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I have a boyfriend friend he always calls me each and every day and his the sweetest guy. How To Know If Your Male Crush Likes You (Long But Accurate) How well do you know your boyfriend? I know this is an important and sensitive issue to you, but the answer couldn’t be more obvious to an objective third party: RUN! I’ve already hinted in previous blog posts about something I’ve kept to myself for a long time – I believe there are many people who don’t have the capacity to make ANYBODY happy. So while I would be inclined to dismiss him based on his archetype: workaholic CEO type, twice divorced, I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt. NOBODY has the right to tell you how to dress or who you should be friends with on Facebook. If he doesn’t like you the way you are, he’s just going to have to find a woman in a burqa who has no male friends and no Facebook account. And the fact that you didn’t dump him at the mere suggestion of this only indicates to me that you’ve lost any sense of objectivity because of how you feel about him.
If one of my relationship tenets is that you can’t have a relationship with a man dependent upon him changing, the reverse equally holds true. I hate spam as much as you do, therefore I will never sell, rent, or give away your email address. OTOH, if she looks like a streetwalker and that’s not how she wants to present herself, she might tweak a bit for her own benefit. Encouraging a man to lose weight and look better in a positive way isn’t quite the same as grilling a woman about her sexual past, and dictating her clothing choices and who she can be friends with. My wife’s strategy has worked, because she (generally) has done a good job picking clothes that I like better than my regular clothing.
Another good strategy for influencing your partner’s attire is the judicious use of compliments.
About 8 or 9 months after I met one girlfriend, she invited me to join her at the graduation dinner for the school she instructs at. Should she proudly let me accompany her to the formal dinner wearing wildly inappropriate attire? Mariana’s boyfriend (original letter) is a control freak, and hopefully she ran from that relationship. If he wanted someone who dresses conservative , then he should only date women that keep it fully covered and be upfront about what he wants, and not bitch or try to play games down the line. First, Karl was responding to the comment that said he had no right to ever (ever ever) request how you dress when meeting his family, or co-workers. The vast majority of men have to deal with how in the beginning we seem to be perfect for you. And it is correct that no  man ever ever has the right to demand or ask you to change your outfit. I wouldn’t tell a girl she had to lose weight, dress more conservatively or whatever.
I think the men are more likely or maybe let’s just say at ease just dating for fun links back to a previous post stating that women are more racist than men because they are much less likely to date outside their race.
I met a guy I really liked, whom I was physically attracted to, whom I had a lot in common with intellectually and creatively (we both write).
I had a feeling he wasn’t interested in me other than as a friend, and gave him many openings for him to tell me so, but he never did. It’s much harder to find a woman who we enjoy talking to, who we pay attention to, who we want to share our ideas with.
Thus, if you’re meeting all of his deeper desires and he STILL chooses not to lock you up as his girlfriend, it stands to reason that there’s something fundamentally missing.


When I was dating prolifically, I hooked up with lots of strangers who I may or may not have been attracted to. If what I’m saying is true (and I don’t know it is), I acknowledge it’s a bitter pill to swallow. Years ago, I remember being told by a highly anticipated JDate (PhD student, thin, big boobs) that she loved talking to me but didn’t feel any attraction. I’m sharing my personal experience with you, Robyn, just to let you know that being “rejected” because of chemistry is no crime.
But I really do think you are right, If he is not starting a relationship with you and is dating someone else, that is a pretty clear signal.
I don’t know about this one, there seems to be some mysterious X-factor in play when it comes to whether or not men will want to be your boyfriend. Basically, this man is a liar if he is saying he is attracted to you and desires you – and then just backs out and wants you as a friend.
If you can’t trust him to be genuine about one thing, how can you ever trust him to be genuine about being friends either and not change his mind ? If this keeps happening to you, it’s only because everyone struggles with finding someone they connect with on a number of levels. I am not claiming that this must mean necessarily that he IS attracted, but there might be a possibility that he really isn’t the wonderful person she thinks he is.
He is full of fear and I have went through all of the same things you have gone through and Robyn!!! This kind of bullshit happens everyday and women put up with way too much of this childish garbage from guys who call themselves men! It seems reasonable to me that if a guy only likes me for a friend I will treat him as such. I find most of these letters women write in have the answers right there in black and white. For all the crowing and burning of perfectly good bras feminist did back in the day in the name of women being allowed and able to make decisions for themselves it sure doesn’t seem to have helped the QUALITY of the decisions we seem to be making.
When a man really likes you, is attracted to you and wants you to be his girlfriend, you don’t have to ask, you will know because he will let you know. Now, all of the interest that he’s taking in you, talking all the time, asking your opinion etc. If he can’t accept you  the way you are, then he needs to find someone he can accept. If he was taking you to meet his coworkers, it’s okay for him to request that you dress appropriately for that occasion. Since I like the way I look in those clothes, I have purchased similar items when shopping for myself.
If you tell your partner that they look great in an outfit, they’re more likely to want to wear that outfit (and similar ones) with increasing frequency.
This is someone whom is making a power play, trying to control the other to meet whatever standards they have. If he doesn’t want a woman who dresses that way then he shouldnt date her to begin with.
But if those things genuinely did bother me to the point of not considering her girlfriend material, that would be the guy’s right to do so. When I confronted him on the phone, he said he’d need a few days before he could tell me what was going on. In fact, most single men who value those traits complain that it’s the main reason they’re still single. I was devastated – for a day – until I realized that there was nothing I could do about it. I am hoping and praying that you can find someone who wants to rock your world and who can appreciate the fine woman who has chosen to rock his!!!!!! Think of how much easier a relationship is when you don’t have to feel insecure, wait for him to figure out his feelings, feel like you are being lied to, etc. It’s that they’re too selfish, too insecure, and lack the communication and compromise skills necessary to make a marriage work.


If you can’t accept him the way he is (for example, if you required that he work less), then you need to find someone that you can accept. It is not ok if he’s taking you to meet his parents to ask you to change how you dress. I love that quote – but I admit I am still guilty of slipping into this mode on occasion. He wanted to know details of my sexual history (which isn’t that bad but bothered him), and said if he was in a serious relationship with someone the way I dress would need to change and Facebook cleaned out, basically things would need to “severely change”. Or did she ask him why he didn’t want to get serious with her and then he told her what bothered him?
But if she questions him why he wont take her seriously, and he gives his honest answer, why does that make him the bad guy? And then he stopped being flirtatious, but continued to contact me via email and text regularly, talking about film and writing.
This sounded so obtuse that I figured it had to be something more complicated than that he was seeing someone else. I say this because when you’re grasping for answers as to what went wrong, you deserve a logical answer. But I think it’s better to contend with the facts than to search for some hidden meaning as to why this guy with whom you share a deep connection isn’t reciprocating. More than that, this man wanted to have a causal sexual relationship with me and once I declined he told me that he didn’t even think that I was pretty. That’s like a tall, handsome, billionaire asking why women are so AFRAID of everything he has to offer. You get so used to something that’s broken that you don’t even realize how fucked up it is. If she were to contact his ex-wives, I wouldn’t be surprised if that was their experience. Asking a man to put his laundry in the correct spot has nothing to do with abusing and trying to control a woman’s outfit and social media, it is not the same thing.
Once we get close with a person, it is so easy to just accept their way of thinking… then you step back, take some time away from them, and ask yourself, Wait, why did I agree with him on this?
But everyone is making him out to be this terrible boyfriend when he may just have been answering a question as to what is making him not want to commit.
While many people are swayed by the Maxim aesthetic, if you look around at the world, most of us fall below that bar.
In his own foolish words, if he was in a serious relationship with someone the way I dress would need to change and Facebook cleaned out, basically things would need to “severely change”. Unless you somehow believe that its ok to make a mess and expect your partner to clean up after you like a maid instead of doing the appropriate adult thing and removing the mess.
If I got together with them, I didn’t go as far, and quickly downshifted into friendship when I didn’t feel the attraction. If she flirted with all men, flirtation would not only become second nature, but also she’ll stop attaching outcomes to it. A woman should be able to flirt as effortlessly as she can smile and laugh, and, similarly, dole out flirtation in the same way as she smiles and laughs…generously. He didn’t end the relationship but asked for space for us both to think… I thought this one was different. Instead he leads her on for 3 to 4 months and then demands with, not a compromise, but shitty ultimatums?  Why because he’s an egotistical ass. Which explains why he wants to get the benefits of your friendship, without any of the obligations of committing to you sexually.



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