Before I really get started I want to mention that while this guide is probably one of the most in-depth ones ever created about long distance relationships it pails in comparison to my systems, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO and The Texting Bible. In other words, if you want even more personalized and in-depth information I recommend checking those out.
Long Distance Relationships- A specific type of relationship where the couple is separated by a considerable amount of distance. Now, lets talk a little about the different kinds of long distance relationships that currently exist.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
This is another one of those stories I hear way too often when it comes to long distance relationships. We have already established that successful couples are always communicating with each other via a phone. Actually, the first time I heard about Skype was from a buddy of mine who was dating a girl that had left for college across the country.
While things like Skype and FaceTime are fantastic tools for maintaining a technological closeness with your significant other nothing can beat actually seeing them in person. This point kind of goes hand in hand with the one above, in order to see your significant other someone in the relationship has to be willing to shell out the $’s. This may be a little controversial but this is my firm belief, no relationship can survive without sex. So, that leaves you in a really bad spot when you first embark on a long distance relationship. My friend (who I have mentioned a couple of times already on this page already) is one of the few people I know who has made a long distance relationship work.
I wanted to put this section on this page for one simple reason, I want YOU to know if you are cut out for a long distance relationship.
What I am about to say is really important so I want to make sure that you are listening because I am about to give you the key to knowing if a LDR with your ex boyfriend could possibly work if you get back together.
While you are figuring out that little nugget of knowledge I gave you in the section above lets talk about some of the things you have working against you in a long distance relationship.
Make no mistake about it, being able to see someone you care about in person is a distinct advantage that regular relationships have over long distance ones. Another negative of LDR’s is that you cannot attend your significant others birthday in person. Lets fast forward for a minute and pretend that you and your ex boyfriend got back together. I saved this one for last for a reason, because it is the number one killer of long distance relationships.
Adding insult to injury, it is likely you won’t have any clue because the two of you are separated by so much distance.
You clearly want him back but are completely unsure on how to approach things because there is a great distance separating you. You can implement a no contact rule and work on evolving while the dust settles from the breakup fallout. The No Contact Rule– A set period of time where you will not text, call, email, facebook, google plus, snap chat, skype or talk to your ex in any way shape or form.
Since that person emailed me wanting to know more about the guys perspective during the NC rule I figured everyone would so I wanted to put this section in. Day 30: You send out your first text to him and he literally runs around like a little girl filled with excitement.
Usually, with a normal relationship I recommend that women evolve during the 30 days into basically the hottest version of themselves that ever existed.
The fact that it could be months before you see your ex in person just means that you have more time to prepare, more time to knock his socks off when he sees you.
I recommend picking up my book, Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO for ideas on how you can change both mentally and physically during the NC period. You are about to find out that the rules are just a little bit different when it comes to contacting an ex in a long distance relationship. IF you do succeed in reuniting you have to find ways around the headwind I talked about above. Before I dive in to the first contact text message I just want to make you aware that the example texts found below aren’t going to be enough for you.
The first contact you have with your ex should be done via a text message like I recommend throughout my site.
Remember, your first contact text message has to be so intriguing that he will have no choice BUT to respond.
The key with sending a first contact text message to a LDR isn’t to try to get him back. If you are familiar with my monster 10k word post on how to get your ex boyfriend back then you should be familiar with this text message. Now, I do feel it is important to point out that you can’t use any sexual memories or anything of that nature yet. Of course, you do have a small problem since you were in a long distance relationship with this person.
As far as using jealousy directly with your ex via a text message the key here is to be subtle.
I don’t care what she looks like, as long as I am getting compliments I am doing things right. Part of the reason that I made you jump through all those texting hoops in the previous section (first contact, meme, etc) was to kind of butter your ex up for this type of a text message.
If you were in a long distance relationship then I am sure you are pretty aware of what Skype and FaceTime are.
Alright, you are going to make a phone call to your ex and see if you can set up a date where you two can see each other. My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. If you want this to work then you better have a legitimate reason for wanting to get back together with your ex.
As I am sure you have already figured out, men are quite complicated when it comes to relationships. They did not find you physically or emotionally attractive but cared enough about your feelings to not tell you to your face. I will say that out of all the reasons I listed on this page this one gave me the most trouble.
A very popular topic here on our site except usually people ask about it if they were the ones who were cheated on. Getting your ex boyfriend back is a very complicated subject that few are willing to dive into, luckily, I am one of those few.
The next day he sent an neutral apology text but it was only after I told his mom abt it who said she had a word with him last night.
Right after that revelation he said he was sorry that He made me feel like that and we hugged.
I guess now, is it right for me to continue being cordial and also inviting him (not too much, but every now and then) out to do new things to build some new positive memories? I guess I’m trying to give us both a positive aftertaste of the relationship between us. Any advice for a somewhat unstable time because there is a big possibility that he’s hot this one moment and will be cold in a little bit.
Thank you for replying ?? I wish there was an expanded section on what to do if you live with your ex. From my last post, I initiate contact every now and then because I believe he still thinks it’s what he wants (that i need to do something for him to look at me).
So, I’m not sure if NC is worth going back into at this point as it gives in to more damage?
It’s very hard with the flip flop, I was thankful that the talk we had yielded something positive like him telling me to stay longer and not move out. Well, to me it was too fast but not to blame him, he himself started everything so fast – he knew he liked me just after a few days talking, he fell in love with me before we were in an official relationship and he said that he loved me first after around a month in a relationship. My ex and I have had a roller coster relationship for the last two years and have broken up numerous times. But each time I talk about meeting so that we can talk about the problems because they were affecting our relationship, but he kept refusing and making up some excuse.
I just wanted to show him that I’ve had enough of his treatment and I wanted him to treat me better (which I said in the breakup text).
If you've been broken up for a longer period of time and would like to start dating your ex boyfriend again, getting back together is actually a lot easier than if you'd just stopped seeing each other.
The one thing you'll both need to be careful of when getting back together is moving too fast. Depending upon how you broke up, and who initiated the end of the relationship, first contact with your ex can be a little tricky. It should be easy to set up a "hey let's catch up with each other" meeting with your exboyfriend.
While you're talking about all these great things, try to feel your ex out on where he stands. On the other hand, if there was infidelity or cheating involved, each of you will need to reconcile it. One of the things you should have the least amount of trouble with will be rekindling the physical side of your old relationship. The familiarity of sleeping with your ex is a very comfortable thing, and the sex will be made even better by the fact that you've missed each other for so long.
In the end, you'll want to be sending out signals to your ex-boyfriend that you'd like to date him again.
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Okay, I get this, but also, every breakup IS different, and sometimes getting back with your ex can be a good idea. We’ve been together for almost 7 years,until 1 day he just texted me that he doesnt love me anymore, at 1st i was in denial and couldnt accept the fact that he was the 1 who broke up with we. Give us your juiciest, wildest, weirdest and embarrassingest (it’s a word) hook up stories! I mean, you don’t really need to know what a LDR (long distance relationship) is right?
In this type of relationship the two of you have never met on person, you have only ever met online. If you are here it is most likely because you and your ex had a long distance relationship but you are now broken up. I mean, for god sakes there is an entire section of this website dedicated solely to texting. I remember him telling me that they skyped every single day and it had helped a lot to maintain the closeness that both of them were so vigorously craving. I have no statistics to back up the claim I am about to make but I think women can go without sex longer than men can. You see, in order to get your ex boyfriend back if there is a considerable amount of distance separating you right now it is important to discuss all of the things that you have to overcome.
Don’t get too down though because I am going to give you the tools to combat all of this headwind later in this article. Admittedly, it will be more effective if you and your ex were used to talking to each other every single day.
One of my visitors was reading through the site and found solace in a paragraph on one of the pages.
Remember, this isn’t a vacation and if you want him back you have to be willing to put int the work. That means, women in normal relationships have 30 days before they potentially could see their ex in person.
If you are an avid reader of this site then you will find the next phrase I am about to say all too familiar. In this section I am going to give a pretty in-depth game plan that you should follow when talking to an ex who you were in a long distance relationship with.
With this text message you are really trying to get your ex boyfriend to remember some of the good memories you had together.
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The key to pulling off a jealousy text isn’t to actually tell your ex that you are out with someone new, it is to plant the idea in their head and let their minds run wild with all kinds of assumptions. The reason this text is amazing at making an ex boyfriend jealous is that it is so subtle that your ex has to make all kinds of assumptions. Personally speaking, I am one compliment from the opposite sex away from having a great day.
Obviously, you are looking for another positive response from your long distance partner here. If not, they are essentially video software you can download to your smartphone (or computer) that will let you talk to the person face to face electronically. Since there is long distance involved one of you is going to have to agree to come see the other one. A kind of condensed version of getting your ex boyfriend back if you are in a long distance relationship. It’s not so easy to have that casual cup of coffee or dinner to see if things are still possible because it would involve one of us getting on a plane. I wrote an entire page covering them here: Legitimate Reasons To Get Back With Your Ex Boyfriend.
It is entirely possible that he just got really bored with the relationship and wanted to move on.
Take out a sheet of paper and list all the real reasons that you can come up with that would make him break up with you. Here is the deal, if you were constantly nagging your ex or criticizing him there will eventually be a point where he can’t take it anymore. The only thing I can think of, if your ex gives you this reason, is that he is really angry about something that he refuses to talk about it. In this case, we are flipping the coin and looking at how you can recover if YOU were the one who cheated on them. However, I want to ask you to consult the list of legitimate reasons before you go through with anything. Here is the deal though, I am not going to give you the exact steps to getting your ex back on this page. He’s hurt and wants to work on his career and his life because he blames the relationship for not being able to perform (another story for next time, but I find hay hard to believe because I was always supportive of both his career and him and his friends). It went somewhat okay, until I told him that it may be better for me to leave the apt because I didn’t want to hold him back. I still want to work on myself at the same time, just being happier at the same time, not waste opportunities with him. I think it’s the one with the most opportunity to do something but also the most volatile situation because too much can be done and too little may not be enough.
I think what was missing from the post was more about the flip-flopping of emotions from the ex-bf. We went to the movies the other day and he enjoyed it, but the next day went back to his routine of ignoring me.
He joked one time at dinner that this is why I should stay…because we would have good times like this at dinner. We spent all days messaging each other, and it seemed awesome, but he didn’t really want to meet with me. I’m sorry that this is going to be long, I just want to give as many details I can to explain my situation. We were living together for about 6 years and now have 3 cats together which we both call our children.
For the first week I’ve tried to talk to him and convince him to come back, he said he made his decision and I need to respect it. First time he texted me to let me know he will come to pick his stuff so I will know not to be at home (even though he knows I’m at work at that time). On one hand he says he doesn’t love me anymore on the other hand he is the one sending texts. My bf of 4 months broke up with me 3 weeks ago and I had no contact with him for already 17 days now (when we had contact, I didn’t beg or plea whatsoever — we just discussed about the reason he broke up with me). He started ignoring me and my messages because he was having problems in all areas of his life. JacksonThe internet's most popular guide to getting back with your ex!Join thousands of couples who have already repaired their break up.
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No matter what happened with you and your ex, it’s normal to go through a period of time where you miss them and want to get back together with them.
Getting back with your ex is (usually) a step in the wrong direction, and we want you to look forward to the future rather than staying stuck in the past. I dated a guy for a few months, and he broke up with me due to some misunderstandings, which I completely understood and forgave him for, now we are back together, as he admitted that breaking up was a mistake. My ex suddenly stopped speaking to me and a few weeks later he made an excuse to my friend about his friends being jealous of the amount of time he spent with me, so that’s why he stopped completely.
Today, I am going to tackle this very complex subject and give you a set of actionable steps you can take to drastically improve your chances of getting your relationship back. In my mind, a true long distance relationship is one where you are separated by states, countries or even oceans. A couple is dating and due to a certain set of circumstances one of them has to relocate (very similarly to the marriage LDR above.) Of course, there is one BIG difference. The thing is though, when you met online you were separated by a considerable amount of distance and even today you are separated by a considerable amount of distance. Nevertheless, you are here because you want your ex back and you are willing to do whatever it takes. Of course, couples in long distance relationships take things a step further by actually doing things together on the phone. Unsuccessful LDR’s usually have one couple member constantly freaking out over what the other one is doing.
For a couple separated by distance it is imperative that you take advantage of such electronic inventions.
I don’t care what you say, in my mind nothing beats seeing someone you care about in person.
He has been dating his girlfriend for about five years (two of which were long distance.) When I asked him how he did it, how he could bear being away from his girlfriend that long he muttered two simple words. I am not going to lie to you, most long distance relationships I have dealt with fall apart because they require an extreme amount of patience and dedication. Essentially I gave you the qualities that you need to have in order to be willing to have a LDR.
They do their best to call each other every day but their schedules are so busy that they sometimes forget to. What it all boils down to is that when you are physical with someone it provides a sense of security and togetherness that you just can’t make up over long distance. While some guys will say they hate dating I think most of us enjoy them a lot more than we let on. Well, in order to keep your relationship alive you have agreed that you will commute to see each other more in person. However, even if that wasn’t the case I would still recommend doing the no contact rule. If you do slip up and talk to your ex then you are going to have to start over from day 1 again. Now, people in long distance relationships have a pretty good advantage over normal relationships when it comes to this section. While a lot can happen over the month I am not entirely sold on a life changing transformation happening in that amount of time.
I will never forget the time when I was a little boy and went with my dad to watch him negotiate for a car at a car dealership. Also, another little nugget of knowledge I can give you is to make sure you use a lot of details. Yes, it is a risk and you could fall flat on your face but in the end fortune favors the brave so it is time to be brave.
He left for a good job and originally we had no plans as to who would move other than knowing that we would have to be apart for at least two years due to my work here. I found this very frustrating because the foundation of a good long-term relationship is that strong friendship and history, but he’s never been in a relationship before this so he has nothing to compare it to. I want you to have a healthy and long relationship so that is why I am preaching this so much. First off, most of the time they are lying to you about the real reason why they wanted to breakup. Here is the good news, the fact that your ex cared enough to lie to you, to spare your feelings, is not a negative thing, it’s actually a positive. I will admit, this reason is really tough to deal with because your ex boyfriend isn’t communicating with you at all.
Cheating is kind of tricky, there is a lot to go into but I don’t think this is the page is the proper place to do so, I can tell you that usually women cheat for emotional reasons. If you consult the list and decide you still want your ex boyfriend back just realize that it is not going to be easy. We had a great time together but I don’t know if I should just let it go and maybe try again in a while.
Then the next night, he acts as if nothing happened and insisted that I get the strangers number (ie confront him and not call building security) so ex can have it. Issues like this I thought were necessary to bring up to the ex because it was a safety issue. Next night, we had dinner and he said I shouldn’t move out yet because we would miss out on nice things like this (having dinner at one of our fave spots and just enjoying conversation). I did go on no-contact for a couple of weeks (minimal talk etc) as recommended for those living together. But also, I don’t see myself changing from being a relative introvert to the extrovert he wants me to be. He asked me out for the first time after 2 weeks of everyday messaging and after that we saw each other after a month(though we saw each other a little at work).
The reason he gave for not wanting to meet me more often was, that he doesn’t want a relationship right now, but if I give him time it could be different.
He said I deserve someone who will want to marry me and will want to be at home with me (he was barely at home – working a lot and going out with friends).
If he wants me out of his life why not to take care of everything there is regarding the apartment and just disappear? We knew each other for 6 months and we were on LDR, but everything went so fast because he and I were having a good feeling about us. I posted a cute pic of me and my girlfriends last week on FB and he consequently deleted me off his friends. We had been in a serious relationship for about 9 months and in December last year, he proposed. I tried to be understanding and gave him space on the matter because he said that we would talk about it when we meet again.
Last week, he told me that he’s going to settle in another country and wants me to go stay with him after about 4 months.
So read these quotes for a few reasons you shouldn’t get back with that loser who broke your heart, stop looking at his pictures and start realizing how terrific you are! Until such time that my friend told me he was cheating while were still together,wats worst was i caught him with another girl. Now, I do want to give you a word of warning that this page is probably going to end up being the second longest in the history of this site. However, after time one of the couple members are presented with an opportunity that causes them to move away for a considerable distance (or in some cases they are forced to.) If you and your ex are in a situation like this then this page can work for you.
Instead of relocating indefinitely the person that relocated is only going to be gone for a few months.
Well, I suppose I should never say never but I am generally not a fan of them for one specific reason. I remember staying up so late at night and literally talking until a girl would fall asleep on the phone with me. In addition, I gave you the qualities that you can’t have if you are going to do a LDR.
I want you to think really hard and figure out if you think HE has what it takes to make a LDR work.
The distance causes problems mostly because they haven’t seen each other in person in two months. No doubt about it this is some serious headwind that you are going to have to figure out a way to overcome.


These dry spells will make that man horny and he will be more likely to cheat because of that.
Where you have the advantage is the fact that it could be months before you even get to see your ex. We want what we can’t have and since I am assuming that you want your ex boyfriend back really really badly right now he is sensing that he can have you. The thing about my dad is that he is always prepared when it comes to these types of things. I would like to recommend that you run it through what I like to call the first contact text.
Actually, I don’t want to dive in too deeply here because I already created a post that will help you pimp out your Facebook profile and I cover jealousy in there too!
However, every once in a while there is a man that will reverse engineer the process and wind up on this site because he wants his ex girlfriend back. If you are going to compliment your ex boyfriend who you were in a long distance relationship with you have to be really careful.
I just want you to discuss your relationship and any feelings that you may be having for each other still.
That will require you to clear your schedule and have some extra spending cash which is why I want you to call him and let him know (to see if he digs the idea or not.) If he does then you are in! We began to argue in November when he decided that he didn’t want to come back and instead wanted me to go there. However, I also understand that the distance made it hard to keep the romance alive and we could have definitely worked harder on that. We had a period of no contact that did work very well for us actually but we’re still not together again. This page is going to focus on what steps you can take to get your ex boyfriend back if he broke up with you. What I am going to do for you is take the most common reasons that men use for a break up and tell you what they really mean. Secondly, they weren’t specific about anything that you did that caused the breakup essentially leaving you in limbo land to wonder what went wrong. In fact, nothing is a bigger turnoff to a man than a woman pointing out everything he is doing wrong. You hurt this person and you are going to have to work extremely hard to gain back their trust.
And I’ve been trying to make things better ever since because I knew I did it when I was mad and high on emotion, zero logic. This made me burst into tears and walk back in my room (sleeping separately now) and just cry. Then, we had a discussion and he immediately pointed out that i did nothing (because i did NC) to show him anything worth coming back to. Heal first and start to do things that can help you be more emotionally stable before trying to talk to him.. I had tough time dealing with it, but agreed, cause I really liked him a lot, and he said he likes me too, but doesn’t want to force it. Than a week later he texted me we need to arrange internet payments, I said I can’t deal with that emotionally right now and that he can do whatever he wants about it. I want him back because I think what we had was great and we could have a great future together.
But I told him that I needed to know everything that was going on and why he wanted to live in another country thousands of miles away.
I’m just saying, because you should keep in mind that it depends on the person and the situation.
A lot of people have contacted me directly begging for a page like this so I took a lot of time to research and brainstorm a plan for getting an ex back in this specific circumstance. If handled incorrectly this negotiation (for the commuted) could cause a strain in your relationship. Now, I want to give you a little notice here, I am not one of those people that is going to fill your head up with all sorts of lies saying that the methods talked about on this page are guaranteed to have him crawling back to you. Now, I do feel it is important to mention that even though some of these reasons may be hard to face, it doesn’t mean all hope is lost, in fact, I think you will be fired up and ready to get him back after I break these down for you.
Whatever the case, think really hard about if you want to get back with a person that literally numbed you enough that you cheated on them.
What could the ex-gf like me do to quell the situation (when he takes stabs at me) and make things work to my advantage? How does the ex-gf manage in the situation overall so they don’t get burned in the next steps? So it went on with the two of us talking all the time, being exclusive with each other, but during the 1,5 month we only met 3 times. I just hate the idea, that one day he’s going to be ready to be in a relationship and he will date someone else.
I’ll say again that everytime I get a text is after I post a happy picture of myself on FB and Instagram.
Worst thing that i do really love him and i dont understand how he made this decision, if he ever regret about it and if there is a chance to have him back??? But at the same time I also want to honor his request not to have contact and heal our own wounds for the time being. I don’t like being judged for getting back together with him, it was a decision we made together.
However, a lot of people aren’t like me when it comes to long distance relationships.
These are all very important bonding moments in a relationships life and you could be missing out on them.
So, when the time came to haggle over the price the car salesman and my dad went back and forth. It is important that YOU end it because it puts you in a position of power and will hopefully leave him wanting more. Things were ok for the next few months and I even surprised him in February for 5 days and we had a great time. We both strive on long distance and it worked out very well for us until we randomly split. All I will say is this, if you follow the advice on this page your chances of getting him back will increase dramatically. Every time you nag or criticize him (to a great extent) you are hurting your mans confidence and lowering your value in his eyes. I have found that a lot of times women who cheated on their boyfriends and then wanted them back do so because they didn’t realize how good they had it with their ex boyfriend until they see how bad the relationship is with their new boyfriend. I gained almost 100 pounds during my pregnancy and when I finally had my son I got postpartum. We tried working on things but everytime we hit a milestone something happens than sets him back and makes him hesitant to work on it. Further interaction included me asking him to fix the door to make sure no one comes in the house.
I was not vedy happy about the situation, and told him I feel like he just doesn’t want a relationship with me in particular, which he denied. In a LDR that just isn’t possible and as a result you are missing out on important bonding time that could further cement your relationship. They haggled and haggled and haggled until my dad determined that he wasn’t going to be getting the price he wanted.
Then about a month and a half ago he started saying that he was feeling pressured by the idea of me moving. He had a relationship with a married woman but then after two months he said he wants to make up with me.
The good news in this case is that this is something you can fix since you control what you say.
I was being overwhelming before the break up but at that moment, I just talk to him, I listen we agreed to be friends and i said that I understand he is frustrated with things so that I didn’t want to be another reason for him to get stressed.
I pushed everyone out of my life including my future husband and hide in the baby’s room. Twice it happened and a lot of the times it was in his mind that he’s convinced to not try anymore for us. He also had issues with me not going out with him and his friends – which I started doing on weekends since I realised it was important to him. Right on the day when he left, he asked for a time off because he felt something wrong about the relationship. One of my best friends dated his girlfriend (long distance) for two years and they are still together today. I slept with him the first time we met after the break up because I was so pulled by the emotions.
I started to ignore him (basically no contact before I knew what It was) and he came back and said how sorry he was blah blah blah we basically started talking again. He turn to his only friend in the city who just happened to be female and I thought he was cheating on me. A week after that (during which we met again, this time it was fun, and not awkward and during which he talked to me much less than before) he texting me in night, a little drunk I would say, that he can’t be a guy for me and I deserve someone better.
Although I was so sad about that, I agreed and let him alone (so basically we haven’t really talk for 1 month other than about the break up itself). He has things in his life he needs to deal with and doesn’t want me to be part of it.
He contacted me after around a week off, and the reason of him breaking up with me was because he got this gut feeling that it won’t work out between us. That time the trust was not really got back, after 2 to 3 months we again had fights and arguements.
I tried to convince him, that it doesn’t matter, and asked him if he thinks there is no chance we could ever be together, and he said no. He also mentioned that it was so intense when we were together but he didn’t really give me a hard explanation on his decision.
It lasted a while before he randomly called and said he was planning to move to (where I live) still and he wanted to get back together with me as soon as he was living here. After than conversation, where he said he was not seeing any one else, he started being distant.
The break up was rather amicable, we both cried and said thanks and sorry and wished each other good luck in life.
We were even supposed to meet, but he cancelled, and the next day texted me it’s really over and I should forget about him. I agree that we need a break until that time comes) We started talking again and things were pretty good until he started to try and make me jealous. It was obviously intentional and he admitted to his friend (who is also my friend and he told me) that he was in fact trying to make me jealous.
I broke it after 2 weeks and texted him I’m sorry for pushing him to relationship and being clingy when he ended it, wished him all good in life and to meet someone who will make him happy, because it is obviuosly not me, when he let me to so easy. I even gain weight a lot and last april 23 he broke up with me because he had a new gf who happened to be a resident where he is working now. Anyway a few days after that me and the friend from before got in a huge fight and they told me to kill myself (yikes) and then ran and told him that I hurt them and said bad things or whatever.
When he said its over, I just reply that I will let him go since it is the 2nd time and it is his decision.
Today he was fishing for me to tell him that his son and I still need him and I stupidly fell for it. He replied to that message 3 days later, saying thank you for the wish, and wish you all the best.
He kept telling me he likes me, and there’s nothing wrong with me, how awesome I am, yet he broke it off and never really let me in, or spend much time with me. And one last thing, a gf of 1,5 year broke up with him about 2 months before we met..were I a rebound?
He tried to make me jealous once again and I think he was planning on dating her too, but she basically cut him off from her life completely.
I guess my question is do you think he is lying about seeing a future with us together again? I found your site helpful especially that you are pointing on our selves being hurt the most. I know that he wants me back and he has said so too (mentioned above) but I still have no clue what to do.



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