22.10.2014

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Well, I wrote a book that is almost as long as the very first Harry Potter book and it talks about the no contact rule exclusively. IF you can break it…Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
As stated above, it is basically an agreement with yourself that you are going to cut your ex out of your life for a certain period of time. So, we have already established that in order to do a NC (No Contact Rule) correctly you are going to have essentially cut your ex out of your life for a minimum of 30 days. You may find that as you embark on this essential 30 day freeze out from your ex that they may try to initiate contact with you. You didn’t think you were just going to sit around on the couch all day catching up on re-runs of Friends during this time did you? The smartest thing that you can do during NC is to improve yourself both mentally and physically. Becoming the sexiest version of yourself is only half the battle when it comes to taking a positive step towards getting your ex back.
Prepare yourself for the fact that there is no guarantee that you will be getting your ex back. In this section we are going to study some of the major benefits to implementing a NC rule immediately after your breakup. You might learn after some soul searching that you don’t want to get back with this person again. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of.
My ex and I have been together 6 years, have a 3 year old when he wanted to call it can quits.
So, I’m in the unfortunate and hard situation of having to live with my Ex after our breakup while I find a place to live. I have a question about the no contact rule, me and my ex talk normally, but it hurts me inside that he is not my bf anymore (he was the one who wanted to break up) but he said he wanted to be friends with me, I agreed.
I’m on two weeks of no contact and my ex and I have been broken up for a month almost two. Just wanted to ask if Chris is going ahead with the 1:1 counselling he talked about on his podcasts, and also when he will be bringing more podcasts out?!
I am the woman that is 53 years old, I replied to your question yesterday but can’t find it now and do not know if you responded. Ok, to be honest, from your story she seems to be more attractive for him compared to you.. He showed up at an event that he clearly knew I was going to be at but there were a like a 100 people but I still spotted him when taking a seat he had been watching me but when I saw him he looked away and sat somewhere else. Believe it or not but there are actually a lot of different ways to discover why your ex boyfriend may be ignoring you. In this article I am going to be helping you understand why your ex boyfriend is ignoring your numerous attempts to reach out and contact him. If you have read my site then you would know I am a big fan of texting to get an ex boyfriend back. The main problem here is that if you are sending that many messages without any responses it makes you look totally desperate.
I want you to really notice here that in this example the other person is actually engaged in the messaging and that means it is ok to keep messaging them without seeming desperate or needy.
The second really unattractive quality that women can display when texting too much is the fact that there is no chase involved.
I hope you read the section above because this one is almost exactly the same except you are dealing with calling instead of texting. I used to think I was alone in this but I soon learned that other guys are exactly like me. Generally speaking, someone who is calling you a lot (back to back to back.) Has two types of news. Since you are an ex girlfriend of his I am betting that your call is going to be filled with emotion and bad news.
Sadly I have personal experience with a girl calling too much and I can tell you there is nothing more unattractive and annoying.
Part of the problem that men have with women calling too much is that they know if they pick up the phone they are going to have to talk to a really emotional human being and while some men will get off on it most of us despise it. Again, the one thing that all of this stuff (texting, calling, letters, emails) have in common is the fact that they are all actions taken out of desperation and que the Jaws music!
Unfortunately, I don’t have much personal experience with ex girlfriends writing me too many letters or sending too many emails.
In the section above I talked about some of the main reasons that an ex boyfriend would ignore his girlfriend (desperation, neediness that whole thing.) I am not going to lie to you, in 85% of the cases everything I discussed above is the main reason that he would want to ignore you.
When men start ignoring you on purpose it is coming from a place of rage just because they know it will punish you.
It is not something I am very proud of and I would handle that situation completely differently now but I wanted to prove to you that deep down all men are capable of something like that so it could be a reason that he is ignoring you. All I can tell you is that it is highly unlikely (but still likely) that your ex is ignoring you for this reason. It might be possible that your ex boyfriend wants nothing to do with you anymore which is why he is ignoring you. Anyways, the real warning sign that you can use to figure out if this is the reason your ex is ignoring you is to think back to your relationship and figure out the ways in which you wronged him. Realistically, the only way I would NOT talk to an ex girlfriend is if she wronged me in a horrible way.
I can honestly say that in all my time here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery I have never encountered a situation where an ex boyfriend never talks to an ex girlfriend again. When your ex finally does contact you he can contact you the good way, the bad way or the ugly way (see what I did there ?? .) I am going to take a moment to explore each one. The first step to getting your ex boyfriend to respond to you in a positive manner is to implement the no contact rule. The first thing I want you to realize is that the general texts that you are used to sending aren’t good enough. Actually, to be honest, I have never talked about this text before so this is the first time I have ever made it live. Take notice how I included an innocent but pleasant memory from a past relationship in this example. Now, once he does respond positively you have accomplished your mission and he isn’t ignoring you anymore! In the end of February , he decided to breakup with me saying that he wasnt sure and that he couldnt see any future on our relationship.I did the NC for 2 weeks , after that time, I texted him asking how he was and he replied after a day . I had been in a bumpy long distance relationship for about 3 years and a half, and last December I ask him to decide whether or not he wanted to continue our relationship. I’ve seen him each Thursday at a group event, when everyone leaves him and I have stayed in the parking lot for another 2 hours talking until 930pm. So if you want a much clearer picture of how this all works I recommend you check that out. Remember, your goal with a no contact period is not to become a jerk so there is no reason to use it that way. However, if you know for a fact that your ex became less attracted to you over the course of your relationship you can work to change that. In fact, you could make the argument that the mental side of things during the no contact period is even more important than the physical side. Hopefully this section will make you realize the true importance of not talking to your ex for 30 days. The no contact rule isn’t just a psychological tactic to getting your ex back it is also a way to ensure that you have time to properly heal.
I am sure you have met one of these types of couples that break up every few months only to get back together again after a few weeks.
My question is can no contact work with someone who said that they were done talking to you? When you do start talking again after NC, if you don’t follow the steps in the texting Bible will you need to start over from the beginning or would you start the steps? I am desperate for help, I really want to get my ex back, I am doing no contact and have been going to a gym, going out with friends, working on my house etc. We had a huge fight where i was drunk and i left his place at midnight and walked home i said i was never coming back. After the conference was over I barely stayed like 10 mins because I could not bear to see him again! Here at Ex Boyfriend Recovery I am sad to say that I see a lot of this (ex boyfriends ignoring their ex girlfriends) thus it would be an understatement to say that I am experienced at diving in to the male mind and dissecting it. In the movie John Williams composed a score for Steven Spielberg that has gone on to become a classic. Anyways, any time women call, text or show up unannounced to their ex boyfriends house I picture that music playing. I really want you to understand this section so I am going to define common desperate actions that ex girlfriends take and look at them from a males perspective. A girl who has to message someone that much is displaying two qualities that are a turnoff to every human being on this planet. It is like they hand you a cheat code and you lose all your interest after a certain amount of time. So, the other big mistake that women make that can cause their ex boyfriend to want to ignore them is spamming his phone with calls.
Not only will it creep me out on a level I have never known before but I am really not going to pick up a phone now. You can tell all of that over the phone (and with a text you would have no clue.) I wanted to point this element out because I feel it adds to the fact that he may be ignoring you. I think back and those experiences and just cringe because that is how uncomfortable they made me. He didn’t laugh to her face, he laughed behind her back and even showed me the letter making fun of some of the heartfelt words that she had said. If they don’t get their way in a relationship (or even after one) they will find ways to manipulate you emotionally.
It was in my very first relationship ever and as you can imagine, that version of me was not a great guy. Women who wind up in situations like this have typically wronged their ex in horrific ways.


Of course, I said that above but I failed to go into the actual ways in which women can wrong men. It is highly unlikely that your ex is going to drop off the face of the earth and never contact you again. An ugly response isn’t one where he just dismisses you it is one where he also disses you.
What if I told you that I have found a way that allows you to accomplish that while remaining in control? The experts will tell you that you have to send interesting texts that will capture his attention. This is important because it will bring up nostalgic feelings in your ex and he can’t help but want to respond positively! Just a little information: in October last year he joined the military and we were unable to communicate until December when he had two weeks off for Christmas. The first month was amazing, spent tons of time together talked about a lot of life wants, goals, great chemistry. My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago because he said he just didn’t feel the same way he did when we first started going out. If you find yourself in these situations and ONLY IN THESE SITUATIONS you can break your no contact agreement but there is a certain way you have to act.
While this situation may suck it certainly isn’t impossible to cut off a significant portion of your contact with them. Well, by doing this you are going to have to start your NC period over again FROM THE VERY BEGINNING. This is a perfect time to improve yourself which is exactly what you are going to be doing during this time. When talking about physical changes during the NC period you should aim to become the sexiest version of yourself.
By now you should realize that the NC rule is important even if you aren’t trying to get your ex back because it will force you to focus on the most important thing, YOU! Taking a break from your ex for a minimum of 30 days will give you time to calm down and think more rationally. It’s interesting, because it allows you to essentially turn the tables on them and gain control over the situation. Someone who feels so strongly about their ex goes on the 30 day freeze out period and after the 30 days are up they realize that they have no desire to get back with this person again. I had made the mistake of continuing communication after the break up but became pushy for answers and another chance.
We are used to talking everyday and doing almost everything together which we never got our own space until now. I think you have to try to give him space through nc, because he will definitely compare the two of you.. I didn’t speak to him for a week and then i freaked out when he added a girl on fb and contacted him and he seems to be not wanting to get back together.
He put a downer on my whole evening I had been having such a good time and would have probably stayed back & mingled if he hadn’t shown up! Oh, and it also helps that I am a male myself so I kind of know what I am talking about ;). I want to give you a few steps going forward that you can implement to improve your chances of getting him to speak to you. Men can sense desperation and your desperate activities are the equivalent to blood in the water for a shark. Given a choice between someone texting too much vs someone calling too much I would always choose texting too much. Now, if she had tried a different approach she would have had him on his hands and knees begging for her back (I know my buddy, trust me it is possible.) However, she tried the desperate approach and this is what happens when you go full on desperate, you get laughed at behind your back. Anyways, I didn’t like the way the relationship was going so I ended up ignoring my girlfriend for an entire day. Essentially how this works is that your ex boyfriend is using the no contact rule on you on purpose. I have a buddy whose wife actually cheated on him eight different times with eight different men.
If a woman did any of the following things to me I would seriously consider cutting her out of my life. First off, remember way back when I talked about how desperate women are the number one turnoff that makes men ignore their exes?
By essentially implementing a no contact rule you can get him to scramble for your approval instead. If you have successfully completed the no contact rule for thirty days then you are going to go on the offensive again but this time you are going to do it my way. Initially, when you send this text message out you aren’t going to get a positive response right off the bat. If he does respond then you are going to take out a stopwatch or phone and wait between 30-60 minutes.
It is the equivalent to having an audience on the edge of their seat waiting to find out what happens next. The second month he became a little distant and shared he was afraid he was falling into the same pattern and wasn’t ready for a serious relationship. We met about a year ago when we started working together and I liked pretty much from the first time we talked and I’m thinking it was the same for him.
Back in January, we stopped talking for a month which was the longest we hadn’t talked in two years. I do not know what to do, I want to talk to him but at the same time the whole situation I’m lost. But no matter what I tell you in this article I know that there will be a certain percentage of you who struggle. I personally don’t agree with either of those assessments but then again each broken relationship is different and will require unique individual time frames. In order for this process to work you need to prove that you can go 30 full days without relying on your ex for a conversation.
For example, if you let yourself go a little bit during the relationship then it would be wise to use your time getting in better physical shape. Obviously the positive mental changes is going to cover mental aspects but it will also help you understand the importance of not falling off the map socially. With a month of free time away from your ex you can really get a lot done in the healing department.
They are built by strong ones and the no contact period allows you the proper amount of time to start building that strong foundation again. I’ve really been working on myself and believe I have found the real me that I previously lost, an even better me. Go out and have fun with your friends and do new classes or attend events if you must but the most important thing is that you meet new people and make new connections. He said that his heart bled the previous week and that he had already gone through the distraught phase basically where I am this week. I wore new red lipstick and make up and sexy clothing lucky I got there early and had a play with all the workshops!
Essentially, this is a person who texts multiple times, even though they don’t get a response. However, when I get too much attention from them (in the form of texting) it becomes a complete turnoff. I understand that women are emotional by nature but when you show that much desperation, guys begin to get really scary thoughts. Unfortunately, a lot of times what happens is when you get a girl who sends a lot of unanswered texts that leads to her calling way too much. One way that exes know they can get under your skin is to simply ignore you for a couple of days.
I didn’t do it because I needed a break or a refresh, which I think would be ok, I did it from a place of anger to punish my girlfriend.
It is one of those rare cases where you kind of want him back and he kind of wants you back.
So, this is one case where I am the exception to the rule and my insight kind of suffers because of it. I like to tell my visitors that any text you send him has to be so interesting that it would be impossible for him to ignore it. I was always honnest with him saying that I wanted a serious relayionship and that I wanted to have children. A few days later I texted asking him again how he was and since then he never replied , it has been nearly 4 weeks . He had a girlfriend at the time but after about 3 months of knowing each other, he kissed me. Before that happened I was always complaining about him not having enough time for me for months because of his job.
Thus, this page is meant to teach you how to successfully implement the no contact rule so you can put yourself in the best position to get your ex back. However, you also need to remember that you are creating a new life of which they are separate from (or you need to appear to be creating one.) Again, keep any conversation simple, short and pleasant.
It can be especially hard when your heart is begging you to just pick up the phone and type a simple text message to your ex.
Not only are the health benefits immense to getting in good shape but it can legitimately be a step in the right direction to getting an ex boyfriend or girlfriend back. Nothing is going to get accomplished if the both of you are constantly a word away from getting into an argument. We share mutual friends but we were in a LDR so I am curious if nc will work after he said he was done talking as to not build up false hopes. One day though he sat me down and began to tell me he felt unhappy with the direction our lives were headed. I have classes with him 3 times a week should I just sit somewhere else and avoid eye contact? I took the liberty of locating a text gnat for you so you can better understand what I am talking about here.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? However, if someone were to give me all the cheat codes to the game it no longer becomes as fun.
Now, I do want to point out that this is essentially the same thing I recommend doing with the no contact rule.


In the end, I think he was just confused about what he wanted and he stuck with his girlfriend. I broke the ice sending him a picture of something i knew he liked and telling him i thought he might like it. This amount of time will give you and your ex enough breathing room to calm down and look at the situation more rationally. Unfortunately, by breaking NC you are losing power and control over your relationship which at this stage is a very bad thing. THEN he thought I was on some dating app and after I didn’t reply once, he did a full on blockout. My guy friend and I have been extremely close friends (hanging out 3-4 times per week, every single week, without exception) for a year now.
He promised to meet me soon but By the begining of april he seemed to lose interest in chating with me. I cried for 6hours and went a little crazy and sent him all these texts and called him and fb msgd him and he did block me.
Sure, it may be a little fun at first but eventually when the cheat codes make it that easy to complete I will lose interest. If you acted desperate your ex would have gotten into the routine of ignoring you because you were desperate. He helped me with a fundraiser I was putting on and was so helpful and supportive, over the summer we’d see each other or text every week. I tried not to be needy and I did good for a while but he never gives me answers to any of my questions and he rarely replies to me.
The once a week call would nor even reach 1 hour because he’s tired and had to work overtime. Finally on 27th april, just a day after my bday he said that he was sorry for lying to me and that it was just his obsession to have a girlfrend and nothing else. We had planned a trip for his bday around that time and we still went together but he acing different the entire time.
Unfortunately I started no contact like a week and a half ago naturally without stumbling across this website and then broke it to see what was UP with our relationship.
If I am in that kind of mood then trust me, you aren’t going to get me to talk on the phone.
When you do something like the no contact rule you really don’t want to ignore your ex boyfriend, you want to give him time to calm down and also improve yourself in the process. So, when you stop acting desperate he is going to perk his head up and try to sniff out the reason why you stopped being desperate. I used the time to improve my self by going to the gym, buying new clothes and working on being confident. The end of summer he dropped away and when I reached out he didn’t respond then at an event he ignored me all day. We started talking again and then slowly started flirting again (really, the attraction has always been mutual and there) and became pretty close.
Last week I ended up losing it and sent too many texts which led him to say that I’m cut off but I called 5 days later and he answered.
Then 4 days later I guess he unblocked my number because he texted me yesterday just saying “hey i was just thinking about you. He was repeatedly saying sorry and said that he could help me by being my friend and that he really didnt have any feeling for me.
When we came back I began to pack and one day we got into what was the biggest fight we had ever been in. I wrote him friday about something i did that day that reminded me of a funny memory we had togeyher. I reached out One last time and he said he was leaving town for a month and to have a good rest of summer. I called once everyday for three days and on the third day he just didn’t seem interested in calling so I lost it again and called many times. The day after I texted him again just to see how he was and I was getting pretty neutral responses. A total a waking match were we both said some real bad thing to each other after that it was clear it was time to go. He told me he didn’t have an answer yet, and he said he would be able to talk to me in a month or so when he has a weekend off. Fall came around and I needed closure so I wrote him an email sharing my thoughts and how I had feelings that whole time.
I asked him if everything was okay with us and he told me that yes and that hes good but that he texted me on this day and never got a response so he wasn’t sure.
Things eventually calmed down and I continued to pack and slowly move my things out for the next couple of weeks. I asked me what situation we were in, and he said I wanted to take a break, so we were taking a break. A couple of days after I accidentally found out that he has a facebook account without my knowledge when I installed facebook messenger but when I asked him about it, he simply changed his account name and privacy setting. Should I start the 30 day no contact rule and just not reply all together if he ever contacts me again?
During my last weeks there we did apologize to each other for the fight we were also intimate twice. A month passed by and he didn’t contact me, so I emailed him saying that I was done waiting for his answer that never came. We talked for maybe half the day but I feel like I was the one trying to keep the conversation alive.
Eventually I moved out and we spoke here and there few times before not speaking for two months. I want to try the No contact Rule but I don’t know if I need the other book the Ex BF pro book instead.
Oh, I did that because he was constantly posting things on Facebook, so I knew he had free time.
Afterwards he began to contact me and we had lunch few times and he took our dogs to the vet. Then I said sorry and brought up the facebook thing saying that he must be hiding something from me. Then, after 3 days, I sent him a message thanking him for all the lesson that he eventually taught me . We also had festival pases and we both went separately but eventually linked up the entire time there but he treated me just as an acquaintance would. Days after the festival he posted a picture on his social media with a girl I’m not sure who she is no one around me knows either. He said that im the amazing person he has ever known, and he has never had these feelings for anyone before. He got extremely upset when he found out she had a new boyfriend so I thought I should back off a little. And two weeks after I sent him a message about something that remind me of him, and I asked him if this is really what he wanted.
I was destroyed after seeing the picture and can no longer contain my emotions I text him and asked for the remaining items in the apt I had left behin when I had moved out four months prior.
He began to question why I wanted them and I eventually told him i was still very much in love with him and that I was suffering.
He said that I didn’t make an effort and I never made a move on any of the hints he was giving me. He went on to say I was someone very special and important and he will always care about me.
I was so worried about how he was feeling and giving him space that I never thought about voicing what I wanted. He said hopes to become great friends and said if I cut him off he will be hurt but can’t stop me.
He also told me he will always love me like family and I will always special place in his heart. Nothing crazy, just the kind of upset you’d be when you find out someone you really wanted to be with is with someone else because you were too afraid to make a move. At first I agreed, but then he said he doesn’t want to stop kissing, or stop seeing each other or holding my hand.
I picked up the remaining things that night and did not say a word to him even though he wanted to have small talk. He told me that if I thought it was unfair that I should’ve done something about it and that I needed to be an adult and accept it. I just want to end this but I’m not sure if writing a break up letter would be the best thing to do. We have been kissing and holding hands (even in public!) for three months now, and hooking up too.
He forever text me for my bday few days later and also text me to wish my mother a happy Mother’s Day but I have not responded. I decided I didn’t want to go back to being just friends, because my feelings are there, and I believe his are too, after he continually makes such intense, appreciative comments to me spanning 4-5 months.
I’ve went by work a couple of times and just tried to have a casual conversation and it was the worst. During this time, he is also casually dating his ex-girl who lives across the country, in Alaska, who he seems 3 times per year, and tells me constantly how miserable she makes him, how they weren’t meant to be, how much he and her fought, and in the same sentence how little he and I fight and how much he loves our friendship.
I am wondering based on my situation can this relationship ever be rekindled or should I move on? I helped him through a lot, was there listening to his problems, helped him get someone to talk to. I think maybe part of it is that he still has feelings for me, that doesn’t go away after two weeks.
I fundamentally believe checking to make sure that someone who is single and lives alone is OK is good behavior.



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