In just a moment, I’m going to show you how to get your ex girlfriend back… so buckle up, because there’s a lot to cover.
If you recently split up with your girlfriend then you’re probably hurting REAL bad right now. I know the pain you’re going through right now and I know that it won’t stop for a LOOOOONG time. Sure you can carry on with your life… bang a few new girls at a party, go out with your friends and try to forget about the girl you lost.
OR you can use proven techniques that thousands of guys are using right now to get their girlfriend back fast.
There are a few areas of “getting your ex girlfriend back” which I want to cover, so by all means skip to the section that makes most sense to your current situation. It’s been a few days, weeks, maybe even a month and the wound is still raw… now what do you do? Understand why she left you – The first step is to understand why she dumped you in the first place dude! Leave it at least 2 weeks – Don’t be needy or act desperate, it’s not going to help you. Get back in touch – After a couple of weeks, get in touch either with a text or a Facebook message. Keep it casual – Always meet up with her in the day for lunch or coffee so it’s casual, like you’re meeting a friend. Go in for the kill – After several casual meetups, invite her along on a night out with your friends or say to her that you’re going to be somewhere and she should come along. The key to remember here is that you’re laying down the important groundwork with the casual meetups.
Pimp up your Facebook profile – Your Facebook page is a constant message that your closest friends and acquaintances are reading.
Get in touch – Go back to “situation 1” and follow all the steps from “Get back in touch”. Right then, you haven’t spoken to her in months, you know that she doesn’t have a boyfriend and you’re still kicking yourself about the breakup.
Write to her – The very first thing you need to do is write to her, Facebook, email even a freakin hand written letter dude.
Rinse and repeat – Follow everything from the first and second situation, until she takes you back.
There are a few ground rules you MUST follow that I haven’t mentioned yet, they are solid mindset tips that will help you get her back (trust me they work). Be persistent – Think alpha male who knows what he wants, not a pathetic needy loser who’s begging for attention. Embrace change – Show her that you’re willing to be a better you by changing your ways.
Don’t sulk – The moment you accept your defeat, is the moment you will never get her back, so stay positive and know that you’re going to get her back in time. So as I said earlier, I used Text Your Ex Back which really helped me get my girlfriend back.
But I did try a another product that I think is seriously worth mentioning because I picked up some killer tips from it. I got some really great tips from this guide, if I hadn’t have gone through the other two then I would have just used this one but it would have taken me a while longer to get her back. Then you’re not doing the steps correctly or you’re still portraying the same crappy qualities that she dumped you for in the first place.
So there you have it, this is without a doubt the best advice you will get on understanding how to get your ex girlfriend back in the fastest way possible.
My girlfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago, we were talking frequently until 3 weeks ago when she moved to Portland, OR (we lived in California together). Hay, I broke up with my girl like for 2 years now, but it’s all coming back to me, it was my fault, I physically assaulted her. Im a lesbian and was with this girl for four years going 5 on july.she ask space for 3months no communication,no seeing each other so I gave her space but i broke my promise not to call,text and see her. I had already been arguing with my girlfriend for awhile, I had been sick and on alot of medication one night when she called and tho has got heated. I have been in a releshp wth my ex grlfrend for 4yrs she was my school sweethert we came from far she loved meh soo much we did everythng toghet na untll she had a crush on some guybt she found out the guy is in arelshp wth anther person she came back to meh cryng i accpted her back bt then after a mnth se change start sayng we break up bt then she apologies back for her word iknw ehe was up2 smthng i broke up wth her she didnt even say why or sory she said alryt naw its been 3weeksi tryed callng her bt she nat intrested shes is sayng she want to be single an forcus… so do you think she is a relshp wth smeone else i need advice shoild i just move on?
I recently lost, my girl it was my fault I got hooked up in internet adiction, porn sites and dating sites, she read my corespondance to the other women and even contacted them to see if we had met up.
While having that space between you and her at the moment, you need to show her how fine you are without her. You might have noticed that she wouldn’t want to meet you at all unless there’s a huge excuse like someone’s mother died. When meeting her after not talking for a while, it will and is supposed to be awkward so don’t worry. Don’t come late for the date – you don’t want to give her the chance to have a second thought about getting back together with you. It is ironic that the only way to get her back is by by putting almost not effort at all in talking to her. Honestly out of all of the tips above, the only one that has worked for me is the first – DO NOTHING!
After a break up, chances are at least one side of the relationship is irrational, so trying to talk it out or express your love or anything like that just ends up in worsening the situation. This entire website is dedicated to teaching you the lessons within each of those orange bubbles.
Well, for the first time in the history of this site I am going to be moving on to a bubble that I haven’t covered before. This page is going to proceed with one goal in mind, getting you a date with your ex girlfriend. My goal here wasn’t just to make the most educational page on asking your ex girlfriend out on a date but it was to make it the most down to earth one as well. Well, a breakup does not feel good and as a result your ex girlfriend is going to associate the things she feels with the breakup with you which means that it is going to be extra hard to get a date with her. Most people would think that the ex boyfriend (or you in this case) would have the advantage due to the dating history you have with your ex.
However, I would like to counter that by saying that oftentimes when a breakup occurs the girl is left with a sour taste in her mouth.
Assuming this happens to your ex girlfriend that means that she is going to project her bad feelings of the breakup onto you. Given the choice between you and him she is going to pick him more often than she would pick you I am betting. Well, in order for me to teach you that I think you have to have insight into your ex girlfriends mind. So, what the heck qualifies me to give you advice on what women are looking for to say “YES” to a date?
Anyways, I felt I was lacking on knowledge a bit for these date factors so I went straight to the fountain of knowledge, my wife. While looks (#3) are a priority to them it isn’t really what seals the deal for them.
So, when we turn our attention to your ex girlfriend and getting her to go on a date with you it makes sense that in order for her to be willing to take the risk of going on a date with you she has to have strong feelings for you.
Your biggest challenge with factor #1 is the fact that you and your ex girlfriend went through a breakup. Well, this is where my E-Book, Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO comes in as it gives you a step by step game plan for how to re-ignite your girlfriends feelings for you.
I don’t care how bad your relationship with your ex girlfriend was you are bound to have some good memories in the relationship with your ex. Once you have thought of those type of memories I want you to take out a piece of paper and write down your top three NON SEXUAL memories. I did this because I am going to use this memory as an example on how to re-ignite your feelings for your ex.
So, lets say that I am trying to win back my wife and I wanted to use the hot air balloon memory to re-ignite her feelings for me. Anyways, for us the hot air balloon ride was one of the most amazing experiences we have ever shared together. I am going to say something a little bit mean to you but just bear with me because I promise there is a point to all of this. Seriously, if a real life James Bond came along and asked your girlfriend out for a date she would say yes in a heartbeat. However, when it comes to going on a date with him pretty much every woman on planet earth would say yes and that is what I am concerned with here.
Now, imagine if you were to combine the exciting aspects of James Bond with the commitment and compassion that you bring to the table. This factor is going to be a bit shorter than the others because it is pretty straight and to the point.
Most women want a happy future that includes a perfect husband, perfect children and a perfect house. Because, around the age of 35 is when the quality of their eggs drop and it becomes harder and harder for them to get pregnant. So, all in all a woman has to see a future with you before she will even consider going out on a date with you. How do you overcome these types of thoughts if things didn’t go so great in your relationship with your ex? For example, if you constantly got into fights over who fed the fish then most experts would have you just stop getting into fights over the feeding schedule of the fish.
While I suppose that is great advice how can you even implement it if you are not with the person anymore?
This means you have one of the most complicated tasks in front of you, convincing your ex girlfriend that you have changed without actually being able to show her in the relationship.
So, what I would usually advise to a man in this situation is to show your ex girlfriend with your actions and not your words.


Your best course going forward in this situation is to use your words to point at current actions you have done outside the relationship to make a change. Lets pretend that you were an alcoholic and your ex girlfriend broke up with you because you drank too much. Well, the only way to convince her that you have changed for the good is to probably retool your life while she isn’t looking and bring attention to it after you have made significant progress. For example, if you were always going to Alcoholics Anonymous meetings, never even going near alcohol and haven’t even been to a bar or anywhere that sells alcohol for a month you would bring attention to this fact when talking to your ex girlfriend.
It’s a way of showing her with your actions that you are different and that a potential future will be different with you.
Now obviously your situation probably isn’t like the alcoholic situation above but you can do little things in every situation to prove that you are working to better yourself.
This is something I would have never thought of so you’ll have to thank my wife for this.
We already know from this that women don’t respond well to men who are overly needy or emotional. So, while my wife is an absolute genius when it comes to things like this I don’t think women respond very well to persistence.
Persistence- continuing firmly or obstinately in a course of action in spite of difficulty or opposition. When I picture a guy who is persistent trying to get a date I picture a guy who sends flowers, love letters and plans these super extravagant dates. In my experience sending flowers, love letters and overstepping your bounds by planning an extravagant date have a low chance of succeeding.
Subtle Persistence- being persistent in a slow yet dedicated manner where you focus on re-igniting attraction over a long period of time. If you look at a guy who is persistent about getting a date he is going to do the typical things. If this guy was smart he would focus on really touching her on an emotional level so instead of leaning on the flowers and gifts he sent her she is leaning on a strong emotional connection. For example, lets say that you work really hard to re-ignite your exes feelings for you and your efforts seem to be going well.
I can’t tell you how many success stories I have had on this site from men who just never gave up. Sure, not every single punch that Mike Tyson threw landed but he was so persistent that when one of his big punches landed he would do what you see above to grown men. I have a very strategic way of teaching men how to ask their ex girlfriends out on a date and it ties directly in to the three rung ladder graphic above.
Basically, if you want to secure a date and maximize your chances of getting your ex girlfriend back you have to move up the ladder so to speak.
Well, we are going to be doing the same thing when it comes to asking your ex girlfriend on a date. The woman is unlike any you have ever met before and you are thinking in your head that you want to marry her. Well, if you asked her to marry you the next time you saw her she not only will be incredibly creeped out by you but she will say no.
Rather than attacking her right off the bat with a high risk proposition like a date you are going to slowly but surely build up her trust in you with smaller propositions that will eventually lead to you getting a date or climbing to the top of the ladder. You have done everything I have recommend in Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO and you are really confident in yourself and you really know how to build up attraction. Well, rather than asking your ex girlfriend out to a one on one date (a high risk proposition) you should start off a little bit smaller to earn back her trust and work your way up to that one on one date.
Maybe you and some of your best friends and their girlfriends are going to play laser tag and you invite her.
Lets say that you moved away from your hometown 10 years ago and you have just come back and you call up your friend to meet you up for a cup of coffee to catch up. You want this catch up to feel a little like a date but it can’t have any signs of being a real date.
Everything I have taught you up to this point has been to make your ex girlfriend say YES to you when you ask her out to this type of a date. It is super important that you first get her on the low risk and medium risk proposition dates before you ask her out on this type of a date.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. I’ve been implementing all the steps of the ex gf recovery pro book (love it)and managed to get a first date with my ex ?????????????gf! Hey Chris, I was devastated the other day when my gf broke it off with me I did the begging no no for one day. We broke up last month, I’ve been doing Gatsby method type things, (new clothes, working out very hard, looking for massive success anywhere I can get it) meanwhile she started dating another guy we work with who I considered a friend, we had hung out the three of us quite a few times. From this situation, am I on a good way to get her back or the signs are too weak to determine?
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You feel sick to your stomach, with no energy, you can’t be bothered to see anyone and you just want to be left alone. Let’s say that you broke up, it’s been a few months, maybe even a year and you’ve heard through friends that she’s got a boyfriend (perhaps you even saw it on Facebook which would really suck).
Get some new threads, workout at the gym (get the body most women want), eat right and drum some positive thoughts into your head. It’s crucial that they see the guy you want to be seen as… which is a confident, independent, happy and outgoing guy. It’s vital that you find out why she hates you… because this will help you to build a solid action plan.
Apologise for what you did wrong and say to her that you respect her wishes, also that you truly wish that she finds a guy that will make her happy. If you did, then that’s awesome, keep the communication flowing and suggest meeting up for a coffee because you want to stay friends with her. It took me exactly 4 weeks, but I have a friend who used the same techniques and it took him 7 months.
He started stalking and harrassing me, and would harrass any guy I dated.I told him never to speak to me again, but he still tried to get me back, was watching and following me in person and on line ,so I called the police and filed a report, and later filed a no contact order. We broke up because she got jealous about other women who were giving me attention, and i lied about one of these girls at a party and i just got too comfortable and didn’t show interest.
My gf mentioned to break up due to another man and no more feeling with me, I’ve stopped this action taken as I can’t take it! In the mean time go and get your self together work out hang with friends and make your self happy.
You are her comfort zone you know each other so she is just there with you after what she thinks is good is not.
The next day I saw she had took us off of a relationship on Facebook and I lost it, I gave her my password and she out of current mistrust searched through my emails. Express your self about what was the underlying problem with the situation between you both. After a break-up, you’ll be so overwhelmed that whatever you do is based on your emotion – That’s not how men do work. You have to understand that she won’t listen to reason and that she believes that she is hurting more than you. Bear in mind that once she agrees to go out with you, she’s still considering on whether to accept you or not.
Keep that up until you can notice her change – usually she’ll talk more than before because that’s a sign that she feels comfortable with you. For example, if I write an article about the no contact rule then that means I am teaching you about the no contact rule orange bubble above.
I am sure if having sex felt like rubbing the family jewels against concrete no one would want to have it. Oh, and not to mention that anything you did wrong in the relationship is going to be brought up at the end most likely. However, I want to do something extra for you here so I am going to teach you another method that I haven’t gone into very often. Of course, since you are no longer in a relationship with your ex girlfriend it’s kind of hard to show her that things will be different with you this time around with your actions. Of course, if you took the time to date her, get to know her and build rapport with her over time she is more likely to say yes, right? She feels safer and less pressure and if you show her a great time she is going to be more amenable to saying yes to a medium risk proposition.
I handled myself properly during the date, we had a great time, and she even asked me to keep in touch with her….
Problem is the dude is also a cokehead and after a couple weeks of being broken up and her hanging out with him, they started doing a lot of cocaine together.
I decided to end the NC by texting her asking how she’s been doing, and I can say the response is unexpectedly good. FYI, during three weeks of NC she contacted me twice and always asked and talked about me to our mutual friends.
Take a hard and honest look at yourself and the relationship.  Do your best to figure out went wrong and learn from it.
List all your qualities, good ones as well as bad ones.  Try to do what you can to limit or erase the bad habits you possess that may be detrimental to the success of your relationship. Something like “Hey, so I got the job… (yay for me) starting in a week” fancy a celebratory coffee?
This means you need to upload pictures of you partying with other pretty girls, smiling, traveling, doing things that you NEVER did whilst in your relationship with your ex. Well then after we broke up i made out with one of the girls and i told her about it and it devestated her.
She she leave it becaue she thinks she found the one to replace you then she finds out the grass is not greener on the other side so she comes back. She took a light hearted conversation to be factual and believes that I am a cheater and our relationship was over a long time ago.


We are supposed to be cool, calm and collected, that’s how we get girls and that’s what made her want you in the first place. You might think that I might be out of my mind to say that but psychologically, it’s proven that it does have an effect on women.
You have to show how serious you are on getting back to getting back together so meet her personally instead of sending mere texts. Ask her how she’s been and have a nice chat with her about anything other than the break up. Bring her the flower and gift card, and try to bring her somewhere intimate like a candlelight dinner. When you lose your girlfriend and you want to get back to her, what you say to her or what you do not tell her always matter. Of course, those of you who have been lucky enough to know the touch and feel of a woman know that sex feels like the exact opposite of this. My question is :how long should I continue to contact her through text messages and phone calls before I ask her for another low to medium risk date?
I did the worst thing and begged for a day and the day after sent her a message saying I was sorry (for begging). So I guess right now she thinks I’m crazy, yea not good so in these very few days I have looked into what I was doing wrong, kinda lost my confidence and became needy after the honeymoon period ended.
Yes, it is hard to let go of old bad habits but if you really want to win her back, it’s a sacrifice worth making.
So yes, the ways to win back a girlfriend are varied, but in the end, it’s your personal style and the things that first helped your girlfriend fall in love with you that are the most important. You may push her limits till she is afraid of you or hates the very thought of you.If you are a good man, she will miss you and call you. I made a lot of mistakes after the breakup, begging to come back to her, argued a couple times, freaked about her dating.
She is blaming you for cheating because she is not being 100% with you about what she is doing. I just started the no contact phase and am giving her time it’s been 3 days no contact.
It’s still fresh, I have sent her a very brief letter trying to keep an image that I have calmed down now, and apologized once again for how cruel I was, and for even saying the things I had.
It will trigger her mind to be jealous when seeing you having fun and this will tempt her to find out more about you.
From this moment on, you need to bear in mind that you need to take care of her like how you did when you first met her.
She tended to take me for granted (canceling dates and such) and I certainly got a bit needy for a few days and she broke it off. We talked about last 7 days, whe laughed a little bit and after that I’ve ended the conversation.
This was our second time breaking up, we broke up about a year ago and got back together after about a month and a half apart. She said a lot of nice things, she missed me and she said she wanted to get coffee with me as soon as she got out.
She asked me back several times and seemed happy to text back though she’s not that kind of text message person + a busy one, so the word count was like around 20-25 (me) and 13-15 (her).
Be you, the best you can be and hopefully you’ll have her back in your arms in no time at all. We’ve hung out like 7 times since the break up and things got pretty affectionate 4 out of the 7 times.
I was leaving the state around half year and she had ask me to stay but, I insist to leave due to good opportunity. I sent her mother a 4 pg front and back letter explaining in order of occurrence everything, assuring I am not a cheater and just everything, I was completely honest, and mature in every way. I thought thst i could not get over my ex but I am living and making the best of the situation everyday. You don’t want to annoy her even more and plus, that will give her time to think and regret on her actions. Hang out with your friends and if you can, take pictures and ask them to upload in Facebook.
That person will most probably know that he is being used by you but if he’s on your side, he will definitely help. After that I didn’t contact her anymore, she came back after 3 days looking for attention through Facebook, so we started talking again. I am 19 and she is 17, I stated dating her when I was 17 and I was the guy she drooled over and always wanted but it was just a dream to her but I made that dream real for her. This time I thought it was really what I wanted, but after a little time I realized I want to get her back and keep her for good this time. I also went and visited her while she was there, and it was very positive, she kept saying how good I looked and touching me softly quite a bit those type of things. Her sister and a good friend of hers is on my side and they want to help me steer her away from him and then see from there. Scrutinizing each aspect of the breakup is important because it can help determine if the relationship is salvageable.  If the relationship is not fixable, it’s time to let go. It’s just been a rough past summer for me in general with my grandpa passing away and adjusting to all this change. One is a love letter and the other is an apology letting her know I accept the breakup and wish her the best. When we were together I was a jerk and didn’t make a big deal about it and it hurt her.
She’s an amazing person and I love her to death, but she closed it off after my begging and that crap I was just scared to death. She gets out, we go get coffee the next day and it was a good time, I could tell she was doing better.
I do love the girl and I’m attempting to get her back by going to her school which is an hour away and serenading her wih a guitar right on campus haha. So now what Idk is should I text her the night before and say something about it like goodluck don’t be nervo use it’ll be okay, just good luck or nothing at all? When finding more about you, the number one thing she would most probably do is checking your profile in Facebook. As for the places to meet, you could plan on meeting her at places she would definitely go such as concerts, a nearby park or perhaps the mall.
I tried to appear as cold and emotionless as I could be the whole time and think I did it very well. So before I start no contact I want to let her kno that I’m back in this short time I realized what I had done wrong and for her and that the love thing has to do with the honeymoon faze for her half. We’ve broken up before about 2 years ago and I did the same thing just outside of her house.
We ended up kissing when I left and she asked me to text her, although we didn’t hang out as long as I thought I would. If she shows any sign of returning your feelings and intentions, then by all means go with that. She keep saying no more feeling with girl, what can I do to get her back again coz I too love her.
I am changing my style and working out and maybe a tattoo related to my car hobby cause she does like tattoos as well. She has me blocked on facebook and snapchat, yet we still keep in touch through text and phone calls and shes friends with my mom on facebook still haha. This is an important thing to remember especially when you want to know some tips to get your ex girlfriend back.Say that you are so sorry. Remember, when she accepts your apology, things will go easier for the both of you.Click Here And Discover This Simple Fool-Proof Method Which Has Helped 61,289 Guys Get Their Ex Girlfriend Back NowHow Can I Get Back With My Ex Girlfriend Through The Promise Of Change?Once you have admitted that you have committed mistakes, it is now time to say the next words.
If you want to get your girlfriend back after break up, you have to make her know that you will not make the same mistake again.Promising her that you are willing to change so that you will have a better relationship is one of the many ways to get your ex girlfriend back.
Atleas give a consideration that i was a faithful dude down to be in it for the long hall . The answer could be that you really need her in your life.Telling a girl that you need her will sweep her off her feet, again. I know if i pull at her more while she still mad and bitter shes just going to pul away more. Your ex girlfriend wants an assurance that she really is somebody that you cannot live without.
On top of that ahe has the type of girlfriends who like bashing dudes cause thwy dont have one or not satisfied qjth the ones they have. She would always tell her friends about me and how much she loved me and even tod them all about our sexual life.
Tell her she was and will always be appreciated by you.If you are working on winning your ex girlfriend back, telling her that you appreciate her is a great move.
Tell her that everything she has done when you were still together was not taken for granted. So badly that it hurts you so much.‘I miss you’ is one of the most touching and romantic things to say to get your ex girlfriend back after break up.
Click Here And Discover How You Can Make Your Ex Want You BackWays To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back #3: You Cannot Face The Future Without Her By Your Side SpeechTelling your ex girlfriend that she is the best thing that ever happened to you is very romantic.
Once you have told her that, also proclaim that you cannot face the future without her by your side. Also tell her that being with her is the best days of your life.Saying that you want her in your future means you are ready to commit to her. When you say those words to your ex girlfriend, you will make her rethink about breaking up with you. She will reflect on what happened to both of you.If you are one of the guys whose mind is uptight with the question ‘How can I get with my girlfriend?’,“The Magic of Making Up” by TW Jackson is the ideal ebook for you.




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