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I have to share my testimony to the world because i don't know who it might be helpful to. Do I Still Love My ExEmotions are quite difficult for many people to understand.This is because many emotions and feelings are very personal issues, oneswhich are not often discussed.
Once you figure out whether or not you still love your ex, you will be able todeal with the issue and then move on from there.How can you determine what your feelings are for your ex? If you still love your ex, you likely want to see your ex or talk to your ex onthe phone quite often. You need to make a decision--do you want to get back together with your exor do you want to get over your ex?
Might your apologies be so frequent and empty that you can't even recall the last one or do you not remember your last apology because you haven't apologized for much of anything lately? Sometimes saying sorry is a hard thing to do because you might feel like it makes you look weak or it takes away from a point you were defending in an argument or debate.
Just give some more thought to why you are apologizing to someone before you do it and express that in the apology. How many times have you had someone apologize to you and it felt like they didn't mean it? I talk about this all the time, but I need to reevaluate and make sure that I am being about it.
Who doesn’t need a good dose of inspiration from great minds especially during a hard day?
Whenever you’re asking yourself the question of how do I know if my ex boyfriend misses cr consider how often he wants to talk to you.
You can also tell if a man is still in painstaking with you after a break up on condition that he talks a lot about what went wrong. Never discount the importance of body language when it comes to determining whether your ex misses you or not.
Before you entered into a relationship with your ex boyfriend you knew that deep down being clingy and needy was probably going to be a turn off to him but as you developed a deeper connection with him you couldn’t help yourself.
Now, I am not insinuating that you approached anything close to this when you broke up with your ex boyfriend I am just saying that I know what it’s like to be in love and I know that sometimes it can make you do some clingy or needy things. In this guide I am going to be talking about how you can recover from these clingy or needy things that occurred in your relationship with your ex.
I bet you weren’t expecting me to say that being clingy can have a positive aspect to it, huh? As it turns out there is a way in which being clingy and needy can be an attractive thing to men. So, if you have ever wondered what kinds of things a stage 5 clinger does to turn off a man then the section entitled, The Negatives Of Being Clingy, is going to be especially interesting to you. Whenever you do research on women who are clingy or overly needy you often hear experts scolding them for that type of behavior. To me if a girl gets a little clingy it means she really has strong feelings for me and I like that. Whenever a girl exhibits clingy behavior like jealousy, constantly wanting to be around me and texting me a lot I kind of like it. I want to tell you about what a girl can do to all of a sudden make those cute little clingy behaviors into overly clingy to the point where it becomes a turn off. One thing we have already established about me and most other men is that we like needy behavior but only to a certain extent.
Lets pretend that you and I are dating and at the beginning of the relationship you would exhibit the three clingy behaviors I mentioned above.
Of course, as time went on I began to notice a gradual change in the intensity of these behaviors. For example, any time you would get jealous you would get jealous to the point where you would start a huge argument and you wouldn’t trust me about anything. You also became so clingy to the point where any time I would go into a room you would have to follow me in there. Of course, as our relationship grew deeper the texting ratio changed completely to a 3:1 ratio. You see, when most women search the internet for advice on clingy behavior most experts list out all the needy behaviors that you need to avoid but almost none of them do a good job of explaining WHY you need to avoid them. Imagine for a moment that you are walking down the street and all of a sudden you hear this buzzing around your head. It is entirely possible that this is how your ex boyfriend viewed you in your relationship if you were too overbearing with how you texted him. One of the best ways to determine if you were a text gnat or not is to look at your last 100 text messages between you and your ex. If for example, the texting ratio ends up being something like 70:30 where you have sent him 70 text messages and he has only responded to 30 of those text messages then that probably means you are venturing into text gnat territory where you are becoming kind of overbearing.
Someone who is a text gnat screams desperation and no guy wants a serious relationship with a woman who is desperate. In fact, I remember a long time ago there was one girl who had such a crush on me that she would text gnat the heck out of me. She kept texting me to the point where it really started annoying me and I eventually had to say something to her.
Because she seemed totally desperate and if I am going to be attracted to anyone it was going to be a woman who is smart, independent and NOT desperate. Now, a normal girlfriend should be excited about the prospect of going to a party with her boyfriend. Instead of being excited about the party you get angry at me for texting another girl and accuse me of cheating. You become so threatened by Tina that you forbid me to ever text another girl for the rest of my life.
In my opinion, extreme jealousy has a direct correlation to a woman trying to control a man and nothing annoys a man more than a woman who tries to control him.
I have only heard of one example of shadowing in my personal life but I have heard of multiple examples through this site which is why I know it exists. Shadowing- Becoming so dependent on another human being that you have to be around them all the time.
If you are still a little confused when it comes to this concept don’t feel bad, it is a little complicated to grasp. When I was in high school a very long time ago I knew a guy that would get angry at his girlfriend for the dumbest things. When I heard this I was baffled at why he would have to accompany her if she simply wanted to leave the room.
What we have here is a case of someone who is so insecure that he wouldn’t even let his girlfriend leave the room without him.
Some of the more common forms of shadowing I have seen is the classic invasion of alone time. Look, sometimes men need their alone time where you aren’t constantly badgering them with questions or the latest drama that went on at work. Think about it, if your ex wanted to have a guys night out with his friends but you insisted on tagging along you were harassing him with unwanted attention which is technically the same behavior a stalker engages in. If you were so insecure that you couldn’t even let him have an hour on his own to recharge his batteries then you are technically defined as a talker. That means that every day whenever I read your comments on this site I can kind of get bummed out because, to me, it sometimes feels as if all I see are failed relationships.
In other words, I am basically saying that the only time I would hang around other girls is if my girlfriend (you in this imaginary case) was there. So, lets pretend that you are really insecure about other girls around me, even though I have proven to you multiple times that I am the most trustworthy man on the planet.


In fact, you have become so insecure about other women that you constantly try to control me and basically order me to never talk to any of them ever again.
In fact, most of the time by you controlling a man you push him to do the behavior you don’t want him to in the first place. Now that you have a pretty good idea of what clingy behavior is and why it annoys men lets take a look at what you are going to have to do in order to overcome that clingy behavior to have a chance at getting your ex boyfriend back. Now, before I get started on explaining what I mean by these four pillars I feel it is very important to discuss the point of what we are trying to accomplish here. The point of this section is to show you what you have to do in order to achieve that goal. If the main goal that we are trying to accomplish here is overcoming your exes impression of you then it is probably a really good idea to figure out what that impression is.
For example, if you and I dated each other and I was constantly telling you how I hated the fact that you were always trying to control me then you would know that the clingy behavior that you would really have to work on is to NOT be controlling.
In other words, what we are trying to do here is to figure out what behaviors you exhibited that needs to change for you to even have a shot of getting him back. While I never actually was in a relationship with this person (I never even went a date with her actually) she exhibited some super clingy behavior from the get go that made me immediately want to not talk to her. Any time I wouldn’t respond to a text message she would send she would grow frustrated and berate me with insults.
I immediately classified her behavior as clingy and controlling and I did not want a presence like that in my life. They call, text or skype their ex so much that it can sometimes go beyond regular clingyness.
If you need a refresher on how creepy this can be take a look at the very first picture I posted on this page of the woman who called her ex 77,000 times after her breakup with him.
A year or two ago one of my friends told me something really interesting about relationships. By being clingy and needy with phone calls or texts you are playing right into what they already believe is going to happen. If I am being completely honest with you it annoys me when I see women begging for their exes back because to me that means they don’t know their own value. So, rather than playing right into what he already believes is going to happen after a breakup (you getting all clingy with phone calls) I would recommend that you do the exact opposite of that. By doing a no contact rule for either 21 or 30 days (depending on the situation) you are going to accomplish two things. If you guessed the girl who tries to get her boyfriend back when he is not that angry then you guessed right. I am going to be talking about this a lot more in-depth in the next section but for now I can give you a little teaser of whats to come.
While you are using the no contact rule to give your ex time to cool down you can also be using it as a way to get rid of your clingy habits and reshape your image so that your ex no longer views you as clingy.
Self improvement is key if you don’t want to be looked at as clingy or needy anymore.
It’s funny, I was scrolling through Facebook the other day and noticed one of those overused motivational quotes that always seem to get shared.
However, when you sit down and really peel back the layers you will find that, that quote has a flaw.
Well, I take offense to that because I personally believe that self improvement should be something every human being should strive for. Now, I am not saying you should compromise your morals or do something your not comfortable with but I think it is completely ok to want to be a better version of yourself.
Since this is a page dedicated to eliminating neediness lets focus on how you can improve yourself if your neediness is tied directly to your own insecurities. For example, we often get overly jealous because we are afraid our significant other might cheat on us.
I mean, you can try to turn your feelings off as much as possible but in the end we are all human beings and not robots.
So, what I would like to teach you is the method I try to employ when dealing with my own personal insecurities.
I would have to say that without a doubt the biggest insecurity I have when it comes to relationships would be the fear of being cheated on.
The very next day I found out that she started dating another guy, someone who she had been pursuing since I started pursuing her. While she didn’t cheat on me it was my first experience with deception and I did not like how it felt.
As I gained more experience in dealing with the opposite sex I learned more and more about how women could sometimes use deception to get away with things. Unfortunately, this site doesn’t help that insecurity at all when I come face to face with infidelity on a daily basis. However, I figured out an excellent way to deal with this insecurity so it doesn’t make me exhibit clingy behavior. You see, the fear of infidelity can sometimes cause you to get jealous over unnecessary things. Whats even better is that I am using my insecurity to force me to set that type of high standard. You see, as long as I keep that standard so far out of reach for other men I have nothing to worry about because my significant other would literally have to be an idiot to stray. However, as you fell deeper into the relationship you slowly but surely started losing your hobbies. Thought 1- It’s sweet that you can fall so deeply in love with someone that their passions become yours. Thought 2- It’s dangerous to fall so deeply in love that you lose yourself in that person. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. At a time it was had to trust him cos he kept asking for material i had to pay foras wrong as i was, i thought he was reaping me off my money.Just when i thought to say no more he finished what i had asked him to do for me. So, it is easy to see how a great number ofpeople can be confused about their feelings for their exes.
Perhaps you have called your ex’s voice mail just tohear his or her voice, or maybe you have driven by your ex’s house or placeof work in hopes of seeing him or her outside. It's like they could have just not said anything at all and you probably would despise them a little less than you do after that sorry (no pun intended) a$$ apology.
Make it clear that you get exactly what you are sorry for and help the other person believe that you will truly try to not repeat your wrong in the future.
Whenever we feel stuck or get depressed, we need to hear something to cheer us up and get moving. He possible verbreken trying to justify his actions that contributed to the relationship ending else he allowed just be working to remind you of the good times. If he leans in to talk to you, that’s a sign that he feels very shut to you emotionally. This fact was evidenced when I opened up my Facebook Page one afternoon and saw this meme posted by one of my subscribers,Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? Essentially, what I am shooting for here is a way to wipe your slate clean with your ex so that you can give yourself the best shot of getting him back. In this section I am going to talk a little about that but I will also be giving you the low down on all the negatives that go along with being clingy and needy. In fact, your jealousy got so bad that at one point you literally forbade me to talk to anyone of the opposite sex.
It is rare to find someone who will explain why men react badly to clingy behavior but I am going to because I am a man and I know how I would react if someone got overly needy. They want a serious relationship with a woman who is confident enough to know that she actively chose to be with a guy.


As our relationship wears on I begin to notice that you get jealous any time I mention another girl.
In fact, if you ever catch me texting another girl throughout our relationship you threaten to break up with me. In some cases it is so extreme that you can’t even let them leave a room without you going by their side.
I remember he once told me that when he was over at her house she left the room without him. We need time to recharge sometimes before we can consume everything you want us to consume.
If you feel the need to accompany him everywhere he goes then that is a form of shadowing and he isn’t going to appreciate it.
Lately, in an effort to change this I have been reading up a lot about the most successful relationships so I can get some positivity back in my life which in turn will help me give out better advice. Whenever I am in a relationship with someone I don’t let anyone threaten that relationship. I feel this is an extremely rare quality in men now-a-days and it also says a lot about my character. Well, below you will find a graphic that i put together that will teach you how to overcome his reservations about taking you back because of your clingy nature. However, once the relationship has already commenced then the women take over from there and do everything in their power to keep the relationship going. In other words, they grow lazy and spoiled and get used to women doing everything for them.
Well, I am of the mind that giving your ex space (after you have been clingy) is the smartest thing you can do. Of course, when you shower a man with constant attention that attention is going to lose some of its value over time because he is going to get used to it. The no contact rule is perfect for giving your ex boyfriend time to cool down which in turn is going to increase your chances to seem less clingy and also get him back.
How about the fact that a lot of women don’t believe they are good enough for their boyfriends so they shower them with too much attention which can be viewed as clingy.
In fact, I became so frightened of being deceived that I started plotting out worse case scenarios in my head and trying to figure out if I would be able to survive if it ever occurred to me. You see, it has the ability to make you a little paranoid and that can be extremely unhealthy.
This means that for me I can sometimes get touchy when other men are introduced into the equation around my relationship. It’s not ok to just stop something that you love (your hobbies) to make room for all of your boyfriends or husbands hobbies. We were in an on & off again relationship becaus, simply put, I was needy, clingy, controlling while he has always been uncertain about me. Your answers will tellyou what you feel for your ex.• Do you feel a strong desire to see your ex? They were developed for real folks like you and are proven towork again and again.Of course, we cannot guarantee you will get an ex back who truly hasmoved on, but, if the flame still burns, these tips will fan that flameinto a bonfire of love between you and your ex love. Is it because we think it's the right thing to do and it probably makes the other person feel better? Or how about this one ~ You and another person are both at fault in some way and you actually do woman or man up and apologize, but the other person doesn't.
When a couple breaks up et sequens the guy is happy about it, he’ll do everything he receptacle to not talk to his ex again.
On Condition That undivided of his favorite topics of conversation is the time when you two were lovers, that’s an indication that he wishes it could be that way again. Another very telling sign that a man has feelings for a woman is the way his face looks when he’s talking to her or looking at her. You see, as a man I can tell you that, as weird as this is going to sound, I like a woman to be a little clingy or needy. On top of that you would literally get angry if I wouldn’t respond immediately to your texts.
However, if you have become so clingy or controlling that you literally have to go with them from room to room then that is a big issue.
So, when you think back to you and your exes fights what was it about you that he was complaining about that could be classified as clingy. As a result, when a breakup occurs they almost expect that YOU are going to be the one that contacts them first begging for a second chance. So, rather than getting overly jealous I am always telling myself that I am setting such a high standard that no other man can compare. The break up struck me as a surprise because a few months before that he was telling me how he’d marry me. And i suffer heartbreak for ten months and i was not tired of loving him.so i took a bold step by contacting a spell caster who helped me bring my ex boyfriend back. She told me of a man called DR LAWAL KERIM, she told me he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot solve and she told me how he has help countless number of people in restoring their relationship. Any unresolved emotions dealing with yourex could actually impact your future relationships--and not in a good way. When something interesting or upsetting happens in your life, thefirst person you think to call is your ex.• How does it feel to think about your ex being with someone else?If you are still in love with your ex, the thought of him or her being withsomeone else probably makes you feel very jealous. You can still stand firmly by a belief or opinion you hold and apologize for your tone or the way in which you expressed it.
Provided it softens a bit and the edges of his mouth appear open that means he’s feeling connected to her also is appetency for her.
I liked that you wanted to be around me all the time and I also liked that you texted me a lot. The very idea of itmight make you feel sick inside, or it may make you feel angry at the otherperson. Today we hand-picked a collection of inspirational quotations by different authors each of which will surely make your day.
However, if there are lingering feelings there, he’ll want to see her and hear her voice.
Yes i will admit to the fact that i f$$ked up so many times but we always got around our problem i don't mean avoid it i mean we fixed our problem like real adults but my stepson always thought i was not good enough for his mother. I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately.
You may even feel possessive, as if the other person is on your turf,stealing ‘your’ ex.Have you figured out how you feel about your ex? Anyway, if you are one that tends to apologize with lack of purpose and earnestness, perhaps you may want to honestly consider the impact of your apologies if they actually had more weight and thought given to them before you lay one on. You want him back and one of the first steps towards that has to be determining whether or not he wants you too. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise, this is so amazing. There are some subtle and some not so subtle signs that a man is still in love with his ex. It wouldn’t be surprising--most people who wonder abouttheir feelings for their exes do still have some strings attached which need tobe addressed.
If you notice any of these in your old boyfriend, you can rest assured that he’s still qua crazy about you as you are about him. I agreed to do the Trisha show thinking maybe it will help fix our marriage but it made it even worse.



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