Have you ever told yourself that people around you who are successful are the way they are because they have some secret that you do not have?
When you get right down to it, these mantras are not that complicated or even unknown to us, but it is just that we have programmed ourselves to believe otherwise. I am the most perfect version of me: One of the major mistakes that most people make is spend a lot of time on the many aspects of their own person that they feel are not perfect. The only opinion that matters is yours: We often go through life trying to please others and this can lead to a lot of strife in your life.
To laugh or cry is a choice: We are not saying that life does not have difficult moments but you also have to agree that certain moments in life could improve if you could improve your attitude. I thank the powers that be for what I have:  You need to start thanking your God or whatever you believe in for what you do have. Time spent regretting is a waste of time: Every minute you spend what has already passed and spend the time in regret is a minute wasted. Learn the lesson and move on: While we are all for letting the past go and not having regrets, the point to be noted here is that each mistake we committed in the past has a lesson hidden somewhere.
I forgive myself and promise not to do it again: When it comes to forgiveness, we find it the toughest to forgive ourselves. While this may sound very ridiculous, the best way to ensure that these mantras work for you is to look at the mirror every day and repeat these mantras to yourself. Assuming the qualifications are equal and there is nothing else to separate both candidates then I would go for the above scenario.
Thx for re putting it but yes i am a google person not a facebook or twitter i don’t care about any social network except for google.
17-year-old entrepreneur, investor, technical prodigy, business development consultant and motivational speaker. Every kid dreams of achieving a status of material wealth and at an early age, they also dream of changing the world. I say, at an early age, because they haven't been made aware of what the world considers success.
The world as we know it has decided that an individual's financial net-worth is the measure of success. Setting the precedent that success is simply the amount of money you've gained, personally, is the worst thing ever. Mark Zuckerberg didn't create Facebook to become an overnight billionaire, he created Facebook to connect people, to makes lives easier. Facebook's mission is to give people the power to share and make the world more open and connected. Bill Gates didn't create Microsoft to become an overnight billionaire and to become the World's richest person, he created it to makes lives easier. Microsoft's mission is to enable people and business throughout the world to realize their full potential.
Before their businesses became what they are today, their measurement of success wasn't the amount of money made through the ad placement or sales that were being driven in through the development of their ideas. I've come to the understanding in my life as I travel the country speaking to youth, hoping to change lives, that the word "net-worth" doesn't have to apply simply be the equation of, "Your Assests minus your Liabilities".
I see greater meaning in knowing that I've motivated someone with my story, inspired someone with my words, or impacted someone with my business rather than just enjoying the check that's offered.
But, we’re talking about good men, and sex is never enough for, and will never satisfy a good man.
Three weeks ago, a Christian brother approached me and said, I know porn is wrong but what’s a man to do when he’s neglected for so long?
Husband or wife, if you are measuring out sex to your spouse with a teaspoon, you are sinning and you’re setting up your spouse for sin. No, frequent sex isn’t some insignificant sideshow in the life of a good man but as important (and biblical!) as it is, it isn’t enough. Every good man knows when his wife is merely fulfilling a duty and it’s very unsatisfying to him because he cares deeply how his wife feels and what she experiences at an emotional level.
There was a time in our marriage when exhaustion from having 6 kids under 9 years old, stress, and medical trauma (Click Here to read about that) had its way with Lisa. Good men don’t want duty from their wives, they want heart, soul – connection at a spiritual level, because they care, they’re not mere takers.
My husband sent me a link to this article by way of explaining he was unsatisfied with our marriage. We have three kids, complex circumstances, high stress levels, and are being informed of only more and more health problems I have.
My husband has proven this to me and it truly is a comfort actually to know he cares about where my emotions lie. You both need to have others, wise, understanding, instructive, biblical, to come along side and help shepherd you through these things. It took me years to understand that for my husband, sex was about being part of me emotionally and spiritually and not just physically. All my years of duty sex (now far behind us) hurt my husband more than i could have imagined.
Chris, Thank you so much for your openness and for sharing your survey – You discovered a truth that surprises many wives of good men. No matter where you are on your marriage journey, she never stopped desiring to be cherished by you.
Practical, inspiring wisdom that will make a real difference in how to understand and love the woman God chose for you. It takes confidence to know that your idea is the right idea and that your idea will change the course of the web. Take for instance a site like Pandora, a name that was rolling off of everyone’s tongue daily on my college campus. Young people today have the tools they need, most of the time at their finger tips to create any site their heart desires. Description: Send The Free HD A successful man is Whatsapp Wallpaper from the above resolutions, Just click on image and share in your Whatsapp group. Modern MarriedRelationship Advice For Women on How To Create a Life You Love with the Love of Your Life Learn How to Create a 5 Star Marriage with "The Love Upgrade" + VIP access to our classes and coaching programs. If you have ever wondered what makes men happy in marriage, we have the answers for you here today!
What an honor and delight to have Marriage & Family Counselor and Superstar Blogger, Aaron Anderson sharing his insights with us.
I have recruited the hubby to share his views from time to time to bring the masculine energy and wisdom to our soulful conversations.
All the love songs, movies and books out there are about a man wooing a woman trying to win over her affections.
But even though men may want to be loved and cared for, they want to be shown it differently than women.


And despite what the Superbowl ads would lead you to believe, most men don’t feel close to women while drinking beer and watching them dance in bikinis, either. So how do men want to feel loved and what can wives do to show their husbands that they care?
Men want a woman who is fiercely independent, who has her own desires, goals, drives and plans how to achieve them. Men absolutely love it when their wives are in tune with them enough to know when they’ve had a bad day and need to be left alone and when they’ve had a bad day and need someone to talk to about it. Wives often fill their day with so many things with the kids, that when night time comes and it is just the two of them together, the wife has spent all her energy on the children and has none left for her husband. She forgets what’s going on at his work, what his friends are doing or how his latest hobby is going – but she can probably say exactly what score their oldest got on their spelling test or what boy their daughter likes.
Men love it when their wives plan a date for the weekend to go a comedy club or a restaurant and then out for drinks afterwards. Instead of their spouse criticizing them and pointing out flaws (which makes men feel their relationship is on dangerous ground), men want a wife who will be patient with him when he feels challenged by his shortcomings. A man likes to know that his wife won’t take advantage of his shortcomings and will keep his insecurities safe while he’s working on them. Even though men get a bad reputation for being the least romantic of the two sexes, they still like romance. They also want to feel like they’re safe in their relationship with a partner who loves them and is invested in them. Aaron Anderson a Licensed Marriage Counselor and owner of The Marriage and Family Clinic in Denver, CO. Reaching across the magical ethers from Miami to Colorado to give Aaron a big hug and thanks for this thoughtful and generous view of what makes men happy in marriage. And if that seems like a big question listen to this free podcast where we go deep into how to connect with your spouse when you are not on the same page and create a “communication highway” for the free flow of both easy and delicate topics. Posted on: November 7, 2013 8 Comments Filed Under: Healthy Relationships, Marriage AdviceLove this post? My wife used to carry all my crap in her purse, my glasses, nail clippers, stevia, nail file, etc. Thank you Maggie for helping us focus on what is working in our marriages and how we might do more to open a greater space for love to grow – you are truly serving the world! I help Smart, Soulful, Successful women (just like you!) have healthier, happier, sexier marriages using simple tools I share on the blog and in my personalized coaching programs.
After years working on the HR side of luxury hospitality, I realized, 5 star hotels are fabulous, but 5 star marriages are even better! Plus regular bursts of soul-filled, love-soaked inspiration + VIP access to our classes and coaching programs. The Secret Deciphered For You - May 1, 2015 Love Or Arranged Marriage Prediction Calculator (Logical) - March 11, 2015 What To Do When You Realize That Your Husband Wants To Divorce You? We are sure most of us either put the immense success that some people enjoy down to immense luck or access to some resources that you do not have. That is why we feel that while we have no control over the events in our lives to a large extent, our reaction to these situations is in your control. The fact is most of us spend our lives paying too much attention to what we do not have and not being grateful for what we do have. Many of us lose sight of the present and the future because we are too invested in what happened in the past. You will need to look at the past mistakes in that light, find out what lesson it has to offer and learn the lesson and then move on. This means that you spend too much time detesting ourselves and this is definitely a good way to live your life. You will need to keep repeating these mantras and positively affirm them till they become part of you. Equality at the workplace and the idea that just because women might have babies in their future is something that would hinder them from getting a promotion. Well I didn’t realize there were people still sharing the comic on google plus so I removed the google share button. But I’m sure you hire a person based on their qualifications rather than their gender, right? Otherwise of course the most qualified person for the job regardless of colour, gender, ethnicity, religious beliefs and amount of imaginary friends will get the job. The 5-year-old is going to categorize success as someone they hear about everyday in their Pre-K class, someone who is saving the world, "One villain at a time!". More specifically, I believe the number of people you have impacted or the lives you have changed is your net-worth. Your net-worth not being your financial possessions, but your net-worth being the number of lives you've changed.
There’s always a grain of truth in a cliche or a stereotype and, admittedly, with the subject of Christian men and sex (just like the general culture) there’s more than a grain of truth to the cliche.
We’re often surprised at how many women write to us, frustrated at being deprived by their husbands.
They want their wives to receive from them, too, and receiving involves not merely being present but desiring to be present. Has life, stress, disappointments, challenges overtaken your desire to be one with your husband?
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This means that when clicked and the item is purchased, the seller sends to me an affiliate commission. When I asked him what he felt I needed to do to correct that, all his answers centered around sex, not a relationship. My time, interests, pursuits, body are not my own but an integral part of my wife’s personhood.
Your personal situation needs the personal involvement of someone who is discerning, wise, biblical, and present in your lives.
I did a survey about duty sex last fall and learned that many men would rather have no sex at all than have sex that was only about their physical release. Subscribe Today and I'll also send you a FREE digital copy of my Book, 10 Things You Won't Find in a Godly Marriage.
It's practical and gives new or old husbands actionable steps to love your wife as Christ loved the church. I think of the many blogs that have how-to sites that help people repair or even install software on their computers. A Pandora reference would creep its way into a lunch time conversation just about every day. No commercials were needed to promote Pandora, but it was and still is used quite frequently.


All you need is adobe suite, preferable: Flash, Dreamweaver, Photoshop and a working knowledge of how the internet works.
As a site run by a woman and written for women, I am endlessly curious about the male side of things.
I am so thrilled to add to our male voices with this heartfelt guest post where Aaron tells us the truth about what men really want out of marriage. Thanks to our hunter-gatherer ancestors, somehow men got stuck with a bad reputation when it comes to romance. But times have changed and men don’t need to protect against wild predators who are trying to eat their families anymore. Men don’t want to be taken to a good chick flick or watch a movie that makes them cry to feel close to their spouse. Men like that their wives need them but not to the point that their wife relies on them for every small thing – this feels smothering.
They like a wife who can accomplish her goals on her own (and will) but invites her husband to do things with her because it means more when he’s there.
They may not ask for help when they’re working around the house, but they like to feel like their wife takes care of them everywhere else. Just like women like to be taken out on dates by their husband to be romanced and wooed, men also like to be taken out on dates.
The fact that their wife took the time to plan something they thought their husband would like is a good enough feeling that men often don’t care what they do as long as their wife planned it and thought of their husband in the mean time. And a man especially wants to feel like his wife is supportive of him in his challenges and isn’t using his challenges as reasons to walk away. Underneath is a person who wants to be cared for, loved and take care of just as much as you do.
In addition to counseling, he is also a writer for various blogs and websites all related to marriage and families. By practicing these 5 tips, we not only create a deeper love and appreciation in our marriage, we are providing the best of role models for our children. While we believe that, there is a small luck or chance factor that plays a role that definitely is not the key to the success of these people.
This can put a lot of pressure on you; what would work better would be to start telling yourself that you are perfect that way you are?
At a certain point in your life, you have to start owning your life and that the only opinion that matters is your own as you are the one who is living your life.
A little bit of humor can go a long way to ensuring that you sail through some tough times instead of lamenting over it.
So repeating this mantra about not regretting the past and letting it go is another mantra that will take you up the ladder of success and happiness. The thing to do is forgive yourself with the promise that you do not repeat the same mistake again.
It’s like saying that a man cannot get a promotion because he might have a skiing accident in his future and that might stop him from doing his job. Whereas a male, he only needs to through a piece of paper saying he’s going on paternity leave without any prior notice. Ask a 5-year-old, who's successful and they'll say something along the life of Batman or maybe even Dora.
However, the 16-year-old is going to see success as someone who's driving the nicest Rolls Royce Phantom or has the house with 15 bathrooms and a spa in the basement. To my knowledge, I don't think they have an issue on the world's biggest philanthropists or humanitarians. Neither of their missions state that their purpose is to amass billions, they both specifically mention people.
I suggest involving a biblical (imperative!) and wise couple you both trust who can help you navigate the issues in your relationship. Please seek the help you need locally, among those whom you can trust and who will hold you both accountable. Wrong, the World Wide Web allows for your ideas to come to fruition if you have the drive and work ethic to see your dream happen. Think about how many times you’ve searched the web to find out the best way to instal a hard drive into your computer. Think about the idea of a site that plays music according to what your music interests are. Poetry was his introduction to exploring writing as an art and not just something that has to be done. So underneath their calloused ‘nothing bothers me’ exterior, what do men really want in a relationship? Men want a woman who doesn’t need them but she asks for him to be in her life because she wants him. He is on the Board of Directors of The Colorado Association of Marriage and Family Therapists and is the editor for the Marriage Section of the Good Men Project.
However, they may have access either to some secret mantras that they are using to make themselves successful, consciously or without even being conscious of it. Ask a 16-year-old, and you're guaranteed to hear someone along the lines of Beyonce or Kim Kardashian.
In 1 Corinthians 7, the Bible is crystal clear that husbands and wives should make love often to avoid temptation.
If you don’t know where to start, begin by asking God to bring these people into your life and to teach you what He wants you to know, understand, and do.
But not only e-commerce sites, but sites dedicated to connecting you with a lover, family member or old classmates. Somebody thought, “Hey this is a novel idea.” Sure enough it was, many people tuned into Pandora and now Spotify seems to be taking its place. Of course it takes an entrepreneur’s spirit and an attitude of giving up and not be afraid of a little hard work.
You can get his great information about marriage on his Facebook page, by following him on twitter or on his blog the Relationship Rx. Find Out If You Are - August 10, 2015 Don’t Try To Make Someone Love You – It Is Impossible! I didn’t know until later but, she had begun to pray, God, please fill me with desire for my husband.



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