If you want to get your ex boyfriend to talk to you again then you are going to have to do some work. What is the first thing that you want to do after a breakup, especially if you aren’t ok with it? So, if you want to get on speaking terms with your ex again you are going to have to do things that aren’t perceived as needy or desperate. Rather than texting or facebooking your ex every five minutes, a woman who wants to take control of the situation with her ex will implement something called a no contact rule. The no contact rule is supposed to accomplish more than just cutting yourself off from your ex.
Of course, I will admit that the probability of a friend seeing you and squealing to your ex that you look amazing isn’t very high. If you implement the no contact rule like I suggest above I would estimate that 40% of the time your ex will reach out and try to talk to you. The goal of this page is to get your ex to talk to you again and as you can see, the no contact rule alone can accomplish that feat.
In the event that your ex doesn’t get back in touch with you then you are going to have to take matters into your own hands a little bit. Before I dive in to the rules of texting your ex I think it is important to mention that YOU SHOULD ONLY TEXT YOUR EX AFTER THE NO CONTACT RULE.
It’s all about control, you want to control every aspect of the conversation you can.
If you want to get back on speaking terms with him then you have to understand that you need to keep your first few texts to him very short. No matter what he says to you DO NOT fall into the trap of responding to him, not yet anyways. His interest is already raised because you sent him the confession text already but I want his interest raised even more. Look, I am a guy and when I really like a girl that I am texting I can’t help but look at my phone every five seconds waiting for her response to my most recent text. So, he’s responded to your confession text, you’ve waited the full hour, now what? There will be a small percentage of women whose boyfriends are so angry with them that they won’t respond even if they have waited a month via NC and sent the ideal text message.
I want you to understand that I wrote this page with it’s sole intent being to help YOU get back on speaking terms with your ex. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. I just don’t really understand-if I’m always initiating, how does that not come off as desperate? I did the NC rule and when i contacted him he replied within second, we always have good conversation but I’m the first one who always initiate the conversation. What if he says the reason why we broke up is because I’m too affectionate do I still do Nc rule??
We had a good story I don’t know why is so reluctant and why one month ago he answered also to see each other!
Before you even attempt to make your ex jealous lets talk a little about what you want your ultimate goal to be. What I am going to do now is give you a brief overview of how to properly use jealousy and then I will talk about each aspect in-depth. The No Contact Rule- You are not allowed to contact your ex in any way after the breakup for a minimum of 30 days. Alright, now that you have an idea of what the no contact rule is I am going to talk a little bit about the things you can do during the no contact period that can will your ex jealous. I get a lot of emails every single day (random fact- I have 9 unanswered emails in my inbox just from today) and one of the most common mistakes I see from women is the fact that they don’t do anything at all during the no contact period. Look, if you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous I seriously want you to spend those 30 days NOT thinking about him. Disclaimer: Some of the things on this list WILL make you uncomfortable but I am not in the business of being nice for the sake of being nice I am trying to give you advice that will help make your ex jealous and hopefully put you in a position to where you can get him back.
If you are an avid reader of this site then you may be aware that I am very much in favor of going out on a date with someone new during the no contact period. Now, I am aware that you are looking for an exact step by step method for what you need to say to your ex but I am not going to get into that here because this page is supposed to only be about the ways you can make your ex jealous (I actually put together a guide about how you can use texting to get your ex back already.) What I will do is give you a few ground rules that you need to follow when contacting your ex. Showing that you have control of the conversation is very important for a number of reasons. Well, luckily for you I have been on the receiving end of quite a few ungettable girls so I can tell you some of the tactics that they were able to use on me that proved to be pretty effective. There is a lot more to the story but as you can see she dominated the very first conversation we had. Bowing Out Of The Conversations By Not Responding- This is a pretty effective way to establish control.
Since we are on the subject of texting lets talk a little about the most important type of text if you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous, the jealousy texts. My ex-boyfriend and I of six months broke up yesterday due to him cheating on me and lying about it the whole time.
Hello dear Chris ,you have helped me so much during my breakup, i used the no contact rule after my ex dumped me admitting he has no feeling for me anymore .after one exact month of no contact rule i unblocked him on whats-app ,he started messaging me straight away he said he misses me a lot and he felt my love during this absence thus he wants us back together , he also showed his jealousy though he is not been the jealous kind of men ,whenever he sees me online on whats-app he keeps asking me who are talking to ,are you seeing someone else, how could you move on like i don`t matter to you . We are long distance which complicates things but we had a long talk the other night and agreed it’s best that we part ways.
Been reading your advice since day 1 of the of a two year relationship break up 3 months ago.
I was seeing someone since February but it never got serious he never asked me out we just slept together through the year. Four words, four little words can be the difference between having a relationship or being in the friend zone forever. In my time here building Ex Boyfriend Recovery I have received close to 300 emails from different women, all with unique stories about their boyfriends and breakups.
There seems to be a common misunderstanding that getting out of the friend zone is essentially the same thing as getting a boyfriend back. If you are looking for something a little more in-depth that can give you the full steps to getting a boyfriend back then I would like to point you towards Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO, my ebook. I am going to tell you something that almost everyone else out there is afraid to tell you. Why am I telling you this?Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
Because I want you to prepare yourself mentally for the possibility that you may not get him back.
Make no mistake about it, I know what it is like to have feelings for someone and not be able to do anything about it. Since we are talking about ex boyfriends here you do have a certain advantage on your side. If this is going to work there are a certain amount of sacrifices that you are going to have to make. The following quotation is a comment I received yesterday from a woman who has been actively freezing her ex boyfriend out using the no contact rule!
They have put their ex in an uncomfortable corner where he would no longer respond to their texts or calls. You see, for three days I was on the edge of my seat waiting for the call or text, almost expecting it. IMPORTANT- In order for the methods below to work to their fullest extent you must have implemented a 30 day no contact rule. This section is extremely important because it is going to teach you how your conversations should go with your ex. The nice way to end a conversation with your ex is to start the conversation with him, hook him in the conversation. I mentioned that I still haven’t broken up with him is because we did meet recently as girl friend and boyfriend. We spent a few nice hours together when we met this but he just happen to mention that he should be with someone else to know my worth.
When I say that I am also planning a get away for few days then the immediate response I get is with whom. I haven’t yet broken up with my boyfriend as he still has not given me enough ground to do that, hence not yet started with the no contact rule.
As we do share a professional relationship as well should it be a good thing of agreeing to just a professional relationship rather than agreeing to being friends. And I reply him “I finally bought a new jeans that we’ve talked about months ago!
Because he knows that I need new pants and he knows that the pants are expensive and months later,I can finally afford it. Believe it or not but there are actually a lot of different ways to discover why your ex boyfriend may be ignoring you. In this article I am going to be helping you understand why your ex boyfriend is ignoring your numerous attempts to reach out and contact him. If you have read my site then you would know I am a big fan of texting to get an ex boyfriend back.
The main problem here is that if you are sending that many messages without any responses it makes you look totally desperate.
I want you to really notice here that in this example the other person is actually engaged in the messaging and that means it is ok to keep messaging them without seeming desperate or needy. The second really unattractive quality that women can display when texting too much is the fact that there is no chase involved.
I hope you read the section above because this one is almost exactly the same except you are dealing with calling instead of texting. I used to think I was alone in this but I soon learned that other guys are exactly like me. Generally speaking, someone who is calling you a lot (back to back to back.) Has two types of news. Since you are an ex girlfriend of his I am betting that your call is going to be filled with emotion and bad news. Sadly I have personal experience with a girl calling too much and I can tell you there is nothing more unattractive and annoying. Part of the problem that men have with women calling too much is that they know if they pick up the phone they are going to have to talk to a really emotional human being and while some men will get off on it most of us despise it. Again, the one thing that all of this stuff (texting, calling, letters, emails) have in common is the fact that they are all actions taken out of desperation and que the Jaws music! Unfortunately, I don’t have much personal experience with ex girlfriends writing me too many letters or sending too many emails. In the section above I talked about some of the main reasons that an ex boyfriend would ignore his girlfriend (desperation, neediness that whole thing.) I am not going to lie to you, in 85% of the cases everything I discussed above is the main reason that he would want to ignore you.
When men start ignoring you on purpose it is coming from a place of rage just because they know it will punish you. It is not something I am very proud of and I would handle that situation completely differently now but I wanted to prove to you that deep down all men are capable of something like that so it could be a reason that he is ignoring you. All I can tell you is that it is highly unlikely (but still likely) that your ex is ignoring you for this reason. It might be possible that your ex boyfriend wants nothing to do with you anymore which is why he is ignoring you. Anyways, the real warning sign that you can use to figure out if this is the reason your ex is ignoring you is to think back to your relationship and figure out the ways in which you wronged him. Realistically, the only way I would NOT talk to an ex girlfriend is if she wronged me in a horrible way.
I can honestly say that in all my time here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery I have never encountered a situation where an ex boyfriend never talks to an ex girlfriend again.
When your ex finally does contact you he can contact you the good way, the bad way or the ugly way (see what I did there ?? .) I am going to take a moment to explore each one. The first step to getting your ex boyfriend to respond to you in a positive manner is to implement the no contact rule. The first thing I want you to realize is that the general texts that you are used to sending aren’t good enough.
Actually, to be honest, I have never talked about this text before so this is the first time I have ever made it live. Take notice how I included an innocent but pleasant memory from a past relationship in this example.
Now, once he does respond positively you have accomplished your mission and he isn’t ignoring you anymore!
In the end of February , he decided to breakup with me saying that he wasnt sure and that he couldnt see any future on our relationship.I did the NC for 2 weeks , after that time, I texted him asking how he was and he replied after a day . I had been in a bumpy long distance relationship for about 3 years and a half, and last December I ask him to decide whether or not he wanted to continue our relationship. I’ve seen him each Thursday at a group event, when everyone leaves him and I have stayed in the parking lot for another 2 hours talking until 930pm. I want to talk about a worse case scenario situation and what you should do if you are faced with it. For many visitors to this website being blocked by an ex is the absolute worst thing that can happen. The truth is that I have seen hundreds of women be blocked by their exes and I never quite know what to say to them. Many of you who are avid readers of my site understand that the main purpose of this site is to help you get your ex boyfriend back. Well, winning an ex back is a very complex process (especially if you were blocked.) Of course, in an effort to bring you more value I put together an E-Book that you can follow step by step to achieve this goal. However, the issue that you are running into is that he is obsessed with you for the wrong reasons. Ok, a woman who visits this site and reads about the no contact rule will probably want her ex boyfriend back.
The challenge that you are going to faced with is to determine if he is worth the effort required to turn his bad feelings into good feelings but more on that later. For now I would like to dive a little deeper into the mindset of a man who has blocked you.
My point here is that what I talk about on this page may be hard to hear but it is going to prepare you and maybe get some light bulbs to go off.
If you are wondering about my particular situation I wasn’t actually officially dating the girl I blocked. Here is the main point I am trying to make about your ex boyfriend blocking you in this instance. It hurts because every time he does his feelings for you surface and maybe your relationship was very painful to him. No matter what there are always going to be those ex boyfriends out there that will hold things against you and look for revenge. One thing that we already know is that a man who blocks you to get back at you or to hurt you is not being mature about the situation.
If an ex boyfriend blocks you to get revenge or to hurt you then one thing you already know right off the bat is that he is being very immature about the breakup. This first thing I want you to get through your mind is that USUALLY not all of the blame goes on him for wanting revenge.
Of course, most men are dumb and they fail to realize that they aren’t the only ones with eyes. Hmm… perhaps I should be role playing here because this may be a little complicated to explain without the proper context. While most women may not mean it when they say it, I know you well enough to know that you are serious about it.
The second thought that I will have relates to what I was talking about above (with you being pretty, liking the attention and flirting with other guys.) You see, all throughout our relationship I hated that you flirted with other guys. This is one of those very rare occasions where actions don’t match up with the truth of how a man would be feeling about the situation.
If your ex boyfriend were to block your phone number and you went crazy on Facebook trying to contact him the fact that you want to be in touch with him so badly will feel good to him because it means you want him. Remember above when I was talking about how I was actually glad that I was immature in my first relationship because it forced me to evolve and become a more mature human being and I could bring more to the table in the future?
Well, it could be entirely possible that your ex boyfriend hasn’t gone through this evolution yet. Where him blocking you because it hurts to talk to you has a lot to do with the emotions he has towards you and him blocking you to cause you pain is done from a place of anger, him blocking you because he never wants anything to do with you again is done from a place where you have pushed him to the point of no return.
In other words, him blocking you because he never wants to talk to you again is the worst case scenario for pretty much everyone reading this page. Speaking from personal experience there have been times where I have become so angry that I threw logic out of the window completely. About four years ago I was dating a girl and we got into a fight (like couples tend to do.) It was four years ago so there are a few things that you need to understand. Look, while I may have thought those horrible things in my head if you were to go deep inside my mind at the time I really didn’t mean any of them.
No matter how you slice it a breakup is a highly emotional situation and it is almost a guarantee that things are going to be said (from both sides) that neither person means.
So, lets say that your ex boyfriend said this to you after your breakup and a day or two down the road you realized that your number has been blocked on his phone.
You remember that whole “when emotions run high, logic runs low” speech I gave you at the beginning of this section right? Well, the thing about emotions running high and logic running low is that eventually logic does return to run the show.
The infographic above is actually kind of cool because you can see the progression from anger back to logic. What I am going to do now is go through the entire progression in the picture so you can understand exactly what is happening in his mind.
I said that in about 60% of the cases an ex boyfriend will end up getting back in touch with you after he blocks you. For every women reading this page having this happen is the worst possible outcome that they can think of.
It is at this point that I would like to admit that I have actually blocked people from my life that I was serious about never talking to again and to this day I haven’t ever talked to them. Lets start with the ex girlfriend first since I am sure that she is the one that you really want to hear about. The thing you have to understand about this girl was the fact that the two of us just weren’t a good match for each other. After we broke up I made a decision to block her so I wouldn’t even be tempted to get back into that situation ever again. Maybe me blocking her was done from a mindset of emotion as opposed to logic but in all honesty I am glad I did it because there was no way that I could have been happy with her.
So, basically I decided to block my ex because I determined that there was no way that she could improve my life. My second story of blocking someone was completely different but just as important because it can give you some important insight into how men think. However, this friend who had feelings for me pushed me to that point very quickly when she started harassing me. Every time I would tell her in a very nice way that I think she should move on she would harass me. Once I told her this she settled down for a little while until I didn’t text her back immediately and then the harassment resumed.
Now that you have a better understanding of why an ex boyfriend may block you I would like to turn your attention to HOW an ex can block you. As always, I am going to go in great detail into each of these methods so you can fully understand the situation you have found yourself in.
I would say that an ex blocking you from his phone is the most common thing that I hear about when I talk to women on this site. Well, getting blocked is never a good thing but I will tell you that if you get blocked from his phone don’t think the world is over. Now, I don’t know your situation specifically but what I do know is that if your ex blocks you through Facebook it is not a good thing.
When you block someone from your phone (at least on the iPhone) it isn’t really that hard to unblock them. In my view these are all the same as text messaging (with the exception of Snapchat.) What you need to keep an eye out for is if you are being blocked from his regular phone and from these little applications. Still though, an ex boyfriend who blocks a girl is usually doing so through a highly emotional state. Usually they communicate through talking on the phone, through Facebook or other social media outlets.
Essentially, this is where your ex boyfriend blocks you from his phone, through Facebook, through applications and through his email. It doesn’t take a genius to realize that some forms of blocking are worse than others. Once you learn that you have been blocked by your ex boyfriend it is your job to figure out in how many ways you have been blocked. Of course, I still haven’t told you what to do if you are faced with the worse case scenario of a full out blockage.
I am going to say something that I have been putting off for a while now because it is going to be very hard for you to hear and you will probably hate me for it but it needs to be said. In other words, you are in the worst possible position because you are at his mercy completely. You are going to want to get in touch with him as soon as possible in any way you can possibly think of.
I am not going to take the time explain what the no contact rule is since I talk about it so much on this site.
Throughout this entire page I have thrown around a pretty interesting statistic relating to women who have been blocked. I have found, when talking to the women who have been blocked, that in 60% of cases their exes end up getting back in touch with them.
The no contact rule will force you to be patient and it will also prevent you from being tagged as that psycho ex girlfriend I talked about above. Right now you are conditioned to think about your ex boyfriend as opposed to thinking of yourself. Make the necessary changes in your life to become incredible and make sure you let the world know about it on social media.
This may be an embarrassing thing for me to admit but for years after I broke up with my ex girlfriend I would check up on her Facebook profile. Here is the interesting thing though, two years after the breakup occurred between us I didn’t have any feelings for her at all.
Your in a better position than I was because the breakup between you and your ex boyfriend is probably still fresh which means both of you probably still have feelings for each other.
You see, her mind was in the right place with the mutual friends but she didn’t really use the mutual friends in the right way.
If you are betting against a message being sent like this then I think you owe me some money ?? . I would actually say that you want this message to be sent because it is going to force your ex to think about you.
In fact, I would say only ask about him once and then move on to talking about something else. Well, after the no contact rule is complete would be a great time to initiate a conversation. It's only three words, but they can spell total doom for many a relationship: "Let's be friends". Most of all, why is your boyfriend asking to be friends with you when he's really talking about breaking up?
The second reason a guy will ask to remain friends after breaking up with you is a lot more common: he doesn't want to lose you yet.


Staying friends with you is an easy, comfortable way of your now ex-boyfriend keeping tabs on you. Hell, in some cases the ex boyfriend even gets to continue sleeping with the girl "friend" - especially when she's dying to get him back. Trying to be friends with an ex boyfriend when you still love him is, simply put, an impossible task. Do this and your ex boyfriend will quickly begin worrying about losing you - as both a friend AND a potential girlfriend. The M3 System, also known as "Making up Made Easy", is the latest and greatest in getting your ex back guidebooks.
Author Michael Griswold draws upon years of dating experience, research, and relationship repair advice to compile a complete step-by-step system for winning back your lost love. Watch six powerful, full-length videos on how to turn your breakup completely around in just days. Find out how to re-attract your ex: the seven-step core process to making your ex need you back. Getting your ex to call you back - a six video series on regaining positive contact after the break. If reading about getting your ex back from an unwanted breakup just isn't cutting it, the M3 System is tailor-made for you. I am assuming, since you are reading this page on my site, that right now you and your ex boyfriend aren’t on speaking terms. You probably want to contact your ex, ask how he is doing, beg a little bit and eventually get upset because he isn’t giving you the time of day. Most people don’t respond well to silence and if your ex feels like you are ignoring him, which you are, he will go a little crazy trying to get a hold of you. If you weren’t on speaking terms with him immediately after the breakup then hopefully the minimum time frame of 30 days will have settled him down enough for him to accept and respond to your texts. By sending him the confession text and getting him to check his phone every five minutes waiting for your response you are going to reinforce the behavior that he is used to when he has strong feelings for a girl.
I feel I have accomplished that by showing you some very effective methods to get him to talk to you again. In that time I said to him that we could see each other when I was free… to not appear too needy and too available to see him but a week after when I asked him to go out he said that maybe we could see after my graduation. Now, I can’t guarantee that the tactics on this page will make him jealous because lets be honest, your boyfriend is a human being and most human beings are impossible to control. BUT I do feel it is important to mention that if you came here looking for a way to get your ex boyfriend back you aren’t going to find it. A married friend of mine once told me a little about the psychology behind a mans thinking and I happen to agree with him. If you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous for the sake of making him jealous then I don’t think this is the page for you. I want you to go down the checklist I am about to provide and address all of the things on it. In college, I began to notice a pattern between the girls I liked and the girls I didn’t like anymore. She basically has so much confidence that she reduces a guy into thinking that he can’t get her which really turns 85% of guys on. Remember, I am just going through my phone in the last six months and pulling out conversations with girls who I really really really liked. The girl he was cheating with didn’t know i was his girlfriend because he told her that I was his ex. He was very genuine the whole time and did say that the cheating was an extremely drunken hook up (basically blackout) and he thought he could just leave it be and move past it, but it started to eat him alive when he found out my sister had gotten cheated on. It wasn’t the easiest relationship, we fought quite a bit due to his drinking and I have a habit of trying to make him jealous so I feel wanted. I said to him if he was him the guy in a certain place the day before that I had seen and that he looked good. My boyfriend dumped me two weeks ago and I have not had any contact with him, but I work with his mom and she and I last talked about him three nights ago (I don’t know if she repeated anything to him or not). Our chemistry is something else though and being with him feels so right but I don’t want to make bad decisions and not sure how to act now. We got into an argument and I told him how he dragged me into a game and that he never treated me right because he never asked me to be his girlfriend and thought that we were done because we both said really mean things to each other. So, this new version of the page is going to focus a lot about how YOU can get out of the friend zone if you have been placed there by an ex.
It’s a place that we have all put someone in the past and a place that we never want to be. You see, in the example I gave above (where I asked the girl to the dance) I was at a disadvantage because the girl had no romantic feelings for me at all. These sacrifices won’t be easy and even as I write these words I am sure that 90% of the people reading this page will fail to do them. You know, that little rule that says you can’t talk to your ex in any way shape or form for 30 days?
It was exciting to be left in suspense like that but all the excitement left the moment my hypothesis was confirmed and she texted. I actually wrote an entire section in The Texting Bible outlining the benefits of texting vs. One method will be for women whose ex boyfriends have contacted them during the no contact period and the other method is for women whose boyfriends didn’t.
Anyways, the point of all this is that it probably won’t take a lot to get your ex to respond to your first contact text. Your text needs to have substance and it needs to force him to reach back in his mind and think of something positive. So, how do you get him to respond to a text message when deep down you have a feeling that he wants nothing to do with you. However, our main objective is just to get him to engage in a text messaging conversation with you because it is a sign that he is interested in what you have to say. However, the probability that you will get a response is very high so make sure you have something prepared. I would actually wait one hour from the moment that he responds before you respond to his text messages.
While I plan on going as indepth as I can here nothing will ever compare to the detail that I use in the bible here. The thing about men is that a certain part of their attraction towards women is very predictable. You just become something that he can’t have by dominating every texting conversation you have with him.
You get engaged in a conversation with your ex, you get to the hooking point of the conversation and then you end the conversation abruptly making him want more. For one, he is going to be checking his phone multiple times, which will reinforce to him that you are important. Few days back i just flipped when he was teasing me and trying to provoke me by taking the other girls name.
I want to hold on my patience when we start working together and continue with the no contact.
He was stationed with the military in my city with me for almost 3 years and then he was restationed to Florida. Moreover he kept on saying that we should keep some distance so that the emotional attachment from my side decreases and too much of attachment is not good for me in the long run. I dont know what should i do and what should i say as everything seems to be so blurr and unclear and unsure. I have stopped calling and messaging myself, instead I get calls from him everyday to which I talk normally. How do I myself not become insecure and instead start with the chase game and be a mental challenge to him, as, if I am not wrong then men need that mental challenge. Its like as if he is saying I want to try someone else to know your value and he is asking permission from me for that so that he is never termed as a cheater.
It feels like he wants to move out and try and be with the other girl but also wants to keep me as a backup option. Should i go ahead and say that ” i cant negate my feelings from being in a relationship to being just friends?
Will behaving like i dont give a damn and dont care for you at all will leave an impression that I am egoistic mean and the care i used to show previously was fake to my ex boyfriend? Lately he has started feeling we cannot have a future together as I am not single as I have a kid from first marriage and there will be a strong resistance from people who are his family. We got together when he was graduating from university and he wanted to take a break before looking into a job in his field.
Here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery I am sad to say that I see a lot of this (ex boyfriends ignoring their ex girlfriends) thus it would be an understatement to say that I am experienced at diving in to the male mind and dissecting it.
In the movie John Williams composed a score for Steven Spielberg that has gone on to become a classic.
Anyways, any time women call, text or show up unannounced to their ex boyfriends house I picture that music playing. I really want you to understand this section so I am going to define common desperate actions that ex girlfriends take and look at them from a males perspective.
A girl who has to message someone that much is displaying two qualities that are a turnoff to every human being on this planet.
It is like they hand you a cheat code and you lose all your interest after a certain amount of time. So, the other big mistake that women make that can cause their ex boyfriend to want to ignore them is spamming his phone with calls.
Not only will it creep me out on a level I have never known before but I am really not going to pick up a phone now.
You can tell all of that over the phone (and with a text you would have no clue.) I wanted to point this element out because I feel it adds to the fact that he may be ignoring you.
I think back and those experiences and just cringe because that is how uncomfortable they made me. He didn’t laugh to her face, he laughed behind her back and even showed me the letter making fun of some of the heartfelt words that she had said. If they don’t get their way in a relationship (or even after one) they will find ways to manipulate you emotionally. It was in my very first relationship ever and as you can imagine, that version of me was not a great guy. Women who wind up in situations like this have typically wronged their ex in horrific ways.
Of course, I said that above but I failed to go into the actual ways in which women can wrong men. It is highly unlikely that your ex is going to drop off the face of the earth and never contact you again. An ugly response isn’t one where he just dismisses you it is one where he also disses you.
What if I told you that I have found a way that allows you to accomplish that while remaining in control?
The experts will tell you that you have to send interesting texts that will capture his attention.
This is important because it will bring up nostalgic feelings in your ex and he can’t help but want to respond positively! Just a little information: in October last year he joined the military and we were unable to communicate until December when he had two weeks off for Christmas. The first month was amazing, spent tons of time together talked about a lot of life wants, goals, great chemistry. My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago because he said he just didn’t feel the same way he did when we first started going out.
Since 90% of the visitors to Ex Boyfriend Recovery want their ex boyfriends back I want to stay with that line of thinking.
In fact, upon research it seems that no one online knows what to do when faced with this situation.
While I can’t guarantee your success 100% of the time I can tell you that many women (who have been blocked) have used my book, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO to win back their exes.
I guess if there was ever going to be a positive reason for an ex boyfriend to block you this would be it. So painful that he doesn’t want to remember it right now so he chooses to block you out of his life. So, while this is probably the best outlook for being blocked it is still never a good thing. I know that is an absolutely horrible thing for me to say but I am actually not ashamed about it. Nevertheless, the immature idiot that I once was, was important because it taught me how to evolve into a more mature man.
Like I said above, at one point in my life I went through a phase where I would have had no problem doing this.
However, what I would like to do is give you some insight into what factors caused him to have these feelings of vengeance.
Sure, there are cases where your ex boyfriend is just a psycho and will want revenge because he is crazy. They will latch on to everything you did wrong in the relationship as a reason for revenge. There are a few silver linings that I think are important to understand if an ex blocks you in this instance. While blocking an ex girlfriend is a bold action stating (GO AWAY) the ultimate truth could be that the man is just doing it so he can feel wanted by you… WAIT, WHAT? I did just that (said the most hurtful things possible.) I thought of every hurtful subject I could to twist the knife a little deeper. The only reason I verbalized any of those thoughts was because I got angry and was looking for a way to hurt my girlfriend. Emotions reign is only temporary and logic is usually left to clean up the mess that emotion made.
Remember, the way this usually works is that your ex boyfriend will start off thinking with logic. We fought constantly, we didn’t agree on a lot of serious issues and by the end the relationship was so toxic that I literally went to bed at night dreading the next day. Now, prior to this point I had only ever blocked one person in my entire life (that ex girlfriend I talked about above.) So, blocking someone from my life is very rare for me. She had pushed me to the point where I couldn’t take it anymore so I blocked her from everything and never talked to her again. If he does block you through both the applications and the big phone it is not a good sign.
I have even heard some cases where he can block your mutual friends for a while so he doesn’t have to see you in person. If your ex boyfriend blocks you from his smartphone but he doesn’t block you from Facebook then technically you can still get back in touch with him through Facebook when you want. If you are faced with a situation where you are blocked by your ex in every way then your options are very limited. While there are a few things you can do to influence his decision there isn’t really anything you can say to change his mind.
Your ex blocks you (a strong statement from him saying that he doesn’t want to talk to you) and you decide that, that means you should try harder and confront him in person? However, what I can do for you is give you a link to a new guide I wrote that really goes in-depth on my new view of the no contact rule. These women didn’t have to do anything for their ex to get in touch it just happened all on its own.
That tells me that your world doesn’t revolve around a guy and it also says that you have a lot of self confidence. So, rather than sit in your room and cry about your situation I say you be proactive with the knowledge that he will be keeping an eye on you through Facebook.
The two of us weren’t Facebook friends but her wall was semi public to where I could see the major events of her life.
Curiosity is a powerful motivator and he will probably come snooping around in the near future to see how you are. So, what she decided to do was use her ex boyfriend and her’s mutual friends to pass a long letter to him.
Once you are in his head curiosity will take hold and he may start spying on your Facebook profile or grilling your mutual friends on how you are doing. Enough time should have passed for him to calm down a little bit so if you play your cards right you could get a response.
But it’s not always been bad, we moved out of his parents house and got an apartment and everything. Limited Contact - Which is right for you, and how to apply these methods to reverse your breakup. Every single day I get a minimum of at least twenty emails from women who are all over the place emotionally because they aren’t on speaking terms with their ex. I want to tell you something about men, seeing as how I am one and know what it is like when a girl contacts me in the way I described above. However, you have to send your text a certain way and you have to understand that the more disciplined you are during your conversation with him the better off you will be. Even if you came up with the most fascinating text in the world you wouldn’t be his top priority. I have wished him happy easter and nothing, today I have asked him how’s going his thesis because he will get graduate and nothing.
With that being said, I have seen many of the tactics outlined on this page work for many of the women I communicate with. It goes like this, most men forget how good they have it when they have been dating or married for an extended period of time. I don’t want to go into too much detail here about it because I have done multiple in-depth posts about it already like this one.
I want you to take a moment and imagine how you have felt when, in your previous relationships you caught wind that your ex went out on a date with a new girl.
Now, this tactic was risky and only really worked on me because I clearly had feelings for the girl. A couple of things to note: this girl was probably the most attractive girl I have ever met. I always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she would simply bow out of the conversations whenever she would like. So, many people have the opinion that cheating is cheating and is unforgivable, however now after talking to him I see he genuinely is hurt because he cried to me saying he missed his bestfriend, and he could not throw away our time together. He said to me that the guy was so good that he wasn’t him and that he was at home the day before. Do you think I should start the no contact rule as of three nights ago in case he heard that I am still upset? Now, since you are on this page I am assuming that your ultimate goal is to get your ex boyfriend back.
Ultimately, the decision on whether he should take you back or not is up to him, not me or you. The ones that I see fail time and time again are the ones that are overly emotional and can’t accept that life may have to go on without their ex significant other. Your case is a little different because your ex boyfriend has already demonstrated that he does have romantic feelings towards you.
If you look through my site you will see that almost on every page I mention it’s significance. Now, can you imagine how different that situation would have gone if she would have just waited a full 30 days before texting me? Secondly, technically you never ended the conversation so you can always start back up whenever you want and it won’t be weird!
He is constantly trying to contact me asking me what happened after which he wont come in my way ever and that I owe him one discussion one conversation. I explained that its not about trust but that he is not careful with his words and the provocation has reached its limit. I don’t know how it works in military but can you still update your social media posts and check others? Should i be with him for next 6months and be that girl for whom he can fight for and crave for or just be impulsive and say that i need commitment now only. But the growing friendship with the other girl and the ongoing parties and hanging out at odd timings with her though in groups bothers me.
I feel as if i am the backup option where he is trying his luck with that girl and at the same time does not want to lose me as well as if nothing is gained over there then he atleast has me besides him. We had been talking afterwards because he wanted to be friends but I still had feelings for him so I started NC almost a month ago. The first few months were really great and then he betrayed my trust siginificantly (not by cheating with anyone but rather lying to me about some stuff). Oh, and it also helps that I am a male myself so I kind of know what I am talking about ;).
I want to give you a few steps going forward that you can implement to improve your chances of getting him to speak to you. Men can sense desperation and your desperate activities are the equivalent to blood in the water for a shark. Given a choice between someone texting too much vs someone calling too much I would always choose texting too much. Now, if she had tried a different approach she would have had him on his hands and knees begging for her back (I know my buddy, trust me it is possible.) However, she tried the desperate approach and this is what happens when you go full on desperate, you get laughed at behind your back. Anyways, I didn’t like the way the relationship was going so I ended up ignoring my girlfriend for an entire day.
Essentially how this works is that your ex boyfriend is using the no contact rule on you on purpose. I have a buddy whose wife actually cheated on him eight different times with eight different men. If a woman did any of the following things to me I would seriously consider cutting her out of my life.
First off, remember way back when I talked about how desperate women are the number one turnoff that makes men ignore their exes? By essentially implementing a no contact rule you can get him to scramble for your approval instead.
If you have successfully completed the no contact rule for thirty days then you are going to go on the offensive again but this time you are going to do it my way. Initially, when you send this text message out you aren’t going to get a positive response right off the bat.
If he does respond then you are going to take out a stopwatch or phone and wait between 30-60 minutes. It is the equivalent to having an audience on the edge of their seat waiting to find out what happens next. The second month he became a little distant and shared he was afraid he was falling into the same pattern and wasn’t ready for a serious relationship. We met about a year ago when we started working together and I liked pretty much from the first time we talked and I’m thinking it was the same for him.
Back in January, we stopped talking for a month which was the longest we hadn’t talked in two years. I do not know what to do, I want to talk to him but at the same time the whole situation I’m lost. Every time a woman comes to this site and decides to implement the no contact rule she is technically obssessed with her ex boyfriend. Sure, maybe there were some really bad fights and the relationship wasn’t as strong as she thought but if she is willing to try the no contact rule then deep down she really wants things to work and probably still loves her boyfriend.
Some of the women I blocked were exes and some of them were just friends that pushed me to the point where I couldn’t deal with them anymore.


Essentially how this works is that every time your ex talks to you on the phone or through text messaging it hurts him.
Maybe he is obsessed with you for the right reasons but it simply hurts too much to talk to you.
Look, the thing you have to understand about men is that it is rare for us to be mature about our first few relationships.
I looked back and was disappointed with how I acted and I actively worked to make sure I didn’t repeat those mistakes ever again in my future relationships.
However, I am playing the role of an idiot boyfriend here so I don’t look at it that way. There are two things that will go through my mind when I decide to make the decision to block for this specific reason. This anger signifies when the logic switch is turned off and when the emotion switch is turned on. While logic is slowly retaking the battlefield some of the good emotions are starting to kick in. In fact, it means that 40% of exes could be serious about blocking you and may never want to talk to you again. First though, lets take a look at all the ways that an ex boyfriend can block you from his life. Most people don’t just hand out their numbers and they sure as heck put some thought into who they are blocking from their phones. As I said above, around 60% of exes do end up getting back in touch after they block their significant other. While there is still a 60% chance that he will unblock you down the road he may be more serious about the blocking if he takes the time to block you on all these little applications as well. Knowing what options you have is important because those options are going to determine how you play the game. Look, I am a fan of letters but the only time that they ever mean something to me is when I am dating someone. I want you to remember this attitude because it is going to be extremely important for you to have for what I say next. Of course, the world isn’t over so you decide to hang out with a few mutual friends that you and your ex boyfriend have.
The one day he got the courage to tell me he needs a break or whatever and that he would still let me stay at home so I could have a home because I have no friends and barely any family and none I could stay with.
To men, any sign of neediness or desperation, and make no mistake about it, begging and crying display those qualities, are a complete turn off. Men are very visual creatures and I am not going to lie to you, they will have no problem breaking up with a girl if they are… overweight, have skin issues or if they consider them to be too ugly. Because if there is anything I have learned in my years here on earth it is that friends are blabber mouths ;).
You have his attention and now it is time for you to send him something positive that will fill him with good romantic feelings towards you. He needs more space and you are going to have to wait some more time before you reach out to him again.
If you want to learn more about how to get your ex back then I suggest you visit my complete guide on doing so. I was reading a relationship article about jealousy the other day from a pretty well known relationship coach.
So, if you want to make him jealous to bring out his protective and romantic side then this is the right page for that.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
I am actually talking about it in this section because I believe that going out on a date (even if you have no intention of actually dating the person) is best to do during the no contact period.
Nevertheless, I was the one putting more effort into the conversation which meant she was in control. Last week we had to see each other and ended up having a really fun time together and hooking up a few times, we both enjoyed our time together and I can tell he misses me, as I do him.
I still have feelings for him but will posting a picture of my new friend and me help me or will he think that it’s finally over between us?
I just want him to ask me to be his girlfriend, we went to elementary school together and we have great chemistry. Now, he may have lost his feelings towards you which is why he broke up but don’t worry because I am going to give you the tools you need to reignite his feelings for you. If that doesn’t tell you how important I think it is then perhaps a few website visitors can convince you.
This morning at 7am I received a text from him that said “do not respond to this, but I miss you”.
I am not saying this behavior is bad I am just saying that you can’t expect to get back on your ex boyfriends radar doing this. It will take amazing discipline but it might increase the chances of him engaging you in a conversation.
For example, if you are a Republican and he is a Democrat do not dominate him in the conversation to the point where he changes party affiliations, that’s just scary. We will be working together soon in the same office and probably the other girl might also join.
Do let me know if I am on the right track and how to remain unaffected even when we are working together. Also he kept on saying that he never committed to me right from the start but this might end (not sure) eventually because of family issues. The breakup was because of his school, he’s very stressed a lot of the time and said he felt guilty for not spending time with me.
Then began working on a website to show on job interviews and well in the 2-3 weeks before he broke up with me our relationship was a little strained because he spent so much time working on it.
We met a few months ago, flirted with each other, and then sort of became FWB (terrible idea, I know…) At the time he was just a crush, but of course I developed feelings for him.
Essentially, this is a person who texts multiple times, even though they don’t get a response.
However, when I get too much attention from them (in the form of texting) it becomes a complete turnoff. I understand that women are emotional by nature but when you show that much desperation, guys begin to get really scary thoughts.
Unfortunately, a lot of times what happens is when you get a girl who sends a lot of unanswered texts that leads to her calling way too much. One way that exes know they can get under your skin is to simply ignore you for a couple of days.
I didn’t do it because I needed a break or a refresh, which I think would be ok, I did it from a place of anger to punish my girlfriend.
It is one of those rare cases where you kind of want him back and he kind of wants you back. So, this is one case where I am the exception to the rule and my insight kind of suffers because of it. I like to tell my visitors that any text you send him has to be so interesting that it would be impossible for him to ignore it. I was always honnest with him saying that I wanted a serious relayionship and that I wanted to have children.
A few days later I texted asking him again how he was and since then he never replied , it has been nearly 4 weeks . He had a girlfriend at the time but after about 3 months of knowing each other, he kissed me.
Before that happened I was always complaining about him not having enough time for me for months because of his job. He is on her mind the second she wakes up for the day, the second she gets in her car to go to work and the second she closes her eyes to go to sleep. As a guy let me tell you it is a very humbling feeling when one moment you are on top of the world because you think a pretty girl is falling for you and then BAM!! In other words, being immature at first was essential for me to evolve into a more mature and classy human being. Of course, I am all about turning negatives into positives so the thing that you have to understand is that very rarely do men communicate with their girlfriends through email. At first I was calm but then I started freaking out, I really love this man to death and I know he loves me too it’s just that my anger towards him was taking a toll. Of course, before I dive in to the good stuff there are a few things that I need to make you aware of. Of course, there will always be the oddball guy that is so pathetic that he actually feeds off of making women beg and cry but usually those are very rare. Successfully completing the NC rule for a minimum of 30 days is going to take a tremendous amount of discipline. That means, if his friends think you are looking better than ever then he will eventually hear it and get curious. You can bet your butt that your ex boyfriend, no matter how bad the breakup was, will be looking at your profile. By waiting an hour the chances of him checking his phone for your response every five minutes is raised drastically.
Now, no matter what happens after that I want you to end this conversation thread with him by not responding. Also, I am very involved with this site so if you leave a comment I will be responding to it.
Either the topics are not interesting for him or he really doesn’t want to talk as friends. The conversations seemed mechanical, sometimes emotional but he never wanted to discuss what happened etc.
His article basically went on to say that you should never use jealousy to try to get your ex back.
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Here is the kicker though, if a couple like the one I am describing (a man who is comfortable and not tending to his woman’s needs) go out to a bar and the woman starts flirting with other guys the dynamic will completely change. Sure, he will be angry and sad but I promise you at the end of the day he is going to question why he ever let you go. However, if she doesn’t challenge me, intellectually or emotionally, I will lose interest. Anyways, she dominated the conversation so much that I literally felt like I had no chance so I just gave up even though I really liked her. Also, not that I think this is going to happen, but what if he contacts me before the NC period is up? However, three days later she texted and in my mind at that moment she lost her value to me. Don’t worry though, I am going to do my best to lay out this method in the simplest manner possible so you can understand exactly what you need to do. However, if you really stop to think about it, while the writing is great and the plot twists come out of nowhere, it is really the shows ability to keep you coming back for more that makes it so interesting. Should we have this conversation or not as I kept him in that dilemma by just sending a message saying i am done and now i know everything about you. That time in future we can be friends and for now nothings changed is what he said and left it to me to decide whether we should continue or stop and I agreed to continue. One day he basically ignored me the entire day and worked on his computer (I lived at his place).
He kept saying he liked me but wasn’t in love with me and eventually I decided to stop having sex with him. The rest of our relationship resulted in several fights of me questioning his intentions and needing a constant reassurance from him that he wanted to be with me. I took the liberty of locating a text gnat for you so you can better understand what I am talking about here.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? However, if someone were to give me all the cheat codes to the game it no longer becomes as fun. Now, I do want to point out that this is essentially the same thing I recommend doing with the no contact rule. In the end, I think he was just confused about what he wanted and he stuck with his girlfriend. I broke the ice sending him a picture of something i knew he liked and telling him i thought he might like it.
During the past year we were on the rocks for almost like 40percent of time; and we lived in the same house. However, I did mention above that if an ex blocks you it probably means that a part of him is obsessed with you.
We are all human beings after all and the thing about human beings is that none of us are perfect. I wasn’t always angry either just once in a while but when I was I was mean to him despite everything he has done for me.
So, what better way for you to show off the new you to him by taking a picture and posting it on your profile?
The truth of the matter is that the amount of free information that actually works is a rare commodity but I think I have done a pretty good job of leading the way in that regard. I have found that the rules I am about to describe are the most effective at making your ex a little jealous. All is fair, so I knew he had started to talk to other girls and I did the same by testing the waters with other guys.
It worked because a week later he started messaging me telling me he made a stupid drunken mistake again and that this isn’t what he wanted. I did no contact on him for almost 3 months and he never contacted me during the 3 month period.
And after the break up he admitted to a mutual friend that he is spending all of his time with friends and not taking the time alone to come to terms with the break up. Sure, it may be a little fun at first but eventually when the cheat codes make it that easy to complete I will lose interest. If you acted desperate your ex would have gotten into the routine of ignoring you because you were desperate. He helped me with a fundraiser I was putting on and was so helpful and supportive, over the summer we’d see each other or text every week. I tried not to be needy and I did good for a while but he never gives me answers to any of my questions and he rarely replies to me. The once a week call would nor even reach 1 hour because he’s tired and had to work overtime.
So after we have been apart for three months due to some administrative paper work that he needed to take care of, he came back to me so awkwardly, full of complexes and saying stuff from here and ther.. He saved me from homeless ness and brought me to his parents home as a stranger one year ago from May 3rd, 2016. It’s unfortunate too because the NC rule is probably the most effective tactic that you can use to not only get your ex boyfriend back but to get on speaking terms with him. If you use jealousy in a smart way it is almost guaranteed to bring up previous romantic feelings that your ex had for you. I still love my ex and want to be with him but I think he’s conflicted with his feelings. Hold on with the the NC ladies, it’s one of the hardest things, but after three days I already had him admitting that he misses me!
I wasn’t expecting him to ignore me the whole entire day, so I got upset with him at night.
If I am in that kind of mood then trust me, you aren’t going to get me to talk on the phone. When you do something like the no contact rule you really don’t want to ignore your ex boyfriend, you want to give him time to calm down and also improve yourself in the process.
So, when you stop acting desperate he is going to perk his head up and try to sniff out the reason why you stopped being desperate. I used the time to improve my self by going to the gym, buying new clothes and working on being confident.
The end of summer he dropped away and when I reached out he didn’t respond then at an event he ignored me all day. We started talking again and then slowly started flirting again (really, the attraction has always been mutual and there) and became pretty close. Last week I ended up losing it and sent too many texts which led him to say that I’m cut off but I called 5 days later and he answered. I saw him a couple of weeks ago (by accident) and we exchanged a couple of words and he seemed friendly and interested in my life. I want you to show that you are in control of the conversation and you have the power, not him. He says he still loves me but in a way it has changed because when he looks at me he sees all the hurt he has caused me and the mistake he made and he doesn’t know if he can forgive himself. He comforted me and told me how important it is for him to finish because he really wants to have a job in his field. Now he just treats me like a friend and I have the feeling that he kinda takes me for granted because I keep doing things for him and never ask him for anything. I wrote him friday about something i did that day that reminded me of a funny memory we had togeyher. I reached out One last time and he said he was leaving town for a month and to have a good rest of summer.
I called once everyday for three days and on the third day he just didn’t seem interested in calling so I lost it again and called many times.
The day after I texted him again just to see how he was and I was getting pretty neutral responses. That situation made me texted him and asked him if it could be possible to meet to catch up and he answered he is out of town and when he comes back he’ll be busy. He used to initiate but for the past month, it seems like I’m the only one initiating. However, after agreeing to be friends, he found out other guys had been approaching me and he continued to get jealous and started yelling and saying mean things to me out of anger, saying I didn’t consider his feelings. I said things for the sole purpose of just trying to make him jealous and I took it one step too far and he snapped. I just want to know if I have a chance at getting him back, and if so how do I go about it? Days went by and he continued working on it like crazy and rarely spent time with me, but I didn’t complain. He told me he didn’t have an answer yet, and he said he would be able to talk to me in a month or so when he has a weekend off. Fall came around and I needed closure so I wrote him an email sharing my thoughts and how I had feelings that whole time. I asked him if everything was okay with us and he told me that yes and that hes good but that he texted me on this day and never got a response so he wasn’t sure. Every time he thinks about you he is not filled with good feelings he is filled with annoyance.
I would like to be with him again at some point as crazy as that sounds, and want to give the NC method a try.
I asked me what situation we were in, and he said I wanted to take a break, so we were taking a break. A couple of days after I accidentally found out that he has a facebook account without my knowledge when I installed facebook messenger but when I asked him about it, he simply changed his account name and privacy setting. I kept listening and he confessed that he was worried and it is time for me to consider my future options to settle down, cuz of my age, and he is not ready to do so ( i never ever mentioned getting serrious even in future). He’s a very mature man and he IS NOT like most men, he cries and shows his feelings a lot and is compassionate.
When I initiate, he would respond late, the next day, carry on the conversation for a bit and then just stop replying me. He told me this past year he has done nothing with his life (geez thanks!) and needs to be alone and start fresh and get his life into gear.
Is it okay to tell him in advance I won’t be responding to his messages or should I simply ignore them if I receive them? A month passed by and he didn’t contact me, so I emailed him saying that I was done waiting for his answer that never came. We talked for maybe half the day but I feel like I was the one trying to keep the conversation alive. But i didnt pick his call and messaged replying talk to you later in the same way he was replying for the past few months. Oh, I did that because he was constantly posting things on Facebook, so I knew he had free time. He made everything seem ok and that we had made up after he told me he might want a break but then the next day I drive him to work in a shared car that he took with him and I got to his parents house to talk to his sister, and then I go hang out with him on his lunch break and we are pizza that he bought for us and after he kisses me and tells me that he loves me. Then I said sorry and brought up the facebook thing saying that he must be hiding something from me. He said that im the amazing person he has ever known, and he has never had these feelings for anyone before.
He got extremely upset when he found out she had a new boyfriend so I thought I should back off a little. And two weeks after I sent him a message about something that remind me of him, and I asked him if this is really what he wanted. He was worried I would hurt myself because I always said that (wrong of me) or hurt him physically or whatever (which I would NEVER DO) anyways his sister and mom drives me to work at 10pm overnight shift and sister hugs me.
They say they’ll be there for me in the morning to pick me up but then during my shift I kind of lost it telling the sister through text and him that I wanted to die and stuff so she called the ambulance on me. I told him it’s because he has been so busy and we rarely spend any time just us two. He said that I didn’t make an effort and I never made a move on any of the hints he was giving me. So then in the morning I get discharged from the hospital nobody is answering their phones and I live at least 45 minutes from the hospital. He is hanging out with his friends constantly (he used to hang out with them max once a week when he was with me. The mom and his sister had said everything would be okay and that I could still talk to his sister and his mom. I was so worried about how he was feeling and giving him space that I never thought about voicing what I wanted.
Nothing crazy, just the kind of upset you’d be when you find out someone you really wanted to be with is with someone else because you were too afraid to make a move. After all this HIS aunt answers and she lets me come stay for a few days till I can get a ride home. He told me that if I thought it was unfair that I should’ve done something about it and that I needed to be an adult and accept it. I just want to end this but I’m not sure if writing a break up letter would be the best thing to do. We laughed a lot just like a day before all this and we have a lot of inside jokes always always even the last time we saw eachother told eachother that we love eachother and kissed eachother affection Was not lacking. I’ve went by work a couple of times and just tried to have a casual conversation and it was the worst.
I haven’t contacted him now for like 4 to 5 days out of like 7 or 8 days of break up.
I helped him through a lot, was there listening to his problems, helped him get someone to talk to. I think maybe part of it is that he still has feelings for me, that doesn’t go away after two weeks.



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