While I may know most men and can predict their behaviors in the end we are dealing with a real life human being here and if there is one thing that I have learned from my experience running this website it is that human beings can be unpredictable by nature. And I put together an infographic at the end that will tell you how likely it is that your ex is in a rebound relationship.
Rebound Relationships- A type of relationship that is formed very quickly after a painful breakup with someone who you had an emotional and intense relationship. Lets hit the pause button again and take a look at how each of the things I listed above can work together to tell if your ex is indeed in a rebound relationship. Now, this factor works directly with the factor above, how long your relationship with him lasted. Did You Know That It Is Possible For Rebounds To Start Before He Has Even Broken Up With You? Out of all the warning signs I am listing in this section I will admit that this one is probably the hardest one to be on the watch out for.
It is not uncommon for someone who has just left a serious relationship to be incapable of being able to form a long lasting emotional connection with someone new. Eventually he will hit a point where the new relationship he has formed with the new girlfriend isn’t giving him what he needs and he will break it off.
Then I came up with the idea of going above and beyond by putting a timeframe on your exes new relationship to ensure that you aren’t wasting your time. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. He told my friend that he still has feeling for me but he doesn’t see any big change in my career life. I dated my ex for 4 months and he ended things 2 weeks ago, very suddenly because he didn’t feel the same anymore.
I have thought a lot about it and I want to move on, because I know that I can’t forget it and forgive him. DO whatever makes you feel more at peace because whatever his reaction after that won’t matter anymore. I did all the No Contact Rule, then started contacting him to the point we went on a date, we even kissed each other and I just found he is going out with another girl for more than 6 months now. My ex boyfriend and I dated for two years and during that time we had great times but we also faced our good share of problems. On this page I am going to be writing a one of a kind, in-depth guide on rebound relationships.
Ok, perhaps it might be more accurate to say that it is about understanding rebound relationships and how to tell if your ex boyfriend is in one.
Think about that for a second, every single relationship you will have before you get married is going to end. Rebounds are often used as crutches to soften the blow of the emotional heartache you could be feeling.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? Rebounds often occur very quickly after your ex has broken up with you (or you broke up with him.) The question now becomes, how long would you say quickly is? Now, there are exceptions to every rule, me personally, I can’t jump from girl to girl because I am just not built that way emotionally. I talked about this in the lead up above and have put off giving a direct answer on this until now.
You see, if you only dated like a month and he moved on to someone new after three months then I am not entirely sure that would qualify as a rebound relationship.
Remember above when I said that it is unlikely that if you dated your ex for a month and he moved on within three months that the new girl is a rebound.
He could already have met his targeted rebound girl while he was still in a relationship with you. Your ex is unhappy in his relationship with you, he is already planning on breaking up with you, or if he isn’t planning it yet, he is at least thinking about it. In fact, out of all the signs I am discussing here in this section this is the one that resonates with me the most. I’m trying to figure out if my ex is in a rebound relationship, or a relationship at all.
Before we broke up, we were having a huge fight after I found out he was close to another girl. I broke it off about 2 months ago because he was wanting us to be much more serious than I was looking for. Before he dated me 4 months, he had been through a breakup (his ex gf left him for his close friend).
Distance and differences eventually convinced him it was doomed to fail so he broke it off. Our mutual friend says she’s with her because she feels the best friend is safer bet because she scared to get hurt by me again. I am going to dissect every single aspect of a rebound that I can think of and come up with an educated guess on how long you can expect your exes new relationship to last.


You may not even know if you want your ex back, seeing him with another girl may have killed any feelings you have for him. Well, you are here because most likely because your ex boyfriend is in a new relationship and you are trying to figure out if that new relationship is a rebound.
You see, I think it is impossible for a guy to just forget someone, who he spent a year of his life with, while he moves on to someone new.
I would say that if he moved on to a new relationship within three months after his breakup with you then it is highly likely his new relationship is a rebound.
You see, a couple who has dated at least a year has had time to develop their feelings towards each other and create reminiscent memories. Lets say a girls boyfriend has moved on to a new relationship within the three month time frame we set above. This distraction is meant to prevent a man from feeling what he is supposed to feel after a breakup in order to heal properly.
Now, I think it is important to point out that if he cheated on you with this girl than I would not classify that as having anything to do with this. To the point where you can read his mind and since I highly doubt you are professor X from X-Men then this one you probably won’t be able to look for.
If they are alarmed at how quickly he is dating again then something definitely isn’t right with him.
We know that the new girl is basically a distraction to take his mind off the pain but we haven’t really discussed why his new relationship is doomed to fail. Funny story actually, I get a lot of comments for this site every single day and about three days ago I got one of those spammy spell caster comments. He wanted to string us both along, because I found it out myself that he is in a second relationship with the OW. She is a easy going, with lacked morals and has a different religion like him and me, she doesn’t have the curves he claimed to love and is really indifferent. He doesn’t even kept it as a secret and was wooing over this new girl, while he was in a relationship with me and I was fighting for us. Less than a month later, he was already Facebook Official with another girl (took him 3 months to agree to be FB official with me). However, if you are very serious about getting him back I would like to point out that I have written an E-Book that I feel can be a HUGE benefit to you.
So, the true thing we are trying to figure out is how quickly he moved on to a new relationship after he dated you.
I can tell you that most guys are able to move on much quicker from a relationship than women can. That year that you spent with him will always be in the back of his mind when he is with his new girl. In that month if he had incredibly good memories with you there may be a slight chance that the new girl is a rebound. Now, whether or not RR (rebound relationships) work in the healing process is not what we are here to explore. In fact, there are an entirely different set of questions that have to be addressed in that case. I wouldn’t count my chickens yet but it could be a contributing sign to a rebound relationship. I probably get five of those a day just from people trying to take advantage and make a quick buck off of you. When we broke uo, he told me that he was tired of this relationship and because I was to childish and also not supporting him enough.
I confronted him and he had to tell the truth – he lied about the story how they met each other.
They are still together now and are going to Operas together, which was what me and my ex always did together.
A month later something happened between an ex that I dated before her, and I, and we started talking again. I am convinced it was a rebound but she is so perfect, probably everything I wish I could have been for him.
It gives you a lot of information on the exact steps you need to implement in order to successfully raise your chances of getting him back. However, the girl and her now ex boyfriends relationship was filled with nothing but bad memories. My goal with this page is to strictly educate you on RR, help you figure out if your ex boyfriend is in one, and give you a time table on how long you can expect his new relationship to last. I go out of my way to respond to every comment, email or inquiry that I get on a daily basis. We are here to figure out how long exactly his new relationship will last, a few weeks, a few months, a few years? Anyways, this spell caster promised to have the ultimate secret for knowing how long your exes new relationship would last.


After hearing many of your stories I have a pretty interesting perspective on the whole process of using strategies to get your ex back. She’s also very popular at her school (my ex and I were home-educated, but she goes to public school).
Last week after we met each other, he texted me and said that he still loves me but he believes if he stays, we will end up in the same situation again after a while. What does one do when the rebound might actually be better than you and you don’t even have a chance to prove otherwise because of distance?
The best friend knows how she feels about me and she’s annoyed with the situation at hand. Just because they moved on to a new relationship doesn’t mean they are entirely over you.
Well, while I still think that in this imaginary case the guy moved on too quickly there is always a possibility that his new girlfriend is not a rebound because the girls previous relationship with him is filled with nothing but bad memories. By now, if you have read what I have said above you should be quite knowledgeable about rebounds. I have heard just about every single relationship breakup story in the book and out of all the women who have asked me if their ex is in a rebound relationship they cite this warning sign as their reasoning for thinking that he is and they are right to think that. One common concern I have found that is universal in all the women whose exes are in a rebound relationship is that they don’t want to get the feeling that they are wasting their time. We’re pretty much opposites (brown vs blonde hair, short vs tall, subdued vs ambitious, introvert vs extrovert). Next day I found out their chat by hacking his social media, that he is already together with that girl. I don’t particularly want to get back together with him, since he is probably still looking for a more serious commitment than I am ready for, but I want to get back in touch, since he was a big part of my life for the time we were together. I think there is one thing that we can all agree on, a lot of people break up, before and after marriage. Lets take a step back though and talk a little about why his new relationship is doomed to fail. My ex used to go to some of her school plays and band concerts, but he always invited me to go with him. This coward told me that he wrote me less so that I would note that something is wrong – what is also a lie, because we had huge fights and he is a master of the passive-aggressive.
His parents would never accept a girl like her – they would accept me, because we are similiar. Well, two days later this post was born and I feel confident that the method I employed above to figure out if your exes new relationship is a rebound is a solid one.
I’m sure there was nothing going on between them before we broke up, just trust me on this one. 2 days before we broke up, he told me that he needs time and that he lost his way to me, because he can’t quite trust me (Oh, the irony!). My ex told me she left me because of our constant fighting then she’s dating the best friend a day later. He said, that he wants to find the way back to me and that he has feelings for me and that is why, he gives me so many chances to do it right between us. However, I found out only 2 weeks after we broke up that he was going to prom with another girl.
He even told me that they are never gonna be together because he doesn’t want to have a long distance relationship. He got rejected from prom (due to some bad blood with the prom director), and she didn’t go to prom either.
I love my ex I do want her back and to come back so we can work on our relationship but I’m just lost on what to do. He posted sad pictures in whatsapp (I only have him there, because I deactivated my facebook-account and he knows it), a huge fight between him and new girl was displayed in whatsapp, so that I could see that they were fighting, but I didn’t reacted to it. After a month and a week he texted me, but I didn’t replied, because I was like mad as hell. BUT, she never posts about her boyfriend at all on any social media (and she’s on social media A LOT), which i find to be strange. I also don’t know why her boyfriend would let her go to prom with another guy, plan a prom with another guy, and hang out one-on-one with another guy. He wanted to see me and I told him, that if he wants to see me, that he will come to my hometown.



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