One of the biggest milestones in a man’s life is the day he asks those four simple words, “Will you marry me?” Between movies like The Notebook and the million wedding boards on Pinterest, women’s expectations seem to only be growing when it comes to every detail about their dream wedding, including popping the question. Proposing used to be as simple as bending down on one knee and praying your girl would say yes, but nowadays, men have a lot to live up to. With all of the expectations women have today, men are finally reaching out for help, and that is where wedding proposal planners, like Alexandra Van Leer, come in. A couple of years ago, hot air balloons, fortune cookies, scavenger hunts and sporting events were the perfect way to go for wedding proposals, but that’s not the case anymore. We spoke with Sarah Pease and Michele and Marvin from the Heart Bandits to get insight into the wedding proposal. SheKnows: Do you think it's getting harder to propose because guys want to keep up with each other? HB: I think it is harder for men to reach their girlfriends' expectations without some help. SK: What advice would you give to someone who's interested in proposing to their significant other? SP: I have an in-depth consultation with each client where we discuss all aspects of their unique love story. HB: We send our client a very detailed questionnaire which helps us get to know details about him, his girlfriend and their relationship. Most men, who are willing to get married, just want a happy and easy-going woman who has good values.
When a man first meets you, and thinks your character trait is OK, he starts to feel he should propose and walk down the aisle with you.
Some women claim to love a man ‘just the way he is’ but little by little, they want to change everything about him. As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so that you are not always clinging to him. A man is comfortable with you when he realises you don’t call on your mother always to make a decision on your affair with him. But why would you want to force a man to marry you when he doesn't seem to be on the same page with you. With the rising trend in larger than life proposals, it's no wonder that businesses like The Heart Bandits, a wedding proposal planning company in Los Angeles, are popping up.
Leer is an Engagement Agent at the Four Seasons Resort Scottsdale and says she's always on the lookout for an amazing way to pop the question!
It's been said that the wedding day is "all about the bride" and I think that the proposal is the groom's chance to show his creativity and thoughtfulness. Nowadays, a man does a flash mob proposal, posts it on YouTube and five million women send that link to their man and say "I want my proposal to be like this." Most men wouldn't even know where to start creating an elaborate proposal like that.


In most cases, you've saved up money for a ring and it's taken a long time to reach this point. There is a reason why people troll the internet looking for the perfect proposal idea, but always come up short.
This session allows me to take everything I learn and create a totally personalized proposal inspired by them.
With the information we learn from that questionnaire, combined with his vision, we create unique and romantic marriage proposal concepts based on his budget.
However, once he starts to feel like he is in grammar school being told what to do by his teacher, he will take a walk.
Though he might be intrigued by a hard-to-get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides that he is interested in her, all he wants is an honest straight-shooter. Just because you have been hurt in the past, don’t be on guard for anything that looks or feels wrong.
Initially, he might like how you look to him for approval and the answer to all of your questions, but soon, he realises that he wants to be intimate with a real woman, not someone who is stuck in her teen years trying to get daddy to notice her. A  lady, who is constantly talking about what other people do and what they have, places a lot of undue pressure on her man.  Be yourself, live your size per time and shun pretences. I was about to enter university when we met, he already had his business then, about 7 years older than me.
To pressure him to make a move, and also to get some money since I was broke, I lied to him dat I was pregnant.
I love this guy, he's been there for me all this while and it doesn't hurt that he is very rich.
Leer says she mostly gets her proposal inspiration from a mix of pop culture, YouTube, Pinterest, personal experiences of friends and acquaintances and magazines. If you sit and brainstorm about your relationship, what makes it unique, what is special about you and your girlfriend and then you base your proposal concept off of that, you can't go wrong. It is because all of the ideas you can find on the internet were created for someone else's girlfriend!
When a man first meets such a woman, he wants to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past. At first, he is flattered that you are so in love with him and wants to be around him always; but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by you.
Initially, this could entertain him but eventually, he begins to wonder what you are saying when he is not around. After I wrote JAMB, I moved to the another country, but my boyfriend visited often and would always come to see me where I was, like 8 times in a year. I'm sorry I did that but I needed the money for something important as I was planning to return to the UK.


If you guys cannot agree, please break it off with him and move on with your life, you will find another person who likes you and who you can love too. If you just think of cool ways to propose, then you start thinking of helicopters and sailboats and your proposal may lack the sentiment that women love.
Come up with a proposal idea that shows her you have been paying attention to her and she will be very impressed. However, once she accuses him one too many times, he will have no choice but to leave her because he can’t go through his life being prosecuted for somebody else’s crimes. If pregnancy won't get him, and after dating for over 5 years, I don't know how else to get him to ask me to marry him. The aforementioned Heart Bandits recently did a proposal in Portland with a man that proposed on a bridge near a waterfall. All cliché proposals like writing "Will You Marry Me" on a plate and dropping a ring into the Champagne glass are awful. ReplyDeletedoll (retired blogger)April 16, 2013 4:45 AMpls just move on, if he gave you money for abortion then he sees no future with you. So asides this two, what other things about him is there for you to say that's why you love him. You told him you were disappointed, then what did he say?My dear, try and use your head and not your feelings at all. Even if he is not ready to get married, he should be happy that they would have a child (love child) together. Frankly, she needs to decide what she wants out of life, how she sees her life and with whom and if they are not on the same page then she has some decisions to make and it is not up to him. Clearly he is not ready and is quite comfortable with the way things are and she based on reading is clearly not.
Look at how he has chosen; he has selected a woman that would allow him to do as he please with little to no impact to him, his direction and plans to the detriment of her, her self-esteem, self-worth and dignity. It is so because she allows it, she is afraid of making that choice, of letting go, of being alone for a brief time in order to bring to her the man she rightly deserves. She needs to embrace the fact that this man may not be THE man for her and there is one who will put her first and see her worth and rise to the occasion..This sistah needs to rise up and be, have the courage to live! And stop selling herself short and washing her dignity down the drain to cleave to a man that does not see her. If he comes to the realization that she is the one and she is still available then perhaps she can choose to walk that road again with specific conditions in place until then she needs to move on, live life, respect and love herself enough to want more for herself and not be used as the IN THE MEAN TIME woman until the one he truly want comes along and he leaves her standing in the dust of what use to be.



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