It’s not even a question of if you’re changing; it’s a question of in which direction are you changing. It is by facing your inner demons that you heal yourself, and change your life for the better.
I’m not saying it isn’t possible, because it is, but in most cases it’s not going to happen. People who need life changes right away don’t realize that it’s not going to make them happy anyway. As you keep taking one step at a time, you will eventually reach a tipping point where your thinking shifts.
Poker helped me realize many things, and one of them was that if I wanted to be happy, I had to accept where I was. And that’s fine with me, but if you make that choice, you have no right to complain or make excuses. You either choose to be where you are, or you choose to change your life. The choice is yours. You may have excuses about why you can’t follow your passion and build an online business, but are they really true?
Since talking with more and more readers, clients, and people in general, I’ve started to notice a scary pattern.
They wait for a white knight (or black, depending on your preference) to sweep in to save the day and make change effortless and comfortable. If you’ve been reading my articles, you know that I keep writing about following your heart, and there’s a reason for it. And when I say following and listening to your heart, I mean it in the broadest sense of the word.
When you begin putting the pieces together, and taking responsibility, and healing yourself, you naturally begin to follow your heart, your inner GPS. If you drive to a gas station, and fill your car with the wrong kind of fuel, it won’t run very well, if at all. You want to do your research and know whether or not your idea is viable, but if you don’t do something you’re passionate about, your car will run out of fuel sooner or later. What’s important is not to just know it intellectually, but to see how you create your experience of life. If you want to change your life in the most positive sense, get comfortable with being out of your comfort zone. In order for you to make sense out of the funny letters you see here, you have to go inside, and make sense out of it from your own map of the world.
When you’re open to the unknown, which is a synonym for possibility, you accept that life may bring you something negative to teach you a positive lesson. And you won’t even know if they are mistakes when you make them, because mistakes and failures have a tendency to transform into blessings. You only fail if you give up, so if you never give up, you can never fail, only learn, and grow. It’s only when you focus on your problems and believe them to be you that you get into trouble. The process can and will suck every now and then, especially when it comes to building an online business. A good collection of points that might not be new to many of us, but that we sometimes just need to read all together to make something click.
And you know, when you feel far away from where you want to be, doesn’t that just mean that you hold high standards for yourself? I heard a nice idea once about #9 Take Responsibility: it may true that your mother (insert any other relationship) made you what you are today, but you are the one keeping you there.
Amazing!I am so glad I stumbled on your site.I would like to see that list of books you read.
Usually I like short blog posts to keep me perked up through the day, but I found myself continuing to read your post through its entirety.
I can honestly say out of all the articles I have read from other authors, yours by far helped me out the most.
Hi Henri I have just read you 21 things to do to change your life forever as I feel I am at the cross roads of my life at the age of 53 I have felt a little lost over the pass few years not knowing what way to go being pulled from one side to the other and getting nowhere thanks to your article I now have some idea where I want to go, I have just signed up for your articles and have down loaded you’re ebook.

Every successful individual knows that his or her achievement depends on a community of persons working together.
The power of one, if fearless and focused, is formidable, but the power of many working together is better.
The lessons from the peace process are clear; whatever life throws at us, our individual responses will be all the stronger for working together and sharing the load.
A good team, like a good show, comes into being when the separate individuals working together create, in essence, another separate higher entity - the team - the show - which is better than any of those individuals can ever be on their own. We need to develop and disseminate an entirely new paradigm and practice of collaboration that supersedes the traditional silos that have divided governments, philanthropies and private enterprises for decades and replace it with networks of partnerships working together to create a globally prosperous society. I've always loved the experience of working together with other people toward an artistic goal. Working together in concert more smoothly not only helps us move more quickly; it changes the nature of what we can undertake. I know when I was here prosecuting homicides in the District of Columbia, one of the most effective units here was the cold case squad, which had on it FBI agents, as well as Metropolitan Police Department homicide detectives working together. I work with a group of actors, and whenever one of us has an audition, we all get together, and we all work together on it. Here's what I see all across this great city - people working together to make Boston a better place to live and to raise children, to grow and pursue dreams. On behalf of my native Japan, I am grateful to the culinary community and hospitality industry for working together to raise much-needed funds to aid the tsunami and earthquake victims. I have seen this happen in recent years with regard to pharmaceuticals and vaccines, where, working together, we are improving access to medicines and vaccines for infectious diseases in the poorest countries.
We are taught you must blame your father, your sisters, your brothers, the school, the teachers – but never blame yourself. I have noticed even people who claim everything is predestined, and that we can do nothing to change it, look before they cross the road.
We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us. You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. We must all suffer one of two things: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret or disappointment. A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks others have thrown at him. Sometimes the slightest things change the directions of our lives, the merest breath of a circumstance, a random moment that connects like a meteorite striking the earth. I almost haven’t noticed the change, because it sneaks up on you, until it’s impossible to ignore. If they’re wasting their time at a soul-sucking job, they expect success and fame within six months.
It’s not our job to eliminate them, but to do our best, take tiny steps, and see where life takes us.
Old pains, fears, and negative emotions can vanish and be replaced by something more useful. I wasn’t going to work at a regular job, because there was no way I would survive doing that. While the event may have happened in the past, it’s you who keeps playing them over and over again. When you know that you can let go of past memories, fears, and obstacles, your self-confidence grows. It can mean anything, such as following your gut, intuition, feelings, or going with the flow of life. It’s not always so simple, but knowing that I am not my thoughts is a tremendous help.
You can be stuck on a problem, and the solution can pop into your mind while you’re reading.
It can murder you psychologically, especially if you’re playing it for a living like I was. In the beginning, you’ll run into countless road blocks, fail more than you succeed, have more downs than ups, and frustration and stress can be overwhelming.

You wouldn’t have learned the critical lessons you did had you achieved everything you wanted within your first week or month. I’m sure a lot of people will feel better after reading this article, and ready to take the next step. A good summary of the self-development gurus’ philosophies, and well stated, with your usual relaxed style. I know it is true, but I could not find any clue to foresee these sudden shifts of reality.
I’m glad I had the patience to wait for it and then to read it all the way through (point #4). I guess some think that you can just keep on going the way you are without any change and get what you want. Be willing to put in the work, make a solid plan, and stick to it long enough to see results. The things I have failed at have actually taught me more about myself than the things I have succeeded at. I’ve been following your blog for roughly couple of years now and its really interesting to see how you have developed. This is the first time I have really connected and finally get it.For a few years I have shamefully just been playing around with my website as a hobby.
In terms of getting the kids working together and motivating them, the teacher is the most important. When we have the confidence that we can orchestrate the group effort required to realize them, we dare bigger dreams. I love Pilates because we do very specific training in soccer for the same six or seven muscles, but we neglect so many other muscles.
Roger and I both happened to move to New Mexico at about the same time, when we each had a family of young kids to raise. It makes such a difference going to work every day for 14 hours and being able to hang out and have a good time. I think it takes us back to our film school days, our drama school days, us just working together and figuring it out because somebody else is going to see something in the material that you won't see.
You will miss opportunities if you disregard the whispers of your heart, if you trade the present moment for the future. The points on accepting where you are in life, and being realistic in allowing time for your business to grow really resonated with me. Reading this, I am reminded that one of the things I admire about what you’ve done with your blog is your honesty, next your introspection and third how you are willing to share your journey with those who read your blog.
I use to expect instant success and when it didn’t come, it was like a sledge hammer to the face.
Another thing that helps is to look at your negative beliefs, and if you’re holding yourself back. I too have been a fan for a good couple of years and will continue to follow your honest, down to earth advice. So when I do Pilates, it helps get all the rest of the muscles in shape and gets them working together. By working together in a bipartisan fashion, we can ensure our constituents get jobs they need while helping employers make smart decisions about their workforce.
It’s been really helpful to me in staying positive about where I’m going even if I feel far, far away from where I want to be! It can be a true test of character to look at problems as opportunities for personal growth and professional development. I learned though and grew immensely from the experience and understand that you just need to take things one day at a time. Each step I read made me think more clearly and actually want to start getting out of my comfort zone.

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