Does the “fantasy scenario” I just described sound like your reality right now?Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back? So, what I want to do for you now is teach you a method in which you can turn your current reality into the fantasy situation that I described above. Of course, before I can really dive into dissecting this game plan there are a few important things that I need to discuss with you. This entire page is premised around the idea of getting a woman (your ex girlfriend) to chase after you.
He typically courts her by buying her flowers, saying nice things and making big romantic gestures. So, the point of this article is to flip the gender roles and get your ex girlfriend to start chasing you instead of the other way around.
It basically describes an overly needy and desperate ex boyfriend who is trying to get his girlfriend back. It’s like no matter how many times you try to swat these things away they never leave.
So, rather than trying to salvage the situation by reasoning with her you should take the opposite approach and let time salvage it. Look, if you were a GNAT to your ex then she is going to form certain assumptions about you. But for those of you who don’t know what it is I would like to give you a quick crash course.
The No Contact Rule- A period of time between 21 days, 30 days and 45 days in which you completely freeze out (do not talk to) your ex girlfriend.
Now, I realize that some of the readers who are new to this concept may still be a little confused as to what the no contact rule entails and some of the purpose behind it. Ok, now that I gave you a quick crash course lets turn our attention to the reason for why you are here. You remember the hypothetical situation I was going on and on about above where you were a GNAT to your ex girlfriend and she would want nothing to do with you?
Assuming you were GNATTY she is going to be conditioned to think that you are going to be the one chasing her.
However, once you implement the no contact rule you are going to be doing the exact opposite of what she is expecting. Of course, since the no contact rule strictly forbids you from doing that the phone calls and text messages that she is expecting will never come.
This is when something very interesting happens and it also happens to be the second way in which the no contact rule can help you to make your ex girlfriend chase you. No seriously, if this woman walked up to you and gushed about how incredible you were right now you would walk around feeling like a million bucks. She wants to feel wanted in loved in a relationship just like every other woman walking this earth. Of course, what happens to us all when we feel wanted and loved by the same person too much?
However, when you take all that attention away via the no contact rule something very interesting begins to happen.
All of these are the chase factors that women are looking for in a potential mate and they are all something that all of the celebrities above have in spades. Now, for those of you who are sitting there rolling your eyes and thinking that the celebrity factor is the only reason that these types of celebrities have thousands of women chasing after them I want to introduce you to a celebrity that is arguably more talented than everyone on that list that no woman chases after. Because, he doesn’t do a great job of hitting on all the chase factors that women have.
So, while Buscemi is considered a celebrity he didn’t really do a great job on hitting on the chase factors that attract women. So, now that you understand the power of chase factors lets turn our attention to understanding what they are one by one. Below I have compiled a list of the major chase factors that cause women to chase after men. Well, lets go down the list one by one and really get a good grasp of what each of these are. One of the children is playing with an amazing toy while the other child doesn’t have any toys to play with. When they are told that they aren’t capable of accomplishing something they will most likely take the necessary steps to prove you wrong. Now lets turn our attention to what women want in a man outside of the obvious romantic things. When a woman sees a man that can bring these characteristics to the table she is not only going to be immediately turned on but she will actively chase after him to win him over. One of the biggest mistakes that I see men continually make after a breakup with their ex girlfriend is the fact that they are way too available for them. Of course, I am not expecting you to become a celebrity so I am going to dumb this down to a level that us regular guys can achieve. Lets spice things up a little bit more and say that before all these people you know started coming up and saying hi to you at the restaurant your date didn’t seem that into you. Your intelligence, humor, beliefs, ego, openness, compassion and logic are really what can keep a woman interested in you.
Of course, I have often wondered what would happen if someone had an amazing personality but was lacking in looks. Be able to get a girl who is a 10 out of 10 on looks to chase him based on his personality? Well, in order for that to happen he would have to really have an interesting personality that would be out of this world. I had a gentleman email me today asking me a question about how he could get his girlfriend back.
Now, based on the sheer volume of questions I get on a daily basis I find it hard to respond to emails but something about this particular mans email made me want to read it.
Maybe it was the fact that he was scrambling for an explanation of what the heck happened with his girlfriend. However, his inability to fully commit to her or at the very least do something to show her that he wanted a future with her too caused his demise.


If there are any women out there reading this then I apologize if I am about to offend you.
According to an article from the Huffington Post since the beginning of time women prefer men with resources and in today’s day and age resources are equal to money. The two of you are exactly the same except the one big difference between you is that your clone has money and you don’t. It’s not often that you see an ugly guy being chased down the street by a million women. No, it just means he is going to have to hit some of the other chase factors a little bit harder.
Speaking of hitting the other chase factors lets talk about what to do with them now that you understand what all of them are. Part three of this guide is really where everything I have been talking about up until this point comes together. It’s really where you increase your chances of having your ex girlfriend chase after you for a change.
I listed the chase factors above to show you the types of qualities that men have to have in order for a woman to chase him. Just because your ex girlfriend dated you at one point doesn’t mean her hardwire has changed.
You would have essentially become everything that your ex girlfriend could ever want in a man causing your odds to go up that she will chase you. But before you scoff and move on to the next article in your internet search I want to ask you something. I promise you that you will be hard pressed to find someone with more experience or better credentials than me in the digital romance space.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back.
This goes against the grain a little I guess, but I posted here before my story its too long but short of it is, was friends with this girls years ago, lost contact.
I think you do, just avoid any jealousy moves and show her that you’re improving through your social media posts. Chris, me and my ex are talking and I’ve worked out and realized what caused the breakup of our relationship, I was too closed minded and controlling and to be honest a bit mean and cold towards her. My ex & met at work and very quickly go into an amazing relationship which she instigated. She had a situation a couple of years before we met where an ex boyfriend of hers was killed in a fight outside a pub, I don’t think she ever has been able to properly come to terms with that and I think there were traits that I have that reminded her of him in some ways. There was one night around 3 months after we’d been together that I had a little drunken run in with a friend of mine that really upset her, frightened her.
She eventually called it quits and blocked me on her phone which was ridiculous considering she sat outside my office, we saw each other and went to lunch still every day and I just used to message her work phone outside of work, so the blocking was pointless. Just after the Christmas (a year after we first got together), I ran into an issue at work and was fired and she also was fired as the company had found messages from her about the situation and saw it as her interfering. We continued contact and meeting up and she’d stay over occasionally and we even slept with each other again around the June time, it was more than friends but less than a relationship and I think she may have just been keeping in contact as sort of a comfort.
This contact of texts, calls and meeting for lunch continued right through to the following March.
I recently started a new job which is no more than 5 minutes from her office and walking around at lunchtime really brings back the memories of her and I.
That’s the skeleton of past to present, but to re-iterate that she is stubborn and has blocked me in every way.
I am still completely in love with her and desperately want her back but the combination of her attitude, stubbornness, the fact that she has had or has another guy, has blocked me in every way possible would tell me that it’s an impossibility, what do you reckon?????
No, I don’t think she has any other social media apart from LinkedIn and she disconnected from me on that.
Understood about leaving it for time but it’s been a year or so since I last met up with her and she had since met another guy and blocked me on everything, so I think I need to just accept it. I still see her at least 3 times per week because she’s in my drum line (group of 15 people). In order to shake these assumptions you are going to utilize something I like to call the no contact rule. If that is you and you would like more of an explanation as to how it works I recommend reading the in-depth guide I wrote about the no contact rule here. Well, if you were to implement a no contact rule you are going to reshape what your ex girlfriend thinks about you. Remember, she is thinking that you are going to continue to blow up her phone with text messages and phone calls.
She is so used to it in fact that she has probably grown complacent with what it really means. All of a sudden someone comes up to you and tells you that there is no way you can jump over it. In fact, a lot of them finish first once they figure out what men who aren’t nice are doing. Throughout March we were basically together without actually being together and it seemed everything was good.
I haven’t actually done no contact since I just started looking into the internet for solutions and its already been a month and a half since our breakup.
I want it to be her that says were back together not me but i’m wondering, Will going NC at this point be effective and make her miss me at this point?
She is 20 years younger than me and extremely pretty and I think her attraction to me was my senior and respected role, ability to protect her and treat her well, my humour and that I’m a fairly good looking bloke and certainly young for my age. After that, she seemed to see things differently, she was always concerned about me going out and wanted me to stop drinking. She had a new job by then, a better job and she was a little happier but I was still unable to get her back.
So, I sent her a long email (nice email) from a different email address (which wasn’t blocked) with the purpose of letting her know I was working back in the City and to try and rekindle some of those feelings and memories in her.
We broke up do to the fact that I was not giving her the love and compassion that she deserved as I was going through at rough time after a car accident.


Then at the beginning of April she started acting up and saying stuff like she never got the space she felt she needed after we broke up. We go out on dates casually but I end up letting my emotions get the best of me and asking her for another chance to be my girlfriend. She suddenly seemed to not trust me and when she wasn’t with me, was always worrying. I think if I’d put into place some of your suggestions at that time, things could have recovered as she was clearly still in love with me. I never cheated on her, always treated her well, was always nice to her, always supported her.
2 days later she broke up with me (didn’t tell me why but I figured it out) because I was too clingy and I kinda of let myself go. Btw, we broke up because I kissed another girl at a bar after a few weeks of me having trust issues. We carried on with our relationship but whilst we were still in love with each other, it seemed like she always had issues with me and was getting herself all wound up all the time. I’m feeling like your response is kind of telling me that this time there is no chance so man up and get over it. I think the issues she had were really within herself and probably to do with being scared of getting hurt or losing me given her previous experience.
I asked her if I wanted to cuddle because I haven’t kissed her or touched her for at least 40 days. 3 months later she got cold, distant, I bugged her it seemed, I was nice always, maybe that. At this point, I chased her for a week or so then she said she really needed space, so I did NC for a we3k until I saw her at the gym went up and we flirted for a bit. Seems ridiculous how things have turned out given that we had such a strong connection…. We have a lot in common, both drummers, ethnicity, music lovers, memers (?° ?? ?°), athletes (same sport), weird, funny, energetic, and ALOT more content.
She said after we broke up that she had given me enough chances and she did not want to give me anymore and that her feelings would not change.
Bought her a trip for her bday, I told friends there I had no idea what to do she was pulling away and it was killing me.
I continued to treat her like a princess, shower her with gifts, look after her and never did anything to hurt her but she just got more and more unhappy.
I literally have no way to contact her and we don’t have any mutual friends, so there is no way for me to get her to chase me or think about me (that I can see anyway). I asked if she’d received the message and she had but she asked me not to message her anymore. It’s like her way of moving on is to cut everything and force herself to hate me for whatever reasons she has. I know we’re both in High School but listen to this, were both going to the same college (coincidence, I know its weird).
Over the month I tried very hard to show her I loved her and I did a few things for her like get her flowers and really show her how much I loved her when we hung out the few times.
She heard this and got angry I didn’t keep it private with us, she is big into privacy, which is fair, I was just worried she would leave me. The next night I got very drunk and basically was pleading to see her again, I did but it was an off encounter. This frustrated me as I couldn’t understand how she could be unhappy with everything that I did for her.
I actually feel really annoyed that she is able to do that after everything I did for her and I can be sure that her stubbornness probably wouldn’t allow her to even consider that she may have made a mistake, I honestly don’t think that she would allow herself to think about me, have you ever come across anyone like that?
I’m just worried about how NC is gonna effect her since she sees me 2-3 times per week. She said she was really confused because she felt like this side of me she did not know anymore and she said i know people can change and that relationships can change.
Got home and days later she dumped me over FB mail, saying she seen things different now with us, we did not click as a couple, no chemistry.
I saw her again a couple of weeks ago where she walked past me with a couple of guys from her work and she totally blanked me. She ignores me and I ignore her… BTW I made a mistake of GNATing (going nuts at texting) a bit after the breakup, because I was confused. After that I really became like a GNAT and texted her alot and called her alot until she finally just said she did not want me to contact her. I know she saw me as she made a real effort to laugh like she was uber happy and then about 20 yards further on, one of the guys turned back so she must have said something. It didn’t seem like I was begging for her back though, I just wanted to know why she broke up and I was sending long text and what I though.
I Finally told her that I loved her enough to respect her decision but I love her enough to know that I would not give up on her and Im sorry. She never blocked my number, she has not deleted me on facebook or removed any of our photos. She said she understood and wished me well, said I was the most decent genuine guy she met and I was a great catch.
She needs time I know to Focus on her new job as a nurse and get adjusted for the next month, Just kind of curious what I should do now?
I didn’t want her seeing what I was doing or where so I decided last week to block her on there, is this immature you think? We have not spoke, she has little interest in talking IMO so why bother, let us go our own way. I do believe she cares about me as friend, she knows im a good guy, maybe she wanted friendship but it was hard.
Its been months and I think about her still, she got inside my mind but each week it gets easier for sure.



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