21 Healthy Food Plan MealsMake a Salad Base that Last All WeekAmazing Secrets of Coconut Oil: You May Not Know! It is an admirable goal for a Christian woman to work on becoming  a  submissive wife as outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33, but this sincere desire to please God and her husband can tempt a narcissist to manipulate and abuse the woman. Narcissist predators are on the lookout for women who strive to be  selfless and willing to sacrifice to care for others.
The abuse can be very subtle with the control increasing gradually over time so that the wife gradually adapts to it.
The narcissist husband and submissive wife may function well together in the beginning  in their respective roles, making a home and raising a family, but as time goes on the narcissist expects more and more, and the submissive wife feels frustrated, like she can never do enough. In typical narcissist fashion, the husband blames the wife, and in her role as pleaser she takes the blame and buys yet another book on submission and tries harder, becoming more frustrated, with more downhill spiraling, rinse and repeat. Patricia Evans, author and recognized expert on Verbal Abuse, describes wives who experience this abuse in the excerpt below. There are books and web sites full of information about the narcissistic personality, which are informative reading for anyone closely associated with one. Reddit is known for lots of things, mainly talking arguments about libertarian politics, Neil deGrasse Tyson quotes, and occasionally ruining people's lives.
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I left my boyfriend previously in April and ended up staying with a friend for a couple of weeks.
The night before I left he brought me flowers, but within an hour he flew into a rage and broke the bathroom scale by stomping on it.
He must be, because the way he acted around other people with me was nothing like he was behind closed doors. FireflyySerenity: I would want someone like me and my family to get me if I was ever in a situation like that.
When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal. Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night.  I miss you like hell. You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.


The turning point in the process of growing up is when you discover the core of strength within you that survives all hurt. There is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature.  A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with. Sadness flies on the wings of the morning and out of the heart of darkness comes the light.
Mishaps are like knives, that either serve us or cut us, as we grasp them by the blade or the handle. When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.
Count the garden by the flowers, never by the leaves that fall.  Count your life with smiles and not the tears that roll.
When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.
While grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates.  You must wait till it be digested, and then amusement will dissipate the remains of it. I believe there are more urgent and honorable occupations than the incomparable waste of time we call suffering. Her low self-worth, progressively lowered in an abusive relationship, means that however imperfect her partner, she still feels inferior to them.
She does not fully believe that she can manage herself on her own and face the challenges of life. A generous soul, she may well yearn for a rescuer, but she can’t resist running to the rescue of anyone in distress. Reading about others’ experiences will show you that you are not alone and possibly provide other tips for coping.
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After chatting with Tiredoftheabuse through private messages and texts, she hopped in her truck and drove down to the San Fernando Valley to get her.
I have an app on my phone, and I work as a nanny, so when the kids are taking a nap, I’ll fuck around. Neither the service provider nor the domain owner maintain any relationship with the advertisers.


The narcissist is unable to love, the submissive wife feels unloved and the relationship spirals downhill. It takes her the longest time to learn that love doesn’t excuse her partner from being accountable for their actions. She may sound strong-minded, but her wants, needs, and reason never carry the same weight for her as those of her parnter. I have, fortunatley, realized some of this on my own however and through the help of my family and friends and those from my bible study group I feel my confidence and my sense of self-worth rising. I frequently check the Los Angeles subreddit to find out about what's going on in the town where I live. The reason I couldn’t stay with her this time is because she has two people already living with her in her tiny apartment.
My boyfriend also promised he would stop drinking, we would go to therapy, and that everything would change. If I could just help one person get out of an awful situation, then maybe it could inspire other people to help someone. In case of trademark issues please contact the domain owner directly (contact information can be found in whois). We got in the car, and Tiredoftheabuse was shaking and crying with a dog and a bag of miscellaneous shit. I was open to going to a shelter, but I didn’t know who to talk to, or anything about getting around LA, or the resources I had available to me.
Can I continue on my way still married to this man, who I love, who is the father of my children, though? He would sober up and act like nothing happened, and sometimes he would still stay mad at me. Waited behind a door to scare someone, then leaving because they're taking too long to come out or you had to pee.



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