Usually it's the latter, and when people get ex texts it can bring up some pretty bad memories.
For all we know, your boyfriend might have jumped into a new relationship before moving on. Perhaps it’s been a long time after the breakup and perhaps he is already over the breakup and has moved on. Now, if he has a new girlfriend, and it’s not a rebound, then you have some serious trouble. If your ex’s new girlfriend does not let him stay in contact with  you, and your ex boyfriend is agreeing to her, then this means that he has completely moved on and is heavily invested in his new girlfriend.
Once you have established good communication with him via text messages and established that you are no longer a needy and clingy person, you should try to set up a meet. On the other hand, if he does choose you, then you should understand that the reason he chose you is because of the new and improved you. By now, you should have a pretty good idea about what to do and how to get your ex boyfriend back. 3 months after the break up, he started contacting me throuqh fb telling me that he was happy with his new gurl (his classmate) and everythng i was sad to hear that honestly but i tried to keep a good face on ths even when it hurts..
You shouldn’t tell him that you love him unless you signs from him that he is interested in you. My bf and me have a nice stable rs for a yr till one fine day i was dumped over a new girl… who reminds him of his long ago xgf tt apparently still in his mind. I really want him to see and realise tt im the only genuine girl for him that cares a great deal. When you have to remind him of financial stuff, just remind him and don’t talk about anything else. We were together for seven years and have a six year old and our baby turns 3 months this month. We were living together, looking at a bigger house, talking about having kids and she was always dropping hints about being married one day (what she didn’t realise was i had planned to ask her to be my wife as a surprise xmas gift). On the Saturday we were at her parents house and again she was talking about having a baby etc…. The monday we had a petty argument about who she was chatting with on facebook, the tuesday she broke up with me saying she just needed space, and she felt like the worst person in the world. It turns out 3 days later she went on a date with a guy who she had had a couple of dates with before we got together.
Anyway she finally tells me they are now a couple and removes me from her life (no FB, blocked my phone number). Iv been in NC now for around 3 weeks, but i miss her and obviously her daughter who for 1.5 years i have raised as my own.
I found out that after 4 weeks of being with this guy she decided she will move in with him and take her daughter with her.
My situation is me and my ex boyfriend for more than a year broke up 4 months ago and he had her girlfriend a week after the break up., but then he broke up with his girlfriend more than a month ago.
I don’t know how to cut the contact because as I said we were living in the same roof together with our friends. Me and my ex had an argument at the end of december, after which he disappeared and I haven’t contacted him either.
I sent him a text after almost 8 weeks of No Contact following your directions of first text message.
It’s quite possible that he is still angry at you or at least is holding some resentment towards you.
I didn’t reply to this, however is this a response that he does still care and he really was just confused? We've all been there: You're newly single, still reeling from the sting of being dumped by your ex -- and desperately trying to avoid texting him or her. But let the texts in the slideshow below be a warning to you -- though it's tempting to text, those post-split conversations never go as planned. It's good if you actually want them back and aren't completely ready to kill them, or it can be a bad thing if they broke your heart and you want nothing to do with them but set all the clothes they left at your house on fire.
But, from those bad memories and resentment can cause some pretty funny and awesome responses to ex texts, like the ones in this gallery.
They're clearly written by people who no longer give a $^&*, which means that they do not hold back what they're really feeling.
Just because he has another girlfriend doesn’t necessarily mean that you can’t win him over. He will soon realize that this relationship is not going to fill the hole that he is feeling in his life and end it. And that involves following the 5 step plan listed here with a few adjustments that I mention below. Before we begin, I must warn you that your chances are very less and you should know that you might end up hurting yourself more.
I do recommend a letter in the 5 step plan, but if you are trying to get him back from his new girlfriend, text messages are the way to go.


Guys don’t usually let their girlfriends tell them who to contact unless they are serious about the relationship. Again, if you haven’t read the 5 step plan to get your ex back, click here to read it now. He posted a video of one big song a bunch of our friends performed back in early september. My relationship with him was terrible, but the few moments I remember that were great were really great. I think you still have hope, but don’t let this hope turn into an obsession (which happens far too often in such cases). I the think the best course of action is to keep contact with him via text and ask him out again after a few weeks.
If you stay in contact with him, he’ll feel like that he has you and his new girlfriend both. He arrives back at christmas last year, and seeing him still gives me butterflies, we frequently txt and talk on da phone.. We separated and came back together and was happy till another issue which separated us again. I know what happened to you sucked, but keep it in mind that it happened once, and if you get him back, it can happen again. We broke up (my choice) about 6 months after I moved to another part of the country for work. Over the time I was away I’ve become a much stronger and happier person, but I also realise I want him back, wherever in the country we are.
I feel betrayed that he didn’t wait for me after saying he would, which is probably unreasonable. The fact the break up happened so suddenly for me, and the attachment to the daughter make it difficult ? And if it is, there’s really nothing you can do unless she realizes that she made a mistake. He’ll keep you around as a friend for as long as he can and he gets to be with other girls as well. I expected him to take 2 days to reply (he is the type of guy with strong emotions who prefers to cool down before reacting + he sometimes does it on purpose waiting for my reaction), but it’s been almost 3 days and still nothing. People in rebound relationships hold on to the negativity of the breakup for a longer time because they never actually get the time to deal with their feelings.
For the first 6 months we kept in contact and it was rough, so much so I then went 2 months with NC. You are giving him an opportunity to keep dating a 19 year old girl and still have sex with you. As you might have heard before, rebound relationships usually end as quickly as they begin. If you try to interfere or try to convince him to breakup, then you are only going to make him want to stay in the relationship. Perhaps, he is really interested in his new girlfriend and he really wants his new relationship to work. But the real question is, do you really want to sabotage his new relationship so you could give it another try? If he stays in the relationship with his new girlfriend (who is not a rebound) for a long time, he will get more invested in that relationship and he will be less likely to come back to you. The reason is simple, text messages are private and she is less likely to find out about them. Once you have gone out with him a few times, and he has seen the new and improved you, he will himself start wondering whether he should give it another go with you. It’s the most popular article on this website and I have seen this plan work time and time again.
Not showing love, putting other people’s opinions in front of his, lying, being too clingy, TERRIBLE AWFUL breakup that took over two months and therapy.
I know now that I can be the great girlfriend that he always wanted and is hoping to get out of this new girl, and it kills me to see that this is going to happen. If he doesn’t then continue building attraction with him and then ask him if he wants to get back together. He said i cant help him achieve his dreams and then we resolved the issue and we were working on coming back together till he found out there were 2 guys who i was friends with. I am more and more convinced that she is a rebound (no point explaining it all here) and I do believe I have a chance but I am not sure I want him back.
It took him half a day to reply to my next one but since then he started replying much faster.
It can be a gut wrenching feeling to think about your ex boyfriend (who you still love with all your heart) in someone else’s arm. So go read that guide first and then come back to this page for advice pertaining to your situation.
All you have to do is follow the 5 Step Plan to get your ex back and you will most probably have him back in your arms.


Even if she does, she is breaching his privacy, which means less attraction points for her.
I am sorry to say this, but you really have no chance of getting him back unless they both breakup. This is assuming that you followed the step 3 in the 5 step plan(the no contact rule and working on yourself). Let him know that you can’t be friends with him and if he chooses her, then you can’t see him again. If you’ve already read it, here are a few more articles that I highly recommend you read. And in the same day he texted if I was mad at him, he sent selfie videos of himself to a group chat with me and our best friend of songs that the three of us would sing together. If not, then start no contact and decide whether you want to continue trying to get him back or move on. He confronted me about em but i denied saying they were just 1person,he found out i lied and ever since then he said it was over.
I spoke to him for the first time yesterday and he has a new girlfriend, of a few months, who he seems fairly keen on.
They have been officially dating (well, on FB at least) for 1 month now and we have been NC for 6 weeks. If you’re needy and insecure, any type of communication with him is going to make him lose attraction.
I am not sure I would be able to forgive him this and trust him and be all confident he wouldn’t do it again.
You can either wait for him to break up with him or better yet, concentrate your efforts in moving on. You have to give him just enough time to miss you, but not enough to completely forget about you. An ex from 3 years ago messages me and I wasn’t exactly forthcoming in being in a relationship. She is the complete opposite of me and his type in general (very young, childish, dependent). If he doesn’t break up in the next 4 weeks (or 2 weeks, you decide), give him an ultimatum. Im really confused because i really love him and want him back, what do i do to get him back? I didn’t want to get back together as It wasn’t practically possible to be in the same part of the country, and I didn’t want to be as miserable as I had been.
After 2 days he wrote on FB how happy he was, 2 more days he posted a love song for her, within 10 days from meeting her (he works double shifts so they only met like a few times I would say) they were already official on FB.
I became more needy after I finished University because I had too much free time and I wasn’t able to handle it. He started with me for a month after saying he would try to get over it and when I asked him for a commitment he said he couldn’t trust me. I don’t even know if he still have feelings for me because he always talks to me about his crushes, how much he adore her crush and how much he feel great whenever he see his crush. Hang out with him and if he talks about other girls, tell him you are not comfortable with such talks.
I am now working out every day, I see clearly all my mistakes and I feel happy most of the time. As we were trying to make it work though he began talking to another girl, he liked her, and he continued talking to her for a while! In the end I went abroad for 6 months in order to clear my head and force myself to move on and not see him. He said he still loved me and he wanted to talk about us getting back together when I returned, that he would wait for me. And the truth is before, I’ve done all the mistakes said in 5 steps to get your ex back. I’ve been so desperate and pleading him to come back to me and i even fought with her girlfriend before.
But then i followed that no contact rule by not talking to him though we we’re just living in one roof. If he decides that he doesn’t want commit, you should cut contact with him and move on. He told me the girl he was dating is now his girlfriend and he didn’t think it was a good idea for me to contact him ever again. I have wanted him back this whole time and I know the reason we broke up was something that could be fixed. I’m now at the point where I have my action and emotion under control, but I still love him and want him back.



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