try to change yourself just so he asks you out.
No need to go overboard or get paranoid about how you look, but just spend a little time and make a little effort to show you off at your best.
Too many girls out there make the mistake of pretending they like a certain band or movie just so he’ll like them. But the thing is, even if he does eventually ask you out because of those things, he’s going to soon realize you were lying and everything will be over. Guys on the other hand, well, let’s just say they’re a little more blind to whether or not someone likes them. Complimenting them will inform them of how much you like them and that will give them confidence to ask you out.
Dress in clothing that accentuates your most attractive features so he’ll take extra notice to them. Advertisement Bring Up the Things You Have in CommonIf you know he’s a die-hard Star Wars fan and you have always been obsessed with the series, too, then talk about it with him. Get the conversation rolling in that direction and bring up how you’ve always been a Star Wars nerd at heart.
He will immediately be eager to talk about your common interest and this will lead him toward eventually asking you out.Maintain Eye ContactKeeping eye contact lets people know that your focus is purely on them – just don’t be creepy about it. The great thing about eye contact is that if his eyes are on yours too, you know he’s truly in the moment.Send SignalsBlatant, clear signals are the best kind when it comes to guys. However, if you’re consistently bringing up new movies that are out, or people that are having concerts nearby that you want to see, maybe he’ll pick up that you’re trying to get him to ask you out and hinting at places you would want to go.
Not only does it put you on his radar as potential dating material, but it gives him great date ideas, too!Smile Like You Mean ItAlthough this one might be automatic when you’re around someone you like, it never hurts to throw in some extra smiles here and there. It makes you look kind, enjoyable, and approachable; all very important aspects they take into consideration before asking a girl out. Plus it always makes them think you’re having a good time and they will want to be a part of it.Physical ContactGet close to him!

Just don’t grope him as he walks by because that is way too much and might give him the wrong impression about you (hello Ms. He’ll feel like you definitely are interested in him when you keep touching him so much and it will make him feel a lot more comfortable around you, as well. And the more comfortable he is around you, the more comfortable he’ll be asking you on an awesome date.Make Sure he Knows You’re AvailableIt’s one thing to be all flirty and touchy with him, but if he thinks you have a boyfriend it will certainly scare him off and he will not ask you out. Guys are not about to ask out a girl who might have a boyfriend and risk the boyfriend running after them in anger.
One way to point out your noncommittal status without making it too obvious is to jokingly bring up how “single life” is getting you down and you wish you had someone to cuddle up to every now and then. It not only informs him that you’re single, but also that you’re definitely ready to mingle!Don’t be ShyPlaying the cute, shy type will only get you so far with guys. Although it can be really hard to break out of that shy shell and open up to the guy you like, it’s vital if you really want him to ask you out. So for the sake of your single-ness, don’t be so shy and start being more approachable.Step Away from Your FriendsGuys feel ridiculously intimidated when you’re surrounded by your friends. In all honesty, would you walk up to a big group of guys and start hitting on a really cute guy right there in front of all of them? It’s much easier for them to talk to you one on one, so make sure you spend some time away from your friends and on your own around him so he has the opportunity to really go for it.Be CharmingI know, I know. Normally a Disney Prince comes to mind when you see the word ‘charming’, or you may only think that this term relates to men. Make it easy for him to like you and it will make it even easier for him to ask you out.Spend Time Talking to HimIt’s really easy to admire someone from a distance, but that won’t do any good when you’re trying to get them to ask you out.
How are they even going to know they want to go out with you when you’re making googly eyes behind a book from 50 feet away? When the conversation is over, make sure you leave him wanting to talk some more and he’ll have to ask you on a date in order to do that!Leave out Details about YourselfAs much as you should spend time talking to him, focus that conversation on him and away from yourself. Because when you leave after having a really awesome conversation where the two of you mainly only talked about him, what is he going to be thinking later on? I didn’t get a chance to ask her this,” or, “Wait, but we never talked about her hobbies!” He’ll just be looking for opportunities to find out that information and how will he have to do that?
By asking you out.Make Friends with His FriendsIt may seem counterproductive to make friends with his friends when you just want him to ask you out. If you get in with his friend group and they all really like you, he’s going to see that you’re high value and that will definitely make him want to ask you out.
It also brings forth that competitiveness that is in a man’s nature and he may even get jealous of you talking to his friends so much – which will prompt him to grab you before someone else does!Be ConfidentConfidence is sexy, mesmerizing, and charming. When you ooze confidence, you’re telling the world that you know who you are and what you want and you know how to get it.
Put any insecurities aside because you’re a hot little mamma who can get anyone to ask her out.Be HumorousHave you ever wondered why so many goofy girls get all the great guys?
It will make him crave that feeling when you’re not around and he’ll have to ask you out in order to get it back.Ask him out!If all else fails because he’s clueless, unobservant, or maybe even just shy, then put your big girl panties on and ask him yourself! You can ask him out if you really want to go out with him and he’s just not picking up on any of your signals. The best way to do this is to start by having a fun, flirty conversation and just ask him if he wants to continue it over dinner and some drinks. And who knows, maybe he’ll ask YOU out for the second date!Men can be some of the simplest, yet most complex creatures out there.
When it might seem hopeless for him to ask you out, give these 20 tips a try and he’ll practically be crawling after you for a date. Go ahead and check out the articles, and you may find a message that works perfectly for you.
What are some flirty things that i could say in middle school and some ways i could use the touch barrier to signal to him i like him?Reply web admin February 6, 2016 at 11:58 amTouch his elbow or shoulder when you are around him.
You don’t have to be super flirty because just talking to him more often could clue him in to how you feel.
You will never know if he likes you or not unless you take the risk of just telling him how you feel. Classic!Reply Ruby December 26, 2015 at 6:46 amSo i have been friends with a guy named Javier. Since he is a guy i started to like him a little bit, but at the same time i didn’t want to get attached to him because we both went to diffrent schools and the only way we could see each other is at the sunday classes. When the sunday classes were over, on the last day i was alittle sad because i can’t see him anymore. I liked him for a little while and since the last time i dated at that time was 3 years ago i thought to myself why not.
I thought again and figured that there was no way javier was going to ask me out because we went to diffrent schools.
I told him if he liked any girls from his school and to be honest about it, he said no, he likes the way i smile, laugh and my personality. So we went on our date at the movies, i thought to myself i finally get to be with a guy who was loyal enough to me from the beginning. I told him no because its only been one month since i broke up with my ex, i do like javier i do. He even told me that hes going to transfer to my school becuase he didn’t like his school and he wants to be with me. I told him how i gelt I dont want to date alot of guys because i dont want to seem like a hoe or anything. Overall, if Javier was there for you the whole time you were dating someone else and after you two broke up, then he seems like he’s truly there for you and cares for you.
The amount of people you date is 100% up to you and anyone else’s opinions should never matter when it comes to your happiness.
Thanks for commenting!Reply web admin December 26, 2015 at 6:59 pmI think that Javier is certainly worth the chance of dating. You never know how a relationship will ultimately work out, but it seems like you are off to a good start. I would not feel so badly about dating Rudy first though–you had no way of knowing that Javier liked you before, and it is normal to have a crush on more than one guy. Once you have healed from your break up enough to know that Javier is not just a rebound (which it seems unlikely that he could be since you liked him before you dated Rudy), then go ahead and start dating Javier and become a couple. It seems like Javier is ready whenever you are, so you just have to decide if you are ready for another relationship yet or not.ReplyLeave a Reply Cancel replyYour email address will not be published.

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