Elizabeth Richardson is a PHOTOGRAPHER, mother, teacher and author of the International Best Seller 500 Confessions.
Men would rather feel unloved than inadequate and disrespected.Husbands need to know that their wives respect them both privately and publicly. Shaunti Feldhahn’s research indicated that men would rather sense the loss of loving feelings from their wives than to be disrespected by them.2.
Men are insecure.Men are afraid that they aren’t cutting it in life –  not just at work, but at home, in their role as a husband. When they receive regular and genuine affirmation from their wives (not flattery, by the way), they become much more secure and confident in all areas of their lives.4. Men feel the burden of being the provider for their family.Intellectually, it doesn’t matter how much or little a man makes, or whether or not his wife makes more or less money in her career.
While wives cannot release their husbands from this burden, they can relieve it through a healthy dose of appreciation, encouragement and support.5.
Men want more s**x.Everyone’s natural response to this is probably, “Duh!” But, that response is probably for the wrong reason. We primarily assume that men want more s**x with their wives due to their physical wiring (their “needs”).

But, surprisingly, Shaunti Feldhahn’s research showed that the reason men want more s**x is because of their strong need to be desired by their wives. Sex means more than s**x.When men feel their wives desire them s*8xually, it has a profound effect on the rest of their lives. It gives them an increasing sense of confidence and well-being that carries over into every other area of his life. When a husband feels rejected s**xually, he not only feels his wife is rejecting him physically, but that she is somehow rejecting his life as a husband, provider and man. Men struggle with visual temptation.This means the vast majority of men respond to visual images when it comes to women.
Even the most godly husband cannot avoid noticing a woman who dresses in a way that draws attention to her body. Even if it is just a glance, these visual images are stored away in the male brain as a sort of “visual rolodex”; that will reappear without any warning.
Men can choose whether to dwell on these images and memories or dismiss them, but they can’t control when these images appear.8. Men enjoy romance, but doubt their skills to be romantic.True, many men appear to be unromantic clods, but it doesn’t mean that they want to be that way!

They are plagued by internal hesitations, perceiving the risk of humiliation and failure as too high.
Wives can do a great deal to increase their husbands’ confidence in their romantic skills through encouragement and redefining what romance looks like.
For example, a wife may balk when her husband asks her to go along to the hardware store, but it’s likely that he’s asking because he sees it as a time they can get away as a couple and hang out together. Men care about their wife’s appearance.This isn’t saying that all men want their wives to look like the latest supermodel.
What men really want is to know that their wives are making an effort to take care of themselves (and not letting themselves go) because it matters to them (the husbands!). Men want their wives to know how much they love them.This was the number one response of men.

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