My Cheating Boyfriend!Why do men cheat on women that LOVE them, do everything for them, has a kid with them..
My dear its really tough to be in that situation but their something you must not forget that is the child.you must love him care for him and that you have responsibilities now so donot forget. You seem to have the false impression that you’re going to get the guy from the first year of your relationship back.
The second you get rid of him is the second you can find a guy who does the most important things you need in a man: cherish you, treat you like a priority, and commit to you forever. I hate spam as much as you do, therefore I will never sell, rent, or give away your email address. What if another man came to you tomorrow, told you and showed you how much he loved and cared for you, and gave you the relationship and commitment you wanted? Evan + other commenters are probably right but when I first read the letter, my instant reaction was that OP’s BF had modified his behaviour based on her response (to moving in) and had put the relationship in limbo until he could ask again and she answered in the affirmative. From my current understanding of how women view Sexual market value from this site, I would guess that Barnie is either on a lower level then her current boyfriend or she feels that she not be able to get such a successful hot guy again, because of her… children or age, or whatever, because like all the other commenters said, if she was advising a friend should would have quickly told them to dump this guy. Men do this all the time, and are called out for it, we choose the beautiful or sexy girl over the average looking, or unattractive, or overweight girl. Men love the feeling they get when other guys are envious of him because he has a hot woman on his arm, and even if you don’t want to admit it, women love this feeling too! Or it might not be any of these reasons, she may be a 10 and she just likes the guy, but not one commenter has said that she had it coming, no matter how hot or great of a catch a guy is, no one deserves to be treated poorly by someone they tried to give their heart too.
As much as I would like to agree with you, In Not Of, this is human nature, and I’m sure you and pretty much everyone else has been guilty of it at some point. Agreed, it is rather catty – personally I believe all this talk of sexual market value IS catty, and besides which, is actually irrelevant when it comes to love.
And again to the Original Poster Bernie, you should dump a guy if he doesn’t make you feel desired, special, comfortable around him, and safe. Looks are all very well, but there is zero correlation between being good looking and being a good partner. Let’s put it this way Bernie, in 2 years I searched for, found, met and married my husband and he continues to show me everyday how wonderful he is. Irrational fear, insecurities, and impossible dreams are what pull us back into relationships with people who don’t value us. 1) Evan, unless the letter is edited, I don’t see how you know the boyfriend is out of town.


My question for Bernie is: why did you turn his offer down to move in with him in the first place? So, for the uninitiated, the nervous or the miserable (or anyone who is none of the above), here are 16 flirting fails that will make your life look significantly more joyful.
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Bernie hurt his feelings and now he is sulking like a child, maybe he is even wanting to dump her, but he still really likes her.
The heart loves who it loves, and moreover how many times have we seen a good looking young man with a woman who was apparently older and perhaps less taut and pretty than the 25 year old we would expect to see him with? I just said what I thought could be the reason she was sticking with this obviously bad boyfriend. If you don’t believe me, ask yourselves, how many men on a online dating website, did you see his picture, thought he was very unattractive, but you still read his profile… or did you just click next?
This has nothing to do with your looks or your body, it has to do with being around a decent human being. What I was saying is that people such as yourself seem to imply that sexual market value is everything, that it is the only determining factor when we decide who we end up with.
He was very (almost excessively) hot and heavy for me for about a year and he wanted me and my kids to move in with him.
If this is the best she ever had it is because she is stuck on year 1 (which was probably the best ever) and is hoping and praying it goes back to that.
Do you think you would still be wondering what you could try to salvage this relationship with your cold fish boyfriend? Or a gorgeous sexy woman with a man who is not her equal in looks and is also not super rich? Most normal people don’t get upset if they don’t have a model on their arms, but they still want someone who they can kiss without the thought of forcing themselves, attraction matters! You turning his offer down proved to be a turning point for him, if I may believe your words. Well he has this friend that is older than him by 7 years and let me tell you FUGLY as hell and he lied to me everyday saying they are just friends, well come to find out they have been seeing each other for a year and it ended 6 months ago.
What I think you should do is call him speak to him firmly and say that the relationship is over and there is nothing that will change that. Sometimes she isn’t so nice, but he sticks with her because he loves the feelings he gets from being with someone out of his league, being with someone others want, shows are high value.


When someone perceives themselves as less than, and doesn’t stand up for themselves, and puts up with sub-par behaviour from us, it is human nature to want to treat that person dismissively. All the time, we observe couples whose members fall at differing points on the sexual market value scale because those people love how they FEEL with that person. Anyway, he acted rejected but I did everything I could to show him I cared and wanted to keep dating.
And if women always scream they care about looks as much as men, then why are you fighting the “possibility” that the original poster a woman is doing the same thing? Or we certainly will not treat that person as well as someone who requires better treatment.
But make sure that he knows that the friendship you may have in the future because of the child will never result in a reconcilliation. You would be out of there so fast it would make your head spin and wouldn’t have the time of day for this man any more. Trust me, you’ll end up depressed and feeling stuck eventually, especially if children happen. I'm trying to ignore him and his calls and texts but its getting harder and I'm officially done with him, how do I go about moving on and trusting again?Want To Know Who's Calling Your Spouse?Enter Cellphone Number and Search Now! Moreover sexual market value is irrelevant if you are not being treated the way you want to be in a relationship. His personality is aloof and cultured, he makes everything into an ironic joke, and he will not say he loves me. What I would do to get over him would be to go back to what you were doing before you were together. I don’t know where I stand, but he gives enough attention to keep me hoping and guessing. As someone said, look at all the gorgeous celebrities being cheated and unable to find happiness in love.
Together, were strong enough to overcome the worst of the worst; Alone, we struggle to find meaning. We are so much better off forgetting about all this other crap and concentrating on being happy with ourselves.



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