But what does she really mean when she says she wants space?Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back? When a woman goes through a breakup, when it’s fresh, how many of those 12,000 thoughts a day are dedicated to thinking about the person she broke up with? Speaking from experience, people can get a little obsessive when it comes to their breakups and it causes this interesting effect where all of their thoughts are hijacked for a while. Lets dive a little deeper here since I want to explain why your ex girlfriend wants space from you. So, you have a thought and then that thought immediately gets categorized into one of the two categories above. So, what does this theory have to do with your ex girlfriend telling you that she needs space? Yup, your ex girlfriend is going to have a thought (square one) that makes her think about the breakup with you.
Well, the act of her having to tell you that gives her another thought and guess what that thought is about? Now, it’s my job to get you out of this cycle because make no mistake about it, it is the one that you are in right now. You definitely noticed that these texts were almost a guy begging for his ex girlfriend back but take a look at the last text.
Now, just so we don’t hurt YOUR feelings we are going to use a hypothetical situation with your ex girlfriend. You would get annoyed to if you told a child to stop screaming in the middle of a crowded store and they refused to do so.
Now, most men freak out upon hearing this and determine that they have little to no chance of succeeding in their quest to win the love of their life back.
You still do have a chance of getting your ex girlfriend back but you need to do exactly as I say because we are walking a very fine line here and one misstep and you could screw the whole thing up. Are you ready for me to teach you how to get your girlfriend back if she says she needs space from you? Ok, the first thing you need to understand are the two approaches that men usually employ in situations like this. One of the coolest things about running a successful website in the relationship niche is the fact that I get to talk with a lot of you. For example, one of the things that I have learned about you is that I can tell you right here, right now that you will have NO shot of getting your ex girlfriend back whatsoever and you will still try to get her back.
This is all fake of course (you probably really do have a good shot of getting her back) but it’s kind of impressive when you think about it. I mean, how many people out there are willing to put this type of effort into their relationships?
Oh, another thing I have learned about you guys is that when a woman tells you that she needs space and you determine that you want to get her back you will try to get her back in one of two ways.
In order for me to fully explain this to you we are going to have to operate under a few assumptions. Because what I am about to talk about is something that is a little more advanced so if you haven’t read any of my books, EGR PRO or The Texting Bible I suggest you drop what you are doing right now, read them, and then come back to this article since what I am about to say next will make more sense to you. Alright, now that we have the two assumptions out of the way lets talk about the aggressive approach.
Hardcore No Contact- The type of no contact where a man (or woman) enters and doesn’t come out until the other person contacts them after the designated day they have set. Of course, we all know what happens to the GNATS of the world when it comes to ex girlfriends.
Notice how the value chain slowly intensifies as it moves from texting to phone calls to a small in person interaction and then ends with a romantic interaction.
I am talking about little bold things here or there like building attraction in the right way.
And this is a problem when it comes to getting a girlfriend back who told you that she needed space. Well, I think it’s arrogant and your ex girlfriend is definitely not going to find this attractive at all.
The truth is that the passive way of getting an ex girlfriend back is a dumbed down version of the aggressive method of getting your ex girlfriend back. Fun fact, I once had a guy contact me (via email) with a 30 day plan on how he was going to improve himself during his no contact rule. Well, I am going to reserve that for later though I promise that it’s going to be good. You see, passive men would opt for indirect actions as opposed to direct actions when it comes to building attraction and that’s simply not going to cut it. Well, that means that when it comes to the value chain (which I posted a nice little graphic on above) the passive men take too long.
Sure, giving a woman her space when she tells you that she needs it is probably a good idea BUT you can’t ever get her back if you give her too much space.
Was said to describe how opposite or contrary forces are actually complimentary and interconnected. Well, I can’t think of a better way to describe what I am about to teach you than using some basic Chinese philosophy. But what if I told you that there was a way that we could take the best aspects of each plan so that they complimented each other (just like Yin and Yang are supposed to in Chinese Philosophy) to create the perfect game plan.
A hybrid game plan that works perfectly for getting your ex girlfriend back if she told you that she needs space?
I have had to stay up every single night with her just so my wife can get sleep and it prevents me from getting any sleep.
Now, I had an opportunity to go to bed three hours earlier BUT I wanted to make sure that I got this article out by the time the weekend started and to be honest I really do enjoy writing these articles but I am running out of steam here.
The first thing it is going to accomplish is give your ex girlfriend the space she says she wants. Basically you want to improve yourself to become the best version of yourself that ever existed. Now, according to people who peddle the law of attraction stuff you basically are born with a superpower. You think something and if you believe it enough and feel the emotions in your heart then it will become a reality for you.
Nevertheless, I read up about it and was trying to figure out why so many people seem to be claiming that they were having success with the law of attraction. This struck me as interesting as I had once heard about the power of visualization with Olympic athletes. You see, scientists were interested in seeing how powerful visualization in athletes was so they decided to monitor brain activity of an athlete actually competing in their sport and an athlete not doing anything but visualizing it.
So, why not use the visualization aspect of the law of attraction to your advantage when trying to get your ex girlfriend back?


Now, I talked about the value chain above with the aggressive strategy and the passive strategy and how each of those strategies failed to properly utilize the VC to it’s fullest. The key to the value chain is finding a happy medium somewhere in between the aggressive and passive styles.
Now, I have written how to properly utilize the value chain here so I recommend you check out that guide if you want a more in-depth look at how VC is supposed to work. What I would like to do now is talk about where boldness and confidence comes into play here.
If you look at the graphic of the value chain above you will notice that there are two big parts to it. Part One: The fact that you cannot advance to the next level without first completing the level that you are in. Part Two: In order to complete the level that you are in you need to build attraction with your girlfriend.
It’s always scary taking a risk from jumping from the comfort of texting to the uncertainty of talking on the phone and that is one area where the aggressive strategy shines. If you look at the value chain graphic I posted above you will notice there are only three big level jumps.
So, you have to be bold to make those jumps and men who are passive aren’t bold enough to make them.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. So I lied to my girlfriend and she caught e going online talking to women and through thr course of a year we broke up and got back together very quickly until now.March 1st we broke up and she had me move out and said she couldnt trust me and she was so upset because she loves me and never wnted this and either did I.
I met this girl online we became friends and talked on facetime for 7 months until I flew out to meet her.
When an ex girlfriend wants to be friends, it is a sign that she does not want you out of her life completely, but she may need some time to figure out what she wants.
You need to remain friends with your ex because it is the opening you need to get your ex girlfriend back. I know being friends with an ex is terribly difficult, but fake it as best you can if you have to. The reality is that if you refuse to be friends with an ex, you will have a very difficult time getting her back.
However, if you can deal with the fact that your ex girlfriend wants to be friends, then you will pleasantly surprised later on. Now, being friends with an ex will be very hard, especially if your ex girlfriend starts dating someone else or starts looking for other people to date.
Many guys who are friends with an ex get used by ex girlfriends as a sounding board for problems. Robert Pattinson's Ex-Girlfriend Kristen Stewart's Pals Do Not Like Soko, Wants Them To Split? Robert Pattinson’s ex-girlfriend Kristen Stewart has a new girlfriend and it is Soko and it seems like her friends do not like it. Kristen Stewart and Soko have been dating for months and new reports claimed that the actress’ group of friends are not fond of being with her and Soko.
According to reports, Stewart’s friends are talking her out of the relationship, as they believe she needs to find someone who truly loves her.
Meanwhile, according to an insider, Stewart and Soko may just be going through the adjusting phase when it comes to knowing each other’s friends, since they have not been together for long. Movie News Guide also reported that Stewart’s career is being affected by her relationship with Soko. Kristen Stewart has not yet commented on the rumors that are being thrown at her and her French girlfriend Soko. After you broke up with your boyfriend you both kept in touch, and though you’re not close anymore, you’re still friendly. She’s a nice girl, and you have no hard feelings towards her, but you’re caught off-guard when you run into her and she immediately starts inquiring about your ex. My ex was a lying, emotionally abusive cheater, so if a girl he was presently dating approached me, I would tell her all about his rotten ways!
My ex cheated on me and put me at risk of STD's so I would tell her anything she needed to know like that. I wouldn't tell her anything about when we were together though, I'm not sure what there would be to tell?
I wouldn't say no to coffee, I just wouldn't go there to gossip and ruin their relationship. Simply state you would prefer not to rehash the relationship and don't have time for coffee.
There is nothing worse than breaking someone’s heart or getting your own heart broken.
No, you want to do everything in your power to win her back and if that means being aggressive then so be it. Now, as I explained above, thoughts are very powerful as they can make you either feel good or bad. Causing your ex girlfriend to go through this process is not a winning strategy to get an ex back. And as a result of the conversations that I have had with you guys I have learned a lot about your mentality. For example, if they are doing a 30 day no contact rule and their ex contacts them on day 15 then they ignore.
Now, I suppose that isn’t anything too out of the ordinary but what was remarkable was the fact that he created a graphic to go along with it.
They wanted you to feel the feelings that you would feel and they wanted you to do this continually. I’m just trying to understand the why and the psychology of giving the space and why it works better. Before, it was platonic but then we had sex twice while I was out there and everything was fine until I flew back home. We broke up four months ago and since then I have been on the quest to get her back and I have been very successful thanks to your advice. If you blow up in anger because you are insulted and hurt, you will lose your friendship with your ex girlfriend. If you make her feel terrible about the break up, she will not want to continue seeing you. If you are having a hard time accepting her decision, then you need to decide if you can live with losing her completely. Be sure you keep in contact with her, but don’t fall victim to being her back up plan or relationship psychologist. Your girlfriend will want to be friends forever if you cannot make her think she cannot have you.


Celeb Dirty Laundry recently revealed that Soko might not be in love with Stewart and that her friends think she is just after the attention of her fans.
Her friends believe that Soko wants their relationship to be very open to the public, so she can be popular. The site also revealed that Stewart is not making use of her sexuality to get back with Pattinson, since both of them have moved on.
He recently started exclusively dating someone new who you actually know through a friend of a friend.
She wants to know all sorts of personal details about his past including specifics about your relationship with him.
I wish someone would have done the same for me before I wasted almost 4 years of my life on him! My husband's ex (whom they have a child together) and I decided to go out for lunch one day. I don't rehash my relationships for insecure women that don't have enough balls to ask their boyfriend for information if it's that important to them! I would emphasize that he may have changed (he hasn't, he's dating 3 girls and had sex with a different ex over the weekend!) and that it's up to her to decide if she wants to be with him. I would emphasize that he may have changed (he hasn't, he's dating 3 girls and had sex with a different ex over the weekend!) and that it's up to her to decide if she wants to be with him.I wouldn't tell her anything about when we were together though, I'm not sure what there would be to tell? If I was friendly with the guy like this article says, I might ask him if he'd mind since we'd all probably be hanging out sometimes anyway and I'd want to get to know her. One of the toughest things to deal with is constantly wondering if your ex still has feelings for you.It is normal to wonder if your ex still has feelings for you, especially if you want to know if you are the only one hurting inside. Of course, since the thought that your ex had was about the breakup it is going to make her feel bad (square two.) Now, I also explained that human beings run towards good feelings and away from bad feelings. Now, the way I teach the no contact rule is a lot different than most people but men who employ the aggressive strategy don’t often heed my advice and go into a hardcore no contact. However, if their ex doesn’t contact them until day 61 then that would be when they end their hardcore no contact. I broke up with my 3.5 month long girlfriend two days ago because of repeat offenses of the same things (ignoring me for long periods of time, promising to contact me at certain times and then not doing so, backsliding on a couple other things she said she would stop, avoiding my confrontation of her actions even when I did it peacefully), and because of numerous hours of not communicating with me or answering any questions, I assumed an unspoken breakup and removed her from my contacts and friends. And then right away instead of giving her space I got her to go on a date with me asked her out again way too quick broke down like crazy (while also going to sex addict anonymous meetings) and now she really needs space.
Then this last month april i finally started to listen and gave her space and went two weeks with out texting or calling no contact until 15 days out and i broke and text her to see if she could talk.
She said she regretted it but we both agreed we had feelings for each but because of our distance we should be friends with benefits. She liked me again and wanted to start talking again, I was so happy but I told myself not to rush things. You can only talk about the kids and other important stuff but no small talk or about each other and you have to be busy and try to do other things, improve your look and other aspects in life.. So, we have become awesome friends, and we have spoken about the past relationship, but it definitely wasn't awkward.
When on the phone she said she was starting to heal and i told her look im sorry and i reall love you and want to live the rest of my life with you.
I guess you could say we were both "adult" about it, and ultimately wanted to get along for the kids. This is a dead give away that she still wants to be with you because there would be no other reason she wants to keep calling you, even when she doesn’t have anything say at all.
Shelistened to me go on and on and was crying saying she was just so sad and didnt know how she could possibly believe me again. She said you are still thinking about yourself when i asked you for space so i could heal, I said i was sorry i just want to show you who i really am and i want to be true to you forever.
They did but not because I slept with her, I noticed she had a box of condoms in her room, I tried to ignore it but I couldn’t help it. If you have a social media account like Twitter or Facebook where you update your status daily you should check it to see if your ex has interacted with you on your page.If she has liked any of your photos, commented on your status, or shown any kind of interaction with your profile on one or more of these social media accounts she is definitely still thinking about you. She has been unresponsive (and I do believe she’s already talking to other guys online).
One day I texted her about it and she said we weren’t exclusive yet and that she can still do what ever she wants.
So I agreed and said I would do anything for her, but i am so sad I know she was the one and Im affriad that ill let go now and Im scared of what will happen. I lost it, I told her I never want to speak to her again and told her how cold she was knowing that I has feelings for her. The next day I apologized telling her I miss understood what we had, she just told me she needed space. Look I know I will treat her right im ready for that but here i am 2 days no contact again and scared of how to handle this. I tried to convince her not to leave but nothing I said worked, she said she will contact me when she is ready. If you hear from a common friend that your ex has been asking about you and showing some interest in your personal life you know she still has a lot of love for you and probably wants you back.Look Out For CoincidentDo you often bump into your ex when you least expect it?
Whenever I am hurt by someone who wrongs me, the longer they go without apologizing or making it right the more resentment builds up inside me. Chances are this isn’t a coincident, but something that was planned way ahead in advance. If I prevented them from doing so or ignored them doing so, that just seems outright counterintuitive. When she does contact me, should I just start over or should I ask her what her reason for contacting me again, to be friends or to try to work things out? You probably have a mutual friend that goes back and tells her where you are going to be and when.If you feel like you have been running into your ex a lots lately then chances are she wants to see you without making it seem like she wants you back.
I know a lot of this getting your ex back stuff is counterintuitive, but this one thing seems really out there. She is probably worried you might not want to see her after the break up so she makes sure she runs into you every chance she gets by making you think it was an accident.Jason is a relationship expert that focuses on helping men improves their dating life with women. I thought we humans want broken things fixed asap, and if they aren’t fixed soon enough, THAT’S when we go looking for something else?
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