29.05.2014

Indian girl name numerology

Even now, at the age of 21, I worry at the thought of marriage; there is career and success waiting for me, and I am too young. Early marriage affects both boys as well as girls in India, but the incidences of young girls marrying older boys or men are far more abundant. Sitting outside the hutment, a woman with dusky skin, a slender stature, a white-blue saree with yellow-red flowers on it, maang mein sindoor and galey mein mangalsutra – Kamala Devi tells us about her marriage. Kamala may have been lucky because she escaped a long life of suffering and abuse but there are still millions of little girls in the rural pockets of our country, just being born to be married off before they can even complete their education. Early marriage encourages an early initiation into sexual activity when a girl’s body and mind are still developing and unprepared. Jagdish Prasad learnt from his mistakes, but how many more Jagdish Prasads will it take for our country to wake up to the grave encroachment that is early marriage? 1) The crimes against male children often outweigh those against females, please mention your source. You go and comment on every post about feminism and how the author ignores a lot of so called facts.
3) Yes a few dowry cases are false, but even you can not deny that so many women have been burnt alive for that dowry, but by your logic highlighting that is bigotry.
4) Whether child marriages are done for escaping dowry or not bearing the costs of feeding the girl child, it is wrong and again highlighting the plight of girls does not mean any body is ignoring the injustices done to boys. 5) Do read about the pioneer works of people like Margret Sanger and others like her and you will then realize that feminism was always about getting women the same rights that men enjoy and are usually denied to women. 6) Also please realize that when one talks about the injustices done to one group, it isn’t implied that they are ignoring the other group. Why don’t you talk about the biases that men face on a daily basis, about how courts give men stricter sentences for the same crimes that women commit, about how juries give verdicts against men in domestic disputes, about misandry in the media, about sexism against men, about how men are locked up in false cases of rape, dowry, and domestic abuse, about how their oppressors do not face punishment over false accusations, among a host of other things. Fabricated allegations of rape, dowry, and domestic violence never seem to be a subject of discussion among people. Also, it is a fact that men are also victims of rape and face domestic violence at the hands of women. Men work in the army, men work as construction workers, men work as coal miners, and throughout history men have worked dangerous jobs to feed and support women, often losing their limbs and their lives. No body is denying the fact that there are many cases of injustices against men, and yes some laws meant for protecting women are being misused to harass and blackmail. I never denied it, what I was trying to say was, 1) mention your sources of the figures you quote. You spoke about seats being reserved for women in the buses and metros, here is an idea, can you surely say that they will not be groped or molested in someway or the other if they are standing in the crowd and then will here the excuse that madam dhakka laga tha, ghalti se haath lag gaya?
I would also like to mention that this patriarchal attitude is not just prevalent in rural areas or low income society.
Yes, maybe child marriages are not that prevalent but the outlook of raising a girl child just to marry her off is still a very common line of thought amongst the parents. To see our content at its best we recommend upgrading if you wish to continue using IE or using another browser such as Firefox, Safari or Google Chrome. Kateri Tekakwitha, whose life in colonial America during the 17th century was marked by tribal conflict, dispossession and illness, was known as "Lily of the Mohawks".
The epidemic killed her parents and left her an orphan, after which she was adopted by the chief of a neighbouring clan.
I'd be living my normal day, and then the thought would hit me -- "Matt has a son" -- and my whole world would get turned upside down. Three years and six friend babies later, I'm 32 and have numbed to the whole thing considerably. This new phenomenon in my life has introduced several new experiences -- things like "having your feelings hurt and losing self-confidence because your friend's toddler doesn't like you" and "learning that talking about the baby as a 'toy' or a 'pod' and commenting on 'it not having a brain yet' is less funny to the baby's parents than it is to you." But perhaps the most frequent new experience is finding myself in discussions about baby names, both in the form of talking to the impending parents and pressuring them to reveal the candidates, and talking to other friends about the eventual name choices behind the new parents' back. You'd assume that thinking about baby names is a new thing in my life, but I've actually had a lifelong fascination with the topic. My curiosity rose to a whole new level the day I discovered an amazing website called The Baby Name Wizard, and especially their Voyager tool, which lets you plug in a few letters or a whole name and see a visual depiction of its corresponding popularity trends over time. So, for all these reasons, it seemed like the right time for a post about names, trends, and the things expecting parents need to think about as they make this decision. These names are often biblical, or sometimes those of famous royalty, and they're bigger than any one generation -- William is not a typical old man's name or young guy's name -- it's just William. This is part of a broader trend away from conformity: In 1880, the Top 4 boys names (John, William, James, George) covered one in every four boys.
This category is perfect for parents who are far too thrilled with themselves and are having far too special a child for a Timeless or Top 10 Name, but who also look down upon those who go for a Super Weird Name as annoying or unclassy.
You know when everyone calls a guy by his nickname except his parents, who use his full three-syllable name? To me, studying Name Fads throughout time yields the most interesting information because it speaks about something society is doing as a whole at a given time. A few decades after that, Jennifer can look forward to having an Old Lady Name, which happens when a name belongs to lots of old ladies, but no one under 75. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it's a fact that Jennifer is irreparably branded with her generation forever. In 30 years, the names Natalie, Chelsea, Samantha, and Lindsay will sound how Nancy, Cheryl, Susan, and Linda do today.
Sophia (or Sofia) is in the Top 6 baby names in Italy, Finland, Denmark, Germany, Russia, Ukraine, Argentina, and Chile. To stress how much more popular the biggest names used to be, Mary was six times as popular in 1880 as either Sophia or Emma is now.
So to be clear, Gunner and Gael are currently more common baby names than Phillip or Scott.
After dying out as a popular name for Southern women a few decades ago, Charlotte has returned as a popular name in the most liberal states.
So there are a bunch of middle-aged conservative women and liberal toddlers out there named Charlotte.


Utah got into the name in the early '70s by itself, and then suddenly in 1980, everyone else decided to jump on board. Sophia was originally for the richest states, before it got so popular everyone got into it.
Meanwhile, Victor is mainly found in the Southwest, Colton in the middle of the country, Caroline in the East, and both Adrianna and Dominic are mostly contained to New Mexico. Names starting with a vowel were hottest now and 100 years ago, while many names starting with consonants were biggest in the middle of the century. John, William, James, George, Joseph, Michael, Thomas, David, Frank, Henry, Mary, Elizabeth, Sarah, and Margaret. And now, many of the most popular baby names are popular with both genders, as if each gender can't handle the other one innovating without being included. A lot of my time was spent doing what my mother and father said I should, and after my marriage, what my husband expected of me.
Early marriages occur in direct proportion with the economic health of a family as well as its size.
This girl is still coming to terms with the changes her body is undergoing; she is not made aware of sexual health and reproductive health measures, nor is her body ready for pregnancy. If I have this right as a citizen, then why are these million other citizens depraved of the choice that will shape and affect the rest of their lives? It is a blatant infringement on the rights and life of a child, robbing them of their potential.
While feminists claim to fight for the rights of both sexes, their articles do not shed light on the horrendous plight of boys who are forced into early marriages, who face abuse, violence, hardships, have to give up on their education and dreams, and are thrust with the responsibility of another human being when they are not even at an age when they can’t even support themselves. I don’t deny that men have issues too, however, when someone chooses to write an article about a topic, they write an issue about that topic and not about everything else. I hope you do realize that most of the child marriages are between a young girl and an older man?
The plight of girls is highlighted more because it is the girl who is subjected to torture and sexual abuse. I will give a ridiculous analogy over here which may not be connected to the issue being discussed in the article but will explain what I am trying to say.
Whata€™s worse is that there is no punishment for women who falsely accuse innocent men of crimes they have not committed.
A womana€™s portrayal as the a€?abla naria€™ has not helped, for womena€™s cruelty can be seen in the violence they perpetrate on their domestic help and daughters-in-law, and of course, their husbands. Even today, men protect the borders of our country so that we can sleep in peace, and I believe that a€?wea€™ includes women.
It was only highlighting the injustices faced by girls who are married off at an early age. This article talks about a different issue altogether, respect it, agree with it or disagree, don’t go on changing the issue to how men are ill treated in an article talking about how women are ill treated. I thought these things would have perished with time, but ur article gives an insight view of the society. The actual field desires of far more excited writers just like you that are not fearful to state the direction they believe. The print will be sent in a board-backed envelope to ensure it reaches you in perfect condition. After many hours on The Baby Name Wizard (and the government's official name database), here are my thoughts (focusing on the U.S. The Top 10 boys names in the 1880s share six members with the Top 10 boys names in the 1950s: John, William, James, Robert, Charles, and Thomas. We don't give a shit about what other people think." And again, if the kid's awesome, a weird name just makes them even more awesome. It turns out that sometimes you're not the only one who loves that fresh, oh-so-pretty name, and a Name Fad happens when millions of Category 3 couples all start to say "Wait I like that" when they hear about someone else making a great Category 3 choice (it can also be started by a famous person -- e.g. And in 60 years, the names Ethan, Cody, Brandon, and Matthew will be Earl, Chester, Bernard, and Melvin.
Emma is Top 6 in Ireland, Finland, Norway, Canada, Denmark, Belgium, Netherlands, France, Italy, Switzerland, Austria, and Germany. And Lyric, Paisley, and Brooklynn with two n's are all more common than Lindsay, Caitlin, and Erica.
This graph shows popularity in each state over time, with the states going from most conservative on the top to most liberal on the bottom. The same phenomenon goes for Natalie, Aubrey, Riley (m), Jaxon, Paisley, Braxton, and Lacey. Each of the following names has had the other gender in the Top 1,000 during some stretch of the past (click on a name to see its history with the opposite gender). Justifying their decision to marry off their little girls, parents often say that they can avoid a hefty dowry by marrying off the girl young, when in reality, giving or receiving dowry is considered a crime under Dowry Prohibition Act 1981.
Complications during pregnancy and childbirth are the leading cause of death among girls in the age group of 15-19 years. Right after the wedding the girl is taken to her husband’s home which is often in another town or village, where she is expected to fulfil the role of a wife, domestic worker and soon a mother.
I stopped him and told him to let the little child study, to let her study for as much as she wanted and to not spend money on her wedding.
It is the result of a dominant regime of patriarchy, gender discrimination and an unequal distribution of wealth and power in a post modern world.
We must have the audacity to say stop, to educate parents about the importance of educating their daughters, of the prospects of a career and a bright future for her. The crimes against male children often outweigh those against females, yet we remain oblivious to the fact. There might be some where the groom is also a child – I do not deny that, however, child marriages seem to happen predominantly between a young girl and an older man.
More importantly, if there are more mouths to feed than can be fed, and the parents want to marry off a child to save money, who do you think they would marry off?


Show me one study – just one that is uses proper statistical methods and says 75% of dowry cases are false. It is the girl who has to bear the pain of pregnancy at a time her body is physically incapable of at such ages.
When one says that Dada is a good batsman, does not mean they are ignoring Sachin, it is just that they are at the moment talking about Dada. The draconian Indian laws have led to an increase in the suicide rate among men, where a woman simply has to accuse a man of abusing her, physically or sexually, with little evidence, if any, and land him behind bars. When the Titanic was sinking, it was men who said a€? women and children first,a€? knowing they will be dead and could have chosen to leave.
On Feb 25, 2014, 59 Nigerian school boys were killed by Boko Haram; some were shot, others had their throats slit, while the remaining were burnt alive, but there was so little international coverage it was almost as though the incident did not take place.
In 1950, only 5 percent of parents strayed out of the Top 1,000 names when naming their child. What this means for all the Jennifers of the world is that while they've enjoyed spending most of their life so far with a cute, hip, young girl name, they are on their way to having a Your Mom's Friend's Name. We're still close enough in time to the red name fads that they seem really common, but they're actually just fads.
These girls are just children, innocent and unaware of what their life holds for them; that they might be a bargain their parents are willing to make, to protect the family’s honour and for patriarchy’s sake.
They say that they are protecting the little girl from promiscuity and unwanted male attention, ensuring social and economic safety for her.
My state was so bad that I felt I couldn’t survive anymore.” Kamala’s father says that her in-laws started demanding dowry, and when he couldn’t pay up, they used to beat her and abuse her.
Young girls who marry later and have babies after their adolescence have healthier pregnancies and healthier bodies. The husbands usually are much older than the young bride and have less in common with them; the purpose of the bride then becomes to prove her fertility. It is also the result of a lax administration, which turns a blind eye toward a heinous practice that is robbing the country of its development and progress. Also, young girls are not married due to dowry concerns, a lie that the article wants us to believe. Three months later, when Nigerian girls were kidnapped, the Obama administration, media, and feminists suddenly woke up, and there was an uproar and campaigns and what not.
It only talks about what little girls have to face and even you can not deny that crime against women is much higher than crime against men.
A Your Mom's Friend's Name happens when lots of middle-aged people have a name that no young or old people have. We live in a country which wages war at men who brutalize and vandalize a woman’s honour, but is it not criminal to let your little girl’s innocence be destroyed at the hands of an unknown, in the name of marriage?
India is transforming into a nation that seeks justice for women, equality in the workplace and equal status in the household; we are rapidly pushing our way into independence and success. Early marriage, impacts the child’s psychological well-being, education, physical health as well as the well-being of her offspring.
This little girl in her dire need for survival pushes herself to reproduce, and to fulfil the expectations of her husband and her in-laws. Children are the future of our nation we say, why then have we marginalized half our female population from being included in that future? What better source could you have than the words of the parents who performed the marriage? Violence against boys is the same as violence against girls, but those 59 innocent boys were not a subject of discussion because they were boys.
He has a mission in life and that is to deliberately put fingers in his ears and go nanananana…. You will make better choices.” Little did my grandmother know that what she suffered nearly 65 years ago is the dogged fate of nearly one third of the young girls in our country even today. Unfortunately, there is a vast disparity between the sections of society who actually see the change and participate in it and the section completely oblivious to the possibility of change. It increases the risk of cervical cancer, sexually transmitted diseases, obstetric fistulas, malaria, maternal mortality and depression. Also, feminists continue ranting about dowry being a crime without ever mentioning that 75% of dowry cases are false, where men’s lives, careers, families, reputation, and future is destroyed by cunning and greedy women. Also, women must feel really oppressed by the fact that seats are reserved for them everywhere, from the political arena to the corporate world. Now imagine if the same has happened to 59 Nigerian girls a€“ would we have been so silent?
What about her parents’ fundamental duty to protect her from violence, exploitation and abuse?
We forget that there are those girls who never make it to school, let alone the workplace, the girls whose parents are still unaware of the world of potential hidden in a daughter, the parents who do not understand the future they have planned for their girls.
All parents say they want the best for their children, but why then is this noble intent diverted into a catastrophic act that is early marriage? She will be married one day, when she is independent and capable, when she has the maturity to understand the world, when she is ready to fulfil all her responsibilities and stands on her own two feet. Then my daughter will choose to get married.” If you are seeing this injustice happen around you, you have it in you to stop it.
In the process, she loses her childhood, the opportunity to play and learn, make friends and mistakes, she skips a whole developmental milestone!



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