Of course, as time ticks by you begin to realize just how much she meant to you.  How in love with her you really were. Before you sent that text your hopes were so high, you were daydreaming of your future together with her.
So, the question you are probably wondering is how the heck are you supposed to navigate a situation like this where you want your ex girlfriend back but she has moved on to a new boyfriend.Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back? I suppose the best place to start is by taking a look at the potential risks of trying to get an ex with a new boyfriend back. For example, you obviously came to this page because you want your ex girlfriend back and she has a new boyfriend. Men, by nature, are very protective of their women so I guarantee you that to the new boyfriend you trying to get his girlfriend back is going to paint you in a light where you are an enemy. So, obviously the big risk you run by trying to win your ex girlfriend back in this case is that you could become a common enemy between your ex and her new boyfriend which will ultimately cause them to be closer together.
Being a common enemy between your ex and her new boyfriend is one of the worst positions that you could possibly be in.
If you can be subtle but effective in your intentions to win your ex girlfriend back you will most likely NOT be looked at by your ex as a common enemy. Lets say that you are very subtle in your intentions to get your ex girlfriend back but over time your methods start to work.
Inevitably she is going to talk to the one person who is supposed to support her and understand her no matter what, her boyfriend. She may not be completely honest with him about what is going on in her mind but she is going to say things to him to try to test him to see if he is ready for the truth. Eventually the truth is going to come out and how do you think the new boyfriend is going to react to discovering that his girlfriend (your ex) is still hung up on you? In fact, a massive fight or breakup might occur and now you are looking like you are in a really good position.
Again, YOU didn’t physically cause this breakup or fight, your ex did because of her feelings for you.
So, I am not going to sit here and tell you that if you follow every little step I outline on this page that your ex girlfriend is going to break up with her current boyfriend and come running back to you. Ok, let me put this in simpler terms so you really have a good grasp at what this page is going to do for you. Imagine for a moment that in every single breakup that occurs between a couple a certain percentage is assigned to it. You may have noticed that I gave people whose exes have moved on to another man a 20% chance of getting back together.
Well, that 20% number is based on you trying to get your girlfriend back without any of my advice. Imagine that you follow the advice on this page and get to a place where your ex girlfriend is confused about her feelings for you and her new boyfriend. Anyways, I think it’s safe to say that your ex girlfriend is going to be comparing her relationship with her new boyfriend to her relationship with you. If your ex girlfriends new boyfriend does that during their relationship and you didn’t during yours with her then when she is going to make the comparison between you and her new guy she is definitely going to think the new guy is better and that is going to put you at a disadvantage. Because usually a girl who has a better guy isn’t going to leave him to put herself back in a situation where she is treated poorly. One of the biggest assets I can bring to you with this page is my experience in dealing with thousands of couples. That some of these women want their exes back even after they have done HORRIBLE things to them. For example, there was once a girl that came to my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, who was dating a new guy but wanted her ex back even though he cheated on her six times with six different women. So, what did this guy (who had done horrible things to her in the past) have that drew her in so much that she wanted to leave her perfectly good boyfriend?
At first that was what I thought but the more I talked to her about her particular situation I began to realize that there was something else going on in her head.
In other words, even though some women find themselves in a situation where they are clearly better off relationship wise sometimes the appeal of the connection can trump everything. For example, if your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend that treats her like a queen she may still be more drawn to you because she has a connection with you that the new boyfriend can’t top. So, if you were to ask me how to get your ex girlfriend back in a situation where she has moved on and her new man treats her well then I would say you would have to hit her where she will be affected most, her romantic feelings for you. Like I said, a comparison between you and the new guy is eventually going to happen no matter what it just a question of when. Well, lets pretend that your ex girlfriend has been dating her new boyfriend for 2 months exactly.
Then that is a very good sign because it means you are winning the comparison battle against her new guy.
If your ex girlfriends new boyfriend isn’t treating her the way a woman should be treated in a relationship then she could soon be maneuvering to go back to the thing that makes her feel better than anything, YOU!
Believe it or not but your ex girlfriend moving on may actually be a good thing in the long run. For example, if your ex girlfriend breaks up with you and starts dating someone new who treats her really well like we talked about in the comparison section above your exes GIGS is going to be verified and as a result it is going to be much harder to get her back. I want you to be aware that the GIGS exists and could have been a possible reason for the breakup between you and your ex.
The game plan is divided into four major steps and as usual I will be giving you a lot of in-depth insight into each one of these steps. First though, lets take a look at the steps you will need to successfully complete to even have a chance of getting your girlfriend back. I have been doing this for quite some time and I have seen firsthand how hard it is for some men to stay in NC when they see their woman with another man.
If you could compare a relationship to a fire a woman would expect the man to start that fire. One of the greatest fears for men who enter into the NC rule during this situation is that their exes are going to get so close to their new man that they will completely forget about their old one. Ok, imagine if you completed your no contact rule and called your ex and begged for her back.
I know that may sound a little controlling or possessive but the truth is I honestly don’t care at this point. I know that may sound weird and counterproductive but if you really think about it, it’s not.
Like I said above, it is very rare for a man to be ok with the fact that his girlfriend or wife is good friends with her ex.
In other words, you becoming friends with your ex is going to cause your exes new man to go absolutely ballistic when he finds out that she is talking to you and this is what you want. Providing emotional support for your ex girlfriend (when you become friends) is really where you are going to shine. If she can’t get the emotional support she needs from her own boyfriend but from you then when she makes that inevitable comparison between you and the new guy she is going to take that into account.
A big mistake I see a lot of men making is the fact that they jump into the deep end instead of wading into the shallow one when it comes to building attraction. Ok, lets say that you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back and she has just gotten a new boyfriend.
I am a fan of a subtle build up with text messages which eventually lead to phone calls which eventually lead to a face to face meeting. Using the guide in the link above you should be able to properly build attraction with the build up technique. So, don’t take it personally if your ex declines your offer to meet up for a hang out. Because a woman who is truly in love with a man wouldn’t do anything to jeopardize that relationship. Luckily for you, if she accepts your offer for a casual hang out, it means that she doesn’t care enough about her current boyfriends feelings to not hang out with you. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back.
My question is do i give her a hundred percent NC with the possibility she will think i have moved on and confirm the thought of me being only jealous. The star, who lists Blake Lively, Nicole Scherzinger, Alesha Dixon and Lena Dunham as her beauty icons, revealed she sticks to the golden rules of skincare: cleansing, toning and moisturising. Jorgie, who had dazzled fans with her performance on Dancing on Ice, admitted that she's even seen a change when she hits the gym, being able to go make-up free.
Joanna is 15 years old and studies in the tenth grade at the Cultural Academy for Arts and Sciences.
Disclaimer:The information on this website is provided for general information, is not intended to provide medical advice and should not be relied upon as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. But instead the famously private couple were separated by an aisle with Gomez and Swift instead sat side-by-side. The views expressed in the contents above are those of our users and do not necessarily reflect the views of MailOnline.
Schoolgirl Izzy Dix was found hanged by her mother at home last monthNot long before her suicide, she wrote a heartbreaking poem about her ordeal.
Their other possessions are in storage, save for Izzya€™s diary, which was taken by the police as evidence. In the weeks since Izzya€™s death, some of her classmates a€” a€?not the ring-leaders but the ones who joined in the ganging-up, which I actually find more difficult to forgivea€™ a€” have attempted to apologise, but this has only added to Gabbia€™s pain.
She says: a€?One girl got in touch to say she was sorry if their silly jokes had led to this. She reveals that while Izzy a€?adoreda€™ many of her teachers, they failed to tackle the bullies, even though theya€™d been told what was going on. There has not yet been an inquest into Izzya€™s death, so there is no proof that she took her own life because of bullying, and perhaps there never will be. He treated her to a special birthday lunch at his favourite pub in England and now it's Taylor Swift's turn to show just how much she cares about Harry Styles. The trio popped out to do a spot of grocery shopping at Ralph's before returning to the country singer's home. Harry had stayed over at Taylor's house the night before and the pair have become inseparable in recent weeks. Later in the day the One Direction singer was spotted solo in a black car as he ordered from the drive-through at the popular California fast food chain In-n-Out in Los Angeles.And in the evening, Harry continued his Los Angeles jaunt, hanging out at a friend's home in Studio City with Taylor nowhere in sight. Outside the home the singer stopped to chat and take photos with fans, who gathered on the private street by the dozens.
Taylor had proved to be every inch the doting girlfriend as she attended the Shamrock tattoo parlour with Harry on Tuesday. She just loves a bargain: The singer was seen shopping at Ralphs with her boyfriend and her motherBut it would seem she wasn't keen to alter her clean-cut image with a tattoo for herself. He's had more than a successful year with his band One Direction, so it's no wonder Harry Styles wanted a new inking to mark his 2012 victory.There has been speculation that Harry's large new tattoo on his right arm is of the HMS Victory, Lord Nelson's ship from the 1805 Battle of Trafalgar. The inking, which Harry proudly showed off in a Twitter snap, featured similar flags and masts to images of Nelson's flagship.However, other claims have suggested Harry could have chosen the inking as a tribute to his new girlfriend - as Taylor's co-star Reeve Carney from her I Knew You Were Trouble video also has a large ship tattoo on his right arm. Time has a funny way of making us realize our mistakes and without a doubt letting your ex girlfriend go was a big one. You figure the easiest way to do this is to send her a non threatening text message to check up on her. Of course, after you sent the text that daydream was shattered and replaced with anger, heartache and jealousy.


Well, what do you think would happen if the new boyfriend caught wind of the fact that you wanted your girl back? Of course, sometimes you will get a boyfriend who can tell when something is off without her even having to say a word.
Of course, the situation you currently find yourself in is one of the hardest to experience as your chances for success are slightly lowered. While that is certainly the outcome that you are praying for it isn’t realistic to assume that, that is going to happen 100% of the time. However, with that being said it doesn’t hurt to have an expert on your side (me) who has seen so many situations and put so many relationships back together that he can drastically increase your chances of succeeding in almost any situation. Now, most of you who are in that situation are going to see that number and immediately freak out because it’s pretty darn low. Well, all of a sudden that 20% chance of success is bumped up to 50% because you know eventually she is going to have to choose between you and her new boyfriend. I am talking about someone who provides emotional support, someone who listens and tries not to judge, someone who truly cares about her and she realizes it. You see, I have a sister site to this one called, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, where I have helped thousands of women.
You will need to find a way to get her to tap into those feelings for you and when she does that is going to dramatically increase your chances of having her run back to you.
Humans in general are drawn to things that make them feel good and flee from things that make them feel bad. If your ex broke up with you because she thought she could do better and discovers that she can’t then all of a sudden she is going to be scrambling to get YOUR approval. Well, if you find yourself in a situation where you are trying to get a girlfriend back who has a new boyfriend you may find that waiting 45 days in no contact is too long. While I am not a fan of becoming overbearing or annoying but I don’t think there is anything wrong with doing very subtle things to remind your ex that you are out there.
Perhaps I am a bit jaded because I have seen so much with regards to exes and I know that any time that exes are friends it usually doesn’t work out. If you can get her to open up to you and trust you enough to let you in then I guarantee that you are going to come out looking like a star. When I talk about providing emotional support I am not talking about helping her with her own relationship.
Of course, in order to do that successfully you have to create this build up to gain the attraction momentum that you need.
It just means that she is being a good girlfriend to her boyfriend and she shouldn’t be punished for that. If she says she wants to get back yes, but other than that, if it’s just a casual hi, nope. During this time i tried a few times to get back together, but never really putting much effort. I try to give her space recently because the prom is coming up and he asked her but i keep getting told everything thats happening with them and i gave after a few days of not talking and text her. Basically, I was quite aloof in any relationship, – you could say defensive, so I dont get hurt and a relationship adds on to my life and not be my life in total.
I just want to make it clear, the other guys started texting her while you remained texting even after you called off the engagement right?
She started with asking for a piece of clothing and I said that I would look for it (in our final phone call a few days ago, she said to throw away all her things). Either she loves you both and she prefers to stay with the current because she feels more secured with him.. However, she revealed she likes to take her time when it comes to cleansing her skin, especially with her job requiring her to wear make-up on set. My teeth are straight and I can smile a lot, with a lot more confidence.” Well, isn’t that the thing all orthodontists want to hear from their patients? Take a look at the cringe-inducing texts below -- and whatever you do, don't follow their lead.
It later transpires she has not been back to the family home in Devon since the night she ran from it, hysterical, after finding Izzya€™s body.Every item of furniture has been given to the charity shop Izzy used to work in (a€?it supports teenagers in need.
Izzya€™s grandmother tells me that Gabbi hasna€™t been alone since Izzy died; she even sleeps in her mothera€™s bed. Gabbi claims she had contacted the school, Brixham College, at least 15 times in the months before her daughter died, complaining about the name-calling, teasing and the ostracising.
Suicides are rarely that simple.Yet you cana€™t read I Give Up, the poem she wrote, without seeing it as a glaring cry for help.
The 23-year-old singer has introduced the One Direction heartthrob to her mother Andrea, proving their relationship is going from strength to strength. You see, on the one hand she has strong feelings for you and on the other hand she has strong feelings for her current boyfriend.
Obviously we are hoping that the new boyfriend is treating her horribly so you look like a prince but lets just say that, that doesn’t happen. I think it’s safe to say that I have heard just about every single story there is when it comes to breakups. Besides, men often have to be the hunters when it comes to relationships so that means that we have to do all the work to get the relationship started or re-started in your case. You have done a shortened NC rule, you have worked on re-establishing your friendship with your ex. What I want to do now is to show you how you should go about creating this perfect build up. Keep building the attraction until she chooses to leave her current man in favor of the better option, you. Back in December, 2011, I convinced this friend of mine to be my girlfriend, and then the next day, I got too nervous and chickened out of the relationship. I was trying to give her space to figure out her feelings for herself but instead she got the impression that i wanted nothing to do with her. She also said she would not date him but i can tell that she has fallen for him probably because of my pushing. But, there this girl happened and she swooped me, demanded I give her more attention, and infact I did like someone bothering me much and making me show the love. The joy and confidence that a patient exudes once the treatment is completed is exhilarating. Especially tonight.'It had been reported that Bieber and Gomez would be sitting together in the front row of the MGM Grand Ballroom for the awards show.
I was in too much of a state to do anything other than accept it.a€™It is only six weeks since Izzy died, and Gabbia€™s grief is as raw as it gets. At night, she wakes up screaming a€?leave my baby alonea€™.But Gabbia€™s anger is as strong as her devastation, hence her insistence on going public with Izzya€™s story. But his older sister got lured into the van, and he didn't want her to go alone, so he went, too.The man took the siblings to a desolate spot on the edge of the nation's largest American Indian reservation, authorities and family members say. The couple were seen leaving the Swift home on Wednesday and it seems that Taylor's mother approves of her daughter's new beau. Let’s go to the worse case scenario (for you) where the new boyfriend is treating her incredibly well. If she asks you for relationship advice on him I want you to decline as politely as possible. Eventually the new boyfriend got so upset about this that it has caused a bit of a rift in their relationship.
I fear through my attempts to try and talk to her I have made myself a common enemy of both of them, as she has blocked me on all social media (Facebook, instagram, and snapchat).
I know i wasn’t the best partner and i made a lot of mistakes but nothing really bad but i know what i have to do if i get a chance.
Do i step back and let her see that or do i try to show her the person she feel in love with and hope she comes back?
This month of April, I started showing signs of disinterest while still together, I felt she was so needy and emotional. She told me how she is finally doing the things she wanted, that she woke up crying this morning because she realized how happy she is now. There were a couple of bad nights like 2 or 3 during that time but they had to do with drinking. Castranova for the past two years at our Diamond Braces office in Avenue U, Brooklyn, New York. Joanna is going to start her retention therapy now and we hope she will be done with it soon. You could hear it in their voices, as if they were rolling their eyes and going, a€?Oh, not her again.a€?a€‰a€™Gabbi, who was a teacher herself, so is more aware of anti-bullying responsibilities in education than most, last phoned to discuss the problem on September 16 a€” the day before Izzy died. Now, a really good girlfriend wouldn’t see her ex boyfriend out of respect for her new boyfriend.
Fast forward to the beginning of last year, I realized I still loved her, and then in the fall, I asked her to dinner and she said yes. How do I get her to realize that I truly do need her in my life and get her to start talking to me again and get her back??
I like to believe i have become a better person and know how to treat her now but i think she is scared knowing who she is.
I ended breaking up with her again mid month because I did not like that she never put up pictures of us on instagram and facebook. She said she is even going in a trip to new mexico… that got me curious and I asked if it was with her new guy. She came to get treated for her open bite and protruding teeth that she was not very happy about. Castranova listened to all her concerns and gave her in-depth information about how the treatment would help her and change her smile for the better. There were still lots of young people, though.a€™ The presence of her daughtera€™s true friends provided a€?much, much comforta€™, Gabbi admits. She had come home in a terrible state, claiming she had been told off for bursting into tears in class. So, as you can see just calling a girl up and asking her out without any of the romance or build up doesn’t usually work. Now she has fallen for him and tells me she doesn’t feel the same but sends mix singles when ever i see her. She said it was because she didnt feel we went out a lot and felt I didnt put enough effort.
She opted to go in for metal braces and was always enthusiastic and excited about what color elastics she could choose next for herself. The fact that she stuck to all the instructions that were given to her is an important part of her success story.
But her feelings about some of the other attendees are more ambivalent.For Izzy, a gifted pupil who had ambitions to go to Oxford University, had taken her own life after complaining she could no longer cope with being bullied, both at school and online. She says the only reason she talks and flirts with me is because she doesn’t want to hurt me and wants to make it easier for me. Well after I broke up with her, she would text me to make sure we are still single, she also wanted to hangout at one point but I kept neglecting her. She also asked me, how was it that I saw her new pictures of her new guy on social media when she made sure she took me off (but no blocking). But she stood by my side all the way up untill I got out than she broke up with me over the phone when I called her. She is very creative and we were surprised at how well she was able to manage her braces and make them look really nice!


If she put her hands up in class, shea€™d be labelled a a€?swota€? and theya€™d snigger at her, or make crude comments. It sounds so stupid now, but in my head I thought she wasna€™t quite at breaking point because her grades hadna€™t slipped at school.
She texted me a few days later and asked if I was mad at her and I responded with a simple no.
Once i heard my friend was going for her i decided i couldn’t wait anymore and did just about everything wrong. Both were in love and we had to call it off since it wasn’t a practical choice for us. I wanted to make her miss me and want me, and get back together and start putting me up on social media. That way, let’s hope she misses you, and sees the change and starts to take a chance when you get to talking again.
She called it I Give Up, and it reads: a€?They begin to tell me that nobody wants me there.
I got through to the headmaster himself that afternoon and pleaded with him, yet again, to do something. She was a star pupil until the day she died.a€™One particularly distressing thing about Gabbia€™s story is that she appears to have followed all the rules about how to react if your child is being bullied a€” alerting the school, and offering love and reassurance to her daughter. I really want to ask her one more time to reconsider before she gets too serious with the new guy. We did take the call, but then we still kept in touch and we were looking for other opportunities simultaneously, but we still knew where our hearts were.
Now I know what was causing me to drink a lot had to do with the fact I was somewhat insecure because I had a devistating break up summer of 2013 with the woman who I thought was my soulmate and it took me a year and some change to get over her. I did spend many weeks trying to figure out whether it was jealousy or if my feelings were real.
The funny thing is that she still asked why I deleted her on facebook and instagram a day later. I gave her the apology about everything that happened that was said and that I wish her well.
I give up.a€™Many, if not all, of the youngsters present at the service would have been aware of Izzya€™s torment. The FBI said it's following up on all leads."We're leaving no stone unturned," FBI Special Agent in Charge Terry Wade told reporters during a brief news conference.
Anyway, she tells me she knows its not jealousy but she said in our last conversation that why now. I asked her if she wanted to be friends and she said yes, I decided to only add her on facebook.
I said I dont want to hold any grudges towards you and that she is a great person and doesnt deserve that.
So while I was locked up I had time to think and I realized how much my new girl meant to me and that I really loved her and was ready to let my gaurd down and give love another chance. She had fled a Spanish lesson in tears the day before her death when the jibes and sniggers a€” a€?the usual stuffa€™, says her mother, bitterly a€” got too much.Some of those who arrived to mourn her were directly implicated in the bullying, says Gabbi. So I dint comment much, but i ensured she made the right choice (not him thought) but you know, continuous talking and sharing stuff will eventually lead you there (this was as well long distance) – Things were fine but then he made a trip to meet her and she infact did like him as well. But seems I was a day late and a dollar short cause after she broke up with me we were still friends on fb and my other ex that I was dating summer of 14 seen I was single again and friend requested me on fb and since my ex broke up with me I accepted. And everything that happened after she didn’t return my feelings happened LONG before I even knew that there was a way to get an ex girlfriend back.
Now I dont get those texts which i used to get annoyed about before like why is she texting me so muchhh ? And she commented on something I posted and my ex seen it and got super upset and sent me a message saying she was done and she just wanted her stuff. Then onto that awful site Ask.fm [a website in which users post anonymous comments on each other's profiles], and be subjected to filth. She did contact me a couple of times during the No Contact period, but I didn’t respond either time. My biggest problem is i gave her time before and she thought i hated her and says she forced herself to lose her feelings for me. When we had breaks, she would always make it so that I wanted her back, like she did earlier.
I told her that Im doing ok and that I stopped doing many of the things the she didnt like, like smoking weed – her voice cracked a little and said oh really? So I told the other ex its best if we just stay friends but had to block her on fb cause I didnt want to upset the one I was still in love with anymore than she aready was.
Her relationship with Izzya€™s father, Eugene Conway, ended before Izzy was born, which led to a particularly intense mother-daughter bond. Ashlynne lived in the vast reservation's San Juan Chapter, a community that has been on edge since word spread that the girl was missing.She attended Ojo Amarillo Elementary School in Fruitland, New Mexico, and lived about a quarter-mile from the bus stop. She called me a couple of times post NC, but she said she pocket dialed me both times and I know she called me on purpose both of those times. Knowing who she is, she does’t like to get hurt, so she tries to avoid it and to me and a few other people, it seems as if she is confused because her friends are telling her to go with this new guy but it seems like she has feelings for me still by the way she acts. I miss talking to her – She made me zone out from the entire world and give her the attention which she needed and I did give and got back the love as well.
I then told her that if i could go back, I would change everything to change the outcome of what happened, that it is my burden to hold and that I will live with it for the rest of my life. Well about a week later March 7th (got out on Feb 23 just a lil time frame) my ex changed her fb status to in a relationship and changed her profile pic to her kissing this new guy. It was more than we should expect any teenager to cope with, and in the end my daughter couldna€™t.a€™Gabbi is angry not just at the bullies and their a€?complete lack of compassion and humanitya€™, but at the teachers at Izzya€™s school.
I kept trying to text her about things that she likes and how they made me think about her, but I would keep getting a neutral response. She never really opens up in this type of situation, we broke up once before and i was able to show her the fun we had together by hanging out and talking and eventually got back together.
I told her that im not holding any ill feelings towards her and that im even open to the idea of being friends. During that time she would never she how she felt, she just would give me a dry answer and one day wanted to get back together.
But I handled the situation maturly and didnt text her anything rude as a matter of fact I only texted her on Easter wishing her and her daughter a happy Easter. Yes, when she hit her teens she could be moody and we had our moments, but overall she was a joy: bright, opinionated, fun. It wasn't clear why it took hours for authorities to get word out about the abduction, and Wade declined to answer related questions during the news conference.The search for the girl included federal, tribal, state and county officers on the ground as well as a New Mexico State Police helicopter. The new guy when they start talking was planning to go to college half way across the country, so he has no plans to have a committed relationship.
She then said she was thankful for the 5 year experience and she learned a lot, that she now knows what she wants and she is doing everything she wanted to do with me, that she was happy. I decided to end the phone call be telling her I had to go, i said i wish you well, take care and bye.
I was still kinda heartbroken over everything but was starting to move on even though I still thought about her all the time I was starting to heal.
If she was here today, shea€™d do a much better job of this than me.a€™Izzy was always aware of her fathera€™s existence, and a€?knew she could meet him when she was readya€™. Associated Press writer Susan Montoya Bryan contributed to this report from Albuquerque, New Mexico.___This story has been corrected to show Ashlynne Mike's name was misspelled Ashlynn. I ended up messaging her that I still loved her and that I wanted her to have my kids like we planned, that we said forever.
So we had a 3 hr long conversation and it went great we talked we had some laughs and it was like we were together again. She did, in fact, meet him not long before she died, although her mother insists this did not cause her to become depressed. She gave me a huge paragraph of what I did wrong, and that she did not love me anymore, that she moved on quick, because she realized how ive treated her all these years. She knows that saying that saying she is happy now with her new guy will hurt me although i never showed that pain on the phone call. So we texted a couple times over the past couple of weeks and than she called me on Friday telling me she was bored so I was working at the time and told her I would call her back after work and I did. She said I am definitely not her soulmate and neglected anything i said to get her back, complete opposite of what she would normally do.
She ended up calling me at work to tell me to stop messaging her about our relationship, even though I stopped an hour earlier already. So I picked her up after work I offered to let her sleep in my bed and I sleep on the couch but she insisted I sleep in the bed with her so yeah we made love the first night than we woke up and did it again she came to help me on one of my jobs as I have my own construction company and she used to work with me sometimes when we were together.
The following morning she left a voicemail saying that she read over our messages and said that she hopes i move on quick and recuperate, that she was concerned about how i sounded over text since she has never heard me talk like that. Than I took her to a carnival we ate some food and went on a ride and I won her a stuffed furry animal.
Two days pass and Im starting to hurt more, now i want her back really badly so at night i asked her to talk to me over the phone. Than we woke up the next day and I had to go out to look at a job and she stayed at my house while I was gone.
I came back and we went out to eat at our favorite restaurant for lunch than went over to my cousins house she is close friends with them and she wanted to see theyre baby which she loves.
I ended spilling my heart out on that phone call, asking her to come back to me, that ive never been hurt by her like this. She said she no longer loved me, when i would bring up making love she said to stop because it made her cringe.
We held hands the whole ride and she told me she loved me when I dropped her off and she told me she left me a note on my dresser mirror to read when I got home.
That what she said just a month ago about forever was only because she didnt realize how much i hurt her over the years.
The note said my name, I love you with all my heart no matter what we have been through 4ever&always yours, love her name. That she found someone who always listens to her and doesnt criticize her when she needs comfort. The call ended on bad terms, i told her to tell me that she is going to have sex with her new guy eventually one day at the end, so that i can feel numb and try to let her go completely.
She didnt want to at first because it was none of my business, but she ended up saying it after I pleaded for it.
Im so depressed, thinking that she is really happy and I that I wont be able to get her back. I plan on talking to her in 2 more days to try to briefly make amends and work my way to friendship. She is the type of person who doesnt like to hurt anyone, so it makes me think she wont want to leave her new guy for me.



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