I am a professional free lance writer, spending my days doing what I love while curled up with my cats and the perfect cup of coffee. The manner in which the title of your piece implies that all older men are the same as this selfish man: -That gives me pause. I’ve dated older men too, and i feel it is an emotional immaturity in the man and a tendency to control that draws to young women. Her adult life started largely conventionally when she married her childhood sweetheart, Marcus, when she was twenty-seven-years old. But after fourteen years together, Marcus declared that he was leaving Laila for a younger woman. David fell head-over-heels in love with Laila and popped the question after a year of dating.When David was posted to Germany, they moved together. Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. According to a recent study at Germany’s Max Planck Institute, a man has a better chance of NOT dying early (exactly by a fifth)A  if his bride is between 15 and 17 years his junior. So, in other words, these women now have real statistical ammo when seeking out their sugar daddy.
Here’s the kicker, ready, brace yourselves ladies, the results suggest that women do not experience the same benefits of marrying a younger man.
Women that marry men that are older or younger (between 7 and 9 years) increase their chances of dying early. 1) Natural Selection: only the healthiest and most successful older men are able to attract younger mates. Thank you, Dale, for acknowledging a few very common truths from the world of online dating.
Now you’re going to get the same song and dance as every other guy who has written to complain about women on the Internet.
Understand, Dale, there is nothing wrong with you being attracted to a fertile and youthful woman in her 30’s. I hate spam as much as you do, therefore I will never sell, rent, or give away your email address.
If everyone is looking downstream, age-wise (except the few who have a “kink” for older types), where does that leave those of us who really are looking for a peer?
Do yourself a favor and don’t let the older man not enter the dating picture with you. Other than the obvious of younger people being seen as more beautiful and vibrant, there is a major reason why men prefer younger women at any age. I actually had plenty of older, successful men interested in me throughout my years of dating, but they didn’t interest me beyond a few dates.
So no, not all women prize money over everything – I am testament to that, as are my friends. So if you have superficial criteria for dating, please don’t project that on to the rest of us.
I have found by discussing this with nearly every guy I know that men for the most part ARE attracted to women who are younger.
Also, I would note that on most of the online dating sites, most women are doing one of three things. What I will say first is that I have been talking with women both in South America, such as Brazil, and also women in the Orient.


Both women from South America and he Orient tell me that they notice a huge lack of respect for men when they come here. So should it really come as a surprise that more and more men are turning to other countries? I don’t have any issues with woman having power, but it seems you have a problem with men still having power. I really am not bothered by what anyone here thinks because I know what my own life is like. You may get it but it seems most do not and most here seem to be deluding themselves as to the reality.
It seems to me you give out solid advice, at least most of the time…solid enough that any woman who chooses to learn from it should be able to solve her problems with men, because in all likelihood, her problems have more to do with her default attitude toward men. As the old saying goes, keep doing what you are doing, and you will continue to get the same results. Rusty a lot more women are going for younger men because those men are fit and look much better than men your age and over.
I am 57 almost 58 belong to a gym work out everyday DO NOT NEED VIAGRA and my wife tells me I am sexually satisfying in every way! Priya you sound very self-centered wait till you get older then maybe you will respect older men! Yes, it is just your personal opinion, and not one shared by myself, or other women I personally know who will date men up to 12, maybe 15 years older. I am filled with an adventurous spirit, and can be found traveling the world, finding treasures in second hand shops, or exploring new foods. Some people say it’s the younger body, but someone looking for love looks for other things besides youthful skin, like comparability. Neither the service provider nor the domain owner maintain any relationship with the advertisers. The pair were happily married for five years but David’s parents disliked the fact that Laila was much older than him.
How does a 56 year old man find a good younger woman that would be interested in marriage and willing to have children by him? You’re done with the bar scene and you’re very much interested in settling down to have a family of your own.
You get BOMBARDED by emails from fifty and sixty something Baby Boomers looking to trade up in the world. If you truly listen to what most women tell you they want in a man, regardless of age, they want financial security. Women today are abandoning their roles as house wifes and want to be like men, thanks to the feminist movement. And yeah, the guy the author was talking about was a dick, straight up—there was definitely going to be no future in that relationship. In case of trademark issues please contact the domain owner directly (contact information can be found in whois).
You double check your profile to see if there’s something you wrote that’s attracting these older men. We’re all so dazzled by looks and youth that we pass up amazing people who are a much better fit.
I do know, however, that as long as they close their minds to dating people who are age-appropriate, they’re really going to struggle with online dating.


Instead of searching through hundreds of thirtysomething women who wouldn’t give you a second look, Reverse Match shows you who IS open to dating a 56-year-old man. I think the record so far is the 74-year-old who said he could have his daughter pick him up at the nursing home and bring him into the city if I were willing to meet for coffee.
Not only financial security today but they want someone that projects the possiblitly of even more financial security in the future.
I have been the breadwinner throughout our relationship and when times were economically tough she would be unpleasant and demanding. Also any man looking for foreign women usually find them in developig countries- as in they (the women)  are desperate and need that golden ticket to the US. Most are bald which is absolutely revolting, have huge stomachs and can’t even see their own equipment. I’ve been there too, and i really am disturbed by my relationships with these men, much more then the others, but as a rule, i think both men and women, have experienced someone trying to tell them how to live their life.
At least you know that a woman on MillionaireMatch might be more willing to sacrifice youth for security. Even women of significant means rarely get involved with men who have less financial resources than they do.
I was treated like a possession that had to deliver her lifestyle needs and loving attention or else. I prefer to find a guy who has a decent job and career who can be a good friend and partner. You definitely need a wake up call you probably date a guy in his 30’s that takes you for granted do not knock us older guys we know how to treat women right! Older men are a lot calmer and have more patience where as the guys my age expect everything to be instant! About a year ago I met a very attractive and intelligent 22 year old woman at work who sought me for the financial security I could provide. Chances are a guy like that is close to my age and we are in the same place in life facing similar challenges. Yet these men keep on writing – talking about how they’re young for their age, how they’d love to have children, how they have everything in life except a good younger woman.
This does not mean that you’re not a great guy with a ton to give and the purest intentions.
He says, if I have to financially support all these women I may date or marry it, I might as well get something out of it. Of course, in my dating adventures I always come across much younger guys who are very attractive and I will dally with them for a little while before going back to my search for Mr. Now I am seeking a young partner who does not take me for granted and appreciates what I have to offer. But, no less shallow than the majority of women expecting men to provide their financial freedom rather than being happy earning it themselves, and marrying and otherwise great guy. It doesn’t stop older men from writing, but at least you don’t have to explain yourself to a man who doesn’t want to hear your perfectly valid explanation.



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