Sure, that woman might cook him dinners, perform in bed, and tell him how much she likes him, but none of that stuff penetrates a man’s psychology on a deep and meaningful level. Here are four ways to reach a man deeply and make him want to commit and devote himself fully to you.
I have a confession to make, when I was revising this article to get it ready for publishing, it was three ways to make him commit… not 4. The original article came off cold, harsh, and even depressing because I had left out the most important element of all. On the other hand, there are people who I meet that immediately make me feel uncomfortable and defensive. Between those two extremes, there are all sorts of people who fall somewhere in the middle. As a writer who talks about dating and relationships, what has always amazed me when it comes to relationships is how people completely disregard compatibility. Sometimes the relationship started out well and then over time disintegrated into something that resembles resentment and abuse rather than love or respect. Personally, I needed to date around and experience several relationships before I had a good understanding of what I really wanted, valued, and resonated with in a relationship.
When I think of relationships that didn’t work out for me in the past (ones where I wanted things to work out and I got dumped), I realize that the woman I was with at the time was never going to be that woman with me. I can clearly see now, years later after all the emotion and attachment is completely gone, we never would have reached that level of intimacy that is ultimately valuable to me in a relationship. Real relationship success is not about making a relationship with someone work when, at your core, you and him are ultimately incompatible.
The thing to realize is that people with great relationships don’t have the great relationships because they know great relationship secrets or psychological loopholes of the male mind. If you could email me i just have some questions, i dont like commenting but need a little advice.
Hello Eric, I wanted to introduce myself, my name is Inessa, and I’ve been wanting to write to you and say thank you for quite a while now!
Out of all other advice out there that I was reading, your information is the most that made perfect sense to me, you, at your young age, you have a lot of experience that you were able to collect, organize perfectly and,…help people! I’ve been separated for 2 years now and was always trying to read about relationships, and understand what went wrong in my situation. Well nowadays it is Most of the women that Can’t Commit to just only One man anymore.
This so called advice you give to women is the most misogynistic piece of crap I’ve ever read. Again, I have always been open to discussion of anything (not just this article but my whole body of work over the last 13 years). Eric is saying that perhaps we should look at what other people want for a change and focus in on that . Please be kind, this man is trying to help and has dedicated his life work to understand the sexes communicate better. This article is surprisingly well written considering that most refer to manipulation of some sort.
You have given the best advice that I have ever read from any article or book out there and trust I have read MANY. This guy I went on a few dates with recently told me that I was a cool person but he thought that we weren’t compatible in the long run. Both must choose each other and a man must bring those things to the table as well to be worthy of a woman’s love.

As a woman you continually searched inside yourself for the reasons behind your relationship problems. A narcissist wears a colorful mask in an attempt to hide the ugly cracks that lie hidden underneath it.
A bitch is just sensitivity and sweetness wearing stilettos and lip gloss and refusing to feel broken anymore. Don't try to fix a broken relationship from the past when you can create a so much better one in the present. The difference between being a bitter person and a better person is that one lives in the past and the other one lives in the future. Read some great quotes about narcissist and narcissism for those who have been in a relationship with one.
More break up quotes, sad love sayings and broken heart inspirations can be found at these websites: DailyBreakupInspirations, Tigress Luv Sad Breakup Quotes, and on our facebook pages! Men really aren’t complicated, but getting him to desire you, to crave you, isn’t as easy as you might think. Slideshare uses cookies to improve functionality and performance, and to provide you with relevant advertising. I really like the fact that you got back to me so quickly, that made me feel special and cared for, thanks! It was straight to the point but very in depth with how simple it is to keep your man into you. Apparently women should forget about themselves and just revolve around what their guy wants. What I think he is saying is that we are all caught up in what WE all want (which is pretty normal human behavior , male or Female ). Not at all to say give up your morals, boundaries, perspectives as strong independent woman. Yet, I would like to take a middle ground here in the positions taken by Eric Charles and Jennie. I see where I have been going wrong with my relationships and I see that I am putting too much of what I want them to be for me in it.
I’ve given myself a week away from him because of exams anyway and time to gather my thoughts. So relevant in my life right now and will help me in our second attempt at happiness with my other half. My question is how do know if your inspiring him to be his best self and inspire him in his lifes mission if you dont know what that is? If all other areas are great but my man feels though he is missing that sexual chemistry with me even though he is very physically attracted to me, is that a deal breaker?
It may not be that he doesn’t love you, but he may just be stressed or not interested anymore. No matter whether you just started dating or have been in a relationship for years, you need to know the secrets to keeping him attracted to you and how to keep that spark alive.
Instead of focusing on the feelings and experience they create for the man, the woman fixates on her own wants, her own worries, her own fears. When you really understand and master the art of tapping into the deep parts of a man’s psyche, he will want to move mountains to possess you.
I see where my negative thoughts have failed me and how I can go about changing me to be a better me for a relationship. He then told me 5 weeks ago that he had feelings for me but wasn’t ready to commit to them yet.

Should I bother bringing it up again, should I stop sleeping with him or should I keep sleeping with him in the hope that he will give me what I want eventually? The guy im kind of seeing has only initiated deep conversation once and it was to ask what i thought about us. If you want to know how to make him want a relationship, you need to understand what makes a man want a relationship in the first place. You try and try to be irresistible and get him to really notice you; heck you may want him to fall head-over-heels in love with you, but there is a problem.
Eric Charles, if there was any way to get your insight on my current situation I would greatly appreciate that. Am i supposed to ask him out right or am i supposed to try and figure it out all on my own? You can’t petend to be someone else to please jom forever, so picture this you are trying to adapt yourself to who he wanrlts and he is still finding flaws. When you are thinking “oh no, my boyfriend is pulling away,” there is still help to reignite the romance and ensure that he falls back into your arms. When your partner is not acting as loving or simply seems unhappy, there are few tricks you can to keep him interested.
I will continue to read and reread your advice until I get myself where I need to be physically and emotionally.
But at the same time I don’t want to keep sleeping with him if it is just going to hurt me and he will never give me what I want. I definitely dont live in the moment with the man I have been with and I have gotten the I dont want a relationship thing from him but I definitely see where I went wrong because this man was interested in me from the beginning and he is still here. We didn’t sleep together for 2 weeks but as he lives with 4 of my best friends, we fell back into a sleeping together arrangement again and things pretty much went back to where they stopped.
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He says I have no discipline in my life he blames me for all the arguments we have, and its always my fault.
This guy you are with, needs you a lot more than you need him, be careful not to allow him to force you to change into someone nobody wants, so thy he can keep you all to himself, while he used you. It takes YEARS for the former to develop—and you can only hope that the latter remains. I feel happy at moments but it seems I have to be very careful of what I say and do or how I act when I’m with him. I pretty much said I disagree and coming from a place of security that it would be nice to know that he wasn’t out kissing other girls. Or maybe I’m just trying to hard for this relationship to work which is not going to go anywere! I told him that due to the living situation and fear of getting hurt I may want to remove myself from the situation.
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