About The Author David Tian (formerly known as The Asian Rake) was born in Taiwan to a conservative Christian Taiwanese family and spent his early developmental years growing up in Kansas City, Missouri and then later Toronto, Canada. I almost forgot to include this in the blog, simply because once you get past a certain level of skill in seducing cougars, the age objection completely disappears. A lot of guys just want tactics on what to say and how to act when meeting women, but it’s very important to set the foundations of your mindset when going after cougars.
Let me start by saying that it’s not my contention that I never get jealous when one of my more serious women has sex with some other guy. As you’ll know, talking dirty with a woman is an art form that, when done properly, can turn her on just with a couple of words and the right inflection of your voice. This post is worth its weight in gold, and the information holds true no matter if you’re talking to women on the Internet or in the grocery store. Okay, so, you’ve got a girl’s number and you’re getting ready to text her for the first time. As you can see, you’re keeping your text message short and sweet, or you’re adding in a bit of humor to make her feel more attracted after giving you her number.
You’re simply letting her know that you’re interested in her and you’re making sure that now she has your phone number too. What often happens to women is that many guys will ask for her phone number, but will never actually get to the point of contacting her.
Yet, most women don’t like to make it too obvious that they are keen because they want to attract a confident guy, rather than making it really easy for an insecure, self-doubting guy to get a chance. This is why it’s a good idea to text a girl when you get her number, rather than trying to act cool by not texting her for a few days. When you text her, you are simply reminding her of the connection you had, and if you managed to make her feel attracted to you when you first met her, she will be excited to see that you are interested in her and are not messing her around like other guys do.
You’re giving her a quick reminder of why she liked you enough to give you her number (e.g. However, even though texting is fine when making contact with a girl for the first time (e.g. When you call her up, she will then be able to laugh, smile and feel good as she listens to how confident, charming and interesting you are as you talk to her.
However, if you just hide behind text, it can often lead to the girl getting bored and losing interest because she isn’t getting to experience the real you.
She wants to hear your voice and see you in person, not just read and reply to text messages for the rest of her life. The main reason why getting a girl on a phone call as quickly as possible is so important, is because a lot of guys can mess things up with her via a text message and blow their chances before they’ve even gotten her out on a date. He just wants to start with a friendship and then hopefully get into a relationship with her.
Yet, what he doesn’t realize is that outdated, early 1900s approach to women is a huge turn off these days.
She wants a good guy who also has some balls, not a scared nice guy who acts like the woman would be doing him a favor by going out with him. Of course, there are some unattractive or desperate girls who have nothing else going on for them in their lives and will find this type of message exciting, but the majority of attractive girls will find it creepy and off-putting. The key to success when texting a girl you’ve just met is to let her know that you’re interested in her, without coming across as though you feel super lucky that she’s given you her phone number. It’s a mistake because girls are naturally attracted to our masculinity, not fake femininity.
Essentially, if you act like a girl, you are as attractive to her as a masculine woman would be to you.
No doubt you prefer girls who embrace their femininity, rather than women who want to be men.
Likewise, girls like guys who embrace their masculinity, rather than acting like they want to be a girl too.
If you want to be attractive to girls, then get into the habit of behaving like a masculine guy at all times; even when you are texting. It’s perfectly fine to text a girl once in a while to say hi and see how she’s doing, however, some guys go overboard and start to overwhelm the girl with constant texts. An hour later, he might text to let her know that he’s thinking of her, and then a few hours later he will text her to tell her that he saw something that reminds him of her. Yes, some girls might think he’s being sweet, but the majority of girl will begin to feel annoyed and turned off. Although girls like to get attention from a guy they like, hearing from him all the time will begin to lose it’s charm. She will take his constant attention as a sign that he is desperate and that he’s got nothing else going on in his life other than annoying her all the time. A girl wants to know her guy is the kind of guy that other women would die to have as a boyfriend, but she is the lucky one who has caught him for herself. Oftentimes, the same guy who overwhelms a girl with texts will also expect her to respond immediately after she gets a message. If she doesn’t reply right away, he will text her again, this time demanding why she’s not responding. What he doesn’t realize is that one of the biggest turn-offs for women is a guy who is insecure.
If you just text with her over the next couple of weeks, another guy can come along, kiss her, have sex with her and begin a relationship and she might then forget about you and get serious with him.
On a phone call, it’s easier to make her feel like she did when you met for the first time (e.g.
Remember: A girl cannot hear your voice over a text message, sense what your body language looks like or see your smile.

It’s just words on a screen to her and if you only give her words, they will quickly lose their charm. Yet, you’ve most-likely heard a girl say that a guy has a sexy voice or that she gets turned on just by talking to him. So, if you like this girl that you just met, make sure that you don’t waste too much time texting her. Alternatively, she might get bored and accept a date with another guy who isn’t wasting too much time texting back and forth and is confident enough to call her. I will email you 3-4 times a week with secret tips, techniques and examples of how to approach and attract women for sex and relationships. I didn't know what to say or do to attract women, so I was single and alone for a long time. When I created the controversial attraction techniques that I now teach here at The Modern Man, beautiful women began flooding into my life and I've enjoyed my choice of women ever since. I've already helped 1,000s of guys to get instant results with women (100s of success stories here) and I would love to help you too. You just need to forget about what you have read on other website which provided you superficial tips.
In my previous article How to start a text conversation with a girl, I said that the curiosity text is one of the best texts to send a girl to start a conversation.
But when it comes to texting a girl you just met, you need to consider the other strategy which is called Radar Text (You can get fully description about Radar Text in the best text messaging book Magnetic Messaging). Anyway, when you are going to text her, you should bear in mind that your text should spark her emotions and your follow-up texts should make connection with her. During the conversation, Joe found that the Sue’s father had passed away when Sue was a kid. When Sue received Joe’s text, she felt a strong connection with him because Joe also lost one of his parents in his early age. The worst thing you can do to text a girl you just met is to go on Google and search for the term “funny text messages to send a girl you just met”.
The problem with those pre-written texts is that they might spark her emotions but they are unable to make connection with her.
Also, this what most guys do, and you need to stand out from the crowd to get her attention and to date her. Instead, he is a fun-loving guy who has been reading dating and psychology books since last 6 years. This entry was posted in Texting a Girl and tagged texting a girl you just met, what to text a girl on March 12, 2014 by Alex J. How do you make sure you meet up with a girl later using all of the tricks that you’ve accumulated over your extensive time learning social dynamics and the art of meeting people? There’s an overwhelming mentality among people who do PUA, especially those that run bootcamps, that you need to stay in an interaction even if it’s going terribly. You might not know what callback humor is – but it’s referencing something earlier that you talked about in the interaction. This is a concept that some people disagree on, but the structure of a joke – a little bit of a hook, investment from the audience, then the punchline – is perfectly oriented to the small character form of text messages.
Most guys will chicken out and think that the woman isn’t interested enough, so they will just go out approaching and meeting women again and hope to meet a girl who makes it super obvious that she is interested.
Why won’t her call me?” and will assume that you’re probably too nervous and insecure to get her on the phone.
They do things based on their current emotions.  Furthermore, they are hard to be convinced by logistics.
When he returned home, he texted a texted which sparked her emotions and which made her feel connected with Joe.
Considering the lesson 1, you need to craft a text which can spark her emotions and make her feel connected with you (You can learn more about Radar text on Magnetic Messaging).
No matter what your mood is before you go out, you’re going to have a good time if you meet new girls, socialize, flirt, and do all the things that men are supposed to do when they’re going out and having a good time with their friends.
Make sure the interaction was actually good, and not something that you push just because you feel like it. And sure, you might be able to turn things around if you bomb on the initial approach, but if you’re getting terrible, terrible flakes – chances are that the interactions aren’t going as well as you thought they were. Everybody wandering around out there has some version of a smartphone that can do an insane amount of activities that somebody trying to court a girl in the 1960’s would never dream of. So, find some jokes, find some goofy pictures, and experiment with what to text a girl you just met.
I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too. And then you need to craft a text which spark her emotions and make her feel connected with you.
Stevenson is not a kind of dating expert who bangs a woman one night and runs after another one next morning. A lot of people who go out and socialize at bars oftentimes enjoy trading their numbers with people – but how do you convert those numbers into actual activity?
They might even be terribly annoyed to be talking to you and giving you their number because they’re polite – it happens all the time. If you bonded over a communal love of the Muppets – talk about how amazing Beaker and Bunsen Honeydew are as a comedic duo. View customer success stories, browse my products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women. They’ll save you in their phone as something like, ‘Never pick up,’ smile at you politely, and pretend like they never met you when you text them days later.

Remind her of her love of absinthe shots, anything that you talked about and do it in a light and flirty way. There are a ton of pictures that you can pull off the internet, hilarious pictures with cats, funny memes, anything that you’d normally be able to make somebody laugh about in an interaction with words – there are pictures for. There are a number of things you have to do during the interaction to maximize the opportunities you’ll get later.
She’ll be much more likely to text you back – and that’s the entire point of this – you want girls to text you back. Just make sure they’re actually funny ones – it’s an easy way to spike an emotional investment in an interaction that’s dying or if you’re bad at making jokes. Phone numbers mean absolutely nothing – good interactions are the thing you should be shooting for. Callback humor establishes an emotional connection – the perfect thing to text a girl you just met. You’re left alone with your phone with her number inside, thinking about her, wondering:How to seduce a girl you just met through textSeducing women is always a challenge, especially when words are your only tools. In communication, body language, tone of voice and facial expressions play important roles. You should be able to shoot for the number, provided that the interaction goes swimmingly, ten minutes into it.
It should be the most natural thing in the whole exchange, to make it seem like you’re not overeager or too excited to get it. Your expressiveness and personality are relegated to the 160 characters available from your cellphone keypad…How many times have you gotten her number and sent her a message but never received a reply? Or even if she did reply, after a while somehow the conversation went stale and you never met in person again.
Simple texts can discourage a girl from meeting you, or step by step accelerate her interest in getting to know you betterThe seduction game becomes more challenging but it’s definitely possible to peak her interest if you text her correctly. Intrigue her with your personality and she won’t be able to resist going out with you!Curious? No matter how hard it is to accept, most guys are similar and a hot girl likely has men pursuing her at all times. Imagine this girl just coming in from a long night out, taking off her skimpy dress, and finally lying down in bed. Keep this in mind and do your best to be original.Play it safeYour texting approach depends on how your interaction went the moment before you took her number. Ideally, to start your conversation, you would refer to something from the conversation you had with her in real life. If you don’t know anything about her other than the fact that she’s hot, play it safe, keep it simple and don’t overthink it too much.
It leaves the conversation open and you’ll know if she’s free to chat.“Hey, what are you doing young lady?”If she’s busy, she’ll tell you or respond when she has time.
There’s no way you can go wrong with that.Use what you know about herIt can be a good starting point for differentiating yourself from the other guys and shows that you’ve actually paid attention to what she’s been saying.
Did you find anything you couldn’t live without?”When she replies you can continue:– “Oh, a black dress!! Keep it shortNo matter how nostalgic you are for the times when men found it appropriate to write overly sentimental missives to their unrequited loves, they’re over. Write something that will grab her attention but nothing too elaborate, sappy, or desperately needy. What girl wants to be with some guy she perceives as having nothing better to do than blow up the phone of some girl he’s just met? Talk about a high-level creep factor.Make her curious but don’t overwhelm her with your messages.
Lengthy texts can make her bored if she’s waiting a while for you to respond.If you’ve been texting each other back and forth for a few days, you really don’t need to look for reasons to text her again, nor do you need lengthy introductions. You should use exactly as many words as you need to grab her attention and seem interesting.
If she responds in 2-3 words, you may not seem too appealing using 4 screens of text to reply. Messaging with your cellphone or by any other communicator is used solely to get her out on a date with you.
I advise trying to meet up with any girl your texting as soon as possible, to avoid wasting time on girls who only want to text for fun.Encourage her to respondWhenever you send her messages check if your messages encourage her to respond.
Leave a question at the end of your text message that maintains the conversation, for example:– “Ps. Women see a sense of humor as one of the most important qualities a man can have.But be careful using too many jokes with a girl you just met. If you weren’t able to get a feeling for her sense of humor when you took her number, play it safe and don’t experiment with too many jokes or sarcasm. For example, when she compliments herself or talks about how good she is at doing something.
When you first message a girl, make your text funny or about something unique that happened to you. He provides tips on how to exercise and eat well, boost energy and feel confident in your own skin. He believes a healthy body and successful social interactions are two main keys to happiness.

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