She finds you attractive and wants to make it clear, so you then approach her and start a conversation. She’s just randomly staring at you because she’s deep in thought or thinking about life.
She wants to see if you have the confidence to maintain eye contact with her, rather than looking away quickly like most guys do. She wants to get random guys interested in her to make her female friends jealous that she is getting a lot of attention.
As you can see from the list above, trying to figure out exactly what is going on in a woman’s mind is usually a waste of time. For example: Some women are shy, so even if she is really attracted to a guy, she might avoid looking at him in case they make eye contact.
If he approaches her, she might react by pretending not to be interested in him, even though she is secretly hoping he’ll sweep her off her feet. She will act as though she is shocked by his approach, but in almost all cases, she is simply testing his confidence and seeing if the guy will react by feeling rejected or trying to impress her even more. Women like that need a confident guy will simply laugh and continue talking to her, because he knows that women often behave like that to test guys. Some women are more forward and are not afraid to show their interest in a guy, so they will smile, stare of even wave at a guy from a distance. So, she will often act as though she doesn’t even care to meet any guys and is perfectly happy on her own. In that way, only the confident guys (or the drunk guys who will probably get rejected) will have the courage to approach her.
If she does decide to show some interest by staring at a guy, she will almost always make him confused by the signal, to make sure that she doesn’t attract an insecure, self-doubting guy. When he then approaches, the woman will usually pretend as though she hadn’t even seen him and will act surprised that he approached her, because she instinctively wants to test his level of confidence and social intelligence. If he remains confident and relaxed, she will then begin to open up to him and show additional signs of her interest in him (e.g. If he is then able to build on her attraction by displaying more of the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that women find naturally attractive (e.g. As you will discover from the video above, what really matters is how much or little attraction you can make a woman feel for you during an interaction. If a woman stares at a guy and he walks over, begins to make her feel attracted to him and passes her confidence tests, she will let down her guard and open up to him. On the other hand, if he seems nervous and unsure of himself, she will quickly lose interest in him. She won’t want to allow herself to get involved with a guy who will probably need her to support him emotionally in a relationship, or constantly try to encourage him to be more confidence in himself. She will want a confident guy who believes in himself, so she can then relax into being his woman, rather than having to waste a lot of energy taking care of an insecure guy. So, instead of worrying about what it means when a woman stares at you, focus instead on what you want from her. For example: If you find her attractive and would like to have sex with her or date her, then simply focus on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction for you.
You are attracted to her, so you now need to make her attracted to you by displaying some of the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that naturally attract women (e.g.
Don’t expect her to be clear about her interest in you prior to the approach or during an interaction, because most women simply don’t want to make it easy for insecure guys to get a chance with them.
She needs you to believe in yourself and your ability to attract her and then approach and make that happen, with or without her reassurance.
Quite often, when a guy notices that a woman is staring at him, he will begin to over-analyze it in his head because he knows that for most guys, when they stare at a woman, it clearly means they feel sexually attracted to her because of how she looks. If she doesn’t do anything else but stare at him, he might start thinking, “Okay, she’s staring at me… maybe she likes me. Since he feels attracted to women based mostly on how they look, he assumes that women select men for the same reasons. As you will discover from the video above, most guys who fail with women don’t even know the real reason why women reject them or dump them. Most guys never get taught how to attract women and waste their life thinking that, unless they are good looking or rich, beautiful women won’t want anything to do with them.
What most guys don’t realize is that they have to CREATE feelings of attraction inside of a woman by interacting with her. If a guy isn’t good looking, he needs to accept the fact that if he wants to have sex or a relationship with a beautiful woman, he will need to attract her in other ways. He can’t expect her to want him because he is wearing a nice shirt, is a good guy or has a good job.
You’ve got to talk to the woman in person and make her feel sexually attracted to you by displaying some of the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that women naturally find attractive in men. For example: A man can feel attracted and willing to have sex and a relationship with a woman, regardless of whether she is nice, intelligent, or interesting to talk to. If she looks good, almost all guys in the planet will be willing to stick it in her at least once and many of those guys will also be interested in a relationship.
On the other hand, a woman might stare at a guy and even think, “He’s cute…I think I might like him,” but in most instances, she’s not going to do anything about it.
She’s going to wait and see if he has the confidence to approach her and interact with her, or if he’s just another insecure guy who is afraid of women. Only when she has interacted with him in person will she then make her decision about whether she will give him her number, have sex with him, or date him. Women can feel attracted to many different things about a man other than his appearance (e.g. A woman might be staring at a guy because she thinks he is good looking, but if she feels bored or turned off while interacting with him, she’s not going to want to have sex with him or date him just because he’s physically attractive. Yes, some women will only date and have sex with very good looking guys, but the majority of women need to feel attracted to a man’s personality and behavior, rather than just mere looks. So, when a woman stares at you, don’t waste time debating whether she really likes you or whether you’re good looking enough for her or not. What her stare means really doesn’t matter when you have the confidence to approach her and make her feel attracted to you in other ways (e.g.
By triggering her feelings of sexual attraction she will become interested in you even if she initially thought she wasn’t, or that you weren’t her physical type. If you’re not a very good looking guy, rather than stand around feeling insecure about it and hoping she’ll approach you, just walk over to her and let her experience your attractive personality traits during an interaction. Stop waiting for women to make it extremely obvious that they are willing to be approached by you, before you will make your move.
Confidently walk up to her and focus on making her feel sexually attracted to during the interaction.
Don’t try and get her to like you by pretending to be an even nicer guy than you really are, because that will only make her think of you as a friend.
Simply focus on triggering her feelings of sexual attraction for you and the rest will follow naturally. As you will discover from the video above, you are in control of how you use the power of your mind. You can either use it to become and be confident, or to become more insecure and be that way for life.
Women love guys who are a bit of challenge, because most guys are usually very easy to impress.
If a woman is attractive, most guys will have sex with her at least once and many of those guys will also be interested in a relationship…even if they don’t like her personality. So, rather than fall all over yourself to please her, hold back and allow your interest in her to rise and fall based on how well she is treating you.
Have standards about what you like and dislike when interacting with women and then let her see (by way of your body language, vibe, conversation style) that you are losing or gaining interest in her based on how she interacts with you. Pretending that you only have friendly intentions with a woman is a mistake that can backfire. While you are pretending to just want to be an innocent friend to her, you run the risk of some other guy coming along and triggering her feelings of sexual desire. You’ve got to talk to her in a way that makes her feel turned on, as well as show her that you’re interested in her sexually by the way you look at her, or by telling her that you think she’s sexy.
If you want sex or a relationship, focus on making her feel sexually attracted to you, not on trying to be an innocent friend. You can sit around wondering, “What does it mean when a woman stares at you?” but the truth is that you’ll never know until you approach her. I will email you 3-4 times a week with new tips, techniques and examples of how to attract women for sex and relationships. I didn't know what to say or do to attract women, so I was single and alone for a long time.
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I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too. Is sexually attracted to you and is trying to hint that she wants you to make a move on her.
Is a touchy-feely person who touches most guys on the arm, leg, shoulder, etc during a conversation. Is very passionate about the conversation and she’s touching your arm to emphasize her point, but doesn’t mean anything sexual by it. Is a tease and is simply trying to get your hopes up, so you then treat her better and boost her self-esteem by showing her more interest.
In most cases, you can’t because sometimes a woman will touch your arm without any sexual intentions, whereas other times it will be her way of trying to show you that she is interested.


So rather than wasting time trying to work out if she is just being friendly or is being sexual, you simply need to focus on building up her sexual attraction for you. If you’re just having a friendly conversation with a woman and she’s not displaying any other obvious feelings of attraction, then it doesn’t necessarily mean that she is attracted to you simply because she touched your arm. For example: Some women are very expressive and like to talk with their hands, and this might include touching a guy on the arm in a friendly way during conversation. Additionally, some married women who have become a loving, caring mother at home know how soothing a touch on the arm, a hug, a pat on the back or a pat on the leg can be to someone.
She might touch most people like that because she wants people to feel good, relaxed and loved when around her, but it doesn’t mean that she has any intentions of having sex with anyone other than her husband.
To know for sure if a woman’s touch is suggesting that she is sexually attracted to you, she has to be showing you other signs of interest at the same time. She’s giving you submissive looks by tilting her head to one side, or by dropping her chin. She touches you on other parts of your body like on your leg, face, and possibly even hitting you on your butt in a playful way.
Those are very obvious signs of sexual attraction and if a woman is doing that when interacting with you, it’s pretty clear that she is interested in having sex with you or at least kissing you to see how it feels. However, regardless of whether a woman is showing any of these other signs of interest or not, it’s not a foolproof way to determine whether she is actually attracted to you or not. A confident woman who wants a confident boyfriend or lover will not give extremely obvious signals, because she doesn’t want to make it easier for nervous, shy guys to hook up with her.
She wants to find a confident guy, so if a guy is nervous and waits too long to make a move, she will usually lose interest and then reject him when he tries to make a move. On the other hand, a shy woman will often be too afraid to give you signals of interest because she is worried about being rejected by you or concerned that other people might think she is too easy when it comes to sex. For example: A shy woman might touch you on the arm during conversation, but she won’t necessarily do anything else to show you that she is interested.
So, instead of waiting around hoping to get a definite, “Yes, I’m 100% interested in you. Just like you can feel a powerful attraction for a woman, she can feel a powerful, irresistible attraction for you too. When you are interacting with a woman, she will feel an increasing amount of attraction for you as long as you display some of the personality traits, behaviors and inner qualities that are naturally attractive to women.
For example: Confidence, charisma, charm, masculine vibe, the ability to make her laugh and smile, etc.
She won’t be able to stop herself from feeling attracted to you because women feel a natural attraction to guys who display those traits. If you like this woman who touched your arm, all you really need to do is make her feel attracted, build up the sexual tension between you and her, and then release it via kissing and sex.
If she currently views you in a neutral way or sees you as being just a friend, her feelings for you will change if you simply start triggering her feelings of sexual attraction. For example: If you think back in your life, you might remember a time where there was a person at school, university or work that really annoyed you. However, when they changed their behavior, attitude and communication style towards you, your feelings towards them changed as well. In the same way, when you change your behavior, attitude, conversation style and the way you interact with a woman to a way that triggers feelings of sexual attraction inside her, she will go from seeing you as being just a friend, to feeling excited about the idea of being kissed, having sex and getting into a relationship with you.
Regardless of whether a woman touches your arm during conversation, is sending you every signal possible to get you to make a move, or is simply being friendly, if you are interested in starting a sexual relationship with her, then it’s up to you to make the first move.
Most women would rather miss out on being with a guy, rather than her being the one who has to make the first move. If a guy is attracted to a woman, but doesn’t have the courage to actively trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for him, he might make the mistake of being a nice friend to her in the hopes that the friendship will somehow lead to sex or a relationship. Yet, unlike using the power of attraction to get instant results with women, building a friendship with a woman can take weeks, months or even years of effort. After investing all his time in being her friend, it still doesn’t guarantee that she will be sexually interested in him in any way. If you don’t actively make a woman feel sexually attracted to you when you interact with her, she will only ever see you as a friend. He will then start a sexual relationship with her and they will become boyfriend and girlfriend, rather than friend and friend.
To make her become his girlfriend, he didn’t waste time pretending to want to be her friend. He did it the easy way (and the way that women actually want) by making her feel attracted to him and turned on while interacting with him. After kissing and having sex, they will then begin to discuss having a relationship and if they both want it, they will become boyfriend and girlfriend.
All of that can happen within hours or days, rather than wasting weeks, months or years trying to be a woman’s friend.
So don’t make the mistake of assuming that if you become her friend she will eventually tell you that she loves you and you can then have sex with her and start a relationship. If you want this woman to be your girlfriend or lover, simply trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you and get to a first kiss and then sex. It is entirely possible that if a woman touches your arm during conversation, it means that she is attracted to you.
So, if you don’t make a move because you are afraid of being rejected, you will never get to experience a loving, sexual relationship with her. No one is 100% compatible with everyone they meet, so no guy can ever expect to pick up every woman he meets. Most guys don’t know that and feel as though if one woman rejects him, it means that all other women will reject him too. Guys like that often get to a point where they’d rather miss out on love and sex by not making a move on a woman, than get rejected and have to endure the painful the feeling of another woman not being interested in him. He will paint himself into a corner of insecurity and he will go through life missing out on opportunities with women (even if a woman is sending him a sign that she’s interested in him), because he has developed a negative idea about what really appeals to women, and he fears that he will get rejected because he doesn’t have those things. Yes, there are some women who will only accept a tall, male model looking guy with loads of money, but most women are much more flexible and open about what they find attractive in a guy. Essentially, when a guy believes in himself, knows what he wants and goes after it with determination, a woman will instinctively feel attracted to him. Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what it means when a woman touches your hand in conversation, what matters is whether you are making her feel attracted to you and then have the confidence to make a move when the moment is right. Just remember though: Regardless of what you want from a woman, the first thing that you must do is trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you, and then everything else will follow on naturally and easily after that. I will e-mail you 3-4 times a week with new secrets, techniques and examples of how to attract women for sex and relationships.
I was having a conversation with a dear friend of mine the other night and the conversation took us to a couple we know.  My friend indicated that there was some seemingly trouble in Paradise as the male partner in the relationship had shared that there is some tension and they are having some struggles. Is there a difference from being a “diva” and wanting to be treated like a princess?
The above is the obvious princess that the majority of us think of when we hear the term “princess” but what does it mean when you have the common, every day, girl next store type saying it? O’ my little grasshopper here I will share with you some of the most valuable insight into understanding women you will ever learn. Women want to be the Princess of your life and they want you to be the Prince they have always dreamed of. Dating CoachKK, Kimberly Koehler is the leading dating and relationship coach in Minneapolis, MN who helps men and women globally. The point is that men clearly can be guided by their emotions too, even if the emotional response is different.
Now, this doesn’t sound like the archetype of a rational being assessing whether or not his decisions are aligned with his aims and actions.
Comment Disclaimer: Comments that contain profane or derogatory language, video links or exceed 200 words will require approval by a moderator before appearing in the comment section. You have made the best comment thus far, I was wondering was I the only one who question that whole scenario.
Yep I agree, homeboy was already sweet as peach cobler and was down with it, or the letter is a LIE.
My best male friend used to joke that I was either born a man and nobody knows or I had a whole lot of testosterone.
I completely agree, but people shouldnt beat on steve harvey, I think he’s restating some common sense facts to women who may need to hear it. Steve Harvey, who has even stated he is not a relationship expert said that the basis of the book was for women to understand men and how they think and rationalize situations, not for women to embody men.  I think Dr. She will hope that you are getting the message and make a move, but if you don’t she will either start looking for another guy or wait and hope that you eventually make a move on her.
Go ahead and make a move on me” or “No, I’m only being friendly when I touch your arm.
He pretends to be her friend in the hopes that it will slowly lead to sex and a relationship. She might then decide to hook up with another guy who has the ability to attract her and turn her on.
He might say, “I’m just not good looking enough,” or “Women are just not attracted to short guys like me,” etc.
One of the points that my friend shared was that the female partner of the couple has been tell the male that she is a Princess, a comment that my friend had to point out having heard from me a time or two.
A women that’s self-centered, expects to be showed in lavish gifts, and is expecting to live a luxurious life style. He is romantic, he is a gentlemen, he is masculine, physically strong, and emotionally available to her.
Most women are romantics at heart and they long to have their significant other to ignite romance in their relationship and treat them like the Princesses they are.


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My FREE gift to you will assist you in taking control of your dating life by educating you on the top 7 behaviors that sabotage your dating efforts. His thoughts are that the modern day version of manhood has been tainted by the commercialization of hip hop, in which sex is more celebrated than  healthy relationships. However, I actually get the spirit of what Harvey is saying, although I don’t agree with how he goes about telling women to implement his advice.
Last year, the Washington Post had a column about how women should shop with the same level of brand unconsciousness, and emphasis on quality of garment, as men.
Yet how we compartmentalize our differences has little to do with biological and more to do with societal influences and prejudices.
Even science has suggested that while men and women basically have the same hardware, it’s the software instructions and how they are put to use that makes the sexes seem different. Well, because it does the same sort of pandering to so called gender specific traits that suggest that women are naturally irrational and men are the only gender capable of being logical. What man can through text make u believe he is a woman than blackmail u to have sex with him. Steve Harvey for keeping me in business. At our center, we currently have 3 new womens groups because of this book. We all have girlfriends who are so reckless in how they date then wonder why they are always getting played. I know this doesnt sound great, but I always had 4 or 5 guys that I dated that each served their purpose.
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Don’t do anything or I will reject you and tell everyone that you hit on me,” you simply need to believe in the power of attraction. She is the women that has closets upon closets of shoes and clothing that of course where given to her by her adoring male counter part(s).
He brings her flowers, he buyers her small and large gifts, he showers her with love, affection, attention, and every female friend she has is jealous that he is hers.
After all isn’t that why you picked them to begin with, because you too believe they are the Princess of your life?
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I also would much rather create a memory however I am not going to lie, flowers to brighten the house, my desk, or my day touches my heart and does make me go awww as well. However, the core of his message is this: Too often women settle for the first man that shows them the least bit of attention instead of dating around to find the right man period. Even in advertising we find images of women using their heart to determine purchases and men, being the more stable of genders allegedly, relying strictly on their brains.
That basically means that while he might not pour his heart out to you in sonnets and prose, he might be reduced to tears if his favorite football or basketball team loses the important game.
For example, in one of Harvey’s infamous Strawberry Letters, a 26-year-old man involved with a woman started receiving anonymous texts from another a woman. LOL I have not NEVER been any of what you described and I thought I was crazy and the only one left of my species but then I read from you! I managed  found a guy that possesses all of the qualities that I was always searching for in my now husband. Others give away freely the things that should only be earned. I try and live a simple relationship rule. God made to think differently because maybe, just MAYBE, there are times when one needs to lead with logic instead of emotion and other times it is the other way around.
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The message is clear: women are emotional and men, well they are the rationale bunch of the genders. For instance, a few years ago I got into a heated debate with a high school friend, via Facebook, over his assertion that women were too emotional to lead and that men, were better equipped because it was there nature to be rational. He began sexting with this woman and soon arranged a date to meet this mysterious person at a public place. A purely emotional response probably would have been to act out of anger, kick the guys behind and then think about how it will affect his relationship later. Much respect to Steve Harvey, but ladies be more careful about who you chose to take relationship advice from. I guess that is why I have literally 1 real close, who is actually my sister in law, because she is just like you and me and I just can’t relate to the majority of women who display those characteristics and issues.
She spends all her time at the salon and in her mind she is hot stuff and you better be thinking the same thing, if not she will make sure you do. I challenged his theory by spending the rest of the afternoon, intentionally and calculatingly pushing his buttons until he exploded with name calling and yelling, which was demonstrated by the overuse of capital letters. Upon his arrival, he learned that this mysterious woman was in fact an old college buddy, who was secretly in the closet. Or it could have meant ignoring the mysterious text messages all together out of guilt he would have felt about the possible hurt he could have bestowed on his lady.
Honesty is paramount, be honest and respectful of each others feelings from day one and you will most likely be able to see through most of the BS that confounds and crushes most relationships. I never needed to cheat on any girlfriend I ever had and I know I’m not the only guy who lives like this so honest men are out there.
By Vin DiCarlo Tweet Pin It The Lessons To Be LearnedSo you had a good first date, and now you’re right outside your front door. If you are in need of help seek professional counseling or a least seek someone who has had a successful relationship. Personally, I never had to experience the challenges of the of the aforementioned men, but I’ve been friends with all of them. After you pump your fist in the air once or twice, and give yourself a quick pat on the back, you start to wonder: “What did that mean? What they all had in common is that they stayed single for long periods of time, but when a woman actual saw them for who they were, those relations tend to florish.
Some of the ladies out there need to understand, that if you keep looking for ballers, players and pimps, don’t be shocked when you are fouled on, gamed on, or tricked-out. Does she really like me or did she just want sex?”And no matter how you try to shake it – these thoughts burn through your mind, until you’re wondering whether you should call her again.
Its shocking to watch my female peers debase themselves with self esteem crushing behavior all over some guy.
Or not.In this article, I’m gonna try to give you some perspective on what really happened during your one-night – or more – stand. Or was she just “in the mood?” Despite what romance novels and corny movies say – here’s the truth! So, let’s dig into it:The first question on your mind is probably, “What did this mean?”What did it mean that we slept together on the first date? Well, have you ever suggested being “exclusive” to a woman just because you wanted to keep her around? If you’re having great sex together, you will both naturally gain feelings for each other, and want to be exclusive. So just look as first date sex as a great start to what may – or may not – turn into a great relationship. Because women KNOW how to get sex from men, and good looking women always have men following them.So for a woman to go after a man she DOESN’T like for sex is so rare, it’s not even worth talking about here. Check your inbox to confirm!Something went wrong.We respect your privacy and take protecting it seriously Tweet Pin It Related Posts 60 Single Man LifeFeeling Bad? If you guys hooked up on your first date, she was so attracted and turned on by you, she needed to have you. Try Following This Advice In This Exact Moment 461 Success With WomenWhy YOU Are Not Getting More Successful With Women Comments(2) Jim August 25, 2014 Most of them are nowadays. In her mind, you’re doing well.And since relationships naturally evolve out of sex – she could very well be a great girlfriend as well. There’s a good chance she doesn’t casually hook up, and there’s an even better chance she’s worried about coming across like a slut.So when you get in touch with her again, make sure you’re reassuring.
Many men act the same way during those times.Personally, I have always found most married women easier to get along with than single women.
The easiest way to have MORE one night stands is to have a great attitude about one night stands. And it all stems from you RESPECTING the woman you’re with – even if it’s just for a night.How can you tell if she’s going to be a good girlfriend? Plus, you get a full week’s worth of pretty good to great sex from what usually would have been a one night stand!
This skill allows you to practically “sneak” inside a woman’s mind, and feed back to her exact thoughts. For more information, including how you can get more information - for free - Click Here to watch the Mind Reading Video. Simple Trick Tells You if a Girl Wants You to Kiss HerDo girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?Let's face it.




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