Modern MarriedRelationship Advice For Women on How To Create a Life You Love with the Love of Your Life Learn How to Create a 5 Star Marriage with "The Love Upgrade" + VIP access to our classes and coaching programs. If you have ever wondered what makes men happy in marriage, we have the answers for you here today! What an honor and delight to have Marriage & Family Counselor and Superstar Blogger, Aaron Anderson sharing his insights with us. I have recruited the hubby to share his views from time to time to bring the masculine energy and wisdom to our soulful conversations. All the love songs, movies and books out there are about a man wooing a woman trying to win over her affections.
But even though men may want to be loved and cared for, they want to be shown it differently than women.
And despite what the Superbowl ads would lead you to believe, most men don’t feel close to women while drinking beer and watching them dance in bikinis, either.
So how do men want to feel loved and what can wives do to show their husbands that they care? Men want a woman who is fiercely independent, who has her own desires, goals, drives and plans how to achieve them.
Men absolutely love it when their wives are in tune with them enough to know when they’ve had a bad day and need to be left alone and when they’ve had a bad day and need someone to talk to about it. Wives often fill their day with so many things with the kids, that when night time comes and it is just the two of them together, the wife has spent all her energy on the children and has none left for her husband. She forgets what’s going on at his work, what his friends are doing or how his latest hobby is going – but she can probably say exactly what score their oldest got on their spelling test or what boy their daughter likes. Men love it when their wives plan a date for the weekend to go a comedy club or a restaurant and then out for drinks afterwards. Instead of their spouse criticizing them and pointing out flaws (which makes men feel their relationship is on dangerous ground), men want a wife who will be patient with him when he feels challenged by his shortcomings. A man likes to know that his wife won’t take advantage of his shortcomings and will keep his insecurities safe while he’s working on them.
Even though men get a bad reputation for being the least romantic of the two sexes, they still like romance. They also want to feel like they’re safe in their relationship with a partner who loves them and is invested in them.
Aaron Anderson a Licensed Marriage Counselor and owner of The Marriage and Family Clinic in Denver, CO.
Reaching across the magical ethers from Miami to Colorado to give Aaron a big hug and thanks for this thoughtful and generous view of what makes men happy in marriage. And if that seems like a big question listen to this free podcast where we go deep into how to connect with your spouse when you are not on the same page and create a “communication highway” for the free flow of both easy and delicate topics.
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Plus regular bursts of soul-filled, love-soaked inspiration + VIP access to our classes and coaching programs. Women aspire to the supermodel features of model Cara Delevingne, 21, with men more attracted to the softer features of actress Megan Fox, 27.Ladies admire the pert and perky breasts of Jennifer Aniston, 45, while men appreciate the fuller bust of US TV star Kim Kardashian, 33. And 50-year-old Elle Macpherson - still known as The Body - came top of the female poll for perfect pins.Men and women are equally conflicted with the masculine ideal. Emily Bendell, founder of Bluebella who conducted the survey, said: a€?Interestingly, the sum of all these parts does not match perceived physical perfection - neither men nor women opted for six-foot, stick-thin teenage models or perfectly chiselled, super-groomed guys.


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Some artists and labels prefer certain tracks to be purchased as part of an entire release. May 9, 2012 By Mike Cernovich 39 Comments A topic of tiresome and endless debate exists over a simple question: What kind of body do women want a man to have? Once you have a body that women are starting to find themselves attracted to, then you’ve earned the right to argue about what is the best body for attracting women.
I have to respectfully disagree with this, for the sole reason that Game trumps men’s looks. Are you seriously trying to compare their ability to be lard*ss old guys who get hot young women to the typical PUA going out to clubs on weekends who doesn’t also own his own private jet? Hard work and nutrition can give you a very decent body that’s should draw attention so that you can spit your tight game. There are numerous examples of fat men who are still incredibly charismatic and could pull top-tier women. What I am saying is that all things being equal(game, status, etc.), wouldn’t someone in better shape have an advantage?
I think in terms of physique it’s waist-to-hip and waist-to-shoulder ratio that really matter, regardless of muscularity, same as with what men find attractive in women. Personal question: Have you started experimenting with AAS or are you still trying to reach your natural potential?
If you want that physique prepare for brutally hard powerlifting workouts coupled with some steroids for many, many years.
This is an old article, but I disagree with Shallowfox if only to illustrate there are many different tastes out there.
It depends really on the girl,but as a general rule the original break down is fairly accurate.
As a site run by a woman and written for women, I am endlessly curious about the male side of things. I am so thrilled to add to our male voices with this heartfelt guest post where Aaron tells us the truth about what men really want out of marriage.
Thanks to our hunter-gatherer ancestors, somehow men got stuck with a bad reputation when it comes to romance.
But times have changed and men don’t need to protect against wild predators who are trying to eat their families anymore. Men don’t want to be taken to a good chick flick or watch a movie that makes them cry to feel close to their spouse. Men like that their wives need them but not to the point that their wife relies on them for every small thing – this feels smothering. They like a wife who can accomplish her goals on her own (and will) but invites her husband to do things with her because it means more when he’s there. They may not ask for help when they’re working around the house, but they like to feel like their wife takes care of them everywhere else. Just like women like to be taken out on dates by their husband to be romanced and wooed, men also like to be taken out on dates. The fact that their wife took the time to plan something they thought their husband would like is a good enough feeling that men often don’t care what they do as long as their wife planned it and thought of their husband in the mean time.
And a man especially wants to feel like his wife is supportive of him in his challenges and isn’t using his challenges as reasons to walk away. Underneath is a person who wants to be cared for, loved and take care of just as much as you do. In addition to counseling, he is also a writer for various blogs and websites all related to marriage and families. By practicing these 5 tips, we not only create a deeper love and appreciation in our marriage, we are providing the best of role models for our children.
Ladies are charmed by the beautiful, open face of Fifty Shades of Grey star Jamie Dornan, 31, while men want the flawed but chiselled bone structure of Bradley Cooper, 39.


Unless you have a good body and are looking to take it to the next level, arguing over this stuff just makes you a keyboard warrior. We’ve all seen the outlier of an out of shape, or even fat, man with a good looking woman. The average man might not be able to make more money, or increase his status in the short term, as much as he could improve both his game and his level of physical attractiveness. You should write more about it, since a lot of guys stay out of the gym because they fear a nice body is unattainable or only attainable through obsessive eating and training.
Easily attainable by anyone willing to put in 3hrs a week with the weights and controlling diet a little.
I know that in my younger days, when I wrestled and boxed + high metabolism, I was really in sick shape and very low body fat. So underneath their calloused ‘nothing bothers me’ exterior, what do men really want in a relationship? Men want a woman who doesn’t need them but she asks for him to be in her life because she wants him. He is on the Board of Directors of The Colorado Association of Marriage and Family Therapists and is the editor for the Marriage Section of the Good Men Project. If this chart were measured, from top-left to lower-right, the correct answers would be: 2, 3, 4, 5, 7, and 10. Once you get a decent body, you’ll learn from first-hand experience what body women find the most sexy. For real life examples of charming overweight men, off the top of my head, there’s Newt Gingrich and Chris Christie. No juice, no supplements other than protein and fish oil tablets and creatine whenever I remembered to take it.
I think he did it as an experiment to prove that training as a powerlifter will give you a physique comparable to that of a high level bodybuilder.
I’m a bit obsessive so I like to try and find the max out of every single thing from looks to money to walking style to whatever because anything below perfect is a waste of time. Problem was, unless I was at the beach or had an excuse to take my shirt off and show my 6pack and defined chest & shoulders, I just looked thin. You can get his great information about marriage on his Facebook page, by following him on twitter or on his blog the Relationship Rx. Lifting weights 3-4x a week(1 hour a session) 6 months tops with diet reasonably in check will get you there. Improving all of these(with a sense of realism and reasonableness) will get a man closer to what he wants. Once I got older and started lifting heavy and eating everything I could, I def got more attention from women. I think for me, once my face didn’t look sucked out and thin + I looked powerful with a fitted button up, I just became more appealing to ladies. A reaction gif is a short animated picture, usually only a few seconds long, that can be used to convey the entire range of human emotion.
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