There is no question that you look better with your hair and makeup done than you do without it.
In any case, although cosmetics give you an undeniable advantage when it comes to controlling your appearance, they come with the burden of deciding when and where their use is appropriate. This is an infographic explaining 10 of the most common reasons why men see fat or obese women as unappealing or unattractive. Lil PAugust 29, 2014 at 1:30 amI saw that pic of Jen and thought wow maybe she is secretly pregnant. If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset. If your boyfriend tells you that you are hotter without it, because he prefers when you "look more natural," he is either lying or you aren't doing your makeup correctly.
The following points explain what men think about seeing you done up or in your natural state, so that you can better choose between the two when that decision proves difficult. He is going to see you without makeup eventually, so don't make inordinate attempts to avoid being seen bare-faced after the first few dates. While there is a certain attraction to being naked with a woman who bares her whole self to you, most of the time a man wants to be sleeping with the hottest woman he can. She takes great pleasure in adorning herself and amplifying her internal beauty via her external beauty.


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By inordinate I mean things like canceling a date because you won't have time to do your hair perfectly, or completely avoiding a hike with him because full makeup and hair would be inappropriate. The negative effect of being unwilling to do activities that would require you to not wear makeup (camping, surfing, etc.) by far outweighs the advantage you gain by always being seen at your best - especially considering points #2 and #8. Again, remember the analogy between confidence and beauty, and consider how you'd feel if your normally confident man man turned into a weak pushover in the sack. It is an expression of intimacy - and her confidence - that she can be herself in my presence, and this is worth something. Yes, there are some women who get more benefit from makeup than others, and it is possible for a man to be surprised by how much less attractive a girl looks without it.
The attractiveness of your confidence is much more important than whatever advantage you sacrifice by occasionally being seen without makeup.
The more you allow yourself to enjoy looking beautiful, the less you will resent the "need" to do so, and the more comfortable you will feel when you don't.
Initial experiences leave an impression on the mind much deeper than most of those that follow; this is simply the way the human brain works.


Spending time to make yourself look your best is normal, not inordinate; so err on the side of doing this more frequently rather than less.
There is no point at which you can "relax" without implications while you are both sexually active with each other.
There are some instances in which getting done up just for sex isn't appropriate, and he'd certainly rather have sex with the "au natural" you than not have sex at all.
Just beware that there is an upper limit to the benefit of added effort, since he will see you without makeup eventually. If this seems unfair, remember the analogy between confidence and beauty: you taking a break from being beautiful for him is like him taking a break from being strong and confident for you. But when you have the option to get done up, and you find yourself tempted to think "oh, he doesn't really care" or "we love each other so much it doesn't matter," remember this point.
While you could probably sympathize with your man's desire to relax in this regard, and might even be OK with him showing his weaknesses to you from time to time (see #7 below), you'd prefer to always have him being his strongest, and you wouldn't be any less turned off by his weakness just because time had elapsed in the relationship.



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