Breaking up is tough, and sometimes all we want more than anything is that person who broke our hearts to be back in our lives.
In case you need a reminder of why you and your ex broke up in the first place, well, we’re here for you girl. Okay, I get this, but also, every breakup IS different, and sometimes getting back with your ex can be a good idea. We’ve been together for almost 7 years,until 1 day he just texted me that he doesnt love me anymore, at 1st i was in denial and couldnt accept the fact that he was the 1 who broke up with we. Give us your juiciest, wildest, weirdest and embarrassingest (it’s a word) hook up stories! Your ex boyfriend might have refused to talk to you, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get him back. Speaking for men, we don’t really cut off communication with a girl unless we have a pretty solid reason for it.
In my experience, the most common reason for a guy to stop talking to his girlfriend is because she has been harassing him.
When you are messaging him constantly or commenting on all of his facebook status updates, you are telling him that you are not still needy and desperate.
Maybe your instincts will have you believe that harassing him will make him come back, but it’s not so. OK, I understand it’s a little hard to comprehend the fact that he might move on during the no contact period.
If he has a new girlfriend and she is not letting him talk to you, then you have a serious situation. Basically, when you stop pushing, he will start wondering what happened and will try to contact you. However, if he doesn’t contact you during the no contact period, then you will have to take the matter in your own hands and contact him. For the reply, you can either pick up a message that I wrote in the fourth step of the 5-step plan.
After you initiate contact with him, you have to make sure you don’t project an image of neediness. I am on the NC right now after I broke up with my girlfriend, but her birthday is coming up, should I send her a birthday wish text message or not at all? I would really appreciate your advice as ive read a lot recently & your piece has been the most hopeful for me so far.
Yes, I do think there is a chance and you should read this article to know how to implement no contact rule in your situation. Hey Kevin , me and my ex have been broken up for 2 weeks and I’m heartbroken we had been together 2 years. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for around a year, and he said that he just wanted a break and that he is very stressed right now. So the first step to getting your ex girlfriend (or wife) back is this: admit your mistakes. Just like a kid who has to sit through and meditate on the bad thing he did, you have to remember in detail where you went wrong and admit it to yourself first. Now, if you want to, go ahead and write every time you made her feel bad on a piece of paper. Do you remember when she was ready to kick your a$$ even though you know for sure you did nothing wrong?
Does it make you angry that you were so close to getting this girl, but somehow she slipped through your fingers?
Right now you might be feeling disrespected, betrayed, and feel like your girlfriend’s played you like a fool. You might also feel like your girlfriend could really love you and really care about you if only she knew how great you were (you’re probably right, but as a nice guy, you might never get to experience the full force of your girlfriend’s love). And not only that, I can show you how to get your girlfriend back so that she not only wants to be with you, but she craves and desires you like no other man. I can show you how to get a girl to fall in love with you and be fully committed to you only. Once you understand this, I’ll be able to provide you with the perfect solution (plus action plan) to show you how to get your girlfriend back–with interest! If you don’t do and say the right things around your girlfriend, she’ll lose attraction for you.
If you don’t escalate things properly and lead her the right way, she’ll lose attraction for you. If you don’t have sex with your girlfriend or have sex the right way, she’ll lose attraction for you. If your girlfriend has broken up with you and you want to win her back, it’s crucial that you know how to develop attraction and get her thinking about you. Let’s take a look at all the reasons (yes, all the reasons) why a woman loses attraction for a man and leaves him.
It’s horrible to find yourself in this situation, but when you care more about your girlfriend than she cares about you, then you’re in trouble… big trouble! When a man cares more about a woman, he’s sub-consciously communicating to her that she is higher value than him and he’s lower value than her; to a woman, this is an instant attraction killer.
A woman wants a man that is higher value than her, so that she can feel secure in the knowledge that he can protect her and provide good DNA for her unborn babies. A man that is lower value screams weakness, danger, insecurity and is a bad mating choice for a woman. Do You Feel Like She’s A One In A Million Kind Of Girl (and you’ll never get another girl like her again)? It’s also the same reason why men give so much value to a single woman—because (right or wrong) these men believe that they’ll never meet a girl like her ever again. The problem with this thinking is that it tells your ex girlfriend, again, that she is higher value than you—that is why she is now your ex girlfriend and why she has lost attraction for you. Indeed, your girlfriend might already have packed her bags and left you with no intention of coming back. That’s why it’s crucial that I ask this question: have you had sex with your girlfriend yet? Having sex with your girlfriend is one of the most important things you can do if you want to keep her around.
In reality, the same guy turns up at a romantic location to surprise the girl with flowers.
Not only does this tell your girlfriend that you’re scared of losing her, it also makes her terrified that she’s going to lose her freedom. A woman is like a cat, if you try to restrict her freedom and control her she will run away from you.
But did you know that the more you initiate contact with your girlfriend the less attraction she will feel for you. The simple truth is that if you’re always starting conversations with your girlfriend, whether through text or phone, you’re showing her that you’re chasing her and that she’s more important to you than you are to her. It’s great to love your girlfriend and it’s tempting to constantly express your love and affection towards her.
But if you’re constantly telling your girlfriend that you love her and can’t get enough of her, then you’re setting yourself up for a fall, and she WILL eventually leave you. Men who are very loving and kind towards their girlfriends are often shocked when their girlfriend leaves them out of nowhere (they didn’t even see it coming). These same men also believe that they can get their girlfriend back by escalating their affection even more, by telling their girlfriend how much they love her (sub-communicating: weakness, no challenge, and lower-value). A lot of the time girls will make lots of demands and ask their boyfriends to buy them things and do things for them to in order to make them happy. This scenarios is played out in thousands of different ways and guises across the world, but a classic example of this is when a girl goes shopping and sees something that she likes. The problem with this attitude which has been drilled into us by society and culture is that men start thinking that they have to ask their girlfriend’s opinion on everything.
Apologizing kills attraction and will only add flames to a breakup if you try to get your girlfriend back by constantly apologizing for all the bad things you’ve done (and haven’t done). Human touch is a wonderful thing, it feels great and it bonds us closer to our partner by flooding our brains with oxytocin. The important thing to ask yourself is this: were you the one in the relationship that was always initiating contact with your girlfriend?
When you initiate contact with your girlfriend you’re sub-communicating to her that you need her touch more than she needs yours at that particular moment in time. One of the main complaints I hear from women is that they are suffocating in a relationship and need space. Unfortunately, a lot of guys don’t understand this and they insist on smothering their girlfriend and restricting her freedom until one day she’s had enough and she leaves him. Now in this instance, I’m not talking about the small percentage of men who try to control their girlfriends through physical and verbal abuse. I’m talking about the men who try to lock their girlfriend’s down either by getting her to make a commitment to him, or by monitoring his girlfriend’s every move and constantly checking up on her.
Sometimes her friends and family are jealous that you get to spend more time with her than they do.
As infuriating and frustrating as this can be, it’s important to stay cool when this happens. So how do you get your ex girlfriend back when she succumbs to the pressure of those around her and breaks up with you to make them happy?
Humans have evolved a set of emotions in order to ensure our survival (these emotions include fear, anger, surprise, and disgust). If you’re the jealous type and your girlfriend’s broken up with you, there’s a very good chance that you’ve taken your jealousy too far. If your girlfriend has dumped you or is going cold on you, then it’s normal to expect a certain level of bitchiness from her.
Your girlfriend will only act this way towards you if she’s still uncertain about you, is testing you, or is generally dissatisfied with your behavior.
It’s often tempting when we really like a girl to want to get her to like us no matter what. If you found yourself changing your behavior and personality to please your girlfriend then you’re not being true to yourself and your girlfriend will pick up on this. You might be able to fool a woman for a short time, but it won’t take your girlfriend long to realize that your words and actions lack honesty and come from a place of insecurity. Spending quality time with your girlfriend is what separates you from all the other men out there.
If you aren’t spending quality time with your girlfriend, then your girlfriend will go looking for intimacy from someone else. If this sounds like you, then you’re probably reluctant to reveal your true thoughts and feelings to your girlfriend.
There are many reasons why this is important, but when it comes to getting your ex girlfriend back, there is one reason why being open is so important.
I’ve seen this scenario played out thousands of times, and it’s going to keep playing out for as long as the human race exists.
While it’s true that men are visual creatures, women are audio dominant—this means that it is words that capture her attention and her heart.


Put the most handsome man next to a great talker and the woman will choose the best talker nine times out of ten.
If you’re reading this then I can tell that you’re serious about getting your girlfriend back. For each of the scenarios mentioned above, I can provide you with the best strategy to get your girlfriend back—no matter how distant and withdrawn she seems right now.
That’s why you should never take a woman’s advice, especially when it comes to relationships.
Be warned—I offer foolproof strategies to make your girlfriend fall in love with you and desire only you—if you don’t sincerely want this from your girlfriend, then I strongly advise you to stop reading right now. If, however, you’re serious about getting your girlfriend back then I’m the man to speak to. If your girlfriend has left you or is pulling away from you, I know exactly what to do to help you get your girlfriend back. This is going to sound really weird but for the next month I don’t want you to talk to your ex boyfriend. WHAT???Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
Yup, I know it sounds ridiculous but trust me, doing this will stack the odds in your favor in a very unique way.
Now, that is wrong on so many levels but you are going to use this type of thinking to your advantage. One of the most interesting things about text messaging is the fact that every holds their texts as sacred.
IMPORTANT – You cannot move on to this text message until you successfully complete the first text message above.
The key with this type of text is to get your ex to remember the good parts of your relationship. If you haven’t already realized this, getting your ex back can be a very complicated process. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. Forgot to mention the conversation did not end well as I replied ok and it just ended as he was trying to make a effort to talk! No matter what happened with you and your ex, it’s normal to go through a period of time where you miss them and want to get back together with them. Getting back with your ex is (usually) a step in the wrong direction, and we want you to look forward to the future rather than staying stuck in the past.
I dated a guy for a few months, and he broke up with me due to some misunderstandings, which I completely understood and forgave him for, now we are back together, as he admitted that breaking up was a mistake. My ex suddenly stopped speaking to me and a few weeks later he made an excuse to my friend about his friends being jealous of the amount of time he spent with me, so that’s why he stopped completely. When you call him and tell him that you miss him, you are telling him that you are miserable without him and you will do anything to get him back. There is literally nothing you can do that won’t make you look like a crazy, jealous and stalky ex girlfriend. If you are lucky, it’s just a rebound (Read more about him and his new girlfriend) and it will end soon.
He might not even be able to cope with your silence and start acting a little crazy (angry texts, angry phone calls, mean facebook messages).
This means that the only reason he was so calm about the breakup is because you were making him feel like he still has you.
Of course, before you contact him, you should make sure you have gone through the no-contact period and have done everything you are supposed to do during this time (Read the things you should do during the no contact period). You can go ahead and message him right away if you want as long as you don’t message him something needy. Everything you do or say should send out a message that you are a confident and happy person who is living her life to the fullest.
My best guess is he is having second thoughts about the relationship and he just wants to explore his options.
I was somewhat needy and text him about 6 times no response so should I just not contact anymore?
Apply no contact and realize that you and your baby are better off without him in your life.
Sure, being honest is always good and it will increase your chances but… why not do this the right way. My girlfriend have had the feeling most times but we never knew it was orgasm calling and she panicked. As unromantic as it all sounds, the way a woman acts and responds to you is grounded in biology.
If you haven’t, your chance of getting your girlfriend back decreases significantly—by at least 80%. Unfortunately, I see this all the time with guys throwing compliments at their girlfriends like candy (yes, this includes “liking” all her posts on Facebook too). Embarrassed, the girl reluctantly accepts his offering, cringing inwardly at her ex boyfriends pathetic gesture and public display of weakness. Subconsciously, however, several thoughts are swirling around inside your girlfriend’s head. Their immediate response is to try and lock their girlfriend down and get their girlfriend to commit to them. The girl will then ask her boyfriend to buy something for her because “it will make her happy.” Hold up! Now, don’t get me wrong, I love women, but it’s important to understand that in order to keep a woman and prevent her from leaving you, you need to take the lead in a relationship (this is nature’s natural order—despite what society and culture might tell you).
Sometimes they simply just don’t approve of you (this can be for any number of reasons from personality differences, income, race, religion, age, education, culture, job, social status etc.). They might bad mouth you, they might spread lies, and sometimes they might even act in a hostile manner towards your girlfriend until she takes their advice and breaks up with you. Jealousy is simply another emotion that we have evolved to protect ourselves from being cheated on. Excessive jealousy will tell your girlfriend that you’re insecure and don’t have enough confidence and belief in your own self-worth. Has your girlfriend always acted bitchy, moody and generally disrespectful towards you, or is this a recent thing? In all these scenarios, your girlfriend has a lower than optimal level of attraction for you and you need to do something about that fast.
Remember, women are sensitive creatures and they easily pick up on behavior that isn’t authentic and genuine.
If you haven’t been able to spend quality time (by quality I mean time when she is able to share her feelings with you and be intimate with you), then it’s going to be hard to get much devotion and loyalty from your girlfriend. While it’s always a good idea to hold a little bit back (you don’t want to give away the shop), you want to able to feel free to communicate your thoughts, feelings and demands to your girlfriend.
Girl dates boy, girl can’t stop thinking about ex boyfriend, so she breaks up with boy, hoping to get back with her ex boyfriend.
So, if you find yourself in this situation and you’re trying to win your ex girlfriend over while she’s busy thinking about her ex boyfriend, then there are a couple of things you need to be aware of.
It’s something they find difficult, it doesn’t come naturally and they overthink things. This is great news because it means that you already have the motivation to succeed—now all you need is a tight game plan. As a trained psychologist and relationship expert, I’ve made it my focus over the last seven years to help men resolve their relationship problems and win their girlfriends back. Most women don’t realize what they actually want and like, until someone suddenly takes them by surprise and does the unexpected.
I can draw on all my years of relationship coaching and psychology training to help you know exactly what your girlfriend wants and needs.
Whatever your situation, I recommend going to the emergency help page and getting in touch with me. If your girlfriend has pulled away from you or left you, you need to get the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for an instant solution to your problem.
If you need specific advice to help you get your girlfriend back and keep her, you can book an emergency response email or Skype consultation with me by going to the emergency help page. In fact, if done correctly, a text message can bring up reminiscent feelings that can set you on the right path to getting your ex back. Now, out of those suitors, throughout your years in the dating realm there has had to be one guy that didn’t pick up the hints.
The text receiver was clearly ignoring the sender but they refused to accept that fact so they kept texting until they they could get a response. The better idea is to wait until the opportune moment where can maximize the power of the text message.
By completely taking 30 days to yourself without texting him or talking to him at all you are slowly taking control of the situation.
It is basically the ultimate way to get him checking his phone every five minutes to see if today is the day that YOU will text HIM. The way you accomplish this is by going into great detail on one of the most positive experience that you had together as a couple.
Well the idea behind it is pretty simple, send a text message to your ex that could potentially get him jealous and bring up some of the lovey dovey feelings that he felt during your relationship. He broke up with me because he didnt felt anything for me anymore, one week after our breakup he started to date all of a sudden another girl. So he bought iPhone 6s 9 times and scratched a message into the screen for his ex so that he could show her how much money he's been making and what she's missing out on.
So read these quotes for a few reasons you shouldn’t get back with that loser who broke your heart, stop looking at his pictures and start realizing how terrific you are! Until such time that my friend told me he was cheating while were still together,wats worst was i caught him with another girl. He understands that you are hurt from the breakup, and he understands that you want to convince him to get back together, and he is tired of it.
In fact, everything you do that makes you look needy is going to make your ex boyfriend less attracted to you and more sure about his decision of breaking up.
If this is the situation, then there is nothing you can do unless he decides to end his no contact. If he decided to start no contact, then every message you send him is only going to make you more needy in his idea. If you are unfortunate, he might end up marrying the girl and you will never get to talk to him again. The second one is an obvious ploy to get him to talk to you and the third one is simply boring.
You can set an alarm for 30 minutes on your phone and not reply him until the 30 minutes is over. If you want, you can become acquainted with her, but I think it’ll be better for you to just contact with him and move on. He kept texting casual convo which made me mad because I thought he felt bad for me and would move on and him not wanting to be with me made me feel like a doormat.


I was with my boyfriend for 5.5 years, in this time we were madly in love with eachother, we brought a house together & everything was fine until about 4 months ago i would say! As for whether or not he will come back, no one can say for sure, but it’s worth trying.
A month after the first break-up, we saw each other in our hometown and we got back together.
However, I made a mistake and texted him a few days afterwards and he said that it is over and that he is moving on.. At first he said we can get back together and in the mean time we’ll just be friends. When you’ll eventually walk up to her and you admit what you did wrong, you have to really believe it. Do you feel her slipping further and further away from you, and know that the chance of finding another girlfriend like her ever again is next to impossible? This ultimately hinders the seduction process and, in most cases, it stops a man’s girlfriend from ever really connecting with him. What a woman thinks she likes and wants and what she actually likes and wants are two separate things. From there I’ll be able to show you how to get your girlfriend back and attracted to you like never before. This guide will show you the fastest and easiest way to get your girlfriend back and keep her.
However, there seems to be a huge misunderstanding among the women out there on how to actually use text messaging effectively.
Most women fail at texting their exes for the simple fact that they commit this texting sin and quite honestly it’s not even their fault.
First though, before we can do that, we are going to have to figure out how to create that opportune moment. After basically blowing off your ex for a month straight your first text to them better have some substance to it. It is like their phone is their own personal sanctuary holding all their secrets and feelings about things.
If you do this correctly you will bring up his most positive feelings about the relationship and get him thinking about you in a different more positive light. As a guy I can tell you that nothing makes you want a girl more than when you see her talking with another guy that is even moderately attractive. Don’t worry, I got your back and I want to help you understand the best way you can get him back.
I told him I had been busy he said i could of replied obviously I would see his messages and calls and ask why I ignored him also we have had came to terms to be friends and then I done the the nc and he started missing me but I broke it because he message my sister asking where I was and then asked why I had been ignoring him what should I do?
Daily we add hundreds of pictures, dozens of videos, flash games, celebrities and other great stuff. I’m just saying, because you should keep in mind that it depends on the person and the situation. I am sure that’s not what you want, that’s why you should take a step back and go on no contact for a while.
One day I missed him a lot and I threw a little tantrum saying things are getting tough whenever I miss you. He told me that he regretted breaking up with me, that he missed me,loved me, and I missed him too really, but a few days later I had to leave back to college and that meant not seeing him again.
And one of his kind of close friends said that he really didn’t want to do this that his grades were just slipping. I am not going to lie to you, sending a text message is a huge risk, if done incorrectly you will decimate any chance you have of that happy reunion you keep daydreaming about.
Right after a break up everyone involved is out of whack emotionally and are prone to do some really stupid things. In fact, you have to slowly lead up to the moment where he or you will hopefully go out on a date again. I always like to say that you should make your first contact text so interesting that they have no choice but to respond. Now, while it is important that you get him to think positively about you it is also extremely important that you remain as positive as well.
I remember once that one of my married friends told me something very interesting about the male psyche. There is a lot more to this process and quite frankly this page doesn’t do a great job of describing exactly what you do step by step. I still love him i’ve been chasing him for over 2years right now and sometimes our chats go okay and sometimes it turns into a fight.
I don’t like being judged for getting back together with him, it was a decision we made together.
If he still doesn’t respond, then you can either try again after 15 days or try to move on (my advice will be to move on, but I have a feeling you won’t take it).
I don’t want to sugarcoat it but if a guy lets a girl decide whom he talks to, then he is pretty serious about her. As well as all this i was very unhappy in my job to the point ide cry at breakfast from frustration, i let go of myself & the person he fell in love with, i nagged him a lot & made him feel bad for having fun!
If he doesn’t want a relationship right now, does that mean that he doesn’t want a relationship all of school?
I have heard plenty of stories where women, in the heat of the moment, texted their exes multiple times, even after getting no response. So, if you are intrigued by this method but very confused I urge you to visit get my guide, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO. I was attatched to him and that was my fault i dont talk to him only if he starts talking to me because i dont want to scare him off.
Handle every single text and interaction you have with your ex with as much grace as possible. It may take you a while to read through the entire thing but it will break every step of the ex recovery process down for you, in-depth. I told him I would be home that night after having an emotional breakdown but ended up falling asleep on my friend’s couch.
We decided we only wanted each other and to stay together until they were in College and then be married.
You see our relationship was starting to head south at the end of our relationship, and it was apparent that he was very stressed out because of school, exams, and pressure from his parents. Since you are on my site I am assuming that you are interested in somehow trying to get your boyfriend back. It will also go into extreme detail about how you can use text messages to get your ex boyfriend back. He said the more we love each other, we would miss each other more and he don’t want a girlfriend who lives 100s of miles away. He told my mum that there is zero hope for us he doesnt want this no way no how despite the fact that i found out that 2 months ago he asked my mum for my hand in marriage!
No matter how hard it is or how much you want to talk to him DO NOT DO IT, even if he responds you have to ignore it. I saw something on his profile then, got me pissed and I deleted him, him and all of his friends then.
I just want to fix and revive our relationship, I realize that he still has feelings for me but I am terrified that he is going to just give up and move on completely.
Then i went into stupid phase recently begging him to give us a chance while he says theres no hope & he doesnt love me the same way as before!
We own a house together & hes already called someone to come talk to us about our options & either selling or getting one of our names off! I took a flight to see him without telling him, he opened the door for me then kept saying we can’t be together. Im my heart im praying to God he sees sense because he is truly the man i wanted to have a future & partnership with. When I said something about it he sent a text he was fed up and wanted a break and for me to leave him alone. When he got home he talked saying that I could live in the apartment and he would stay elsewhere. He said I just kept bringing him down with me when I was upset and that he couldn’t take it anymore.
He left to go spend time with family and when he came back we got in a fight and I ended up calling my parents saying I couldn’t be there anymore. I was too angry at the time and I wanted time alone as I know he just don’t want me to stay in his flat. And I still love him a lot…I try so hard to distract myself but deep down I still want him. On the way home he began to cry, which he never does, and I tried to get him to talk to me.
We sat in the car and he told me he didn’t want to be distanced from his daughter and cried more.
I then told him he cant force himself to have feelings for me that aren’t there and he began to cry more.
That night his mom came to get him to try to take his mind off of things and she ended up telling me I was being selfish.
I responded by saying I needed to leave to get help for my depression that made him feel like I brought him down with me. The next day my parents came to get me and that night he texted me saying he hopes I made it safely. The first few days I texted him saying I missed him and that I loved him but he would ignore my texts. He called saying there is no chance of us getting back together but we can be friends and see where it goes from there. I also noticed he was talking to his ex who from what he told me didn’t make him happy. A week after he broke up with me I texted him an update of the baby and that I did indeed tell the doctor that I have been depressed for years and I had gotten anti depressents.
He said Thats great to the baby update and Thats good to me getting help and somehow it got brought up about us getting back together and he said he would never have feelings for me again.
We didn’t text for two days then he texted me asking a question about something and I asked him about his family who has been ill and how he was doing.
His response was just the word alright and he said he was tired so I said okay and to text me later. He keeps telling me one thing then tells me another and Im confused and I feel like he is too.




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