But what does she really mean when she says she wants space?Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back?
When a woman goes through a breakup, when it’s fresh, how many of those 12,000 thoughts a day are dedicated to thinking about the person she broke up with?
Speaking from experience, people can get a little obsessive when it comes to their breakups and it causes this interesting effect where all of their thoughts are hijacked for a while.
Lets dive a little deeper here since I want to explain why your ex girlfriend wants space from you. So, you have a thought and then that thought immediately gets categorized into one of the two categories above. So, what does this theory have to do with your ex girlfriend telling you that she needs space?
Yup, your ex girlfriend is going to have a thought (square one) that makes her think about the breakup with you. Well, the act of her having to tell you that gives her another thought and guess what that thought is about? Now, it’s my job to get you out of this cycle because make no mistake about it, it is the one that you are in right now. You definitely noticed that these texts were almost a guy begging for his ex girlfriend back but take a look at the last text. Now, just so we don’t hurt YOUR feelings we are going to use a hypothetical situation with your ex girlfriend. You would get annoyed to if you told a child to stop screaming in the middle of a crowded store and they refused to do so.
Now, most men freak out upon hearing this and determine that they have little to no chance of succeeding in their quest to win the love of their life back. You still do have a chance of getting your ex girlfriend back but you need to do exactly as I say because we are walking a very fine line here and one misstep and you could screw the whole thing up. Are you ready for me to teach you how to get your girlfriend back if she says she needs space from you?
Ok, the first thing you need to understand are the two approaches that men usually employ in situations like this.
One of the coolest things about running a successful website in the relationship niche is the fact that I get to talk with a lot of you. For example, one of the things that I have learned about you is that I can tell you right here, right now that you will have NO shot of getting your ex girlfriend back whatsoever and you will still try to get her back.
This is all fake of course (you probably really do have a good shot of getting her back) but it’s kind of impressive when you think about it.
I mean, how many people out there are willing to put this type of effort into their relationships? Oh, another thing I have learned about you guys is that when a woman tells you that she needs space and you determine that you want to get her back you will try to get her back in one of two ways. In order for me to fully explain this to you we are going to have to operate under a few assumptions. Because what I am about to talk about is something that is a little more advanced so if you haven’t read any of my books, EGR PRO or The Texting Bible I suggest you drop what you are doing right now, read them, and then come back to this article since what I am about to say next will make more sense to you.
Alright, now that we have the two assumptions out of the way lets talk about the aggressive approach. Hardcore No Contact- The type of no contact where a man (or woman) enters and doesn’t come out until the other person contacts them after the designated day they have set. Of course, we all know what happens to the GNATS of the world when it comes to ex girlfriends.
Notice how the value chain slowly intensifies as it moves from texting to phone calls to a small in person interaction and then ends with a romantic interaction. I am talking about little bold things here or there like building attraction in the right way. And this is a problem when it comes to getting a girlfriend back who told you that she needed space.
Well, I think it’s arrogant and your ex girlfriend is definitely not going to find this attractive at all. The truth is that the passive way of getting an ex girlfriend back is a dumbed down version of the aggressive method of getting your ex girlfriend back. Fun fact, I once had a guy contact me (via email) with a 30 day plan on how he was going to improve himself during his no contact rule.
Well, I am going to reserve that for later though I promise that it’s going to be good. You see, passive men would opt for indirect actions as opposed to direct actions when it comes to building attraction and that’s simply not going to cut it. Well, that means that when it comes to the value chain (which I posted a nice little graphic on above) the passive men take too long. Sure, giving a woman her space when she tells you that she needs it is probably a good idea BUT you can’t ever get her back if you give her too much space.
Was said to describe how opposite or contrary forces are actually complimentary and interconnected.
Well, I can’t think of a better way to describe what I am about to teach you than using some basic Chinese philosophy. But what if I told you that there was a way that we could take the best aspects of each plan so that they complimented each other (just like Yin and Yang are supposed to in Chinese Philosophy) to create the perfect game plan. A hybrid game plan that works perfectly for getting your ex girlfriend back if she told you that she needs space? I have had to stay up every single night with her just so my wife can get sleep and it prevents me from getting any sleep.
Now, I had an opportunity to go to bed three hours earlier BUT I wanted to make sure that I got this article out by the time the weekend started and to be honest I really do enjoy writing these articles but I am running out of steam here.
The first thing it is going to accomplish is give your ex girlfriend the space she says she wants. Basically you want to improve yourself to become the best version of yourself that ever existed. Now, according to people who peddle the law of attraction stuff you basically are born with a superpower.
You think something and if you believe it enough and feel the emotions in your heart then it will become a reality for you. Nevertheless, I read up about it and was trying to figure out why so many people seem to be claiming that they were having success with the law of attraction.
This struck me as interesting as I had once heard about the power of visualization with Olympic athletes. You see, scientists were interested in seeing how powerful visualization in athletes was so they decided to monitor brain activity of an athlete actually competing in their sport and an athlete not doing anything but visualizing it. So, why not use the visualization aspect of the law of attraction to your advantage when trying to get your ex girlfriend back? Now, I talked about the value chain above with the aggressive strategy and the passive strategy and how each of those strategies failed to properly utilize the VC to it’s fullest.
The key to the value chain is finding a happy medium somewhere in between the aggressive and passive styles.
Now, I have written how to properly utilize the value chain here so I recommend you check out that guide if you want a more in-depth look at how VC is supposed to work. What I would like to do now is talk about where boldness and confidence comes into play here. If you look at the graphic of the value chain above you will notice that there are two big parts to it. Part One: The fact that you cannot advance to the next level without first completing the level that you are in. Part Two: In order to complete the level that you are in you need to build attraction with your girlfriend. It’s always scary taking a risk from jumping from the comfort of texting to the uncertainty of talking on the phone and that is one area where the aggressive strategy shines.
If you look at the value chain graphic I posted above you will notice there are only three big level jumps. So, you have to be bold to make those jumps and men who are passive aren’t bold enough to make them. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back.
So I lied to my girlfriend and she caught e going online talking to women and through thr course of a year we broke up and got back together very quickly until now.March 1st we broke up and she had me move out and said she couldnt trust me and she was so upset because she loves me and never wnted this and either did I.
I met this girl online we became friends and talked on facetime for 7 months until I flew out to meet her.
All of a sudden, you went from feeling safe and relaxed around your girlfriend to that horrible feeling of panic where you know that you are losing something that is extremely important to you. You and her have gone from being in love to feeling disconnected like a couple of strangers. A woman will sometimes use this approach because she doesn’t want to go through the pain of seeing you hook up with a new woman before she finds a new guy.
She’ll say sorry for not telling you sooner, but she will explain that she is now in love with another guy and that you and her are finished for good.
If your girlfriend has said to you that she needs some space or needs some time to find herself, it can often just mean that she’s bored of how the relationship makes her feel. Been taking her for granted and just expecting that she will stick around, even though the relationship doesn’t feel as good as it once did. To keep a relationship together, you have to deepen a woman’s feelings of love, respect and attraction for you over time. When a guy deepens the love, respect and attraction that a woman feels for him over time in a relationship, she will not want to break up him. The reason why she settled down with me is that I’ve been able to deepen the love, respect and attraction over time in our relationship, rather than it fading away like it does for most couples.
In the past, a woman would stick with a man for life even if she was unhappy because it was shameful to get divorced. When your girlfriend watches TV, movies or listens to pop songs, she is constantly being told that it’s okay to dump a guy and move on. Your girlfriend has asked for some space from you, so you need to see this as a wake up call.
If your girlfriend has lost respect and attraction for you, she will automatically begin to feel worried about falling pregnant to you. If she is the type of woman to worry about an unwanted pregnancy, she will quickly lose interest in having sex and will then want to end the relationship as soon as possible. The only way to change how she feels is to make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you. We men are expected to know how to be a man and if we don’t know it, women simply reject us, cheat on us or dump us. Some guys are lucky enough to grow up with a father or male role model who is capable of teaching them how to be a man. Even though they’ve been together for decades, they still hold hands, laugh and smile together, kiss and hug. However, the most important thing that you need to do is work out how you are going to make her feel respect and attraction for you the next time you interact with her.
When your girlfriend sees that you don’t need her and have been improving yourself and moving forward in life, she will naturally begin to regain some of her respect and attraction for you. If you want to get to the point where you want her, but sincerely do not need her, you have to improve your ability to attract women in general. If you sincerely don’t need her and only want her, she will feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you. Over the years, a lot of guys have asked me, “Dan, my girlfriend said she needs space.
I highly recommend that you don’t waste too much time giving your girlfriend space, because it usually just gives the woman plenty of time to move on. What you need to do is get her to meet up with you and then make her feel a renewed sense of respect and attraction for you.
If you don’t begin making her feel respect and attraction for you in new ways, she may give you another chance if she is unable to find a new guy.


A woman won’t put up with extra stresses in a relationship, UNLESS she is madly in love with the guy, fully respects him, feels intense attraction for him and truly loves him. My advice to you would be to learn what makes a woman fall madly in love with a guy and how to ensure she retains that feeling. After reading countless stories and what to do in a break up situation I have found someone to spill my story to.
However, this is a case of having your judgement clouded by your emotions and perception of reality. When humans are faced with am emotionally-challenging situation, they go through an emotional process of recovery.
In your current state of despair, you’re going to need to go through the process of recovery until you again reach an emotional state of happiness. Sorry for this long message, but I’m just confused and need to talk this out to someone I trust. While it’s fine to apologize to a woman in this type of situation, she should also apologize to you for her over-reactive behavior. This is a classic example of how most people need to have more than one relationship before settling down for life. Basically, you’ve made a mistake by starting a family so young and with such little relationship experience. If you want her back, you’re going to need to have the knowledge and skill to have a mature conversation about life, relationship values and your future together. Last week she decide to break up with me because she wasn’t happy and that she had many family issues and needed time to find herself and to find why she was so depressed. Put it this way, if your girlfriend was passionately attracted to you and looked up to you as her man, she would not be trying to get away from you. If you want her back, you’ve got to get your emotions under control naturally and without drugs. The fifth point in this article seems very accurate for the reason i feel my ex left me, When we first met i was very driven, i was a British champion in my sport and had a good chance of making a fairly lucrative career out of it. Anyways what im asking is this, Will picking up My “status” within my sport attract her? I have been hammering away at this endeavor for a few months now and the ball is really starting to get rolling.
Also, I have been approached by a few fitness magazines to do photos for there respective mags and Have a few interviews with local news for my sport. If you get back to me with more info, we can get to more of the root causes for it and how you can get her back.
In her eyes, on the career aspect of things and as a man as general she will have the impression im probably in the same place i was when she left me. Yet, prior to all this she was excessively insecure, She would get extremely jealous of the ring girls if they tried to contact me. During the last few months of our relationship, with me switching management i wasn’t earning for a about 8 months.
I just feel i need to show her the man she fell for is back, just a bit wiser and a lot more focused. After a long 5 weeks of not much communicating, my GF broke up with me (via email), citing she was too exhausted from life and felt guilty she couldn’t give the relationship the attention it deserved at the present moment. Slideshare uses cookies to improve functionality and performance, and to provide you with relevant advertising.
How To Get Your Ex Back- Tips On What You Can Do When She Requests For SpaceIts the words you never wanted to hear. On the condition your ex girlfriend requires time,subsequently the most appropriate action you can take isto grant it to her.
Facebook, MySpace and Twitter make it less difficult to view what people are doing as well as the people they have been communicating with. Clipping is a handy way to collect and organize the most important slides from a presentation. No, you want to do everything in your power to win her back and if that means being aggressive then so be it. Now, as I explained above, thoughts are very powerful as they can make you either feel good or bad.
Causing your ex girlfriend to go through this process is not a winning strategy to get an ex back.
And as a result of the conversations that I have had with you guys I have learned a lot about your mentality. For example, if they are doing a 30 day no contact rule and their ex contacts them on day 15 then they ignore. Now, I suppose that isn’t anything too out of the ordinary but what was remarkable was the fact that he created a graphic to go along with it.
They wanted you to feel the feelings that you would feel and they wanted you to do this continually. I’m just trying to understand the why and the psychology of giving the space and why it works better. Before, it was platonic but then we had sex twice while I was out there and everything was fine until I flew back home.
We broke up four months ago and since then I have been on the quest to get her back and I have been very successful thanks to your advice.
In fact, you can make your girlfriend feel like she’s made a huge mistake by even thinking about losing a great guy like you. This relationship is over and I am never, ever going to get back with you” some women will keep you on the side until they find a replacement guy. It sounds cold I know, but that’s what many people do to each other at the end of a relationship to avoid being the one who is in pain. If you don’t do it and simply expect that a woman will stay with you because things felt good at the start, a woman will eventually dump you. It is a huge opportunity for you to improve your ability to make her feel love, respect and attraction for you and become an even better man that you are right now.
She knows that if she gets pregnant to you, it will mean that you’ll always be a part of her life. She won’t want to risk having sex with you and then being stuck feeling unhappy for life. If you keep making the same old mistakes that have caused her to lose respect and attraction for you, her sexual desire for you will be minimal or non-existent. She doesn’t want to feel like she has to teach you how to be the man that she really needs.
However, the majority of guys these days never get taught what it really means to be a man.
If you don’t, women will break up with you after the initial lust has worn off, or when she gets to a point where she is sick and tired of not feeling enough respect and attraction for you.
If she contacts you after having some space from you and discovers that you still don’t understand how to be the type of man that she needs you to be, she will want to remain broken up. Then, she will begin to worry that she is losing a great man and will reach out and contact you in some way.
When you know that most of the women you meet feel attracted to you and are interested in you, the need for your girlfriend decreases. Sometimes, a woman will get lonely and contact her guy if he gives her space, but it will NOT fix the real reasons for the break up. However, she will just break up with you again when she feels emotionally ready, or she’ll string you along until she finds a new guy to replace you. If you are more in love with her than she is with you, more attracted to her than she is with you, etc, then she is going to feel like not only is she putting up with a less than desirable man, but she has to take care of his child as well. At the age of 28, you really don’t know the YOU that is ahead of you and how your life will unfold.
Right now, I’m 35 and when I experienced what you did at age 23, I thought I had it all figured out too. If you want to learn what I know, which makes women fall MADLY in love with me and makes their feelings of love, attraction and respect GROW over time, rather than fade away, I recommend you watch Better Than a Bad Boy.
Don’t let her push you around like that and make you behave like her little puppy dog.
Me and my girlfriend are been together for 6 years we started to date when we were in high school when she turn 18 we decide to have skid together Evrything was okay until she cheated on me and I was mad so I started to talk to girls she found out and we kept doing this to each other.
You and your girl are going through natural changes that people in the early 20s go through where you start to work out what you really want from life. If you make the mistakes I outline in this article, you will only push her further away: Can You Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back?
Basically, it sounds like you’ve made the mistake of making this girl the focus of your life and avoiding a lot of your true potential as a man because of it. Also she said we have been drifting apart and I never dealt like that and if we did it was because of school so we got busy. It just highlights to her that you’re unstable and, unlike other men, you need pharmaceutical chemicals to keep your emotions in check. I have a sneaking suspicion that is because she wants to sleep with another guy first, so she at least gets even. Yet during my 20 month relationship ( Which was completely healthy and loving about 99.5% of the time) I stopped training as much, I vacated my status as British champion to pursue my sport in a different weight category but it never came to fruition, Purely as i found excuses. A woman won’t break up with a man because he vacated his championship status and dropped down to simply being excellent at what he does. Upon last speaking with her i had vacated my titles, lost contact with the people that had helped me get there and i was not taking the kind of care of myself that i usually do.
Yet i have rebuilt the bridges, addressed my insecurity’s and am really focused on pushing it through and maintaining the confidence i always had prior to the breakup. It doesn’t mean she slept with him, but it sounds like, because of your high status, attractiveness to other women and ability to get a replacement woman quite quickly, she would have wanted to have an instant man ready and waiting after she broke up with you.
It’s been a week and all of her stuff is still here at my place (its not a lot, some clothing, a few odds and sods, and she still has my house key.
The real reason is that she lost respect and attraction for you because you’re too afraid to stand up for yourself and be a man, so she now cannot feel true love for you.
I’ve already decided to start calling people on their crap and to get rid of the people who see me as someone they can disrespect.
Youve just gonethrough a breakup, and now your ex girlfriend needs time.It is the phrase you do not desire to listen to at all. Of course, since the thought that your ex had was about the breakup it is going to make her feel bad (square two.) Now, I also explained that human beings run towards good feelings and away from bad feelings. Now, the way I teach the no contact rule is a lot different than most people but men who employ the aggressive strategy don’t often heed my advice and go into a hardcore no contact. However, if their ex doesn’t contact them until day 61 then that would be when they end their hardcore no contact. I broke up with my 3.5 month long girlfriend two days ago because of repeat offenses of the same things (ignoring me for long periods of time, promising to contact me at certain times and then not doing so, backsliding on a couple other things she said she would stop, avoiding my confrontation of her actions even when I did it peacefully), and because of numerous hours of not communicating with me or answering any questions, I assumed an unspoken breakup and removed her from my contacts and friends. And then right away instead of giving her space I got her to go on a date with me asked her out again way too quick broke down like crazy (while also going to sex addict anonymous meetings) and now she really needs space. Then this last month april i finally started to listen and gave her space and went two weeks with out texting or calling no contact until 15 days out and i broke and text her to see if she could talk.
She said she regretted it but we both agreed we had feelings for each but because of our distance we should be friends with benefits. She liked me again and wanted to start talking again, I was so happy but I told myself not to rush things.
When she has that realization, she will come running back to you saying that she misses you and wants to give it another chance.
No other guy that she’d met prior to me had ever made her feel like she wanted to settle down for real.
She will most-likely test you by showing interest in getting back together and then changing her mind to see how you react. I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too.
Dan, you are to me the greatest dating advicer in the world, how can I deal with such a very hard event?


Then, you’ll probably want to make yourself better by feeling the emotions associated with revenge, by hooking up with another woman who is hotter than her and posting those photos up on Facebook. Even though you experienced a unique type of love with this girl, it does not mean you will not experience love again. It’s not cheap to buy, but it will deliver you the priceless benefits of love, confidence and happiness for the rest of your life. In the past, it was shameful to break up (especially if the couple had children like you and your girl have), but these days society doesn’t frown upon divorce or break ups anymore. Right now, it seems like you and your girlfriend have different ideas of what life is about and how important it is to keep a relationship together.
Women don’t want men who try to hide from their purpose in life (or hide from rising through the levels of life and reaching their true potential as a man) behind a relationship with them. I am jet wondering what I should do because I love her and want her, she also told my mom that she stilled lOved me and missed me and still wanted me just she thinks this is for the best. I can teach you to fix it, but my advice (which has taken 7 years of research, testing and application to perfect) is not free.
I want to show her im still the driven man she fell in love for but am very aware that there is a fine line between doing so and flat out just pushing it in someones face.
Even stopped socializing with her friends purely as she didn’t want to leave me alone.
Many men and women do this when getting out a relationship to avoid being the one left alone and lonely. Nice!) and probably feels like she won’t be able to compete with them as she gets older.
It would be great if you could have that conversation with her and let me know how it goes. I’ve had it with people thinking they can walk all over me to make themselves look better.
She begged n pleaded me to show her affection which I did, I paid for 4 holidays to go on, she even lived in my house rent free!!!
You haverecently experienced a split and now your ex girlfriendrequires time.This can be a very hard and puzzling scenario to discoveryourself in, but it is an extremely vital phase on thecondition that you aspire to mend the relationship and getyour ex back.
Do notcompel her to discuss her emotions concerning therelationship (text your ex boyfriend back).Keep aside your mobile phone and do not attempt to texther and phone her. Yet if you do not phone her or text her, keeping track of her via online social networks can be as harmful to the relationship. You can only talk about the kids and other important stuff but no small talk or about each other and you have to be busy and try to do other things, improve your look and other aspects in life.. You have to get to the point where you don’t NEED need her in your life, but you do WANT her in your life.
View customer success stories, browse my products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women. You want her, you want a relationship and marriage with her and you think that it will make you happy for LIFE (even though you and her have stopped having sex and aren’t fully attracted to each other anymore.
However, I eventually realized that a successful relationship (the type of relationships that I’ve had since discovering what I now teach at The Modern Man. The right girl for you is the one who will beg you to marry her and will worship the ground you walk on. She was getting a little out of hand (aggressive) and my back was hurting from tubing so I said something feels off, which it did.
If you are just wanting to be around her all the time, she will feel that you are hiding from your potential behind her. If you watch Better Than a Bad Boy and follow the advice, she will then begin respecting you as a man again, feel deep, uncontrollable attraction for you and fall back in love. As i did get to comfortable and shouldn’t have put all my eggs in the relationship basket. However, I never tried to make her jealous, She had access to my phone and social media at any point she wanted it, so if she wanted to check up on me she could have ( and did fairly regular ). After the break up, she would have tried to sleep with another man quite quickly to help get over you or at least lessen the pain if she found out that you quickly slept with another woman.
If she was willing to leave you for vacating your titles, it shows that she would the type of woman to have an affair while married if the marriage was going through a rough time. What can you do?This piece will offer you with 3 confirmed pointers to assistyou get your ex back when she informs you she requirestime.Grant Her Precisely What She Desires This might appear like the easiest solution in the book, but most guys do not understand it.
On the condition that she is aware that you are keenly tracking her pages she will yet feel like she is under duress from you. When on the phone she said she was starting to heal and i told her look im sorry and i reall love you and want to live the rest of my life with you.
In this comment, I’m not going to explain how you can turn that around because it takes a while to explain. Believe me, there are literally millions of women in this world who would feel like the luckiest woman on Earth to be your girlfriend. It’s unfortunate that society has changed, but it has changed and we modern men need to adapt our ways to secure a successful relationship. We were happy at first then she started breaking up with me for stupid reasons and I didn’t know why.
However, if you continue behaving like you have been around her, she is not going to change how she feels.
We was each other first love and shared a connection that I have never experienced before.We were both self concious but could be completely open with each other. A real woman would stick by you, encourage you and give you the time you need to get back on track. Whats the one thing I can do to empower myself and start garnering REAL respect from the world and be a REAL man?
Guys tend to lose their nerve following a split due to the fact that they desire hasty answers. On the condition that you cause her to feeltrapped, compelled or stifled by your being there youwill push here away for ever.Utilize The Time To Your BenefitWhen your ex girlfriend requires time, it does not necessarily mean it is a terrible thing.
Shelistened to me go on and on and was crying saying she was just so sad and didnt know how she could possibly believe me again. A successful, happy and fulfilling marriage is not just a friendship, it’s also a sexual relationship). You’ve just got to have the confidence and belief in yourself to walk up and talk to them, then guide them through the process to kissing, sex and into an amazing relationship. In the past, a woman would put up with her man for life instead of facing the shame of a break up.
The past two monthes I started a sexual relationship with another girl and she didnt mean anything but sex to me.
Maybe, in her family (like my family BTW), the idea of divorce or separation of family is completely looked down upon and the couple is expected to stick by one another and work things out instead of breaking up a marriage or family. Guys feel as if they must mend things, therefore they wind up taking actions that compel the matter and end up creating a bigger gap in the relationship. She said you are still thinking about yourself when i asked you for space so i could heal, I said i was sorry i just want to show you who i really am and i want to be true to you forever.
They did but not because I slept with her, I noticed she had a box of condoms in her room, I tried to ignore it but I couldn’t help it. I lead her aside in between some cars so people wouldn’t see her, I hugged her and talked to her and apologized. She also would have needed him a lot more because she couldn’t earn money on her own. Going through your life with a mistaken assumption of why she broke up with you, will only lead to more confusion in future relationships. She has been unresponsive (and I do believe she’s already talking to other guys online). One day I texted her about it and she said we weren’t exclusive yet and that she can still do what ever she wants. You’ll feel optimistic and begin to expect good things to happen to you again, like falling in love and being happy with a new woman.
We drove home and we went into my place and she said she was going home (we had a big night of sex planned).
These days, women can make just as much money as men (or more) and are supported by government systems for single mothers. She didnt answer my calls for three days then eventually called me back after I emailed her. So I agreed and said I would do anything for her, but i am so sad I know she was the one and Im affriad that ill let go now and Im scared of what will happen. I lost it, I told her I never want to speak to her again and told her how cold she was knowing that I has feelings for her. I made out with her at the door very passionately and told her I loved her, she said she loved me. What do I do when my gf tells me she wants to be single but she’s been talking to other guy?
Women don’t need men as much as they used to, so you have to create a relationship dynamic where the woman WANTS to stay with you. The next day I apologized telling her I miss understood what we had, she just told me she needed space.
Personally speaking, my girlfriend will happily sit there watching me play Xbox for 2-3 hours without complaint, because she knows I am a man of purpose.
I called her the next night and she was still heated she eventually calmed down a tad bit but said she needed space and wouldnt agree to met with me in person until she was ready. It appears she is being with me how he was with her, ignoring, disregard for feelings etc!!
On the condition that you do not resolve to sort out the issues in the relationship, then there will be no difference whether or not she returns to you for the reason that thingswill simply go on disintegrating as time goes on.Shun The Desire To Keep Track Of HerIn this present time it can be quite enticing to desireto keep track of your ex girlfriend once she informsyou that she requires time.
Look I know I will treat her right im ready for that but here i am 2 days no contact again and scared of how to handle this. I tried to convince her not to leave but nothing I said worked, she said she will contact me when she is ready. I am rising through the levels of life, I am reaching for my true potential as a man and I am not afraid of the world. To make this complicated her best friend was *just* diagnosed with cancer and her husband left her when her mother was dying, this is all quite recent (within a year). Whenever I am hurt by someone who wrongs me, the longer they go without apologizing or making it right the more resentment builds up inside me. She said she promised she would meet with me eventually but she would have to be ready and she would let me know. If I prevented them from doing so or ignored them doing so, that just seems outright counterintuitive. When she does contact me, should I just start over or should I ask her what her reason for contacting me again, to be friends or to try to work things out?
So, if I want to chill out and play Xbox or have a drink, my girlfriend will be excited to sit with me. She sent me back an email saying she needed some time to herself and would let me know when she would come by for another visit.
The next afternoon I apoligized for pressuring and told her I would give her the space she needed. I know a lot of this getting your ex back stuff is counterintuitive, but this one thing seems really out there. I thought we humans want broken things fixed asap, and if they aren’t fixed soon enough, THAT’S when we go looking for something else? I decided to give her space, but we haven’t been in any form of communication for 4 days.
She emailed me back and said thankyou for apoligizing and she hopes I really am on the path to becoming a better person.



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