If you want your ex boyfriend to miss you (after your breakup) then you definitely came to the right place. Now, I know that’s a bit of a shocking statement to make especially when you consider the state of the “get your back niche” these days. That everyone who comes to the site to read, watch, or comment should be helped and attended to. Now, throughout this article you may notice that a few of our team members chime in and offer little tidbits of advice on top of the advice that I am dishing out. You are still learning from me, Chris Seiter, it’s just that I always think five heads are better than one. So, since you are inquiring about how you can make your ex miss you this page is going to be focused solely on that.
So, lets do a little role playing here and assume that you end up taking the advice I teach on this page to heart and successfully make your ex boyfriend miss you.
Don’t get me wrong, you will absolutely have to make your ex miss you if you want any chance of winning him back but it isn’t going to be enough alone. However, simply getting your ex boyfriend to miss you is essentially like trying to put a puzzle together with just one piece.
But you are probably getting bored of hearing me talk about Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO aren’t you? One of the things that I have always found fascinating when it comes to researching breakups is the scientific data that I come across. And perhaps that’s a little strange for the profession that I have chosen since a lot of getting an ex back is all about believing in an outcome that hasn’t occurred yet. Nevertheless, I think it would be wrong of me to try to teach you something without having proof it works which is why I find the scientific research done on breakups so fascinating. In 2005, psychologist Art Aron, neurologist Lucy Brown, and anthropologist Helen Fisher all teamed up to do an interesting study on individuals who had just recently gone through a breakup. They decided to have the individuals put a brain imaging tool on and then showed them pictures of their ex. The scientists were trying to determine what was happening in the brain of the people who just went through the breakup. The part of the brain that lit up was the same part of the brain that is commonly present in drug addicts who are going through withdrawal.
Facebook Creeping = Spying on an exes Facebook profile after a breakup to see what they are up to.
Well, it means that there is a nearly 90% chance that your ex boyfriend is going to come strolling by your Facebook profile assuming you are still friends there. But again, I still feel this incredible need to provide you with overwhelming statistics before I specifically talk about the advantage you have. Now, does that necessarily mean that if your ex falls into the 71% category that he is going to be missing you? No, remember, this statistic is basically just saying that 71% of people think about their exes too much.
But it gets even better, 60% of people who are married or dating say that their ex is on their mind too much.
Well, I think the important distinction that has to be made is if they are thinking about their ex TOO MUCH or just a little bit.
Hell, I am sure even my own wife has had this happen from time to time but it’s not like she can turn her mind off.
But there is a definite difference between having your mind take a small trip down memory lane and thinking about an ex all day every day. So, if your ex is thinking about you too much then you can ultimately use that to your advantage, right? Well, there is still one more thing that I think we need to cover before I can give you the strategy you should implement and this is something that is going to be important for you to understand because it’s going to directly affect your chances for making him miss you. Without a doubt the number one factor that determines whether a man will miss you or not is always going to be your past relationship with him. Now, I am not like those other relationship experts out there that will tell you what you want to hear 100% of the time. If you had a horrible relationship with your ex your chances of having him miss you is going to be lower. Ok, one more thing to talk about before we can start getting down to the actual strategy of making an ex boyfriend miss you. Did you know that you have a “secret advantage” if you were actually the one to initiate the breakup with your ex? We have already established above that you have an advantage in the fact that most people say that they still think about their ex too much but when you add in the fact that you initiated the breakup your advantage is going to be a little more distinct.
When I get to talking about the no contact rule (really soon) I am going to talk about psychological reactance. Psychological reactance theory basically states that when you take away someones options to do something their attraction to gain their freedom to get that option back increases. Well, now that, Ricky’s freedom to have that toy has been taken away what does he want more than anything? So, by breaking up with your ex you actually increase the chances that he will miss you because his freedom to have you has been taken away. Easy, it’s hard because I am the one that has to come up with the game plan for putting a “cheating couple” back together. So, like I said above, you probably aren’t going to have this secret advantage if you broke up with your ex if he cheated on you.
No, Esther Perel, has dedicated pretty much her whole life to studying infidelity and she has found that oftentimes men and women who cheat are still in love with their partner. I am going to take it as if there is a fundamental problem with your relationship because in my mind a man who is fully satisfied with his relationship will be excited and engaged in his sex life with his partner.
Nevertheless, if you broke up with your ex because he cheated then you aren’t going to have this small little advantage that I am talking about.
And to be honest I can’t think of situation that screams “taking a mans freedom to have you away” more than this one. If you broke up with your ex boyfriend when he didn’t want you to break up with him then you have definitely left him with the impression that you are a very rare commodity.
You will find that the more scarce you are the more attractive you will be to men in general. I mean, something tells me that you wouldn’t find a diamond so attractive if you go buy it for a dollar at the dollar store. Because a portion of the success stories that I had recorded didn’t give me much information.
Not really deep enough for me to determine what that particular person did to succeed in getting their ex back, huh? So, if you were to ask my opinion on how many of the successes used the no contact rule I would put the number closer to 90%.
You are not allowed to call, text, email, Facebook or Google your ex for a specific period of time.
Hell, all you have to do is visit one of my “no contact rule” pages to see just how many women are struggling with it. No, you care about the psychology behind why the no contact rule can make an ex boyfriend miss you, right? The question = Chris, what is the number one mistake you see people making after a breakup. I mean, put yourself in your ex boyfriends shoes for a second assuming that you were bugging the hell out of him after a breakup with you. Would you find it attractive if someone you didn’t have feelings for anymore was bugging you every five seconds trying to convince you to do something you didn’t want to do? Truthfully, I watch the movie at least once a year and you know what causes me to watch it? By not giving your ex a chance to miss you, via the no contact rule, you are shooting yourself in the foot.
With psychological reactance in play, your Ex is secretly thinking, “I want what you say I can’t have. I have this theory that the harder you make it for him to get you back the more he will appreciate you when he has you. The harder you make it for him to get you back the more he is going to appreciate you once he gets you back. And the no contact rule can provide that difficulty for him to succeed in getting you back. Now, if you are confused as to what this is let me give you a quick history of social media. So, if you don’t know my wife she is in charge of our YouTube channel and our marketing experts. Well, one day she decided that we should be featured on “Ted Talks” so she started trying to network with some of the people over at “Ted Talks” and she managed to locate one of the person’s Facebook profiles. So, rather than asking me to reach out directly she decided that since this person was a man it would be better if she reached out since she knows she is a very beautiful woman.
Anyways, what do you think happened to her after she changed her profile picture on Facebook from our child to a sexy looking picture of her. I am going to teach you my two best methods for catching a mans attention via social media. Now, even though this picture isn’t bad it isn’t earth shatteringly amazing which is what I should be going for. This is the kind of picture that I want you to be posting to your social media profile as your profile picture. So, I guess what I am saying is that you should hire a professional photographer to take your picture.
Often times it’s the things that make us step outside our comfort zone that yield the best results. But when I would spy on her Facebook profile and see that she wasn’t depressed it would drive me nuts. Anyways, one trend that I began to notice with a lot of my success stories was the fact that the women who ended up succeeding were actually completely moved on from the break up and living successful lives. Anyways, I kept seeing this phenomenon pop up again and again so when I did an audit of my success stories last month I learned that a lot of women who had actually completely moved on from their exes were able to get him back.
In this section we are going to look at a number of things that you can specifically do to make him miss you while in the midst of the Frank Sinatra Effect. When it comes to getting your ex boyfriend back you have to accept the fact that there are a certain amount of factors that are completely out of your control. I explained that she didn’t look like that back when I knew her but now that I saw this new and improved version I wanted her immediately. During the day of the date I had reached out to her to ask if we were still on (BIG MISTAKE) and got no response…. It was starting to become clear that I was going to get stood up if I went to the restaurant but I figured I would give it one more try. If you were to ask me what I thought one of the biggest mistakes that I see women engaging in are I would definitely have to say that becoming to obsessed with their ex is at the top of the list. In order to truly “move on, without moving on” you can’t be too worried about what your ex is doing.
I haven’t talked a lot about this yet because maybe I am trying to save something for my book. If you really want to make the most of the Frank Sinatra effect I am going to teach you an amazing strategy. Basically if you want to utilize the Frank Sinatra effect to the fullest I recommend that you try to maximize these three areas of your life. What you are trying to do here is find a perfect balance between your health, wealth and relationships. I am a guy and let me tell you that I do not find it attractive when someone, who after a breakup, sits on the couch all day and eats ice cream. Here is the kicker though, a few days later when I logged on Facebook I found that she wasn’t quite as devastated as I thought. It probably won’t go over too well if he checks on your Facebook profile and sees you making out with three different guys.
In this example I am going to show you a specific text message that is meant to make your ex a little jealous. You are both still long distance and will likely have many of the same problems that caused you to break up in the first place. That’s what this guide is going to be all about, how to make a long distance relationship work. If you have truly fallen for someone then you want nothing more than to be next to them all the time. One of the best parts about dating someone new for the first time is that you often can’t take your hands off each other. My point is simple, in a long distance relationship you only get to do those things in short bursts.


Before I tackle this age old question and how it relates to LDR’s lets take a moment to define what each of these quotes mean.
Obviously a lot of it depends on the two individuals in the relationship and how committed they are to making it work. For example, I had a woman comment here on the site once that she cheated on her (now) ex boyfriend. Well, it turns out that they were in a long distance relationship and her (now) ex boyfriend just stopped paying attention to her. What is the best way to ensure that the absence doesn’t grow so bad that your significant other strays? For example, a common routine for a couple in a long distance relationship would be to text each other all day and then call, FaceTime or Skype each other at night.
Of course, the problem with this routine in a long distance relationship is that even though each person is paying attention to one another constantly there still isn’t any physical contact being made. I would like to take a moment and illustrate an important point about routine and distance by using two examples of couples. So, the question I want to pose to you is how often should each of these couples get into the routine of seeing each other in person? While being separated by your significant other by 100 miles is certainly considered long distance it isn’t like you are being separated by 1000 miles like the other example I am about to pose. At the end of the day (or even throughout the day) the couple should call each other, FaceTime or Skype. Every week or every other week the two people should take turns visiting each other (face to face) to strengthen their physical connection. Lets take a look at a more complicated relationship, a LDR where the couple is separated by thousands of miles.
When it comes to long distance relationships a couple who is separated by a thousand miles has it pretty rough.
So, what is an ideal number for the amount of times a “1000 mile LDR couple” should see each other in person?
Long distance relationships have a very interesting aspect to them that I don’t hear that many people mention. A couple in which both people have established careers in which they earn a decent amount of income every year? A couple where both people are just out of high school where they don’t have much money at all? It’s pretty much common sense that the 1000 mile couple is going to have to pay a lot more since plane tickets can cost a lot of money.
I am simply saying that if you don’t have money to spend on a trip then it is going to make your LDR that much harder to succeed.
I have been pretty adamant about the fact that I think LDR couples should get into a consistent routine of seeing each other in person. In other words, not only do LDR’s create financial hardships for certain couples but they can also create headwind in the form of time as well. Out of everything I am going to say in this guide this is without a doubt the most important section.
Most long distance couples have their heads in the sand when it comes to thinking about the future. My guess is that they don’t like to think about the possibility of not being together long term. Well, neither of us wants to think about things like that because it hurts too much and we both have strong feelings for each other.
Well, while keeping our heads in the sand will be nice for a little while eventually one of us is going to want a more permanent situation and that is where reality sets in and we realize that we probably aren’t going to work out.
I see this happen with a lot of long distance couples as they don’t have the means to be together permanently. Lets say that you and your long distance boyfriend live across the country from one another (you live in Pennsylvania and your boyfriend lives in Texas.) Well, obviously the two of you should be looking for a more permanent solution where you can be together to see each other in person more frequently.
Now, asking someone to pick up their entire life and move to you or you to them is kind of a scary thought which is why most people in a long distance relationship aren’t willing to make the necessary sacrifices. I have already established that for a long distance relationship to work there has to be an overarching goal in which the two people involved in the relationship see each other on a daily basis to satisfy each others physical needs. Because you are asking someone to leave their friends, family and job for a relationship that has no guarantee of working out. This is why most long distance relationships fail because someone isn’t willing to make this kind of sacrifice. Lets pretend for a moment that your significant other (who lives in another state) has agreed to make a move to come live in your state. Look, if you get another human being to put his or her life behind them to be with you then what greater commitment to your relationship is there than that? Well, if you look at these men simply based on their age you are going to guess the man who is 30 years old? Probably because he is completely finished with his schooling, has settled into a career and he has had a lot more time to save up money.
The older you are in a long distance relationship the more means you have available to you to make things work. Take a look at the sacrifices I mentioned in the above section (someone is going to have to move, you will have to live together most likely if someone does move.) Well, I know it is easy to get caught up in the romance of a long distance relationship.
An 18 year old kid with no money isn’t going to be able to make those kind of sacrifices. Lets stay with our example of the two men (one aged 18 and one aged 30) for the maturity example. A 30 year old man is probably going to have a lot more life experience to draw upon which means that he is going to know the best way to handle all kinds of situations. Lets compare that to an 18 year old boy in high school who doesn’t have much life experience of his own. Of course, an 18 year old most likely doesn’t have any experience with a serious relationships at all so he will probably be experiencing a lot of new emotions at once and how does that famous saying go? For me, an obstacle is anything that is going to stand in the way of making your relationship succeed.
In long distance relationships 90% of your problems stem from the distance and not from actual relationship problems? For example, lets say that an imaginary man and woman (lets call them Harry and Sally) are in a long distance relationship. I think it’s smart to have something to hold onto like a goal that the both of you have to achieve.
Instead of getting irritable at how much the distance is bothering the both of you what do you think would happen if you both were so fierce in your commitment to each other that you just focused on getting rid of the distance? Do you think you would be having silly fights over pointless things caused by the distance? Of course, when you are dealing with a long distance relationship everything is intensified because of the distance. Imagine that you and your significant other are dating one another and are in a long distance relationship.
You will experience anger because it is going to feel like your long distance partner went behind your back and went on a date with someone else.
You are going to experience jealousy because human beings tend to have possessive qualities here and there and the thought that your partner could find a connection like the one they have with you is going to scare you a little bit.
Now, lets stay with the example here because I feel it allows me to illustrate multiple points.
When you add in the distance to this craziness you can get someone who becomes extremely paranoid. Look, I have never met a person who isn’t afraid of getting cheated on at some point.
So, if you are in a LDR where you or your partner are plagued with jealousy and infidelity fears how are you supposed to handle them? Do you remember how earlier in this guide I suggested that you and your partner do everything you can to combat the distance by staying close to each other via texts, phone calls, Skype and Facetime? Now, obviously the risk of being this close is that you could come off as being overbearing.
This is the one that I think most people struggle with when it comes to a long distance relationship. The first one I have talked about multiple times, HAVE A PERMANENT SOLUTION TO BE TOGETHER! Look, one of the biggest benefits to having a relationship with someone is how you can be together physically and no I am just not talking about sex.
The second solution is all about setting up times to see each other until you can reach that permanent solution. In other words, see each other as much as possible in person until you can find that permanent fix!
My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of.
The whole April we talk about everything and sometimes our chat only consist of sending each other Facebook messenger stickers and emojis. We met online, started with texting, get together almost 1 month and he left went back to home country.
The last message i texted him, just when I think he will never reply, and I almost give up, he replied.
My ex performed the full block out, somehow information is spread between mutual co workers and passed around to me.
I’m confused and depressed… Does this mean he has another girl, did he cheat, or is it the situation? My fiance broke up with me last Monday, before that we had an argument Sunday night and I called him selfish. Today I saw this article and found it suits my situation at the moment but have no idea what to do next. I had been constantly fought with him with this kind of topics because he made me feel he would care about me or this relationship less if I don’t point out the things I wish he could do for me. However, I still have contact with his sister every other day since me and my ex started LDR, we always have much fun stuff to share with each other, and we actually have never talked about my ex in our conversation after we broke up. Today his sister told me that my ex bf keeps asking her if I messaged her and If we were talking about him.
And I wonder if NC could also work well since we are in long distance with 12 hours time differences? I’ve met this guy via social media and we live in different towns (not so far) and the conversations were creative and innerself revealing.
So when we came across this list of "Things To Remember," originally posted by donttrustthevoices on Tumblr, we had to share it. Sure, we can question what the creator means by "being a bitch" and how "necessary" it is, but overall, these are great reminders. You will find that my site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery is a lot different than the rest of my peers. I mean, just the other day I was doing research on a forum and I saw hundreds of women NOT getting answered. Don’t be alarmed by that.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
So, without further ado, I give you the method in which you should employ to make your ex miss you. Oh, and one thing we are really good about here on Ex Boyfriend Recovery is answering people’s questions.
Just ask Veronika Lukacs who conducted the study as part of her Media Studies Masters thesis, in which she looked at how many people have admitted to “Facebook Creeping” on an ex. So, this basically tells us that even if you are married you may still think about your ex too much. He Can Break Up With You- Where your ex boyfriend actually is the one to initiate the break up. You Can Break Up With Him- Where YOU actually are the one to initiate the break up with him. And for a man to cheat on you generally means that the wasn’t fully satisfied with the relationship.
The no contact rule is without a doubt one of the most successful strategies for getting an ex back. If during that “period of time” you are contacted by your ex you are not allowed to respond. Behavioral freedoms vary in importance, with some being highly important because they deal with critical survival. In other words, the probability that your ex boyfriend is going to peek at your profile at some point post breakup is high. In other words, if we want to get featured anywhere popular she is in charge of making that happen.


You can potentially make your ex boyfriend one of those men and show him what he is missing out on by posting strategic pictures on your social media profiles. Here is my general rule of thumb, any picture that makes you look like you belong in a magazine is definitely the one you should have as your profile picture. Now, for those of you who don’t want to step outside the comfort zone and hire a photographer I have one piece of advice to you.
I want this exact thing to unfold for you when your ex boyfriend snoops around your profile. To me, teaching people to get back with their exes is my passion and in order for me to give people advice I need to understand the trends.
However, when it comes to making him miss you there are a lot of things you can do that will improve your chances. The plan was that we were going to meet there and we would probably go for a walk after that.
During your no contact period (which is when you should probably be in the Frank Sinatra mindset) make sure you don’t focus on your ex too much. It is important to remember that the two of you broke up and while you may want him back you need to understand that rome was not built in a day and you won’t get him back in a day. She had posted pictures of her having fun with friends and basically having a really fun social life. Notice how in the example below you didn’t specify if your movie date was with a male or a female.
Thus, it makes sense that most of the things I write for it are geared towards an audience of women who are desperate to win back their man. Well, lets imagine for a moment that you were in a long distance relationship with an ex boyfriend and you just happened to get him back. Of course, if you are long distance it’s kind of impossible to do that and therein lies our problem.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? For example, lets say that you and I were in a long distance relationship and we only see each other for a few days every single month. Again, lets pretend that we have a long distance relationship and see each other only two days every month. However, from my vast experience dealing with a lot of different long distance situations on this site I would have to say that both quotes are extremely accurate. However, if you stay absent for too long then it’s likely that the other person is going to stray. These types of routines are good because it gives each person something to look forward to each and every day. Each couple is in a long distance relationship and is separated by a certain amount of distance.
I think it is fair to say that a couple separated by 100 miles should be seeing each other in person 2-4 times a month.
I mean, it’s not like you can just drive a couple of hours and see them every weekend.
Seeing your better half if you are separated by a considerable amount of distance is going to cost money.
Of course, don’t discount the fact that gassing up your car to drive one hundred miles to see your significant other is going to set you back a bit financially as well.
Not only do you have to set time aside every single day to be close to your significant other via texts and phone calls but you have to clear your schedule months in advance for a face to face meeting. For example, lets say that you and I are in a long distance relationship and neither of us have the finances or time to be together permanently. This means that for those couples separated by a considerable amount of distance someone in the relationship is going to have to move to the other one.
Well, if your better half is willing to make that kind of sacrifice then you might have to be willing to make a sacrifice of your own by living together.
Some of these views are very old fashioned in that some women believe it isn’t right to live together until you get married. It’s so nice to plan things out and daydream at how great things can be if you do wind up together with your significant other but eventually reality has to set in and the reality of a long distance relationship is that in order for you to come to a permanent solution where you can have a non long distance relationship with this person you or the person has to have the finances to make it happen. Of course, there are always those exceptions to the rule where you find an exceptional person who is wise beyond his or her years but we are stereotyping here, remember? Also, you can’t discount that a 30 year old man has probably been through a number of relationships in his personal life so he will properly know how to handle the feelings he is having.
Of course, your feelings can almost intensify tenfold if you are long distance (remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder ?? .) It takes a very mature individual to be able to deal with the distance and make the decisions necessary to ensure that the relationship thrives and as sad as this is to say I feel that younger people experiencing relationships for the first time are at a disadvantage.
I mean, the more serious you are about the relationship the more you just want to be next to that person all the time yet the distance between you prevents that from happening. Every time my family would go grocery shopping I would get this one specific TV dinner and I would just crave it at different times throughout the week. Sometimes the distance can become so annoying that you start to take it out on your partner. Well, one day Sally starts to feel that the distance is beginning to get unbearable and she becomes extremely irritable at every little thing.
Some experts out there would have you believe that being jealous is a bad thing that can potentially harm your relationship in the long run. All of a sudden your partner calls you up and tells you that they got invited out to lunch with a member of the opposite sex and they accepted. Well, one of the benefits of doing that is that you can kind of combat any fears of infidelity with extreme closeness. After a week or 2, we decided to meet up for lunch, and we like each other a lot then we meet again next day. I know it’s short timing but I really do like him a lot, and when he is around, I can feel his seriousness.
Well that’s because his parents missed him, he already had the ticket and he already had extended his stay for months). We did what the typical LDR couples would do… By I can see that we were going down the line in the middle of our 8-month LDR.
We’d benn together for almost 6 months, and we had talked about building a life together. We got to know each other deeper every day and were constantly updating each other about where we are or what are we up to. So, that puts you in a pretty good place because many of you will find that it’s not going to take too much to get him to miss you.
A few weeks ago I compiled all of my recorded success stories to try to determine any correlations that I could find between what the people who had actually won their exes back were doing that the people who were failing weren’t.
Stephen Worchel (2004) suggested that these freedoms help define the individual’s self-identity. But lets take a trip to fantasy land (your favorite place in the world) and say that you successfully get your ex back.
I am saying that this tactic (getting in shape) will be beneficial to you in not only making your ex boyfriend miss you but it will be beneficial in helping you with future relationships (if you have them.) How effective is this tactic?
You basically leave it up to your ex to assume if you went to see a romantic movie with a guy or a girl. Of course, every once in a while I get bold and decide to go the opposite route and talk to the general population about general relationship topics. Well, we would get to do the things listed above during those days we have together but then all of a sudden when we are separated its a bit shocking because all of a sudden you are taken away from the thing you want most in the world. Well, turns out that those two days aren’t enough for you and you begin to stray and end up cheating on me because I was never around due to the distance.
Eventually he became so absent that she started to stray and eventually ended up cheating on him with one of her guy friends.
No, in order to see your better half you have to buy a plane ticket and make sure both of your schedules are cleared.
In other words, we are stuck where we are and the possibility of seeing each other every day (like most couples) isn’t feasible. Both of these men are currently in long distance relationships with someone of a similar age. Well, whenever I would crave it I would run downstairs, open the refrigerator, pick it out and make it.
While I definitely think that too much jealousy can be harmful I also believe that a little jealousy can be a good thing because it is an indication to the other person to show them that you really care about them. Unfortunately, this fear is multiplied in long distance relationships because of the distance and being so far away. For example, if you know your better half isn’t a huge fan of talking every five seconds then it is ok to give them some space.
That means that every time this couple sees each other they can do things like hold hands, kiss, cuddle and have sex.
If you and your partner have something worked out to where you can be together permanently in the future you both having something to work for. I thought about it a lot and asked him if I wait, what do he think and he was so happy and he promise he will come back for me. He met my family members, he even say that I should meet his as well in the future, but in just a few days time everything is changed. He has been distancing himself after the 1st party (he was mad at me, he thought I went clubbing). Instead he ignored me the whole day – he said the following day that he lost his phone. Yes we are in a long distance,one reason why we always argue(because of the distance).After he broke up with me I became a text and call gnat. Sometimes it would be short and sweet, sometimes longer, depending of work (hard working type of guy). It gives both of you a “cool off period” to calm down from the breakup, it gives you the opportunity to improve yourself during the “cool off period” and it raises the chances that he will miss you. Her active social life made me realize what I was missing out on and made me a little jealous and angry that she wasn’t as devastated.
Of course, if you are going to use jealousy on your ex boyfriend it has to be done a specific way. I will never forget this one time when my little brother decided to take the last TV dinner for himself. Of course, Harry doesn’t take too kindly to this and he begins to get angry with her and then the next thing you know the two are fighting about pointless things. Yes, you still want to be close with them but instead of keeping them close to the chest you keep them at arms length.
But I don’t want to contact him, he will see me as very vulnerable and he will know he has control. When I asked his friend first (that’s the only fine too, that he only texted me), his friend said that there was no signal. Later on he kept telling me i understand and respect him like no other woman before, that his heart is mine and he sees his future with me, and like he feels he found the one he was looking for. Of course, I didn’t find out until I got my usual cravings for it, came downstairs and discovered that the TV dinner that I loved so very much was nowhere to be found.
I mentioned out of the blue that I will go to another city (where he also lives and works).
I think they were together during that 1st party (the sh*tty part is that he didn’t even mentioned that that girl was there too at the 2nd party)!
I asked him if we still have a chance and he said he want me to move on and he is letting me go. I asked him if it is okay with him if I will go out with another guy but he aid he will honestly not tolerate me cheating on him. Anyways, this girl had a very pretty face but I am not afraid to say that she was a little… chubby and for me it took away from her looks.
I said I will never do that because in my heart he is already my husband and would wait for him even when he will have a new girl, I would still wait till he come back to me. The thing is, along with his hardworking routine lately he started renovating and repairing his real estate, which he once told me he had purchased to live with his wife if he marries someday. They say that whatever you share in your Facebook a reflection of what you are feeling or that you greatly relate to it.
I started with all these lengthy texting to him and even myself feel regret after that, it sounds like I do not understand him enough. I think he got annoyed with me, my fault too, I was b*tching out a lot – I never liked being ignored but he kept doing it!
I even asked him if he want me to change my surname on FB because when we got engage I started using his surname.
This breakup I waited 20 days thinking he would call me or reach out bc every break up he never attempted too, it was always me!




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