What do you do when a potential date only wants to text but just doesn’t reply in a timely manner? We use text as a way to interact with almost everyone in our lives so when it comes to dating, most singles feel more comfortable texting than speaking. But what happens when you’re in text only communication mode and the man seems to lose track of time when it comes to his replies. It’s frustrating!
If there’s one thing I’ve learned about texting with men it’s this: text a man, like a man.
When you send texts to a man in the same way he texts you, you’re going to get a quicker response than if you text like a woman. First, think of why you’re texting him in the first place. You want to see him but he hasn’t made the moves so you’ve decided to help him along via a text. If you haven’t heard from the man you’re into for some time instead of just texting, ‘hey’ or ‘what’s up’ think about the way men text women to get their attention. Keep in mind that this is hinting, a form of communication that men don’t always understand. If you approach your texts as a way to open communication and not just when you want something men are quicker to respond.
The reason a man might not respond to your messages quickly is because you’ve already told him everything he needs to know in one (or three) texts. There’s nothing for him to ask so he won’t text you until he has something to say. You should always keep him on his toes, make him wonder what your doing, what your wearing etc. Well I have a microphone and you don't so you will listen to every damn word I have to say! Maybe you went on a date with a guy and realized you’d be better off just being friends. Source: ShutterstockExplainA simple "I just don't like you" might not be enough for some guys. Source: ShutterstockDon't Make Up ExcusesIf this guy keeps asking you to hang, don't lie to get out of it. Source: ShutterstockBe NiceDon't diss this guy in the process of rejecting him because that's going to hurt him even more. Source: ShutterstockDon't Keep Going OutIf you know right away that you're not into someone, whether you went on one date or he's your friend, don't keep going out with him. Source: ShutterstockDon't RespondIf none of the above work and this guy is still pushing you to hang out or be with him, stop responding. Give us your juiciest, wildest, weirdest and embarrassingest (it’s a word) hook up stories! We've all been there: You're newly single, still reeling from the sting of being dumped by your ex -- and desperately trying to avoid texting him or her.
But let the texts in the slideshow below be a warning to you -- though it's tempting to text, those post-split conversations never go as planned. By Hayley Quinn on October 27, 2010 Comments: 15How many times have you got that hot girl’s number, thinking that it’s ON only to get no reply from a girl to your first text?
In my first series of blog posts I’m going to give you some top tips on follow-up text game to ensure that not only do you get the girl you want replying, but on a date, and into your bed. The problem with a ‘cold’ number is that there may not have been enough time during the initial interaction to build sufficient rapport to get her out on a date with you….
People have busy lives full of competing demands from work, friends, family, and now you texting them.
If you just about got her number in a rush, if she seemed to hesitate when she gave it to you, or if there has been no significant sexual escalation yet (such as a kiss) then you need to pay attention to this. Ok guys next time I am going to write about how to go for the day two now that you’ve got that text conversation flowing. PLUS I'll give you a free subscription to my "Stealth Seducer" newsletter, packed full of powerful seduction techniques. I'd say text soon though (within hours)- seeing someone gives great plausible deniability for getting in touch.


If it weren't for you I would still be a virgin (at 20), severely depressed, constantly contemplating why I'm alive and thinking things will never change and that life will always be lonely, empty, and average at best. My life has totally changed right from the way I act to the way I think to the way I dress.. We understand the desire to feel things out, but it saves everybody time and stress when you spell out what you want. The German word "Fremdscham" doesn't have an English equivalent, but it roughly translates to "embarrassment on somebody else's behalf." Think about that. Unless your crush is your trainer, there is absolutely no need to provide a play-by-play of your gym routine.
I need to know how to keep him and to tell him that this baby is his and i want us to be a family. Without knowing much about the situation I can offer this solution: try to remove meaning from his response. Whatever the reasons, explain them, whether you value your friendship too much or you like someone else. If he likes you, he's probably going to keep finding ways to ask you out regardless of your excuses. I know it sounds really harsh, but if someone's making you uncomfortable then you don't need to fuel the fire. If you’ve just got a girl’s number on the street you have to be realistic that you may be low on her priority list, and competing against a doctor’s appointment, a work deadline, or a friend going through a break-up.
If possible, tie this relatable statement to the circumstances under which you met: from your initial interaction figure out what she maybe interested in. An even more effective way of doing this is to tie your text to the conversation you shared with her when you last met: If she mentioned something to you in conversation like what she was up to that day, or if you shared a joke or some rapport over a certain topic recall it in the text.
Also always keep the tone of the text friendly, light hearted and upbeat as texts can be easy to misconstrue negatively. If you have left it a while before you text her, you may also want to nickname yourself so that she remembers who you are.
In the future I’ll also hopefully be covering ping game, teasing and challenging via text.
I met this girl last month I think and she was nice and all and I didn’t see a good reason for not going after her. Be cool about it, nonchalant, and whilst you don't want to make a bee line for her be non reactive and cool around the girl. Her noticing you, noticing her, without you saying anything doesn't make you appear very confident. I think the female perspective made it more interesting as I have never read anything on texting from a girl's perspective. I've now got hot women begging me to take them out…They even go as far as running their fingers through my hair in the first few minutes we meet can you believe that so thanks a lot you guys are awesome!!! Now, are you ready to get your flirt on in a series of over-thought, awkward and uncomfortable text messages? It comes equipped with miscommunications, social faux-pas and attempts to divine your future prospects through emoji couplings.
If you take exactly double the time we took to reply, we will find you and throw our phones at you.
It's going to come out eventually that you can't tell the difference between a touchdown and a field goal.
Often times we want someone to text us back because we want to know that they care about us.
Or maybe your best guy friend is in love with you, and you’re strictly interested in being friends. Let him know you're flattered, but you're not interested in being anything more than friends.


It's not fair to lead that person on by flirting with them and making them think they've still got a shot.
By making a reference to these things she will feel like you share a perspective on something, which will create rapport. This is effectively jump starting the conversation again from where you last left it as you raced off to catch your bus, or stumbled out of a club at 3am.
Leave it two days before you make contact and rather than seeming blase she may have forgotten a lot of the positive feelings she would have received from the initial approach. If there is any other area of text game you want to hear about then please leave a comment below for me to give you my best HB opinion on. I might of made the mistake of saying that I would love if a guy did that to me a few days before.
If you go straight in and ask a girl for a date then it’s a high demand to make off of someone who was uncertain about you.
If she says she is free tonight then she will feel social pressure to agree to whatever ‘date’ you suggest. Unfortunately for him, I was so worried about the second option that I never replied again. If he had tried to build rapport first, then gone for a far less demanding and more specific date the outcome could have been very different. Remember you don’t want her to feel confused, bemused, or pressurized when she receives a text from you. Hopefully you’ll be hearing a lot more from me on text game, conversation skills and seduction in the future. I searched around web, came to this site and some others ’till I finnaly got the knowledge necessary to get out of the buddy zone.
If a man isn’t responding as quickly as you would like to your messages either make it known or stick to the old-fashioned phone call.
If so I’d probably classify this as a ‘warm’ interaction which I’ll discuss in a later blog post- but right now I’m going to focus on numbers that have been got when the woman isn’t already nearly certain that she wants to see you again.
Problem is, at this stage she maybe so worried about what date you could suggest (‘Do I really want to go to dinner with that guy I met in the street yesterday?’) that she is more likely to not respond, or make an excuse for why she might be busy (‘Maybe.
After I stopped sending her any texts, made a kick-ass re-entrance in her cellphone with very good messages, jokes and rapport and called her out again, she said yes. I just told her to tell me when she would be free so that I could be sure I would be there (I’m not really that busy).
If you still get nothing don't give up completely, just give her a whole lot of vacuum, then try to re-engage her a week or two later with a ping text.
If you remove the meaning from his lack of response hopefully it will matter less to you whether he responds or not.
I saw some posts about me having to keep the shit going till day 2, and for me that was ok. It has been only 2 days that we marked the date, I sent her a message just now and everything went fine… Then she talked about the date.
Well last week, Me, my brother, my cousin, and Willie were all talking like we normally do.
Before you leave I have to tell you that I have this Major crush on you!” And then he immediately said bye in a joking manner and left. Yeah, we all said things jokingly to eachother all the time, so I never assumed we’d be anything more than friends.
And I am more for the guy that I originally started hanging out with(Jon) because he could handle my personality better.
But if you’re the only girl in a group of four guys, like I am with our group of friends, he gets really nervous and turns bright red!



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