Most of the time, women are seen complaining that their guys do not act possessive about them. Have you ever wished you could snap your fingers and make a guy fall head over heels in love with you? If your end aims and your initial reasons for making your guy jealous are positive, then you have a good chance of making your dreams come true! Perhaps you feel neglected in your relationship and you want your guy to pay more attention to you? Or maybe you want to give your guy a taste of his own medicine and let him know how you feel when he flirts with other women? What if there is a guy who seems to go out of his way to ignore the fact that you really like him?
If you have other reasons for wanting to make a guy feel jealous, try to think about the outcome you want. If this is the case, then maybe it is better for you to focus on trying to find positive ways to resolve your own issues – work out why you feel the way you do and try to take responsibility for your own feelings, instead of projecting it onto someone else. When you take responsibility for yourself, you are also taking control, and you will feel much stronger and able to focus on things that genuinely make you feel happy and good about yourself. Let’s go back to my favorite reason to make a guy jealous – tapping into his natural male instincts to chase you.
Essentially, when you go about trying to make a guy jealous, what you really want to do is kick start him into action. When you have caught his attention, start to flirt with him too, but not as much as with the others. When he sees that other guys are responsive to your flirtatious personality, you can start to work this to your advantage and make him jealous by directing more of your attention towards the guys who are reciprocating it. As soon as your guy sees that his friends desire you, you will immediately become a more desirable prospect to him.
Often guys have to deal with a lot of peer pressure within their own social groups, and this can affect confidence levels.
The absolute best way to lure a guy into chasing you, once you have caught his attention is by playing hard to get.
Remember: Sometimes invoking seemingly negative emotions in a guy, can work in a positive way to give them that extra prompt they might need in order to get him to share his true feelings with you! How can I show more attention to my boyfriend so he will not try to get attention from other females all the time? Before you even attempt to make your ex jealous lets talk a little about what you want your ultimate goal to be. What I am going to do now is give you a brief overview of how to properly use jealousy and then I will talk about each aspect in-depth. The No Contact Rule- You are not allowed to contact your ex in any way after the breakup for a minimum of 30 days. Alright, now that you have an idea of what the no contact rule is I am going to talk a little bit about the things you can do during the no contact period that can will your ex jealous. I get a lot of emails every single day (random fact- I have 9 unanswered emails in my inbox just from today) and one of the most common mistakes I see from women is the fact that they don’t do anything at all during the no contact period. Look, if you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous I seriously want you to spend those 30 days NOT thinking about him. Disclaimer: Some of the things on this list WILL make you uncomfortable but I am not in the business of being nice for the sake of being nice I am trying to give you advice that will help make your ex jealous and hopefully put you in a position to where you can get him back. If you are an avid reader of this site then you may be aware that I am very much in favor of going out on a date with someone new during the no contact period. Now, I am aware that you are looking for an exact step by step method for what you need to say to your ex but I am not going to get into that here because this page is supposed to only be about the ways you can make your ex jealous (I actually put together a guide about how you can use texting to get your ex back already.) What I will do is give you a few ground rules that you need to follow when contacting your ex. Showing that you have control of the conversation is very important for a number of reasons. Well, luckily for you I have been on the receiving end of quite a few ungettable girls so I can tell you some of the tactics that they were able to use on me that proved to be pretty effective. There is a lot more to the story but as you can see she dominated the very first conversation we had. Bowing Out Of The Conversations By Not Responding- This is a pretty effective way to establish control.
Since we are on the subject of texting lets talk a little about the most important type of text if you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous, the jealousy texts. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of.
I think you need to lay low on dating others but continue to do what you are doing to maintain himself. Inspite of being in the same team we managed to have a complete no contact for about 1 and a half months. After that i called him once to tell him that people are noticing it and we should at least be cordial. My ex-boyfriend and I of six months broke up yesterday due to him cheating on me and lying about it the whole time. Hello dear Chris ,you have helped me so much during my breakup, i used the no contact rule after my ex dumped me admitting he has no feeling for me anymore .after one exact month of no contact rule i unblocked him on whats-app ,he started messaging me straight away he said he misses me a lot and he felt my love during this absence thus he wants us back together , he also showed his jealousy though he is not been the jealous kind of men ,whenever he sees me online on whats-app he keeps asking me who are talking to ,are you seeing someone else, how could you move on like i don`t matter to you .
We are long distance which complicates things but we had a long talk the other night and agreed it’s best that we part ways. Been reading your advice since day 1 of the of a two year relationship break up 3 months ago. If you manage to be friends with your ex guy, it certainly can become a source of jealousy for your boyfriend. Some guys are very secure not to get carried away by feelings of insecurity when you spend time with your friends.
Sometimes the family can be used a manipulative tool to make your guy miss you and feel jealous.


I am sure it is many a girl’s dream come true – to be chased by the guy who makes you weak at the knees, and not have to do anything at all but be your wonderful self! So some girls like to get a guy’s attention by making him jealous – But does it really work?
Sometimes the only way you can make a person understand the effects of their own behavior, and help them to change, is to hand them a mirror!
Can you ignite his natural male instincts to compete with other guys and chase you, simply by making him jealous?
One way of getting the guy you like to take notice of you is to show him that there is competition, and this is where trying to make him jealous can have a positive effect!
You want to show him that other guys want you and that there is a ticking clock if he wants to get in there first. You want to make him work harder for your attention, but you don’t want him to a) Think you’re not interested at all, or b) Be put off because you’re all over him immediately. So even if he didn’t think he fancied you to begin with, the mere fact that other guys are competing for your attention will make him want to be part of the fun too.
Guys who are affected by peer pressure may be more cautious about the types of girls they show interest in, because they need the approval of their peers.
When you play hard to get, you can do small things to create jealousy or more importantly desire, which will encourage your guy to work harder at getting your attention. Now, I can’t guarantee that the tactics on this page will make him jealous because lets be honest, your boyfriend is a human being and most human beings are impossible to control.
BUT I do feel it is important to mention that if you came here looking for a way to get your ex boyfriend back you aren’t going to find it. A married friend of mine once told me a little about the psychology behind a mans thinking and I happen to agree with him.
If you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous for the sake of making him jealous then I don’t think this is the page for you. I want you to go down the checklist I am about to provide and address all of the things on it.
In college, I began to notice a pattern between the girls I liked and the girls I didn’t like anymore. She basically has so much confidence that she reduces a guy into thinking that he can’t get her which really turns 85% of guys on. Remember, I am just going through my phone in the last six months and pulling out conversations with girls who I really really really liked. The girl he was cheating with didn’t know i was his girlfriend because he told her that I was his ex. He was very genuine the whole time and did say that the cheating was an extremely drunken hook up (basically blackout) and he thought he could just leave it be and move past it, but it started to eat him alive when he found out my sister had gotten cheated on. It wasn’t the easiest relationship, we fought quite a bit due to his drinking and I have a habit of trying to make him jealous so I feel wanted.
I said to him if he was him the guy in a certain place the day before that I had seen and that he looked good. My boyfriend dumped me two weeks ago and I have not had any contact with him, but I work with his mom and she and I last talked about him three nights ago (I don’t know if she repeated anything to him or not). Our chemistry is something else though and being with him feels so right but I don’t want to make bad decisions and not sure how to act now.
Make sure that you should never compare your guy with your ex as it can create problems in your relation.
It’s not always necessary to always have your guy as your best friend; it’s for him to understand that you can have a best friend beyond him. It can either be you working at a higher position than him or you devoting more time to work than him. If you have planned out a date with him, just cancel it once it twice for your family, he will surely draw closer towards you because guys like girls who take care of their families because only then they can take care of their guy’s family. It is not about hurting anyone; instead it is about giving them a gentle shove in the right direction! If he secretly already likes you, but hasn’t been showing it, he will suddenly feel under pressure to get your attention, because he can see that he has competition.
Nothing drives a man wilder than when he can’t seem to pin down the girl he is interested in. If you show the guy you like that other guys are interested in you, and want to take you out, then his natural competitiveness will kick in. There’s nothing worse than becoming the guy who the girl goes to for advice on her love life, especially when the guy you go to for your advice is falling for you – Imagine the frustration! With that being said, I have seen many of the tactics outlined on this page work for many of the women I communicate with. It goes like this, most men forget how good they have it when they have been dating or married for an extended period of time. I don’t want to go into too much detail here about it because I have done multiple in-depth posts about it already like this one. I want you to take a moment and imagine how you have felt when, in your previous relationships you caught wind that your ex went out on a date with a new girl. Now, this tactic was risky and only really worked on me because I clearly had feelings for the girl.
A couple of things to note: this girl was probably the most attractive girl I have ever met. I always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she would simply bow out of the conversations whenever she would like. I continued to date others but very subtly to try and make him commit and see my value, he found out and said he couldn’t handle seeing me when I am seeing other people. So, many people have the opinion that cheating is cheating and is unforgivable, however now after talking to him I see he genuinely is hurt because he cried to me saying he missed his bestfriend, and he could not throw away our time together.
He said to me that the guy was so good that he wasn’t him and that he was at home the day before.


Do you think I should start the no contact rule as of three nights ago in case he heard that I am still upset? Just keep your ex as your good friend and you can use him as a source of jealousy for your guy. Either ways it will definitely make your guy feel jealous as well as demanding more time from you which in turn will make him love and respect you more. The less you show you like him, the more interested and focused he will be on finding out what the others see in you. The more unavailable you are, the more attractive you become, because the guy has to work harder to get your attention. His jealousy will act in a positive way and make him want to compete with other guys in order to win your affections. If you can become comfortable enough with your guy to confide in him about all of your love problems though, then not only will you be able to pull at his jealousy strings in order to get him to take action and tell you how he feels, but you will also be providing him with valuable personal insight, so that he has the opportunity to sabotage all of your other dates and keep you all to himself until he finds the courage to ask you out! I was reading a relationship article about jealousy the other day from a pretty well known relationship coach. So, if you want to make him jealous to bring out his protective and romantic side then this is the right page for that.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? I am actually talking about it in this section because I believe that going out on a date (even if you have no intention of actually dating the person) is best to do during the no contact period.
Nevertheless, I was the one putting more effort into the conversation which meant she was in control. Every time i expressed it, it turned into a fight because every time i expressed myself, he would use that opportunity to bring up something he dislikes about me and it would eventually turn into a blame game and we would trace back to about 4-5 fights. Last week we had to see each other and ended up having a really fun time together and hooking up a few times, we both enjoyed our time together and I can tell he misses me, as I do him. Intentionally wanting to hurt a guy by making him feel jealous is cruel, there is no real constructive outcome, and it isn’t going to make you feel any better or achieve anything in the long run. His article basically went on to say that you should never use jealousy to try to get your ex back. IF you are looking for in-depth details and step by step guides to getting an ex boyfriend or husband back I would like to point you towards Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO, my E-Book.
Here is the kicker though, if a couple like the one I am describing (a man who is comfortable and not tending to his woman’s needs) go out to a bar and the woman starts flirting with other guys the dynamic will completely change. Sure, he will be angry and sad but I promise you at the end of the day he is going to question why he ever let you go. However, if she doesn’t challenge me, intellectually or emotionally, I will lose interest. Anyways, she dominated the conversation so much that I literally felt like I had no chance so I just gave up even though I really liked her.
He has now said he needs space because he knows he can’t be in a relationship right now and when he sees me it is torturing him because it makes him want me and he says whenever he sees thing on facebook, his mum asks about me or I text him it is torturing him and he has a mental battle in his head. Also, not that I think this is going to happen, but what if he contacts me before the NC period is up? Tip: When you start accepting dates from other guys, you are basically putting your guy’s chase on a timer, which actually makes it more exciting and intense for him! The truth of the matter is that the amount of free information that actually works is a rare commodity but I think I have done a pretty good job of leading the way in that regard. I have found that the rules I am about to describe are the most effective at making your ex a little jealous. Even though he said he needs space he has said not for too long and he would like a coffee soon.
All is fair, so I knew he had started to talk to other girls and I did the same by testing the waters with other guys. It worked because a week later he started messaging me telling me he made a stupid drunken mistake again and that this isn’t what he wanted. Guys are more likely to fall deeply in love with girls who were more of a challenge to get.
If you use jealousy in a smart way it is almost guaranteed to bring up previous romantic feelings that your ex had for you. I have done everything I can to this point, texting and showing my value, he tells me that I am perfect and wife material, so my view is if he wants me he will make it happen, if anything I am being too available to him and am going to wait for him to contact me now and keep moving on. I still love my ex and want to be with him but I think he’s conflicted with his feelings. I am treating this space like no contact so was going to continue to show how great I am on social media and also do subtle jealousy, but I am worried this may be wrong in this situation. He says he still loves me but in a way it has changed because when he looks at me he sees all the hurt he has caused me and the mistake he made and he doesn’t know if he can forgive himself. If all of that is making him emotional, do I need him to heel more from the break up to come back to me? However, after agreeing to be friends, he found out other guys had been approaching me and he continued to get jealous and started yelling and saying mean things to me out of anger, saying I didn’t consider his feelings. I said things for the sole purpose of just trying to make him jealous and I took it one step too far and he snapped.
I would like to be with him again at some point as crazy as that sounds, and want to give the NC method a try. Also if my jealousy tactics made him say he can’t see me whilst I am seeing others, is this a negative or positive response?



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