I was at a cocktail party on Friday evening with my friend Andrea Syrtash (the real-life Carrie Bradshaw), and had a conversation that echoed what I have discussed with so many friends living in lower Manhattan.
Ever wondered why some people just don't seem to see the point of settling down, or they go through person after person at two week or three month intervals? I've had (as my friends will attest to) more than my share of awful (I mean AWFUL) boyfriends.
Finding love in NYC was so tough, in fact, that right before I met my husband I was a hair away from moving to San Francisco. 20121 Kings 8:28 -- But please listen to my prayer and my request, because I am your servant. Chances are, if he or she was really ready and open to finding love at this stage of their life, they wouldn't be on these apps, as they'd realize that constant distraction is not the route to a lasting bond.
He'd also realized that he needed to make a change in his life if he was going to find the right woman for him.
I was at Le Moulin a Cafe (a great little French cafe on the Upper East Side) a few days ago with an amazing man who's become a mentor to me.
When I moved here from Canada, I had no idea that people could appear so wholesome and sweet, all the while inside them they're rotten and unfeeling.


He made a list of the top ten things he needs in a woman, and then decided that he was going to wait for the woman that fits every single one of those ten attributes. I know it sounds counter-productive, but you need to be away from that energy to truly give someone a shot.
If you start the list with anything physical, you need to really look at yourself and your level of superficiality. If you want to find someone healthy and excellent, you need to be equally as healthy and excellent. It seems like 90% of people downtown are single and looking, or in a 'relationship', and still looking (ugh). In fact, many people get so addicted to the temporary highs that junk food provides, that they forget how good it feels to be healthy.
Well, NYC seems to attract more than its fair share of con artists, so buyer beware, I suppose. We all meet people who are attractive and seem interesting on an almost daily basis, but remember: they seem interesting now, but most probably that'd wear off on the first, third or 10th date anyway.
If you're really giving love a shot with someone, you need to stay away from other people who are tempting.


It's easy to be superficial in a city full of gorgeous people, but it won't help you find love.
They've forgotten (or, sadly, never gotten to experience) how fulfilling it is to be consistently healthy.
If you don't know what I'm talking about, or you think it's a fantasy -- I'm here to tell you: it's not. Away from the models (there are literally tens of thousands of them strutting around downtown), the crazy bars (which I was never into anyway), and the men that are obsessed with both. If he started dating someone and he realized that she didn't fit those, he stopped seeing her. Too much choice and too many people who know how to make a good impression (for the first few months, at least). You don't want to be wasting time with someone who you can't be in love with for life, and miss the right person for you.



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