Of course, as time ticks by you begin to realize just how much she meant to you.  How in love with her you really were.
Before you sent that text your hopes were so high, you were daydreaming of your future together with her. So, the question you are probably wondering is how the heck are you supposed to navigate a situation like this where you want your ex girlfriend back but she has moved on to a new boyfriend.Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back? I suppose the best place to start is by taking a look at the potential risks of trying to get an ex with a new boyfriend back.
For example, you obviously came to this page because you want your ex girlfriend back and she has a new boyfriend. Men, by nature, are very protective of their women so I guarantee you that to the new boyfriend you trying to get his girlfriend back is going to paint you in a light where you are an enemy. So, obviously the big risk you run by trying to win your ex girlfriend back in this case is that you could become a common enemy between your ex and her new boyfriend which will ultimately cause them to be closer together. Being a common enemy between your ex and her new boyfriend is one of the worst positions that you could possibly be in. If you can be subtle but effective in your intentions to win your ex girlfriend back you will most likely NOT be looked at by your ex as a common enemy.
Lets say that you are very subtle in your intentions to get your ex girlfriend back but over time your methods start to work. Inevitably she is going to talk to the one person who is supposed to support her and understand her no matter what, her boyfriend.
She may not be completely honest with him about what is going on in her mind but she is going to say things to him to try to test him to see if he is ready for the truth. Eventually the truth is going to come out and how do you think the new boyfriend is going to react to discovering that his girlfriend (your ex) is still hung up on you? In fact, a massive fight or breakup might occur and now you are looking like you are in a really good position. Again, YOU didn’t physically cause this breakup or fight, your ex did because of her feelings for you. So, I am not going to sit here and tell you that if you follow every little step I outline on this page that your ex girlfriend is going to break up with her current boyfriend and come running back to you. Ok, let me put this in simpler terms so you really have a good grasp at what this page is going to do for you. Imagine for a moment that in every single breakup that occurs between a couple a certain percentage is assigned to it. You may have noticed that I gave people whose exes have moved on to another man a 20% chance of getting back together. Well, that 20% number is based on you trying to get your girlfriend back without any of my advice.
Imagine that you follow the advice on this page and get to a place where your ex girlfriend is confused about her feelings for you and her new boyfriend. Anyways, I think it’s safe to say that your ex girlfriend is going to be comparing her relationship with her new boyfriend to her relationship with you. If your ex girlfriends new boyfriend does that during their relationship and you didn’t during yours with her then when she is going to make the comparison between you and her new guy she is definitely going to think the new guy is better and that is going to put you at a disadvantage.
Because usually a girl who has a better guy isn’t going to leave him to put herself back in a situation where she is treated poorly.
One of the biggest assets I can bring to you with this page is my experience in dealing with thousands of couples. That some of these women want their exes back even after they have done HORRIBLE things to them.
For example, there was once a girl that came to my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, who was dating a new guy but wanted her ex back even though he cheated on her six times with six different women. So, what did this guy (who had done horrible things to her in the past) have that drew her in so much that she wanted to leave her perfectly good boyfriend? At first that was what I thought but the more I talked to her about her particular situation I began to realize that there was something else going on in her head. In other words, even though some women find themselves in a situation where they are clearly better off relationship wise sometimes the appeal of the connection can trump everything. For example, if your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend that treats her like a queen she may still be more drawn to you because she has a connection with you that the new boyfriend can’t top.
So, if you were to ask me how to get your ex girlfriend back in a situation where she has moved on and her new man treats her well then I would say you would have to hit her where she will be affected most, her romantic feelings for you. Like I said, a comparison between you and the new guy is eventually going to happen no matter what it just a question of when.
Well, lets pretend that your ex girlfriend has been dating her new boyfriend for 2 months exactly.
Then that is a very good sign because it means you are winning the comparison battle against her new guy. If your ex girlfriends new boyfriend isn’t treating her the way a woman should be treated in a relationship then she could soon be maneuvering to go back to the thing that makes her feel better than anything, YOU!
Believe it or not but your ex girlfriend moving on may actually be a good thing in the long run.
For example, if your ex girlfriend breaks up with you and starts dating someone new who treats her really well like we talked about in the comparison section above your exes GIGS is going to be verified and as a result it is going to be much harder to get her back. I want you to be aware that the GIGS exists and could have been a possible reason for the breakup between you and your ex. The game plan is divided into four major steps and as usual I will be giving you a lot of in-depth insight into each one of these steps.
First though, lets take a look at the steps you will need to successfully complete to even have a chance of getting your girlfriend back.
I have been doing this for quite some time and I have seen firsthand how hard it is for some men to stay in NC when they see their woman with another man. If you could compare a relationship to a fire a woman would expect the man to start that fire. One of the greatest fears for men who enter into the NC rule during this situation is that their exes are going to get so close to their new man that they will completely forget about their old one. Ok, imagine if you completed your no contact rule and called your ex and begged for her back. I know that may sound a little controlling or possessive but the truth is I honestly don’t care at this point. I know that may sound weird and counterproductive but if you really think about it, it’s not.
Like I said above, it is very rare for a man to be ok with the fact that his girlfriend or wife is good friends with her ex. In other words, you becoming friends with your ex is going to cause your exes new man to go absolutely ballistic when he finds out that she is talking to you and this is what you want. Providing emotional support for your ex girlfriend (when you become friends) is really where you are going to shine. If she can’t get the emotional support she needs from her own boyfriend but from you then when she makes that inevitable comparison between you and the new guy she is going to take that into account. A big mistake I see a lot of men making is the fact that they jump into the deep end instead of wading into the shallow one when it comes to building attraction.
Ok, lets say that you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back and she has just gotten a new boyfriend.
I am a fan of a subtle build up with text messages which eventually lead to phone calls which eventually lead to a face to face meeting.
Using the guide in the link above you should be able to properly build attraction with the build up technique.
So, don’t take it personally if your ex declines your offer to meet up for a hang out.
Because a woman who is truly in love with a man wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize that relationship. Luckily for you, if she accepts your offer for a casual hang out, it means that she doesn’t care enough about her current boyfriends feelings to not hang out with you. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. My question is do i give her a hundred percent NC with the possibility she will think i have moved on and confirm the thought of me being only jealous.
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Welcome to the ultimate guide to using text messages to get back together with your ex girlfriend. Naturally, I got curious to see if such a guide existed online right now and I was shocked to learn that one hadn’t been created yet. Look, I am going to get bold here and say that never before has a guide this in-depth been created (and given out for free on the internet) for men wanting to understand exactly what to text to their ex girlfriends. With that guide not only will you gain more insight into what you should text your ex to get her back but it will show you everything that you need to do in order to win her back. Not to mention that it has over 250 example texts that you can use!Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back? You can spam your ex girlfriend with text messages and leave her thinking that you are a psycho. You can send a bunch of really hateful messages to your ex girlfriend and hurt your chances of getting her back.
So, explain to me your reasoning behind sending someone, who you desperately want back, really mean messages that could potentially drive them away? In other words, the more your ex girlfriend associates bad feelings with you the less likely she will come back to you. Look, with this guide I am going to teach you to do something so much more powerful than begging. I am going to be teaching you how to influence your ex to take you back so she thinks it was her idea when the fact was that it was your influence that got her to get back with you. The No Contact Rule- A set period of time where you don’t talk, text or call your girlfriend at all.
The advantage of using a no contact rule before you text your ex is the fact that you can kind of get her on the ropes a little bit. For the next few hours she is constantly checking her phone waiting for a response except you are doing the 21 day NC which means a response won’t come.
Of course, since you didn’t respond to her emotional message she is hurt and promises to never text you again for the rest of her life which she articulates to you in a text ?? . While this page is dedicated to text messages it is important to remember that the overall goal you are trying to achieve here is not to just learn how to text your ex girlfriend it’s to actually get her back. While it is not impossible to get your ex girlfriend back through text messages it is highly unlikely. Getting an ex girlfriend back is probably not going to be done strictly through text messages.
In my massive 12,000 word guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back I talk a lot about having a game plan. After the no contact rule you will use texts to build attraction which should eventually lead to a phone call where you will build attraction and by then you will have built up enough attraction to earn yourself a date.
While rebuilding attraction is essential for getting your ex girlfriend back it isn’t the main goal you are trying to accomplish here. It just so happens that building attraction through texting is how you advance to the next level of the game plan.
Again, you should really check out that massive guide I put together because it will explain things better than I can in the short amount of space I dedicated to it here. Before I can start getting into the tactics that you can use to help move the reconnection process along there are a few things I need to teach you about text messages.
My point here is that word count and how interested a person is in what you have to say can have a direct correlation most of the time.
It’s interesting to me that no one really ever talks about the importance of response time when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back.
In this section I am going to teach you everything that you will need to know about response time when it comes to using text messages. Now, before I really get started here I do want to say that not everything I say in this section will hold true to you. It is best to look at response time as a gauge of how interested the other party is in what you are saying (just like word count.) For example, in my book, I give an example where I was texting a girl and I responded to her texts every few hours. Sure, she may have texted her friends a lot but during the high point of your relationship you were probably priority number one to her. Don’t worry, that is what this entire guide is for and I will be giving you the step by step plan on texting her a little later.
There is a way in which you can do this through the use of a text message to get a quick response and ironically it all has to do with your own response time.
Well, putting it into practice can be really tough because there are two battles that you are going to be fighting. What you will have successfully done if you pull this off is that you just made her realize how much she wants to hear from you and her response time should be quicker from that point on. You wait for what seems like an eternity (5 minutes) and you constantly check your phone waiting for that text message to hit but it never does. Essentially, if you are put in this position where you desperately want a text response you are left wanting more. You know, the part where I go on and on about how you desperately want a person to text you back but they won’t.
No, I am afraid I am going to have to give credit to pretty much every girl that has ever rejected me because every single one has successfully been able to do this to me. If you end a texting conversation with your ex girlfriend and you successfully leave her wanting more here is what will happen. Second – When you do decide to message her again (either later in the day or the next day) she will respond very quickly to your text message. As you can see there are a lot of advantages to ending a conversation where she wants more. Let me start off by saying that in order to leave your ex girlfriend wanting more she is going to have to be invested in a texting conversation. Lets pretend that the string of text messages that have all three characteristics but are a bit negative (again, this is something you have to feel out.) Do you think you should end the conversation there? The four responses is something I covered in the how to get your ex girlfriend back guide pretty intensely.
Well, since the four responses directly relates to texting it only makes sense that I talk about them again within this guide. Every single time you get a positive response to a text message you are slowly inching closer to your goal of getting your ex girlfriend back.
The challenge that you are going to face is that you are going to have to decipher if the message you got was a neutral response or just a fake neutral response. However, when you are starting a conversation and you get a neutral response then you need to pay attention because that means you probably shouldn’t engage her for a while.
If you are getting a response like that from your ex then you have some serious work to do. In my experience, negative responses (when dealing with exes) usually always revolve around how bad the breakup was. If there was a lot of yelling, name calling, things thrown and mental warfare from both sides then I think you had yourself a pretty bad breakup. Don’t worry, you will text her eventually but it is going to have to be later down the road when her emotions have settled in a bit.
What you really need to watch out for is the NR when you reach out to start a conversation. Coincidentally that is what the next section is all about, the first text after no contact. Assuming you have followed my instructions (by implementing a no contact rule) the first type of communication you are going to have with your ex girlfriend after the no contact rule is going to be done through a text message. Generally speaking a text message will yield a higher response rate and also a phone call after a no contact rule may seem out of place. Hey, I am a huge fan of surprises but when it comes to this stuff surprises are never a good thing. Oh, and in case you forgot the main goal of this entire guide is to use text messages so you can advance to a phone call or a date.
This leads us back to the first text message you send after the no contact rule has been completed. When it comes to first text messages your main goal is to get a positive response from your girlfriend. In other words, your text message has to be so intriguing that she can’t not respond to it. Basically the way it works is that you say that a TV show that you and your girlfriend used to watch reminded you of her. That means you need to slip back into no contact for 7 days (EVEN if she gets back to you on day 5 of that no contact.) After the 7 days is up it is time to send something that should yield a response 95% of the time. Now, I don’t know about you but if someone texted this to me I would respond immediately fearing the worst.
If your ex girlfriend receives this text then it will only be natural for her mind to be racing with possibilities. However, if you really want my opinion I think you should end the conversation immediately. Rapport is something that you have to earn and you earn it with a slow ascent of text messages that build trust. The situation you find yourself in now is that a breakup occurred between you and your ex girlfriend and that can cause some awkwardness when it comes to texting.
I want to give you a brief overview of what you should do to rebuild the rapport with your ex. You send your first initial text after the no contact rule and ended the conversation very quickly.
Your next text message should be sent about 1-3 days after the first initial text message after no contact. After that conversion ends I want you to wait a day before you start up another conversation. I want to take a moment and give you some examples of the most interesting type of texts I have come across. I am sure if you think hard enough you can think of some bizarre stories in your life to share.
Talking about your previous relationship with your ex girlfriend can be pretty tricky because it is bound to bring up old memories and not all of those old memories are going to be very good. I would first like to turn our attention to how you should approach talking to your girlfriend about your previous relationship. In fact, there is one particular exercise that I want you to take advantage of during your no contact period. Since we are specifically focusing on your ex here I want you to be prepared when your old relationship comes up. You know how successful musical artists have a “greatest hits collection” right? Rule 3: None of these memories can be about sex they have to be more about emotional connection type things.
You see, you should be talking about how cuddling made you feel and the specific things you liked about.
Yes, I get that there are going to be some guys that read this and think it is the lamest thing ever. Ideally, what we hope happens is that you do such a good job texting that your ex girlfriend will want to talk to you on the phone naturally.
One of the biggest concerns that most men have when they are about to call a woman is the fact that they are worried that she may be busy or preoccupied. Well, what if I told you that I had discovered a way in which you can transition from a text message to a phone call seamlessly and have a super high success rate. When I was researching ideas on how to transition from texting to phone calls I came across this book that actually recommended that you call your ex during the day (when she could be potentially busy at work.) That is officially the dumbest idea ever.
Assuming you want this phone call with your girlfriend to go well you want her to be alone in her room or something like that.
Ok, now that you know when to set up a phone call with your ex girlfriend lets talk about how you actually set one up.
I have always been of the mindset that you should give a girl a warning before you call her. Lets say that I am in your shoes and I send the text above to an ex girlfriend I am trying to get back. If I gradually begin contacting my ex via Text after NC and she generally responds positively, but is not ever the one initiating contact, should I continue to reach out, or at a certain point should I go back to NC?
It happened all of a sudden and no matter what I try to do, she has turned into a complete rock. She gets irritated by my name and she gets blown out if someone takes my name in front of her. When contacted, Michael Fiore, the author of the book, said, "The number one thing any man or women wish for is the ability to read their partner's minds and know how they really feel.
This program can benefit all men and women that want to get their ex back and ready to their efforts. Visit Here to learn How to get your ex boyfriend back Or How to get your ex girlfriend back. It turns out that, that particular quote is going to tie directly into what we are going to be talking about today with your ex girlfriend.Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back?


You see, today we are going to be focusing on the most fatal mistakes that men make when they are trying to get their ex girlfriends back. But perhaps more importantly I am going to be giving you solutions for how to proceed if you have committed these fatal mistakes. For example, if you were to say, call your ex girlfriend up 20,000 times in a day I will be giving you a quick game plan on what to do to improve your odds of winning her back in the future. Now, before I dive into explaining the format of this page I do want to mention that I am not going to be pulling any punches with you today.
Basically what I am going to be doing is describing the mistake you could have potentially made when trying to get your ex girlfriend back and why it was a mistake. I figured it wouldn’t really help you at all if I pointed out your mistakes and offered absolutely no solution at all on how to fix the mistake. Well, it means that if you committed a fatality mistake you have a very hard upward battle ahead if you want to win your ex girlfriend back. Now, I am not saying that your chances are completely ruined all I am saying is that they are diminished.
Why begging for an ex girlfriend back seems to be a mans first instinct after a break up is beyond me.
Look, as much as women hate to admit it they like men who are alphas and there is nothing alpha about a man who sits there and begs for her back.
Women don’t have the internal need for feeling wanted that men do because they feel wanted all the time. So, the solution for overcoming this mistake has more to do with repositioning yourself into a position of power more than anything. Right now, where things stand you really don’t have a great shot of winning your ex girlfriend back. Well, what if I were to tell you that there is actually a really simple way that you can do this and change the game to your favor? Look, you have already set a pretty strong precedent in your girlfriends mind that you want her back.
I want you to completely cut her out of your life in every form imaginable via the no contact rule. We are going to operate under the assumption that your ex girlfriend likes having her ego stroked by you through your begging. Now, I will be the first to admit that this is a trait that is more common to men but there are plenty of women out there who just long to feel wanted by a man.
As an ex recovery expert I am always studying experiences from the readers I have here at Ex Girlfriend Recovery. A man who doesn’t accept the breakup with his ex but instead of crying, begging or acting crazy he just goes full robot mode and goes right into a no contact rule on his ex. Well, by the time the no contact rule ends and he is ready to try to get his girlfriend back he is at a completely different place than he was when the breakup initially occurred. In fact, he has grown so strong in this no contact period that he kind of doesn’t even care if he gets his girlfriend back or not. Do you think a man who follows the “something special” plan I just laid out above has a better shot of winning his ex back than a guy who begged for his ex back? Did you know that in addition to this site I also own another relationship website called Ex Boyfriend Recovery? I noticed something today when I was on it that I think is relevant to what we are talking about with mistake #2. The premise of the show is that I let women call in and ask me anything they want about their ex boyfriends. Well, today I did this routine for the first episode I recorded but not the second and third ones.
I learned that if I don’t game plan these episodes beforehand then I am not nearly as effective and it takes twice as long to complete an episode.
This got me thinking about the men on this site that are trying to get their ex girlfriends back without a game plan. It truly is a fatal mistake if you don’t have a well thought out and focused plan to get your ex girlfriend back. Look, I am here to help you in any way that I can so your game plan doesn’t even have to be from this website. Though I would definitely recommend formulating your game plan based on this website since I always do my best to make things as easy as possible for you. Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO– My step by step guide on how you can win your ex girlfriend back. How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back– This was the very first thing I ever wrote for the site and this 12,000 word behemoth still holds true today.
How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Miss You– This guide is all about helping you understand the art that goes into making a woman miss you.
If you really think about it everything that I write for this site can be considered a game plan. Simple, if you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back then all you are doing by getting into a fight with her is further pushing her away. It’s tricky though, because women always seem to know exactly what to say to put us into rage mode. Still though, once you are in rage mode you are sticking to your guns and you don’t care how gets in your way. However, you need to realize that every single time you get into a fight with your ex girlfriend you are further damaging your chances of getting her back.
Anyways, at that point in time I was still a pimply faced teenager who had a lot to learn about relationships. Well, about seven days after the breakup I decided that I wanted to see my ex in person for more closure. As luck would have it that was also the day that my ex girlfriend decided to reach out to me with a phone call. The final post breakup fight ended up being so bad that the two of us really never spoke again.
However, for the sake of keeping the peace and not potentially starting a fight it’s best to keep your mouth shut where you would have otherwise started world war 3. Lets turn our attention to how to work your way out of a situation where you have already started a fight with your ex girlfriend. I guarantee you that there is nothing you can say that is going to fully fix the situation like time will.
Not only will it let time go by but it will give your ex girlfriend the opportunity to miss you. It’s this idea that Hollywood has implanted in us that grand gestures commonly seen at the end of romantic movies will work to your advantage.
In other words, you think that if you buy your ex girlfriend a dozen roses, light the sidewalk with candles and romanticize things she will pick up the phone, call and tell you that she made a mistake by leaving you. Speaking from experience any time I have gone out of my way to spoil a woman with grand gestures (who I wasn’t in a relationship with) has never worked out. Well, Katie seemed to have a crush on me as well so as things were progressing we tried to find out more about each other (which is pretty common.) I will never forget that she told me that she had never had a boyfriend that had done anything special for her.
The specific example she gave was that she never had a boyfriend decorate her car in a sweet manner. In my mind I figured that I could use it to my advantage to gain points and further progress our relationship. Well, one day the opportunity presented itself and I took advantage by decorating her car with washable magic marker.
Initially when I read the text I thought I earned some serious points but a funny thing started happening immediately after that. It wasn’t until a woman friend of mine explained the full extent of gifts and grand gestures that I finally understood my mistake. I went to Carol with my situation and she explained exactly what was going on in this girls mind. What Katie really wanted was a BOYFRIEND to do that for her or at the very least a guy that she was considering to be her boyfriend. I was not Katie’s boyfriend and I had not built up enough attraction with her yet to be considered in the running for being a boyfriend. This should hit home for you because you (probably) recently went through a breakup and your ex girlfriend is in a very upset state. In her mind you are no longer her boyfriend and you haven’t built up enough attraction yet for her to be considering you for being a boyfriend again.
This means that any grand gesture you put into action or any expensive item you buy her is going to be meaningless to her. Your ex girlfriend has to be in the right frame of mind to be receptive to grand gestures and gifts.
So, my advice to you is to not do any huge grand gestures or buy her any presents until the time is right. If you are abiding by my motto then the only time that you should give your ex girlfriend a present or make a big grand gesture is if you are back in a relationship with her.
I am going to throw a couple situations out below and you tell me if these sound annoying to you. In story one you are the gnats and your ex girlfriend is the person that the gnats are buzzing around. In story two you are the person that is constantly interrupting the person doing the all important world saving task. Some men are literally this annoying to their ex girlfriends after a breakup by engaging in something I like to call gnatting. Then you have just become the annoying gnats in story one or the annoying person that constantly interrupts in story two.
Imagine if you had called your ex girlfriend something crazy like 30 times in one day after a breakup? It prevents you from gnatting in the future and can help reduce the damage that you did when you were gnatting.
Of course, I need to be extra cautious with text messages after I get out of the no contact rule but you can read my guide, Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO for advice on how to approach that situation. As many of more avid readers know I am a fan of the 21 day no contact rule for men but special rules must be applied if you were a gnat in the past. Because your girlfriend needs extra time away from you so she has time to remember what you were like in your non gnat form.
I’ve just finished reading your amazing article and I agree 100% with your views and suggestions. The only problem is my girlfriend and I have only broken up a week ago and she’s been messaging and calling me from then till now. My question is shall I support her through this difficult time and then apply the no contact rule after her exams and when she returns back to her home country for the summer (she’s an international student) or shall apply the no contact rule now seeing as this would be the perfect opportunity to apply the rule as she needs the support more than anything. 5 months no contact broke rule several times bought her a car and nc solid for 3 months now.
I had work lunch at the hooters we met at and I brought back some really nice memories of meeting you and the great time we had.
I always felt that there was something going on but she kept telling me that nothing was going on.
She felt that our relationship was just one big obligation because I had turned her life around. She had become unhappy 2 years into the relationship (which is right around where I started to pack on the pounds and we didn’t go out as much, you know? She asked if we can still be friends, I told her we will never be just friends and that I have too much love for her to do that. I know that I’ll want her back but I am ready to accept the fact that I may not want her back.
I wrote her a breakup letter letting her know that I respect her decision to end our relationship and that my life was starting to take off in a good way. Before my previous post, when we were in the process of breaking up, she asked if we could remain friends.
My ex asked me if she could still have the self help book that I am about to publish before our 2nd NC. For all our real life Nuka Chemists out there, Whatpayne has developed a way for your to craft your own versions of the Fallout 3 drinks Nuka Classic, Nuka Fusion and Nuka Quantum. If I am able to squander up the courage to actually consume this radioactive beverage, I do promise turn the lights out when the radioactive liquid decides to flush it’s way through me. Time has a funny way of making us realize our mistakes and without a doubt letting your ex girlfriend go was a big one. You figure the easiest way to do this is to send her a non threatening text message to check up on her. Of course, after you sent the text that daydream was shattered and replaced with anger, heartache and jealousy. Well, what do you think would happen if the new boyfriend caught wind of the fact that you wanted your girl back? Of course, sometimes you will get a boyfriend who can tell when something is off without her even having to say a word. Of course, the situation you currently find yourself in is one of the hardest to experience as your chances for success are slightly lowered.
While that is certainly the outcome that you are praying for it isn’t realistic to assume that, that is going to happen 100% of the time. However, with that being said it doesn’t hurt to have an expert on your side (me) who has seen so many situations and put so many relationships back together that he can drastically increase your chances of succeeding in almost any situation. Now, most of you who are in that situation are going to see that number and immediately freak out because it’s pretty darn low. Well, all of a sudden that 20% chance of success is bumped up to 50% because you know eventually she is going to have to choose between you and her new boyfriend. I am talking about someone who provides emotional support, someone who listens and tries not to judge, someone who truly cares about her and she realizes it. You see, I have a sister site to this one called, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, where I have helped thousands of women. You will need to find a way to get her to tap into those feelings for you and when she does that is going to dramatically increase your chances of having her run back to you. Humans in general are drawn to things that make them feel good and flee from things that make them feel bad. If your ex broke up with you because she thought she could do better and discovers that she can’t then all of a sudden she is going to be scrambling to get YOUR approval. Well, if you find yourself in a situation where you are trying to get a girlfriend back who has a new boyfriend you may find that waiting 45 days in no contact is too long. While I am not a fan of becoming overbearing or annoying but I don’t think there is anything wrong with doing very subtle things to remind your ex that you are out there. Perhaps I am a bit jaded because I have seen so much with regards to exes and I know that any time that exes are friends it usually doesn’t work out. If you can get her to open up to you and trust you enough to let you in then I guarantee that you are going to come out looking like a star. When I talk about providing emotional support I am not talking about helping her with her own relationship. Of course, in order to do that successfully you have to create this build up to gain the attraction momentum that you need. It just means that she is being a good girlfriend to her boyfriend and she shouldn’t be punished for that.
If she says she wants to get back yes, but other than that, if it’s just a casual hi, nope. During this time i tried a few times to get back together, but never really putting much effort.
I try to give her space recently because the prom is coming up and he asked her but i keep getting told everything thats happening with them and i gave after a few days of not talking and text her. Basically, I was quite aloof in any relationship, – you could say defensive, so I dont get hurt and a relationship adds on to my life and not be my life in total. I just want to make it clear, the other guys started texting her while you remained texting even after you called off the engagement right?
She started with asking for a piece of clothing and I said that I would look for it (in our final phone call a few days ago, she said to throw away all her things). Either she loves you both and she prefers to stay with the current because she feels more secured with him.. Check out our news section with news for teen girls, funny online news, and funny pictures, photos & videos. A man we'll call Allen who got caught cheating, knows that he needs to tell his wife the truth. 4) Our relationship may have reached its use-by date, but my love for you hasna€™t and never will. Before even trying to get your girlfriend back after being unfaithful to her, make sure the cheating is over. Spending money on a home inspection helps you avoid purchasing a house that comes with costly, unexpected repairs.
However, with that being said there is a flaw with this guide, that’s all that it covers. While knowing what to say to her via text messages is an important part of the process there is a lot more to winning her back then that. When you go through a breakup do you honestly think that at that moment you are thinking logically?
However, you start bordering on the pathetic when you send your ex 20 text messages back to back to back. In other words, this is the go to guide for teaching you exactly what to say through text messages to start the overall process out. If you are consistently getting a one word text message response from her THEN you have a right to be worried.
Look, your ex girlfriend is a human being and human beings are notoriously hard to predict.
Since you dated this girl we can assume that at one point you were her top priority when it came to texting.
Obviously if the breakup was really bad then she may not want to talk to you and you will have to earn the right to get those quick responses from her again. The fastest way to get a quick response from a girl is to build up the anticipation through text messages so that she is constantly waiting for your response to her text. The first battle is going to be the most obvious one in that you have to get her connected in a conversation with you. This is a concept that I want you to wrap your head around because it is so important when it comes to ending texting conversations with your ex girlfriend.
In other words, if she is responding quickly with rather long messages it still might not mean she is emotionally engaged in the conversation. Generally, if you are responding emotionally to her messages then she is probably responding emotionally to yours.
Once you find it then that is when you should end the conversation on a high note because that is how you leave someone wanting more. Of course, I am going to be going a lot more in-depth on them and I will also teach you exactly what you are supposed to do when you get each response. You send a text message to your ex girlfriend and instead of responding positively she responds in a neutral type of way. The mistake I see most men making is the fact that they are unable to remain classy when they get a negative response.
It basically means that you send a text message and your ex girlfriend doesn’t respond to it. Remember, this is not meant to be a process where you accomplish everything you want to accomplish in a matter of hours. Now, I have thought about how best to explain this to you and finally I settled on this statement. Seriously, don’t underestimate the negative impact that a breakup can have on text messaging. However, to a woman having a man remind her of something that she would genuinely appreciate being reminded of means that, that particular man cares enough to look out for her.
The more details that you can bring to the table about how you felt, how she felt and about what happened the better. Let me go through a few examples with you so I can show you how to properly use a relationship text.
While it’s not anything HUGE about your relationship it is an aspect that filled both of you up with good feelings. I mean, I am sure if a girl I really liked told me that she loved cuddling with me I would be over the moon but the truth is that this text could be so much better. However, it is my experience that most women wait for men to make the first move and that is not a problem because I know exactly what you can do to get your ex talking on the phone in no time. Not in a stalkerish kind of way I just mean you have to be aware of when she will be at work, out with friends or basically any time that it is not socially acceptable to take a phone call.
However, in my experience when it comes to getting an ex girlfriend back surprises are your enemy. Ive done all the work on myself and I want to start dating my ex again because I feel I am better person today than I was a few months ago.
My ex just dropped me a message that we have different expectation and hence she is breaking off.
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He has appeared on talk shows such as Rachael Ray and has been referred to as "the man with the magic thumbs", "the king of romantic texting", and even as a "texting ninja". There are some people out there that are content with telling you what you want to hear but I am not going to be one of those people. You begged for her back and unfortunately there isn’t a time machine that you can hop on and erase the begging mistake. After I listen to their questions I then provide my take on their situation and give them a game plan to go forward.
This way I always have a reference sheet that I can look at while I am recording so I can stay on point.
I was just going through my first breakup so when you add the immaturity of my age with the anger that I was experiencing from the breakup you get a recipe for disaster.
Since there is no way you can be 100% sure if she is considering you to be her boyfriend again I would stay away from it completely.


You are well on you want to becoming a gnat and gnats do not have a high probabily of getting their exes back. For example, if I was trying to get your ex girlfriend back and I sent her 10 text messages in one day then I would just slip into the no contact rule and lay low for a little bit. So, instead of doing the traditional 21 day no contact rule you have to bump that up to 30 days.
I went to return an item that she forgot at my place and discuss some unfinished finances between us. Now almost a year and half has passed, i had a breakdown and long story short all my defences fell apart and she became to only person on my mind, i dated many in that time, but the feelings i had repressed came raging back. What if you send her a small gift that is unique, thoughtful handmade and not like every other.
She may very well know who sent it, but as long as you don’t make it too sappy, too long and make a big fuss of it and admit it when she asks.
I promised her a free signed copy before and I was thinking of attaching a card with a general inside joke about squirrels on a card related to the book and the last Christmas present I gave her. I have learn this submit and if I could I wish to suggest you few attention-grabbing issues or tips. Feel free to join the discussion by leaving comments, and stay updated by subscribing to the RSS feed.
You see, on the one hand she has strong feelings for you and on the other hand she has strong feelings for her current boyfriend.
Obviously we are hoping that the new boyfriend is treating her horribly so you look like a prince but lets just say that, that doesn’t happen. I think it’s safe to say that I have heard just about every single story there is when it comes to breakups.
Besides, men often have to be the hunters when it comes to relationships so that means that we have to do all the work to get the relationship started or re-started in your case.
You have done a shortened NC rule, you have worked on re-establishing your friendship with your ex.
What I want to do now is to show you how you should go about creating this perfect build up.
Keep building the attraction until she chooses to leave her current man in favor of the better option, you.
Back in December, 2011, I convinced this friend of mine to be my girlfriend, and then the next day, I got too nervous and chickened out of the relationship. I was trying to give her space to figure out her feelings for herself but instead she got the impression that i wanted nothing to do with her. She also said she would not date him but i can tell that she has fallen for him probably because of my pushing.
But, there this girl happened and she swooped me, demanded I give her more attention, and infact I did like someone bothering me much and making me show the love.
If you would like the actual step by step method that you should employ to get her back I suggest you take a good hard look at a guide called, The Texting Bible.
For example, if you send a text message to your ex girlfriend that is about 25 words and she responds with a 1 word answer that might be a little troubling.
However, just figuring out what type of text messages to send is not going to help you understand the entire situation. What I will be talking about in this section should give you insight into your ex but in the end every single man reading this will be in a different position because every girl out there is unique and what is talked about in this section is a generalization of women.
However, if I was texting a girl that I was very interested in and I responded to her texts every few minutes then I am definitely engaged in what she is saying. However, I would say that in most cases she will be willing to talk to you and respond pretty quickly if the breakup wasn’t horrible. This text message has to be sent from her and it has to be one where she opens up emotionally or really wants an answer from you about something. Now, imagine if you could do that to your ex girlfriend so she is literally anticipating your text. Simple, if you leave her wanting more then that means to her YOU are the only want who can satisfy her emotional hunger. The key to leaving her wanting more is finding the high point of the emotional conversation. Eventually I get to a point in the conversation where I find a string of text messages that satisfy all of the three characteristics I just talked about.
The idea is to end the conversation on a positive note because then she will associate the good feelings she has gotten throughout the conversation with you. For the past month you have essentially ignored her and then all of a sudden she gets a phone call.
While it may cause her extreme anxiety for a while it will also make her realize how much she cares about you and that is what you want.
Essentially, you have followed the plans I have laid out here to a T and they worked for you perfectly. Rather, you accomplish it in a matter of weeks or months but trust me when I say if you are patient the strategies outlined on this page can be extremely effective. Re-building rapport with your ex when it comes to texting is almost the same as re-building trust. At the beginning you would only talk once every three days and towards the end you were talking every day. Now, lets pretend for a moment that you were able to think of something like 15 memories that you could use. If you are going to be talking about an aspect of your old relationship with your ex girlfriend I want you to pay attention to the details and that is something that this text lacks.
Now, tell me, what is a bigger surprise to a girl than an ex boyfriend calling her up out of the blue with no warning at all? Through this e-book, Michael will show you, no matter if you are male or female, how to utilize text messages to get your ex back.
Every action he takes is to his benefit and as a result he starts to heal from the breakup. I just stuck to inside jokes and said sweet things that I still think to this day any girl would love to hear. This was my biggest mistake because it was at this point that she told me flat out that she wasn’t looking for a boyfriend since she had just come out of a relationship. She acknowledged that I had made some weight and grooming progress and that I was looking good. I attatched my letter to her favorite flower and set it in her car so that she could discover it in the morning. I asked her if I walked out the door and she never saw me again would she have any regrets.
I contact her and told her that she was loved and still is loved, i laid all my feeling down, i apologised for being cold in the past etc…. Let’s go to the worse case scenario (for you) where the new boyfriend is treating her incredibly well.
If she asks you for relationship advice on him I want you to decline as politely as possible.
Eventually the new boyfriend got so upset about this that it has caused a bit of a rift in their relationship. I fear through my attempts to try and talk to her I have made myself a common enemy of both of them, as she has blocked me on all social media (Facebook, instagram, and snapchat). I know i wasn’t the best partner and i made a lot of mistakes but nothing really bad but i know what i have to do if i get a chance. Do i step back and let her see that or do i try to show her the person she feel in love with and hope she comes back? This month of April, I started showing signs of disinterest while still together, I felt she was so needy and emotional.
She told me how she is finally doing the things she wanted, that she woke up crying this morning because she realized how happy she is now.
There were a couple of bad nights like 2 or 3 during that time but they had to do with drinking. Now, I do realize that logically you may realize that this is the case but when you are actually in a situation that you have so much invested in it is hard to take a step back and think logically. Sure, maybe she was busy when you sent that text and she didn’t have time to write a proper response but imagine if this trend was consistent throughout the history of your conversations as of late.
In other words, you need to keep an eye out for a text message that satisfy all three characteristics. It is at this point that I should end the conversation because that girl would be left wanting more. If you do get a negative response apologize for the inconvenience you caused and then do not text her back.
First things first, in the event that she completely ignores your text message wait about a week before you try anything else. It isn’t going to happen overnight but if you slowly advance things you can see some fantastic results.
Any girlfriend I have had is always there to remind me when important stuff is about to come up.
It claims to help you in exploring different ways to get your ex back and that is true in every sense. It teaches step-by-step information on how to get your ex back and gives you complete pattern, which you have to use while sending text messages to your ex. Michael has years of experience in teaching people about the powerful potential of text messaging. Even though my love for her will never be lost, I realize that we don’t even know who we really are.
Not only that but I became clingy, needy, overprotective, and probably the worst of them fat (315lbs) towards the end of our relationship.
But maybe that mentality was way too overbearing for her because I couldn’t turn it off and I probably forced that on her. This doesn’t really bother me too much anymore but it ate me up for those couple if days. It started off good but then I feel back into my old habits of when she says shes had enough it means shes had enough. She sent me a text that she was thankful for the flower and that she was happy that things are starting to change for me and that she hopes I keep with it. But with a small fake rose in her favourite colour inside a small box (international delivery) and a small card that says inside. Now, a really good girlfriend wouldn’t see her ex boyfriend out of respect for her new boyfriend.
Fast forward to the beginning of last year, I realized I still loved her, and then in the fall, I asked her to dinner and she said yes.
How do I get her to realize that I truly do need her in my life and get her to start talking to me again and get her back?? I like to believe i have become a better person and know how to treat her now but i think she is scared knowing who she is.
I ended breaking up with her again mid month because I did not like that she never put up pictures of us on instagram and facebook.
She said she is even going in a trip to new mexico… that got me curious and I asked if it was with her new guy. She may be busy at that particular moment or you may not have built up enough attraction yet.
You deserve someone who respects you and appreciates you for who you really are, not the condition you are in. I called her up and she started behaving in a happy way, talking about random topics and stuffs.
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To make it worse, I had some serious insecurities with trusting her (for no reason as it turns out) through out the relationship.
So, as you can see just calling a girl up and asking her out without any of the romance or build up doesn’t usually work.
Now she has fallen for him and tells me she doesn’t feel the same but sends mix singles when ever i see her. She said it was because she didnt feel we went out a lot and felt I didnt put enough effort. I exploded on her over the phone while she was still on the clock at work and when she came outside to talk with me. She says the only reason she talks and flirts with me is because she doesn’t want to hurt me and wants to make it easier for me. Well after I broke up with her, she would text me to make sure we are still single, she also wanted to hangout at one point but I kept neglecting her.
She also asked me, how was it that I saw her new pictures of her new guy on social media when she made sure she took me off (but no blocking).
But she stood by my side all the way up untill I got out than she broke up with me over the phone when I called her.
She texted me a few days later and asked if I was mad at her and I responded with a simple no. Once i heard my friend was going for her i decided i couldn’t wait anymore and did just about everything wrong. Both were in love and we had to call it off since it wasn’t a practical choice for us.
I wanted to make her miss me and want me, and get back together and start putting me up on social media. That way, let’s hope she misses you, and sees the change and starts to take a chance when you get to talking again. I still think about her viciously and I’m pretty certain she thinks of me from time to time. I really want to ask her one more time to reconsider before she gets too serious with the new guy.
We did take the call, but then we still kept in touch and we were looking for other opportunities simultaneously, but we still knew where our hearts were. Now I know what was causing me to drink a lot had to do with the fact I was somewhat insecure because I had a devistating break up summer of 2013 with the woman who I thought was my soulmate and it took me a year and some change to get over her. I did spend many weeks trying to figure out whether it was jealousy or if my feelings were real. The funny thing is that she still asked why I deleted her on facebook and instagram a day later. I gave her the apology about everything that happened that was said and that I wish her well. I want to let her find herself and let go of the image of who I was pretending to be and see me for the man I really am.
Anyway, she tells me she knows its not jealousy but she said in our last conversation that why now.
I asked her if she wanted to be friends and she said yes, I decided to only add her on facebook. I said I dont want to hold any grudges towards you and that she is a great person and doesnt deserve that. So while I was locked up I had time to think and I realized how much my new girl meant to me and that I really loved her and was ready to let my gaurd down and give love another chance. After realizing that I was intent on not leaving without a kiss, she simply and playfully said no and I backed off casually.
So I dint comment much, but i ensured she made the right choice (not him thought) but you know, continuous talking and sharing stuff will eventually lead you there (this was as well long distance) – Things were fine but then he made a trip to meet her and she infact did like him as well. But seems I was a day late and a dollar short cause after she broke up with me we were still friends on fb and my other ex that I was dating summer of 14 seen I was single again and friend requested me on fb and since my ex broke up with me I accepted.
I wish I could tell her how sorry I am for accusing her and not appreciating what a great person she is; most of all not trusting her.
And everything that happened after she didn’t return my feelings happened LONG before I even knew that there was a way to get an ex girlfriend back. Now I dont get those texts which i used to get annoyed about before like why is she texting me so muchhh ? And she commented on something I posted and my ex seen it and got super upset and sent me a message saying she was done and she just wanted her stuff. She also wanted to know why I wasn’t returning her texts or calls (No contact) but her calls were about business so I had to respond. She did contact me a couple of times during the No Contact period, but I didn’t respond either time. My biggest problem is i gave her time before and she thought i hated her and says she forced herself to lose her feelings for me. When we had breaks, she would always make it so that I wanted her back, like she did earlier. I told her that Im doing ok and that I stopped doing many of the things the she didnt like, like smoking weed – her voice cracked a little and said oh really? So I told the other ex its best if we just stay friends but had to block her on fb cause I didnt want to upset the one I was still in love with anymore than she aready was. She called me a couple of times post NC, but she said she pocket dialed me both times and I know she called me on purpose both of those times. Knowing who she is, she does’t like to get hurt, so she tries to avoid it and to me and a few other people, it seems as if she is confused because her friends are telling her to go with this new guy but it seems like she has feelings for me still by the way she acts. I miss talking to her – She made me zone out from the entire world and give her the attention which she needed and I did give and got back the love as well.
I then told her that if i could go back, I would change everything to change the outcome of what happened, that it is my burden to hold and that I will live with it for the rest of my life.
Well about a week later March 7th (got out on Feb 23 just a lil time frame) my ex changed her fb status to in a relationship and changed her profile pic to her kissing this new guy.
I kept trying to text her about things that she likes and how they made me think about her, but I would keep getting a neutral response.
She never really opens up in this type of situation, we broke up once before and i was able to show her the fun we had together by hanging out and talking and eventually got back together.
I told her that im not holding any ill feelings towards her and that im even open to the idea of being friends.
During that time she would never she how she felt, she just would give me a dry answer and one day wanted to get back together.
But I handled the situation maturly and didnt text her anything rude as a matter of fact I only texted her on Easter wishing her and her daughter a happy Easter. The new guy when they start talking was planning to go to college half way across the country, so he has no plans to have a committed relationship. She then said she was thankful for the 5 year experience and she learned a lot, that she now knows what she wants and she is doing everything she wanted to do with me, that she was happy. I decided to end the phone call be telling her I had to go, i said i wish you well, take care and bye. I was still kinda heartbroken over everything but was starting to move on even though I still thought about her all the time I was starting to heal. I ended up messaging her that I still loved her and that I wanted her to have my kids like we planned, that we said forever. So we had a 3 hr long conversation and it went great we talked we had some laughs and it was like we were together again. She gave me a huge paragraph of what I did wrong, and that she did not love me anymore, that she moved on quick, because she realized how ive treated her all these years. She knows that saying that saying she is happy now with her new guy will hurt me although i never showed that pain on the phone call. So we texted a couple times over the past couple of weeks and than she called me on Friday telling me she was bored so I was working at the time and told her I would call her back after work and I did.
She said I am definitely not her soulmate and neglected anything i said to get her back, complete opposite of what she would normally do. She ended up calling me at work to tell me to stop messaging her about our relationship, even though I stopped an hour earlier already.
So I picked her up after work I offered to let her sleep in my bed and I sleep on the couch but she insisted I sleep in the bed with her so yeah we made love the first night than we woke up and did it again she came to help me on one of my jobs as I have my own construction company and she used to work with me sometimes when we were together. The following morning she left a voicemail saying that she read over our messages and said that she hopes i move on quick and recuperate, that she was concerned about how i sounded over text since she has never heard me talk like that.
Than I took her to a carnival we ate some food and went on a ride and I won her a stuffed furry animal. Two days pass and Im starting to hurt more, now i want her back really badly so at night i asked her to talk to me over the phone. Than we woke up the next day and I had to go out to look at a job and she stayed at my house while I was gone. I came back and we went out to eat at our favorite restaurant for lunch than went over to my cousins house she is close friends with them and she wanted to see theyre baby which she loves. I ended spilling my heart out on that phone call, asking her to come back to me, that ive never been hurt by her like this.
She said she no longer loved me, when i would bring up making love she said to stop because it made her cringe. We held hands the whole ride and she told me she loved me when I dropped her off and she told me she left me a note on my dresser mirror to read when I got home. That what she said just a month ago about forever was only because she didnt realize how much i hurt her over the years. The note said my name, I love you with all my heart no matter what we have been through 4ever&always yours, love her name. That she found someone who always listens to her and doesnt criticize her when she needs comfort. The call ended on bad terms, i told her to tell me that she is going to have sex with her new guy eventually one day at the end, so that i can feel numb and try to let her go completely. She didnt want to at first because it was none of my business, but she ended up saying it after I pleaded for it. Im so depressed, thinking that she is really happy and I that I wont be able to get her back.
I plan on talking to her in 2 more days to try to briefly make amends and work my way to friendship.
She is the type of person who doesnt like to hurt anyone, so it makes me think she wont want to leave her new guy for me.




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