By clicking on the button above, I confirm that I have read and agree to the Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy. October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and while most women would agree that physical violence has no part in a love relationship, what are more subtle signs that you are not being treated well? He repeatedly blames you for all misunderstandings, mocks your concerns and throws them back in your face. Now, I don’t know your particular situation and cannot tell you if your boyfriend falls into the abuser category. Keep in mind that abusive behavior typically has a circular pattern, so even if things seem better this week, the tension may soon build up again, eventually erupting into ugly arguments and the cycle begins again. Trying to preserve things as they are in the name of harmony is simply not in your best interest. This is extra confusing, because none of your friends or family are able to validate what you’re experiencing. But, if you recognize yourself in these above examples, you should know this is not normal and it’s not okay. You never know what mood he will be in, or what you did this time to upset him, but he is always sure it’s your fault. Often, they tend to get worse over time and might even cross over into the realm of physical attacks. Consequently, you find yourself walking on eggshells trying to avoid problems, but it never seems to work. Often this person has served faithfully in the past; yet suddenly he becomes a raging torrent a€” accusing the Pastor, getting upset with the Pastoral staff, and trying to stir up as much trouble as possible.
The amazing thing is that this person is usually blind to how ugly and ungodly his behavior really is. Often the person even thinks hea€™s doing the Will of God by pointing out the flaws of the Church leadership!A Timothy was having similar troubles with several people in his own congregation.
This is a deceived believer, captured by the enemy and now working for the devil to disrupt the local church!A Offense is usually the entry point the devil uses to seduce a believer into this behavior.
And ita€™s amazing just how quickly a dart of offense from the enemy can be thrown into a persona€™s heart. Equally amazing is the speed in which just one of his evil darts can change that persona€™s perspective of someone he used to honor and respect! In a matter of seconds, his entire view of that other person can become adversely affected.A Like the dripping of water, the devil begins to repeatedly strike a persona€™s mind with accusations against the one who was once so revered. At the moment it is happening, the person really believes that what he is thinking and doingis right. This is a classic example of a believer taken captive by the devil to do the devila€™s will.
I teach basic poses because they offer so much value in their own right, and because they’re great preparation for more challenging poses. He is a master at embellishing real or imagined offenses until they become inflated and larger than life.
My low back muscles are less pissy because they’re no longer working overtime, all the time. Like Sleeping Beauty after her long nap, my abdominal muscles have rubbed their sleepy eyes and awakened! He is an accuser, so if I am tempted to accuse and slander, it means that theA devil is trying to work through me. Give me the ability to recognize this strategy of the enemyA as soon as it starts, and to put on the brakes before I get so embroiled in a conflict that I cana€™tA see or think correctly.
My mind thinks straight and clearly, and I am sound and balanced in my perspectiveA of the situations I face in life. That’s the price overly bendy people pay for being able to roll out of bed first thing on a January morning and slap our palms flat on the floor. I am teachable when my friends tell me the truth,A helping me see when I am getting too upset about things that arena€™t so important. Has there ever been a moment in your life when the devil trapped you emotionally and used you to stir up trouble?
I’ve started creating more stability by lengthening my spine, and addressing my displaced ribcage instead. At the time this incident occurred, did you recognize that the person acting so destructively was literally captured in his mind and emotions?A 3.
Teaching just one student affords the opportunity to custom tailor the practice to one set of individual needs.


I ask students to provide the names of their nearest and dearest on my client intake form, to be sure I remember them.
A simple question like this gives me a ton of info about a student’s emotional state. Or would you prefer me to just run with it?” (If a private student wants to work on something, in particular, I want to know about it.
I also want to know when a student would rather not have to make one single decision for sixty minutes, and just be told what to do. Originally I’d intended to jot down a couple of instructions I no longer use in my teaching.
These are instructions that I personally no longer use in my own practice, or in my teaching. I’m SUPER NOT INTO the whole shade-throwing, shame inducing tenor that I think the conversation about yoga alignment has taken in our current milieu. I’m going to rely on generating interesting conversation in the comments rather than detailing each item in the body of this post. It was a difficult surgery because said thyroid was severely damaged by an autoimmune disease called Hashimoto’s. Given the information I had at the time, I would make the same choice again.“Consider yourself cured,” said the surgeon.
Relief, it turns out, coming in the form of nausea.  Tomorrow morning I will get up, slice potatoes thinly, and fry them up with onions in a cast iron skillet. Tomorrow, I’ll poach eggs for breakfast.Today, I curl onto a couch at water’s edge and sleep.
Jesus, do you think I have NO DISCRETION WHATSOEVER?!)Also, as a yoga instructor, one of the things I’m committed to is dialing down the amount of fraudulent Shiny Happy in our profession.
Little things like grocery shopping and meal preparation seem to require a great deal of effort. She instructs them to record a daily list of the details of everyday life, something she calls Ordinary Time. These are, I suspect, antidotes to impoverishment.This morning, on the floor, is a pink towel found on Rockaway Beach by my father, and an even pinker sock lying alongside.
I have more books than time in which to devour them in one lifetime, and continue to acquire. Personally, I’m curious how connective tissue is accounted for in the measurement, given that it can be fluid or solid. The membrane encompassing a cell envelops a microscopic sea. Breath, blood, and the cerebrospinal fluid that bathes the central nervous system, are tidal by nature. I could never regret the time I spent making an in-depth study of the human musculoskeletal system. We approach the body as though it were a machine, and focus on its individual moving parts. I think it’s good to have more than one language when working with the body, and more than one lens to look through. This is scalpel work that has required a slow and steady hand, as I have wanted to neither cling to ideas nor reject them in an imprudent or impetuous manner.
Rather, I have endeavored to free each layer of my point of view, hold it up, examine it, experiment, and discern the relevance.In retrospect, I realize that for a long time I had ceased to be curious about working with the body, or ceased to be curious enough. Google informed me last week that the mortality rate of papillary cancer is low, something like 5-10%. I’ll try not to hold it against you but make NO PROMISES!!) My friend Jenny baked some killer magical-tumor-zapping-salted- chocolate-paleo-cookies.
Those suckers were definitely worth having gargled with mouthwash and taken a sponge bath for.Afterwards, I hurried home to resume lying on the floor. Which reminds me–does anyone have a remedy for getting carpet imprint out of my face? One that entails little or no movement?Next Monday I get the ultrasound to see what we shall see about lymph node involvement.
He Who Must Never Be Named on the Internet has been a rock.Thanks for all the sweet notes and good wishes. For a long time I had a lot of muscle pain in my shoulders, and for a long time I felt oddly ashamed about it. My definition of a more traditional diet includes more whole foods, pastured or grass-fed animal foods, and less sugar, grains and processed foods. Eating in this way has helped me feel so much better than I’ve felt for most of my life.


The work I’ve already implemented is going to be so important going forward, and will give me a huge advantage. It looks for any opening it can squeeze through, no matter how small.When I pause long enough to challenge self-violence, I realize that the last rendition of the story actually strikes me as a lot truer than some of the other versions. What stories of blame, shame, recrimination and personal culpability do you tell yourself in the dark? Nothing like a light meal of sausage and peppers to settle the stomach after receiving unpleasant news.I like my endocrinologist. Each and every one of us is responsible for educating ourselves, and making our own healthcare choices. If we swallow down the Standard American Guidelines then we will suffer the standard American Ailments.
Personal responsibility entails wading through a lot of conflicting points of views, and deciding who to trust. Teachers need to be careful what we say, and students need to be careful whose points of view they take to heart. It irritates me to no end when I see yoga teachers posting Instagrams of their beautiful organic meal that consist of about a half a leaf of lettuce. As someone who has an autoimmune disease of the thyroid, I tend to have a lot of inflammation in my body.
I imagine there are very few people in our society who don’t, and some suffer a great deal more than others. I try to recognize my own insecurities of this nature, own them, and make the choices that are both physically and emotionally healthy for myself anyway. If you haven’t read it, check out Women, Food and God for a thoughtful treatment of the subject.
That tends to happen when we reduce our level of inflammation, but it’s a result rather than a goal. Inability to take off weight is a symptom.I feel a strong personal conviction about helping people who want to try eating a different way. It helps me realize exactly how enormous of a topic this really is, and how much sensitivity is required. It sure scared me!In fact, I dragged my feet for an entire year before I bit the bullet and did it. As someone with a life long indulgent sweet tooth that was pretty unfathomable and weird, but I didn’t want to go back to my old way of eating.
Still, right now my blood sugar isn’t as level as it could be, and I feel the difference.
Maybe some day I’ll quit eating sugar once and for all, and never indulge in another bite again.
Sugar addiction is something I have historically struggled with, and sometimes I still struggle. You can email me at through the contact form on this website and I’ll send you the whole darned enchilada for free. I’d had no quibble with the method itself, and thought I would continue to teach the method, simply calling it something else.
Oh, sure–I had already known that in my head, but I had not had that experience in my body. Of course, you already know that the stars are many, and there are infinite ways to draw connections between them.
My approach to the practicing and teaching of asana has FINALLY come truly to mirror my most fundamental philosophic point of view.
The skilled percussionist knows that a snare drum will not evoke the same kind of experience as the hand bell. My point lies in knowing which destination you would like to visit, then having just the right map to get you there. My point lies in knowing that no matter how many destinations we draw maps for, there will always be both more destinations and  more constellations and more maps.My point is–where would you like to go?



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