Yes – it doesn’t matter that much WHAT you say, as long as you project the right vibe - see our series on how to pick up girls for more on that.
But, I clearly remember when I was first learning this stuff, I got incredibly frustrated with that advice. There are some topics that girls respond better to than others, so ideally you want to have the right vibe AND an interesting conversational repertoire.
And it often helps to get some specific examples of things successful guys say and do when they approach women – if for no other reason than to pick up on the underlying mindset these lines come from. Below is a list of challenges you'll run into on the approach, or before approaching, a new girl - and the solution to each of them.
In this case, however, it’s ALREADY on her mind… and you need to address it fast, or she will be gone. Challenge: She’s on the phone - how many approaches have you missed out on because a girl you wanted to meet was making a call? You can also do this implicitly, by walking up to her and looking at her as if you were expecting her to hang up… most women usually do. Girls will often deny that they were looking at you… they unconsciously know that whoever initiates a social interaction holds less power in the situation (this is why they'd rather get approached than do the approaching).
Solution: Approaching her right there and then – even if you speak quietly like I suggested above – is going to create a lot of social pressure for both of you… more importantly for her. If you really want to meet a girl in a situation like this, I suggest you wait till her stop and get off the bus or train with her. Solution: I usually skip these approaches these days – they can be done, but again the social pressure is pretty high for her.
If she’s only with other girls her own age, simply treat the whole group as if it was one girl. How about when you want to meet a girl and you do the approach - or you're just about to - but one of these problems emerges? Solution: Keep insisting… simply keep talking to her as if you expected her with absolute certainty to stop and talk to you. Problem: She throws up a time constraint in the middle of your conversation and suddenly says she has to go.
Solution: The first thing you need to ask yourself is – did you say something to make her suddenly want to leave; is this a pretense you triggered? Solution: AGREE with her, again, and then spin that into the REASON why you should hang out together. She’s not really giving you a red light here – a red light would be if she left and ended the conversation. This is a yellow light, and as we discussed in previous articles, the way to deal with a yellow light is to REMAIN UNFAZED and continue the conversation with a very chill, relaxed vibe. And that, again, is the bottom line of all contingency planning – your vibe is much more essential to your success than the specific words you say. Sign up for our email insights series and get a copy of our popular ebook “How to Text Girls” FREE.
One of the most popular questions I get asked since coming to NYU is, “How do you meet so many celebrities?” You could say that I have a knack for finding (or stalking) celebrities, but when it comes time for me to explain how to meet them, I often have trouble listing all the ways. Here are a few of my personal tips on how to meet your celebrity crush (even if it’s Bieber). Valuable Tip #1: Know beforehand whether you are going to ask a celebrity for a picture or an autograph. Large Events: There are also events that allow you to meet multiple celebrities, such as movie premieres and award shows.
Internships: If you have an internship at Bravo, ABC, NBC, or any other major channel and work with them, you are bound to have an elevator ride or some short encounter with a celebrity. VIP Tickets: Sites such as VIP Nation offer customers the opportunity to meet a celebrity at a concert. Random Occurrence: By exploring the city, I randomly met Jessica Alba on Spring Street and Matt Bomer at Union Square. However, there are a couple more things you can do here and there that will up your chances… and that’s what I want to talk about today. But, all the beautiful girls I’d see downtown every day had me *wishing* I knew what to say and do to meet them, and to start some form of relationship with them. Today, first sex on the third date has become a very rare occurrence, and I’ve since learned that given the right circumstances and the right guy, almost all women will have sex on the first date, no problem… so all you need to do is CREATE the right circumstances, and BECOME the right guy.
We’ve talked about this topic on the blog before, and about what it takes to be that sexy man that women want and to create these circumstances to pick up a girl fast - feel free to review these two articles real quick and then come back here.
Great… then let’s talk about how to make that happen RIGHT after you approach a girl in the street during day pick up.
One of the hardest things in this game – and in any endeavor in life, really – is to stay motivated when the going gets tough.
In fact, many people argue that the most important part of Napoleon Hill’s book Think and Grow Rich is Chapter 9 – the chapter on persistence. Because if you think about it – if you just stick with ANYTHING long enough, you’re BOUND to get better at it… and eventually the results will come as a mere side effect of getting better and better at your craft.
Why aren’t all people more persistent with their goals, if that’s really all it takes? In the first edition of this two part series on how to get laid every time, we covered all the ground rules… all the fundamentals about why girls sometimes resist having sex at first, and all the most important ways to deal with it.
Now let’s dive into the topic a bit deeper and look at a few more little ninja tricks and tactics – so you will always know what to do, no matter what the situation. This is called contingency planning, and we discussed it more broadly in the post on when she doesn't have time (and other contingencies)… today we’ll look at it specifically in the context of the last few yards. But it’s also something that is going to happen less and less once you figure out how to get laid with girls consistently. Personally, I went nuts when I was working on this sticking point… it really IS the most frustrating stage of your learning curve as a seducer, because you end up with blue balls every time! If you’re not regularly receiving text messages like that, even from seasoned party girls - and you could use a primer on how to be a good lover - read on. Really, there's no reason that you shouldn't be able to give a girl an orgasm multiple times when you're sleeping with her.
If you're like most guys, figuring out how to make her want you can feel like a full-time job. But if you're active sexually and you're active in the dating world these days, you're probably meeting, dating, and getting together with a fair number of different women.


Therefore, today, we're taking a momentary break from giving you tips and techniques on how to get the girls you really like, and instead bringing you this public service announcement - to make sure that when you get those girls, you'll be well-prepared to enjoy your time with them to the fullest - and not have to worry about getting taken to the cleaners or something else you don't want to have happen. MTV: On a scale of 1 to 10, how good do you think guys are at reading between the lines on Snapchat?
Carpenter: I was looking in on some innocent snaps being exchanged between my male friend and a girl, and he had no idea that she was being flirty. Carpenter: I was a bit wary to do it at first, because I know a couple of guys who’ll recognize some of those moves. Carpenter: I think it gives girls a good chance to test the waters before letting [guys] know you’re interested. Carpenter: I think guys can be just as guilty when it comes to sending out the odd tactical snap. Be cautious of the men in the cheap Steve Harvey suits or anyone under 35 wearing a hat as southern folk live by the code of "everybody goes to church because that's just what you do" so you may inadvertently run into an O.G Mack like Romey Rome. The cashier at the Chinese spot is like a black woman: simultaneously the most respected (Dear Mama) and disrespected (ain't no fun) at the same time. C4: Yeah, but I gotta stop and pick up some things to use as props for this sketch I'm workin on.
Here is the key to nigga networking however: if your girlfriends man ain't shit don't ask to meet his friends. Perhaps he'll even have that edgy friend who is fresher than him but still handles his business like a grownup. Either way, as always, the Bros have given our followers with tittes a stockload of ammunition.
Nothing you will read here are clever lines that somebody thought up while sitting on a computer in his basement – all of the strategies you are about to read have been successfully used on real women in the real world hundreds of times. This gives her time to process the fact that somebody is talking to her, break out of her own internal dialogue, extrovert, focus her attention on you and stop. Walk up to her and tell her that if she’s going to look at you like that, she will at least have to talk to you. Getting approached by a man in this situation might legitimately be dangerous for her, so you need to adapt your approach a bit.
It sounds silly but it makes a WORLD of difference – psychologically, and in terms of responses.
If you see a girl in a group like that while you travel though, you won’t ever see her again so you might as well go for it. Agree with her and talk about how you probably won’t have any time in the next couple of weeks either. She probably doesn’t want to be the topic of gossip for the next couple of days, as her friends all tease her for letting herself get picked up by some random dude at work. This is an old technique used by successful salespeople, but it works just as well to meet girls. Today, it seems to be quite common the girls are walking around wearing (white ;-) ) earbuds. Most times, you can get both, but when you have to deal with fans pushing and shoving you, you may only get one. If you’re willing to pay a small amount of money, then book signings are an easy way to meet them.
This site has helped me meet celebrities such as the Glee cast, Adam Levine, and Mark Ruffalo.
By personalizing it, celebrities automatically recognize that you will not be selling it on the Internet.
A part of it is just being lucky, but also consider that this is New York City and celebrities are bound to be walking around. Most fans can easily find out where a certain celebrity is staying when they are in New York. If you wait outside the stage door of a Broadway or off-Broadway show, the celebrity is bound to come out at some point. While it may seem like a stupid idea at first to camp out for someone, meeting the celebrity after waiting for such a long time only makes the experience that much more memorable. You could read that article and nothing else, and it would be the 20% that give you 80% of your results. It does a lot for your confidence… and it does a lot for your ability to hang onto a girl you really like. But if you look at people who have similarly-veined full time jobs in their own right, you can make making women want you go a whole lot more smoothly, and a whole lot more easily. There is the art, the intuitive part of game… the calibration, the spontaneity and simply being creative in the moment. From psychology and biology, we know a lot about what women want, and a lot of behaviors can be predicted – and even triggered – quite consistently. And like anything where you're inviting people into a level of intimacy and closeness to you, you need to be very careful of the dangers that can come with that, too. MTV News recently sat down with Carpenter, who expertly broke down the gap between what we say and what we mean in our snaps … and shed light on the complicated code of conduct that comes with snapping, flirting and potentially dating. If I was talking to someone face-to-face I would always be clear, but with something like Snapchat, you need to keep the flirty banter going;otherwise you’ll be staring at an empty red arrow, cringing. But I think guys are afraid of being too straightforward too, so sometimes being coy gets you nowhere. I don’t know any girls who appreciate getting a close-up snap of a guy’s privates out of nowhere. There’s a few “typical guy” snaps I’ve seen before, like the “gym selfie” usually taken in the full-length mirror of a gym, or the “farmer’s tan” snap of their arm that just happens to be really muscular. We’ve all heard horror stories about a screenshot being passed around and ruining someone’s reputation. If you’re always the snapper and never the snappee, then maybe they’re just not that into you.
While the Chinese spot never gets robbed, the cashier is constantly degraded on some "Ching Wong Wang Gimmie my loosie and my 4 wings fried hard." Watch how he treats the cashier and how he speaks to them as it speaks to his character. You will have to go direct in this case, as you simply won’t have enough time to mess around with anything else. Then offer that maybe you might make an exception and take 20 minutes to grab a quick coffee with her, but you’re not sure yet.
Seriously though, fans will be on top of you and you might end up with a STD from the amount of pushing that will occur.


In my case, I was able to become family friends with someone who works closely with Kristin Chenoweth. Think for a second about how many celebrities come out with new television shows, books, fragrances, clothing lines, and more. It is often hard to get a picture with a celebrity at a book signing, especially if the celebrity has a large fanbase. For The Hunger Games book signing by the movie’s cast, I waited 23 hours outside of Barnes and Noble. It is hard to get information about movie premieres online, so your best bet is to ask around on the Internet or through a knowledgeable friend. It can be expensive and overpriced, but if you have the money, you might as well spend it on this. Instead, write a letter to the celebrities of your choice and give it to them when you meet them.
Keep in mind, though, that you may need to go an hour or more earlier if the celebrity has a large fan demographic. If you wait outside the stage door for a talk show, you will meet two or three celebrities a day. If you’re as big of a fanboy as me, then take these tips and start your obsessive stalking. Today I’ll cover the second part of the equation - what to do when you call girls and how to make it all go smooth. And getting better at dating and relationships - while certainly one of, if not the, most rewarding skills to get down - is quite possibly one of the most difficult things to get yourself motivated to work on. That's a little too extreme - I'll leave the abstinence education to the religious institutions.
They may notice how great a girl’s cleavage will look, but they may not realize that that’s exactly what she wanted them to see. It just makes guys come across as really sleazy, and the girl will automatically assume that he’s sent it to at least three other girls as well. I’d be too afraid of sending nudes for exactly that reason, but if you are considering it, ask yourself if you trust the person. These types will be genuine and if you keep coming and he's still there, he may have some potential. The supermarket is the goat of chance encounter spots as you are liable to find a man who is self sufficient, possibly health conscious, can cook, make decisions, find sales and manage his time. While Internet dating is a cornucopia of good and bad, I'd say the amount of bad outweighs the good as its too easy to lie online. Oh yeah, and if you choose to keep meeting men at footlocker or the club, dont say we didn't warn ya. Living in the city as a student of New York University, you will walk past celebrities every day. If you live in New York City and say that you never see celebrities, then you are either lying or too pretentious to care about them. There are so many filmings in the city that it is so easy to meet a celebrity if you have the patience to wait outside their trailer. Most times, VIP Nation includes a gift bag with goodies, a laminate, and a photo with the singer. Since celebrities have a lot of down time when they travel, they are more likely to read your letter. If you see a photo of them walking outside of a hotel, chances are it is probably their hotel. If you find out your celebrity crush is actually the most annoying obnoxious person on Earth, then it obviously reflects on your bad taste in men or women.
No one minds being bothered by a beautiful woman, and if you are one, you can easily ask for lifting advice without seeming thirsty. IF, however, u meet someone online through a mutual friend, your chances on not being raped and killed increase exponentially. If you don’t, you will eventually have the opportunity to build a relationship with someone who has connections; take advantage of this and network yourself. You have to sell your right arm to get these tickets, but it is probably worth it to be front row to see Beyonce half-naked on stage. On the other hand, if you go to their hotel and wait for them, remember that they now know you are officially a stalker and creepy person. The best talk show stage doors are Live With Kelly!, David Letterman, and The Wendy Williams Show.
There’s a Background Check app that can tell you some private information about celebrities. The physical aspect is taken care of and you can filter out by other variables, such as desired salary, by avoiding low budget, no frills gyms like the ones that are 9.99 a month.
It’s important to stay informed, so my biggest suggestion is to call the bookstore in advance. It's how the rich stay rich, it's how the rich got rich, and it's how you meet someone after already knowing everything about them. Heinekens & coronas only could mean he's never been further than his front stoop or it could mean he's trying not to be called bougie at the hood cookout.
That means he comes a lot, as just like in a relationship, you don't build gym rapport without commitment. This being said , it is the GOAT (greatest of all time) spot to add that extra switch to your walk and find a man.
Seriously, there are so many creepy teenagers on the internet, specifically on Tumblr, who just long to meet their celebrity crush. Craft beer usually means he's college educated or at the least has white friends and or an adventurous streak.
Trust me when I say that no matter how obsessed you are, there are forty people who would go all Bad Girls Club and Hunger Games on you. While the fact a man is in the liquor store doesn't automatically put him in a category, the info u can gain in this situation can be invaluable; as a meeting venue I give liquor store a B+.



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