When an attractive woman first gets into a relationship, she’ll usually still have a number of other guys who are trying to pursue her.
If she is serious about you, she will let the other guys know that she is no longer available because you are her boyfriend and she’s not planning on break up with you. However, sometimes a woman will text other guys to make you jealous because she doesn’t feel like she has enough power over you, or she wants to test how confident you are in your attractiveness to her compared to other guys.
Personally speaking, my girlfriend (who recently became my wife) was 20 when I met her and I was 35. When we first began our relationship, she had one particular guy (who she’d hooked up with a few months before) who was trying to pursue her via text and Whatsapp.
So, when I was sitting with her on the sofa during the first week of our relationship and some other guy kept texting her, I just let it unfold.
The only thing that crossed my mind was that I wanted to see if she’d eventually talk to me about it and ask me for advice on how she could get rid of him. When she continued to see that I wasn’t reacting an insecure way to the texts and Whatsapp messages that kept coming through, she eventually said, “Hhh!
We were in my lounge room at the time and I said in a confident, easy-going and sincere way, “Whatever you want. Essentially, because she was a hot, 20 year old girl, it was only natural for her to want to text and get attention like that from another guy. The fact that I didn’t get insecure or jealous allowed her to be able to feel a deep respect and attraction for me that would have been impossible to feel otherwise.
She knew that I could easily attract other women (I had 4 other women in my life at that time), so she didn’t want to play hard to get with me and get dumped. If your girlfriend is attractive and could easily get another guy, you’ve got to make sure that you feel like you are more than good enough for her, rather than feeling like she is making a mistake by being with you. If you can honestly believe that the other guy is nothing compared to you, then you will naturally come across as more attractive and appealing to her because you will be confident and emotionally secure, rather than insecure.
When you know that you’re more than good enough for a woman, you can smile and even laugh at any tests she tries to put you through. When a woman sees that you have that kind of belief in yourself, it makes her feel a deep respect and attraction for you that she could not experience if you were insecure. As you will discover from the video above, women often think, behave and act in a completely different way than most men expect them to. This is why, when a guy asks me, “Should I be worried that my girlfriend keeps texting another guy?” I have to explain that even though in certain circumstances it can be okay (e.g.
Although it is fine for a woman to be social and friendly with other men at times, if she is flirting and texting with another guy when you’re in a long-term relationship, then there is a problem. If you’re worried that she’s rapidly losing interest in being with you, what should you do that she is texting another guy?
You probably don’t want to become one of those insanely jealous, controlling boyfriends who forbid their girlfriend to talk to other guys, right?
However, if your girlfriend texting another guy is making you feel disrespected, it’s definitely up to you to make her stop, especially if you’ve been in a relationship more than a couple of months. You have to get her to respect you, but don’t try to achieve that by getting angry and forcing her to show you respect. For a relationship with a woman to be successful, you have to make her feel lucky to be with you. As you will discover from the video above, it doesn’t really matter what you look like in comparison to this other guy. What’s important is whether or not you are making her feel attracted to your personality and who you are as a man.
Use the advice in that video to ensure that her texting doesn’t turn into cheating and then a break up with you. If your girlfriend is feminine, then you have to make sure that you are very masculine in how you think, feel, behave and take action in life.
Just like a magnetic force attracts with a positive and negative, humans feel attracted when there is a clear difference in masculine and feminine energy. If your girlfriend is turning to another guy, you may have been making the mistake of being too neutral, too masculine (e.g.
As a man, you’ve got to take on the responsibility of deepening the love, respect and attraction that your girlfriend feels for you over time. It’s about being a man that she can look up to and respect, rather than being a sensitive, insecure guy that she feels she needs to take care of emotionally or a careless, asshole of a boyfriend who expects her to stick around because things were good at the start. If a guy fails to deepen a woman’s love, respect and attraction for him over time, the woman will gradually begin to lose interest in being in a relationship with him. In the past, women had to stick with one man for life because it was shameful to get divorced (people got married, rather than being boyfriend and girlfriend), but in today’s world, a woman can break up with as many guys as she wants.
If your girlfriend is texting another guy, whether behind your back or even right in front of you, she is clearly letting you know that something about your attitude or behavior in the relationship has changed, and it is causing her feelings for you to change. From now on, you are either going to change your approach to her and get her to feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, or you’re going to potentially ruin the dynamic further and lose her. Now that you’ve managed to find my site here, you don’t have to sit around and wait for the day when your girlfriend comes to you and says, “It’s over. If you want to avoid getting dumped by your girlfriend because of this other guy, you’ve got to make some changes right now.
If you have a think about it for a minute, you could probably come up with several reasons why your girlfriend is unhappy with you.
If she has to spell it all out, she will end up feeling like his mother who has to teach him the rules of life – or in this case how to behave like a real man in a relationship. So, the first step you need to take is to figure out what is really causing your girlfriend to lose interest in being in a relationship with you. Failing to rise through the levels of life and your true potential, because you’re hiding behind the safety of your relationship with her. Feeling insecure about losing her to the point where you can’t control your jealousy. When you know the real reasons why your girlfriend is losing interest in you, you can make the correct changes that will make her feel understood and happy again. When she feels a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you, the other guy will become less appealing to her. On the other hand, if you don’t know exactly what she really wants you to change, you might keep making the same old mistakes, or you might try to change the wrong things. There’s really no point in figuring out what is causing your girlfriend to turn to another guy, if you don’t then make a serious effort to begin improving your appeal to her.
Your girlfriend is only going to begin taking you seriously again, when she sees that you’re rapidly improving in the areas that were turning her off.

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What a lot of guys don’t realize is that most women are open to having sex with a guy pretty quickly these days. A recent study in America for example, discovered that 55% of couples had sex on their first date.
Instead of giving you a massive list of bad text messages that guys send to women, I’m going to explain where guys go wrong when texting and why it turns women off. To simply create a list of bad texts for you would not be accurate because what may be a bad text from ONE GUY, will actually be a funny and exciting text from ANOTHER GUY. Sure, some girls like it because they are too shy to talk to the guy, but most women, especially beautiful women, get annoyed by guys who try to organize everything via text. When texting becomes a man’s primary form of communication with a woman, it can make her feel that she isn’t important enough for him to call her or she will assume that he’s too nervous to call her.
I also let him know that women do NOT find that style of texting impressive or attractive…at all. I realize that some guys reading along now might be a bit confused because they may know of some guy who write like that and still get laid. It’s okay to use slang and abbreviations when texting women, but if you go overboard with that stuff it will make some women assume that you lack maturity.
Presumably, you wouldn’t send a text like that to an important client or your boss at work, would you?
It is fine for a girl (or even a grown woman) to write like a girl, but it is not fine for a guy of any age. If you’re texting a woman that you like, make sure that you give her a chance to miss you. The most important thing is how you make her feel when she interacts with you on a phone call and in person. If the woman that you like is attractive, she will usually have a lot of different guys messaging her online and to her phone.
Additionally, by constantly texting or messaging a girl, you become the opposite of what women refer to as a challenge. Often, the same types of guys who send women text after text will expect her to reply to the messages immediately.
He might even feel compelled to send a desperate message like, “Hey, I sent you a message yesterday. If she doesn’t reply and he keeps trying to reach out to her, her attraction and respect for him will dwindle away with each additional text. Most women are more turned on by how a man’s personality and behavior makes them feel. For example: Does your conversation style and vibe turn her on, or do you turn her off and make her feel awkward or tense when you talk to her? We men get turned on by a woman’s physical appearance, which is why porn is so appealing to us men and why the porn industry has always been aimed at providing images and videos of sexy women for men to jerk off too.
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Are you saying that e-communication should be short and only for quick notices and should not be a form of important communication?
Additionally, you tried picking her up BEFORE you read The Flow and have likely made a number of mistakes that I explain how to avoid. BTW I got a bar tenders number last night using what Stu and Ben talk about in 21 great ways. Brian here from Ireland, Love this piece, only wish i saw it a lot earlier, I met a girl a few months back she gave me her number and we texted back and forth for a bit, She told me that i texted a bit too much for her, so i stopped texting her and only sent a few texts every now and again, Over Christmas we bumped into eachother on a night out we chatted and well we ended up kissing.
This is a classic example of a girl liking a guy, but then backing out because she realized he was needy and would most-likely end up being very needy, jealous, protective, etc if she decided to have a relationship with him.
I now understand my weaknesses which are making excuses for not going out and approaching girls and desperation. The answer is simple: Rid yourself of those unnecessary weaknesses and become a confident man. Obviously, she is hot, young and sexy, so it was no surprise to me that other guys were pursuing her around the time I met her. Instead, I simply waited to see what would happen and just got on with being my normal confident, positive, forward moving self. If want to be serious with me, then tell him that and if you don’t, then meet up with him. She said it in a more romantic, loving way, but that should give you an idea of her mindset prior to us getting married. Does she feel like she’s got herself an awesome boyfriend, or does she feel as though she might have settled for a guy who may not deserve her?
Love, respect and attraction deepens over time when a guy is confident, masculine, but also loving, caring and considerate. She will slowly fall out of love with him and open herself up to the idea of being with another guy.
Yet, he will try to impress her by taking her out to expensive dinners, telling her how much he loves her and trying to be a nicer, more caring boyfriend.

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So, don’t waste time hiding behind texts and hoping that she asks you out, calls you up or says that she really like syou. However, if it was sent as a joke from a confident guy who has his choice with women, it would be funny and would make the woman laugh. When you call her on the phone, she can easily feel attracted and turned on by hearing your masculine voice and picking up on the fact that you are confident when talking to her.
These days, a lot of guys make the mistake of using a more girly and childish style of writing texts because they think that’s how women want to communicate with guys via text.
When texting your boss or an important client, you’d want to show your maturity, right? Simply write back to her in a more mature, masculine way no matter how girly she gets with you.
The guy who ends up having sex with her or being in a relationship with her is the guy who gets her on a phone call, meets up with her in person and then kisses her and has sex with her.
All it will take for you to be forgotten or pushed aside is for a guy to kiss her in person.
Most women won’t admit that they like a guy who is a challenge, but if you pay attention to female pop singers, you will notice that most of their songs (which they love singing) are about guys who are challenge. If she doesn’t answer or respond in some way within minutes (much less hours or days), he will go into panic mode and start wondering what might be wrong. He might even send a text asking if he has done something to upset her or if she is seeing someone else.
Do you trigger her feelings of sexual attraction when you interact with her, or does she see you as more of a friendly, nice guy that she has no sexual interest in?
However, if you send a woman a sext with a photo of your dick or abs, she will not find it arousing unless you have already attracted her in person with your behavior and personality. However, when you have several BEAUTIFUL women wanting to have sex with you at any given time, you don’t need to do it or want to do it. Only attempt to pick up women at work when you are skilled at picking up women outside of work.
I used a combination of what Stu talks about in his bar situation and what Ben talks about in getting lunch somewhere by being a regular.
Ben, Stu and I have hot girlfriends, our customers succeed with women and our advice is based on being real, being natural and being an authentic, powerful man. About being depressed and wanting to whack yourself, read this Success Isn’t a Straight Line and stop thinking like such a baby. Over Christmas we texted again, but this time it was more her texting loads than me, anyway she was reluctant to meet up (she got hurt in a 3 and a half year relationship)anyway we did meet up and got on great,(her words not mine) a few hours later she sent me a text and said it was all a bit too much for her and she was feeling panicky and nervous and didnt wanna meet again. From my perspective, I am a highly valuable guy and if a girl messes up with me, it’s her loss, not mine. I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too. AOL has the latest sports news and breaking sporting headlines from the NFL, NBA, MLB, NHL, NASCAR, MLS, World Cup Soccer and more!. Simply make her feel attracted to you and then get her on a phone call, meet up with her and start a sexual relationship with her.
It is immature and it is a trend that was started by little girls when they first got phones and computers and were able to phone text or chat online. Whatever age you are, always try to present yourself in a mature, masculine way while also being playful and joking around with the woman. Maybe she likes someone else!” He might then increase the frequency of his texts to make sure he is constantly on her radar. After the second lunch date we had, I got her number, she never answered any of my texts when I requested to see her during office hours. Now that I can properly interact with women they text me back within seconds of receiving a text from me, and of course I make them wait AT LEAST 20 mins if not more (sometimes hours) before I text them back. I could tell that this girl could not give her number out at work so she had to tell me in secret, that just makes me think that she likes me ever more! She even said it one text (over xmas) that she likes me and hopes I keep liking her too.What do I do?? View customer success stories, browse my products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women. It is because they know how to attract women in person, so women are happy to put up with a few minor mistakes like that. The aim will be to get her on a phone call, or if you’re already comfortable with each other, text to arrange a second or third date.
Well I have to go, the girl I met last night is texting me for my last name so she can facebook stalk me!
I have a busy life with work, friends, my girlfriend and everything else I do as a human being. If you choose to learn from random amateurs online, fake dating gurus (like DeAngelo) or worse – from random posts on forums from guys who PRETEND to be successful with women, that is up to you.
Doing this will catch those occasional texts that sounded fine when your typed it but upon reading it comes across wrong. TSN Baseball Analyst Steve Phillips offers his thoughts on the Jays starting rotation, trading hitting for pitching, the David Price sweepstakes and more.
However, if you want real results, real confidence and real beautiful women – learn from us. I do have one question though, I do like to send flirty texts, how do you feel about using smiley faces in flirty texts to let them know I am just kidding around with what I am saying?
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