I would also like to take a moment to turn attention to my E-Book, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO. Ladies I am going to let you in on a little secret here, he got your call and he IS ignoring it on purpose. A lot of times what I see happening is that text gnats will turn into call gnats after their texts aren’t answered.
The main problem that I have with CG (call gnats) is that what they are doing is really verifying the exes decision to not want to be with them.
Ok, how about the fact that it can be extremely creepy for a guy if an ex girlfriend shows up unannounced declaring her love for him in person. She was under the impression that big romantic gestures like showing up, unannounced, and holding a radio over her head playing a love song would actually work. Well, I hate to break it to you but this isn’t Hollywood and rarely does showing up unannounced making a big romantic gesture ever work. In fact, it drove her so crazy that she followed him around in her car every time he took the new girl on a date. Now, the moral of this story is that those two not only ended up getting back together but they ended up getting married. I am going to be covering both of these mistakes and giving you in-depth details on why I personally believe they are not a good idea.
Ok, I wouldn’t exactly call that a sign because in essence all you are doing is setting yourself up for friends with benefits territory. Men aren’t wired the same way that women are and that is an important fact that you need to understand. Unfortunately, I have had experience making big gestures personally and I have witnessed countless others do the same.
However, in the event that you have already done it then I suggest you enter into a no contact rule immediately though the standard 30 days won’t be enough for you.
Any time you have ever had a fight with a boyfriend in the past I want you to think real hard about what eventually fixed the fight. Sure, he may have apologized and you felt better but it wasn’t until enough time passed that you truly got over it. The more pathetic you become (and if you are in recluse mode you are pathetic) the less attracted he will be to you.
As a guy I know what it feels like to be given an ultimatum by a girl and let me tell you that nothing makes me madder.
Sending a text message like that still won’t clean up all the damage that was caused by the ultimatum but it is certainly a great start. I am going to take a moment and quickly describe how the people in the three categories above will perceive an email or letter declaring your love for them. Let me put it to you this way, if you are sending a letter like this to your ex it probably won’t end well. Obviously, the quickest fix is to NOT send an overemotional email or letter trying to fix things with your ex boyfriend. Make no mistake about it, completing a 30 day freeze out of your ex is not going to be an easy task.
This is going to suck but realize that in order to have a good chance at getting your ex boyfriend back you are going to have to prove you can go 30 days without communication. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. He’s into cute, cheesy things and I was wondering if it would be good if I drove up to see him and talk to him in person. But then I got drunk at my girlfriends house and had stupidly phoned him saying I was at some randoms house and I brought up stupid stuff, like my ex’s.
I texted him the next day saying how unbelievably sorry I was and I loved him and I wanted to make it all okay again. Of course I was dumb and kept sending him huge paragraphs on how sorry I still was and whatnot. I did no contact for 30 days, got back in touch with my ex, everything was going very well – we texted and started to talk on the phone for about 2-3 weeks, he said he missed me a lot.
During one of these conversations – he brought up how he was applying for jobs he hates. I’ve been with my bf for almost 10 years, we have an amazing daughter, and I love them both. He got really tired of me denying his claims, even after I would let him check my phone, texts, emails, I even asked him to accompany me while at work. At least he has his mother: This boyfriend failed to win back the affection of his one-time flame by sharing that his mother had made him a 'delicious' meatloaf out of a gift of meat from his ex before their split. Not so pukka: Handing back each others possessions can be one of the hardest parts about a break up.
The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline. Sometimes I read stories from men and women about the lengths they are willing to go to, to deceive, manipulate and cheat on their partners and I am absolutely disgusted. So, instead of telling you that you were bad and that you messed up I am going to give you a solution on how you can approach your current predicament. Of course, I wouldn’t feel comfortable talking about that solution with you until I first gave you a little disclaimer. As many of you know, in addition to this website, Ex Girlfriend Recovery, I also run another website called, Ex Boyfriend Recovery. That website is essentially the women’s version of this one where I help women get their exes back.
So, the bad news is that getting an ex girlfriend back that you cheated on is probably the worst situation to be in (for you.) In other words, your chances are significantly lower. As shocking as it may seem there are women who want their ex boyfriends back despite the fact that they cheated on them. Well, that other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, has a page set aside specifically for women whose exes cheated on them.
That means that there are a good number of women who are so in love with their boyfriends that they want them back even though they cheated on them. So, the good news here is that even though your chances are without a doubt lowered if you cheated on your ex there is still hope because I have actual proof that there are women out there that will take a cheating ex back.
Below I have put together a specific plan for you to follow for you to even have a chance of winning back your ex.
I am known for going into great detail on pretty much every single topic you can possibly think about so the graphic above is going to be no different. I mean, every fiber of your being probably wants to make up for what you did (cheating on your girlfriend) by writing long elegant apology letters, begging for her forgiveness or literally doing whatever she tells you to do until she takes you back. What do all of those behaviors (writing letters, begging or following her every instruction by essentially becoming her slave) have in common? Look, cheating on your significant other is the absolute worst thing that you can do in a relationship. Because the wound of you cheating is still too fresh and you haven’t done anything to prove to her that things are going to change the second time around. Now, lets take the same exact imaginary situation (me cheating on an imaginary girl) and look at how I would go about regaining her trust to win her back with the no contact rule. Every fiber of my being is probably going to be telling me to beg for her back but I am not going to do that. After that text message I would probably go into either a 21, 30, 45 or 60 day no contact rule. Because they are all going to be geared towards proving (not just showing) that you are a trustworthy person.
Instead of begging for my imaginary ex back I decided to write a heartfelt apology and immediately duck into the no contact rule.
Lets pretend for a moment that your girlfriend cheated on you instead of the other way around.
Assuming that you are someone who gives second chances what would she have to do in order to win your heart back? Speaking personally if someone cheated on me I would want to see an intense commitment by them to changing their ways or removing themselves from any type of situation that people often cheat in. Any type of behavior that can make your ex girlfriend think of cheating has to be eliminated.
I am going to take a moment now and describe the threat of each of these behaviors and why you are going to have to avoid them at all costs. Now, that’s a total BS answer but I have heard way too many stories from people using it as a crutch for cheating. So, rather than taking this chance of having your ex look at you like an unchanged man I say cut out drinking altogether. Of course, if you do like a beer every now and then at least promise yourself that you won’t get drunk. Yes, we are all men here and we all know that most men go to bars and clubs to pick up chicks. I have a feeling that this is going to be one of the more challenging tasks that I ask of you.
Look, you are single and I am assuming that you are pretty good with women because you got a girlfriend (and you cheated on her.) So, that tells me that you know how to seduce.
Well, if you really want your ex girlfriend back then you are going to have to stop flirting with other women. Look, I already know that you want your ex girlfriend back but how are you supposed to handle the third party that is also going to be affected by this? You need to end whatever relationship you have with the person you cheated with completely. Lets say that your ex is thinking seriously about taking you back but is having some serious reservations about doing so because you are still good friends with the girl that you cheated on her with. One of the biggest mistakes I see that men make when they are in this particular situation is that they don’t have the stones to be a little mean and end a relationship with the girl that is the cause of all of their exes pain.
If you are serious about getting your ex girlfriend back then show that intense commitment to here and don’t be afraid to be a little mean to this other girl. If an ex girlfriend ever asks you something like this then that means she is trying to figure out what your relationship with that particular person is like.
It is at this point that you have two options which will all depend on whether or not you took my advice. Lets say for a minute that you are an idiot and didn’t take my advice of completely ending your relationship with the person you cheated on your ex girlfriend with. So, the second that your ex asks you the age old question that prys about your relationship with that one person and you tell her that you are still friends with that person then that is going to add extra doubt into your exes head which is going to make it twice as hard to get her back. Alright, now lets say that you were smart and you did take my advice about cutting the girl you cheated on your ex with completely out of your life. When your ex asks the question and you tell her that you got rid of her as a friend, as a phone contact and all social media your ex is going to be very impressed and instead of doubt creeping into her head the exact opposite thing will creep into her head, trust. I am sure you have realized by now that everything that I have told you to do up to this point has been to slowly regain your exes trust. When I say commitment I am not just talking about it in the sense that you have to commit to your ex girlfriend (meaning no other girls.) No, I am talking about how you have to commit to the process of getting her back.
So far this guide has covered one main aspect of getting an ex girlfriend back, rebuilding trust.
Unfortunately, rebuilding trust in your ex isn’t going to be enough to win her heart back. Instead I figured I would refer you to some of my other guides that specifically deal in rebuilding attraction. How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – Pretty much the basic gameplan that you should be following if you want to win your ex girlfriend back. How To Make Her Miss You– With this guide you will have the ability to make your ex girlfriend miss you like she has never missed you before.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 8 months, and during the first month I cheated on her and I told her about it but I didnt complete the whole story. Before yesterday we talked she is the one who said how are with your exams i couldnt refuse to answer her and then my feeling get back and i told her i cant live without you she said oussama go to sleep good night , yesterday nothing happend but i did send at night good night and this morning too i did send her good morning. Hi Chris, my ex and I were together for two years and broke up mutually in March for various reasons. Here is my situation my girlfriend and I where dating for 4 months (I know that not a long time in the long run), her name is Abby.
She has deleted me on Facebook and Instagram, that kinda hurt more then I think it should but she is trying to move on. Well when we broke up she said she doesn’t get how people can be friends after a break up. All people make mistakes at some point, in some occasions we do not notice and in others we make them on purpose.
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Breaking up with a clingy, obsessive significant other is a process marked by stage after stage of mind games and desperate entreaties to stay together.
We might finally have an answer thanks to a recent call with a Comcast representative that was recorded by a customer trying to disconnect his service. Remember: The quotes below are taken from a real conversation with a real Comcast representative that can be heard here. Your ex: "Everything was so, so, so amazing between us and nothing was ever bad when we were together. Your ex: "Even though there couldn't possibly be anything wrong with me that’s causing this break up, if there was, just hypothetically speaking, what might that be? I am going to be writing about every single mistake I can think of when it comes to getting an ex boyfriend back. If you are looking to take a step further in getting him back then this is something that you really need to get.
I remember walking on a trail there and I kept feeling something, almost like a feather, touch my ear. First off, it is really important to understand that if you have been an excessive text gnat then your ex boyfriend is going to view you as needy and desperate which are not good qualities to have. Notice how clean this format looks and I promise you when it comes to attracting and re-attracting guys, less is more. A call gnat is essentially the same thing as a text gnat except instead of texting we are dealing with someone who constantly calls their ex. Quite frankly, I think he has every right to do so because women who call that many times a day are generally not stable at that particular moment.
She showed up unannounced on his doorstep a couple of times and did everything that you aren’t supposed to do. I don’t care what you say it is completely possible to rectify a crazy situation with proof like their story. This is bad because  you are always going to be wondering in the back of your head if what he is saying to you, post-breakup, he really means or is just a line to get you in bed. She told me about all the horrible things that her boyfriend did to her and asked me if she had a chance to get him back.
However, I am assuming that if you are reading this and are really interested in this particular section that you have already committed this mistake. He is expecting you to call him and do everything that a crazy ex girlfriend is supposed to do. Actually, a lot of my favorite movies have a guy at the end making some grand gesture professing his love to the girl.
If you are thinking about making a grand gesture hoping that it will finally be the thing that gets your ex boyfriend running back into your arms then you will probably be really disappointed. Instead, I am going to be recommending that you enter into a 60 day no contact period and work on contacting him and repairing things after that time frame is up.
Someone once told me a long time ago that the more you care about the person romantically the angrier you can get over the smallest little things. At my core I am probably one of the most laid back men on the planet but if you put me in a relationship with a girl I truly care about then I think it would be naive of me to say that I would still be pretty laid back all the time when it comes to every little thing. Well, for one it is going to make him angry at you and push you farther from your goal of getting him back. When I hear that word the first thing I think of is someone who is afraid to go out in public, sits inside all day and has no social life.
You want him back, we have established that much, but in order to raise your chances of accomplishing that you are going to have to take matters into your own hands. After you send a variation of the text above I would like you to enter into a no contact period for 30 days. In fact, the only time I have ever had success sending letters like that are to women who I was dating. I have had friends that have literally laughed behind their exes back after receiving a letter like this. So, in the event that you break the no contact rule you are going to have to start over from day one. He wanted a break before that and just wanted some space to think… but I guess I texted him during the break and that might have prompted him to break up with me. Regardless of how the ending turns out (negative or positive), I would like to see if there’s any reason I should keep holding on. He didn’t text me at all, then on a sunday evening he messaged me back saying he knew I was sorry, he loves me too, he just needed time to think. I made a mistake in the process of trying to get my ex back and need advice on what to do next.
I got to the point of talking about the reasons the relationship ended and he said that he was not in the right place in his life when he got with me, and wasn’t sure I was right for him. I then, in a friendly way brought up some advice on looking at why he hated those jobs – and that started a fight, because he got confused and felt very judged.
Lately, he’s been accusing me of cheating, without considering the possibility of my innocence. All he says, is that he will forgive me if I tell him the truth, but the truth is I haven’t cheated, I almost even wished I did so that I can tell him I did, I even almost booked a lie detector test.
NC Rule starts today, i feel as though I’ve come off way too strong and made things far worst than need be. The problem with trying to convince her to take you back immediately after a breakup is that she is going to be more angry, hurt and disappointed in you than you can imagine. In fact, I even go a step further and start writing her these long involved letters hoping that she will have some epiphany and take me back.
As I am in the middle of the no contact rule I am doing things to prove that I am a trustworthy person. For example, if a girl I was dating went to a club, found a guy there, danced with that guy and then eventually went home and slept with that guy then I am probably not going to be too thrilled of the idea of her going out to clubs after I break up with her. However, instead of it being me and some imaginary girl lets pretend its you and your girlfriend. Look, women have crazy minds (much more crazy than a mans mind.) So, trust me when I say that you getting drunk can lead their mind down a rabbit hole that eventually associates it with cheating.
What about if your ex actually did take you back but you were still good friends with the girl you cheated on her with? Of course, eventually your ex is going to get curious and ask the question that all exes will eventually ask in this situation.
Well, one of the main doubts in your exes head on whether or not she wants to get back with you is if history is going to repeat itself. She told you things that she hasn’t told anyone and you were probably always the first person she went to when she had a problem. In fact, I wouldn’t be shocked if it took them years to finally come to terms with your betrayal. Even if you do everything right on this page you might not succeed in getting your ex girlfriend back. The type of man who believes so much in this process that he is willing to remain disciplined and put in the proper amount of work it takes to win back a girls heart.
You see, women are in love with courtship, romance and chemistry and you took a pretty big tumble in those departments when you cheated on your girlfriend. I only included the part where she kissed me the first time but i didnt mention about the second time where she went in 75% for the kiss and I went in the rest of the 25%.
It was a total misunderstanding but ofcourse, i want her in my life becayse she means so much to me.
Everything was wonderful; the textbook perfect relationship, we had our disagreements and out differences but I love this girl.
I was thinking about calling her mother to try and prove to her that I know I messed up and I only what what is best for her daughter. I was honest about each and every one and had to pay the consequences since it’s all started. We must be brave and take the pain we have caused with our faults to our friends or families. You can decide for yourself which is a bigger pain, but to make it easier we've transcribed some of the conversation to a medium more fitting for break-ups in 2014: the text message. I also get that you really want your ex boyfriend back and that is the root cause of many of the mistakes you are making. If you aren’t interested then no worries, this entire site is full of information that can help you in your quest to get your ex back.
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The only way that you can shake the needy and desperate persona is to enter into a no contact rule for 30 days. Now, if you have been a CG and you are freaking out right now I want you to take a deep breath because it is possible to recover from this. Again, I would like to recommend the no contact rule for 30 days (you will notice that the NC rule can fix a lot of mistakes.) However, eventually there is going to come a time where you are going to want to talk to him again after the no contact rule. You know, a few months ago I was dead set on the fact that women understood that all the romantic movies that have happy endings weren’t really realistic. I have had a lot of girls do things like that and every time it creeped me out beyond reason. If you do this then you aren’t set up to be in friends with benefits territory, you ARE in friends with benefits territory. Of course, if you haven’t committed this mistake then give yourself a pat on the back and move on to mistake #5.
I suggest implementing the NC rule in this case as a way to stop yourself from sleeping with your ex again.
However, in my experience dealing with the many visitors to this site begging doesn’t work. First off, in all of the movies I mentioned above it wasn’t the girl that made the grand gesture, IT WAS THE GUY. In the history of running this site I have never heard a case where a big romantic gesture has worked (for a girl.) Do you think you will be any different? The ante is upped during a serious relationship and as a result tempers can be upped as well. But I honestly believe that it is the little comments that can be said during these fights that cause the most damage.
How this typically works is an ex boyfriend will feel unsure if he wants to come back to his ex girlfriend.
Hopefully that will give you and your ex enough time to look at the situation rationally and be able to recreate a connection with each other. Similar to ultimatums, once you send a letter or email like this there is no taking it back. The truth is, the no contact rule is probably one of the single most important tactics that you can employ after a breakup. That means if you were on day 29 and broke the no contact rule then you are going to have to start all over again. I miss him, and I think he misses me too but he has a high ego and wouldn’t admit such a thing.
I’ve reflected and accepted the break up and the reasons why, but I think we have potential in starting over. He brought up the ex I had gone out with previous before meeting him and said he felt like a second choice which isnt true. He still isn’t sure if it was about timing or about compatibility, but he always had a lot of respect for me. I think I stepped on his boundaries because during our relationship we used to get into arguments as a result of anxiety, high emotions, etc. A few weeks into the rebound relationship he reached out to me and began texting and calling me almost every day.
He texted me yesterday on day 7, the first text since I decided to implement NC, asking if I still wanted to hang out since we had made plans before I stopped talking to him. We’ve finally started communicating again after my second drunk text and i really want him back.
I am sure you have already beat yourself up enough about it without me adding on to the pity pile.
She does want you to do everything humanly possible to prove to her that your indiscretion was a one time thing and it will never happen again. So, you have to understand that your ex girlfriend is going to need some time to level out emotionally.
While I guarantee that she will like the attention this won’t help my ultimate goal of getting her back. In other words, I am making some massive changes with my life to prove I can change my cheating ways.


Also, even though you can beg for your ex girlfriend back you aren’t doing anything to show her that you are a different, better and more trustworthy version of yourself. So, if for some reason she catches wind that you are going to a club or a bar she already has that association formed in her head and she is going to think that you are the same old guy that cheated on her. Most men are paralyzed by this fact and as a result don’t put in the proper amount of effort that is required to build trust. We would talk about everything, we would call every night, and I’ve told her things no one else knows about me.
I was worried that I would do something I would regret when we where away and end up hurting her more. That ended until… A girl from my college who I barely know commented on one of my Instagram photos asking for my snapchat. We’ve been together for over 2 years now and after almost 9-10 months of arguing and making up (and no cheating) we took a break at my request. This is a long story, but I cheated on a woman that I have fallen fastly in love with and her me. Your ex may at least have had some valid points: You did enjoy your time together and at one point, you could have believed their claims.
While a person that you shared an emotional connection with probably deserves some explanation about why you're breaking up, Comcast does not.
At least your ex hopefully had a few more dynamic qualities to offer beyond download speed and broadband width. And unlike your ex, now it just sounds like Comcast is going to start screwing you a whole lot less.
I soon realized that, that feeling wasn’t caused by a feather, it was caused by gnats. I understand that when you want those answers quickly you end up calling and talking to your ex. When this time comes I recommend leading off with a text message as that will be perceived as less threatening. Well, I take that back, I understand why people do it but I have never understood why they fail the see the problems with it down the road.
You see, after breakup sex the two of you go your separate ways and maybe some day down the road your ex will proposition you to be FWB (friends with benefits.) However, if you end up sleeping with your ex after the initial breakup then technically he has already propositioned you and you have already agreed so welcome to FWB territory.
It won’t be easy and will take a lot of discipline but hopefully it can shake that FWB label off. Once again, I want you to enter into the NC rule as this can shed your crazy ex girlfriend persona. It seems that the more involved with the person you are, the more you care about them and the angrier you can get over the dumbest little things. So again, I want you to implement the no contact rule (I sound like a broken record huh?) This time just implement it for 30 days and the time apart should heal all the emotional wounds that you both caused each other during your fights.
Ok, if you have yet to leave your room after your breakup with your now ex boyfriend I think it is about time we change some of that behavior. However, I also want you to go out with your friends, have fun, stop crying, stop whining and by golly stop feeling sorry for yourself. The girlfriend, sensing this, creates a deadline or ultimatum by which he has to come back to her by.
We can put up with a lot but when it comes to women controlling our lives that is where we draw the line.
However, in order for the no contact rule to work to it’s fullest extend you are going to have to NOT break it.
Here are some of the most common scenarios that cause women to break their no contact rules. I’ve been doing well with keeping busy and what not, but I want to know if he feels the same way about me or if I should just cut him off of all social media. Last weekend I saw him for closure and he told me it was cause we fought a lot, we weren’t compatible.
I apologised for offending him over text, but he denied having any problems, and then I found out he unfriended me on Facebook. My ex, wants to achieve music and push him self in life which is awesome but he then thinks that a girlfriend is toooo much and will stop him from doing that. I haven’t cheated on him, nor would I, especially when I thought that maybe this year we could finally get married. Now, lets fast forward a few weeks when your ex girlfriend is really missing you (despite you cheating on her) and one of her girlfriends ends up spotting you at another club. You see, most guys waltz in here and think that in a couple of weeks if they do the things I suggested above their ex is going to magically come back to them.
She eventually found out when her friend was suspicious and called the girl I had cheat on with her.
For me, it’s better that you said it, even if this happens now, you would still have to face it later. 4 months seams like it would be a long time; just enough time for her to get completely over me by the time I get back. I even told her i have never felt the need to beg for someone back before because what we had was rare and special. During this break I made another mistake and when the break was over I had told her what happened. As much as we LOVED that time we ordered "I Know Who Killed Me" on demand, the repeated gaps in service really weren't that sweet.
Because even if nobody's bluffing here, your ex isn't going to keep billing you until you return their cable box with remote.
The more mistakes you make in your campaign to get your ex back the worse your chances become of actually being able to get him back. What I don’t understand is why you feel the need to call him 5 times a day if he is ignoring you. While I still believe most of you are I had a visitor to this site change my mind a little bit.
When senior year came around my friends dad wanted to play the field a little bit so he ended up breaking up with his then girlfriend (later his wife.) He immediately started dating someone else and it drove his ex girlfriend (now his wife) absolutely crazy.
First off, if you truly want your ex boyfriend back but you had breakup sex with him then you have some obstacles to face in the future.
However, sometimes things just don’t work out and if that happens in your case you are going to have a lot more trouble coping with the loss of him if you had breakup sex.
Well, the first major change you are going to have to make is to stop sleeping with your ex. Essentially, it is the ultimate male dream to be surrounded by this many drop dead gorgeous women. First off, I want you to read this section of the website so you know exactly how you are supposed to text an ex to get him back.
However, if you want that ex boyfriend back then you are going to have to avoid a fight at all costs. You sit alone in your room for hours going through what went wrong, how you could have done better and then all of a sudden it hits, the heartbreak.
The idea is to create a sense of urgency within an ex which will hopefully get him running back into your arms.
So, while you may have initially thought that the ultimatum would be a good thing that would get him to crawl back it will likely have the opposite effect and severely damage your chances.
He told me he still had feelings for me and wanted us to work on things so we could get back together.
The last time he visited was 3 months ago so am I ruining my chances of getting him back by ignoring his interest in seeing me?
That very night, my gf texted me because she want’s to meet up somewhere and so i complied. After we broke up we agreed that we both needed to work on ourselves and maybe we would come back to each other in the future. A couple of days went by and she messaged me asking what it was, so I gave it her and she said thank you and I said alright, that was the end of it. The fact that it was our ex's idea to order a movie starring 2007 Lindsay Lohan doesn't get Comcast off the hook either. Nine of these women (all of equal looks) try to win my heart by begging and pleading to be with me. However, first I do want to say that I understand where your head is at when you were writing this letter. Now it’s been 1 and a half months and I have been a text gnat and have been panicky wanting explanation text gnat, the other night I called him 15 times because I started to panic. However, when his new girlfriend asked me about this I told her the truth and she thought I was lying. I implemented NC not only because I was being friend zoned but because he and I have made a few plans in the past that he always flaked out on and I was just so tired of feeling needy and desperate. Anyway, a couple of days later my gf looked at my phone as she was suspicious as she seen that the girl commented On my photo.
I may seem like I will never change, but I really truly want and need to change because my girlfriend is definitely the one for me and I cannot lose her for good. We have only been dating for about a month and half but have spent of time together and just had an instant connection. Some will go out on a drinking binge, others will try to sleep with the closest guy they can find and then you have the recluse.
I really want to give it one last try and is very sad and disappointed with the whole thing.
After I had cheated on her I stopped talking to other girls, even just people I saw in class. My girlfriend cried for about 2hrs non-stop during our last meet-up and didn’t text me since then. That night I went out with some friends; they wanted to cheer me up so they set me up at the bar with a girl, we danced and made out I even told this girl that she means nothing and that, that night, was a one time thing. I denied that I added her on snapchat when my gf asked me if I did add her because I didn’t want her to get upset.
What’s hard is his mum keeps texting and calling me telling me to wait around and that we are perfect for eachother.
I want it just to between me and my ex tho and when I talk to him I feel like I’m talking to an audience of him and his family. I felt like my ex and I were making progress towards reconciliation but now I feel we have taken 10 steps backwards. I changed for her because I was trying to do everything in my power to make her as happy as possible.
We went back into NC with the agreement that we were going to work on ourselves and be together again. I told Abby I made out with another girl and she asked me if this means our relationship was done. I wanted her back more than anything but I realized that I don’t want to be in a relationship based on lies and secrets anymore. The next day she ended it with me because she said that relationships get her hurt all the time and she needs to focus on college and life.
I gave her a week to her self then I decided I had to tell her that I wanted her back; I wrote a letter, called her and delivered the letter to her door.
She was extremely hurt because she was working on forgiving me for the kiss but now I added this on to her plate. We talked more that night and she told me that as soon as she found out what happened at the bar, she was done.
Even when I wrote a big paragraph about how she has to believe me that I didn’t cheat and to put it behind us.
In these two weeks she’s texted me, called me numerous times asking the same questions about why I did it and if it had anything to do with her. I’m trying to explain to her that it had nothing to do with her and it was completely my fault and I take full responsibility for it. We had long text conversations over the next two days about what happened but she still can’t give me another chance which is fair enough.
I understand I probably should have started the no contact rule sooner but I just hope it’s not to late now.
I explain to her the reasons why I feel she needed to know if we were going to be together in the future. Giving me mix signals and I don’t know whether to go into NC for awhile and ignore her texts to give her time to heal or just answer any questions she has until she feels satisfied.
I want her to heal from this and forgive me on her own but she keeps contacting me and just continues to think about this all the time.



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