Before you even attempt to make your ex jealous lets talk a little about what you want your ultimate goal to be.
What I am going to do now is give you a brief overview of how to properly use jealousy and then I will talk about each aspect in-depth. The No Contact Rule- You are not allowed to contact your ex in any way after the breakup for a minimum of 30 days. Alright, now that you have an idea of what the no contact rule is I am going to talk a little bit about the things you can do during the no contact period that can will your ex jealous. I get a lot of emails every single day (random fact- I have 9 unanswered emails in my inbox just from today) and one of the most common mistakes I see from women is the fact that they don’t do anything at all during the no contact period.
Look, if you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous I seriously want you to spend those 30 days NOT thinking about him. Disclaimer: Some of the things on this list WILL make you uncomfortable but I am not in the business of being nice for the sake of being nice I am trying to give you advice that will help make your ex jealous and hopefully put you in a position to where you can get him back.
If you are an avid reader of this site then you may be aware that I am very much in favor of going out on a date with someone new during the no contact period. Now, I am aware that you are looking for an exact step by step method for what you need to say to your ex but I am not going to get into that here because this page is supposed to only be about the ways you can make your ex jealous (I actually put together a guide about how you can use texting to get your ex back already.) What I will do is give you a few ground rules that you need to follow when contacting your ex.
Showing that you have control of the conversation is very important for a number of reasons.
Well, luckily for you I have been on the receiving end of quite a few ungettable girls so I can tell you some of the tactics that they were able to use on me that proved to be pretty effective. There is a lot more to the story but as you can see she dominated the very first conversation we had.
Bowing Out Of The Conversations By Not Responding- This is a pretty effective way to establish control.
Since we are on the subject of texting lets talk a little about the most important type of text if you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous, the jealousy texts.
My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of. We are long distance which complicates things but we had a long talk the other night and agreed it’s best that we part ways.
Been reading your advice since day 1 of the of a two year relationship break up 3 months ago. I was seeing someone since February but it never got serious he never asked me out we just slept together through the year. Hi there i have a a few things i need help with been dating this guy i love n he says im his everything n he loves me we been dating since 2012 have a 2 year old son he was running his own busniss and reno a house which made alot of stress he has broke up with me 10 times never last more then a couple weeks sometimes even days bc we would disagree or he would take on more stuff rather than realzizing what a family needs not just his own.
Hi Chris, so I came to this site because after 6 years together my boyfriend broke up with me and I was trying to do what other sites say to move on from the relationship by trying my best not to contact him and you know give myself time to mourn the relationship.
That being said, I can totally understand the urge to want to make your ex jealous – and I can totally help you out with that.
Ignore The BreakupOver time, I have learned that one of the best ways to get under someone's skin is to ignore them. But when I came back to Nigeria he suddenly kind of avoiding me by making a lot of excuses, we haven’t even seen each other, since I came back for almost 6 months now. But while I was in outside the country, I always told him I can’t wait to see that I have surprise for him to let him how much I loved him. When Your Ex Gets Married Before YouJune 18, 2015 • By Tobi AtteNo matter who you are…no matter how the relationship ended, whether they were bad for you or good for you…doesn’t matter. Some cases are better than others (like when YOU did the breaking up with them and are in a thriving relationship).
You may be quick to assume that these negative feelings or knots in your stomach occur when there are lingering feelings for that Ex…but that is not always true.
You know…going on that shopping spree or being somewhat outrageous in any way…over doing anything, throwing caution to the wind and being excessive in any way. Like…throwing a party so people can see you are the man, wearing your latest risque outfit so that people (and perhaps he) can see what he is missing. You might be thinking “Not going will make it look like I am bitter” but again it all depends. When an Ex is getting married or is moving on to another relationship, one of the gut feelings that can come on us is the feeling that we are not good enough. If you don’t sit down and learn from that break up, it will just be another failed relationship. If you truly seek to learn from that relationship, your next relationship(s) will be better for it…and that’s a really good thing. I know it can be tough but your value is not reduced simply because the combination of you and someone else did not work.
Tobi Atte is a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner, motivational speaker and the writer behind IJustMetMe, a lifestyle website for young adults who need a good dose of daily inspiration to tackle tough life issues.
Now, I can’t guarantee that the tactics on this page will make him jealous because lets be honest, your boyfriend is a human being and most human beings are impossible to control. BUT I do feel it is important to mention that if you came here looking for a way to get your ex boyfriend back you aren’t going to find it. A married friend of mine once told me a little about the psychology behind a mans thinking and I happen to agree with him.
If you want to make your ex boyfriend jealous for the sake of making him jealous then I don’t think this is the page for you. I want you to go down the checklist I am about to provide and address all of the things on it. In college, I began to notice a pattern between the girls I liked and the girls I didn’t like anymore.
She basically has so much confidence that she reduces a guy into thinking that he can’t get her which really turns 85% of guys on.
Remember, I am just going through my phone in the last six months and pulling out conversations with girls who I really really really liked. He was very genuine the whole time and did say that the cheating was an extremely drunken hook up (basically blackout) and he thought he could just leave it be and move past it, but it started to eat him alive when he found out my sister had gotten cheated on.
It wasn’t the easiest relationship, we fought quite a bit due to his drinking and I have a habit of trying to make him jealous so I feel wanted.
I said to him if he was him the guy in a certain place the day before that I had seen and that he looked good.
My boyfriend dumped me two weeks ago and I have not had any contact with him, but I work with his mom and she and I last talked about him three nights ago (I don’t know if she repeated anything to him or not). Our chemistry is something else though and being with him feels so right but I don’t want to make bad decisions and not sure how to act now. We got into an argument and I told him how he dragged me into a game and that he never treated me right because he never asked me to be his girlfriend and thought that we were done because we both said really mean things to each other. I was doing great I was working out and hanging out with my friends, I didn’t really post many photos of myself going out but I did post really good pictures of myself and when I saw he would like them I would post more photos of things we use to do together like a tv show we watched together and foods he liked me to make.
Don't do anything just to get his attention even if you think what you're doing is going to make him jealous. Just make sure you're flirting with guys you actually want to flirt with and not guys like your ex's friends just to get his attention (remember what I said before?). If you spend all of your time focusing on how to get revenge on him or how to make him jealous, that's not going to make you happy - it's just going to make you think about him!


He dis flowered me, n he kpt cheating on me with diffrent gals, n alwys f**king me, n promised to marry me..
I couldn’t see him because I recently lost my Mum and there was some responsibility to do, to solve some problems like legal problem.
I text him that I have a seminar at the university around where he is and I want to take my luggage along when I am travelling back to my destination (Which was the truth and it was a coincident). But if you don’t get a chance, you can always say it over the phone if you happen to talk to him. However, you can make him feel jealous by saying it loudly to your friend knowing that he’s nearby and listening.
Sure, that knot can come because of lingering feelings, but mostly it comes because of our self-evaluation. Or rushing into a relationship to show that you are moving forward and doing well without them. It not only helps you release them, but in fact, hearing yourself say those prayers for them will make you feel like the bigger person…that you are mature and that you are strong….and those are exactly the feelings you need the most at a time like this. One of the positive ways to deal with breakups …is to be INTENTIONAL about learning and growing from that past relationship.
Tobi is also the author of the new book How to Make Sure Your Values are Aligned: A Guide to Avoiding Relationship Frustration. In an effort to awaken us all, my daughter and I decided to write a book compiling 10 stories of immigrants who demonstrate the kindness, the courage and the moxie upon which this country was founded.5 More Amazing Advantages that Men Provide at the Start of Any RelationshipNLP Practitioner Tobi Atte knows that women think they are better at dating than men.
With that being said, I have seen many of the tactics outlined on this page work for many of the women I communicate with. It goes like this, most men forget how good they have it when they have been dating or married for an extended period of time. I don’t want to go into too much detail here about it because I have done multiple in-depth posts about it already like this one. I want you to take a moment and imagine how you have felt when, in your previous relationships you caught wind that your ex went out on a date with a new girl. Now, this tactic was risky and only really worked on me because I clearly had feelings for the girl. A couple of things to note: this girl was probably the most attractive girl I have ever met. I always felt like I wasn’t good enough and she would simply bow out of the conversations whenever she would like.
So, many people have the opinion that cheating is cheating and is unforgivable, however now after talking to him I see he genuinely is hurt because he cried to me saying he missed his bestfriend, and he could not throw away our time together.
He said to me that the guy was so good that he wasn’t him and that he was at home the day before. Do you think I should start the no contact rule as of three nights ago in case he heard that I am still upset? The past time this summer i startrd hanging with griends other guys soon as he got wind he it was blow up my phone going to go to a counslor bevause he is un stable with always letting the stress get the best of him. So recently after almost 4 weeks of no contact, he sends me a text message saying he misses my cooking and my voice, even asked how the food came out and said my tacos were the best (the ones I posted pictures of).
But there are much better ways to do that than getting surgery… so read on to find out what they are! Don't text him or call him to ask for him back and if he texts you, either don't answer, or wait a while before you do. Don't go out of your way to make him notice - but if he does, you KNOW he'll feel super jealous. Saying hello and acting polite will show your ex that you're totally over him (even if you're really not). What I meant about this statement is that, as far as I am concern it is three years we having being sincerely dating. So I send him a text that he should pack my valuable luggage that I kept in the house while I was staying with him for some time before I travel out.
Sure, you may have contributed to the demise of the relationship, but even the worst of us bring good things to relationships when we voluntarily enter those relationships. One of the fastest ways to fill it back up is to put someone else in the position to look at us with value, and one of the ways to put someone in that spot is to be good to them. When we intentionally seek out positive value from anything that causes pain, we reduce the impact of that pain. But, here's Part 2 to his series on all the ways men MIGHT be more prepared (at the start) for healthier relationships than women.5 Amazing Advantages that Men Provide at the Start of Any RelationshipMost women who have been or are in a relationship with a good man will appreciate these points and attest to how true they are and women who are looking forward to being in a relationship with a good man will see these as valuable bits of information to use to identify and further connect with those good men when they come. I was reading a relationship article about jealousy the other day from a pretty well known relationship coach. So, if you want to make him jealous to bring out his protective and romantic side then this is the right page for that.Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes?
I am actually talking about it in this section because I believe that going out on a date (even if you have no intention of actually dating the person) is best to do during the no contact period. Nevertheless, I was the one putting more effort into the conversation which meant she was in control.
Last week we had to see each other and ended up having a really fun time together and hooking up a few times, we both enjoyed our time together and I can tell he misses me, as I do him. I still have feelings for him but will posting a picture of my new friend and me help me or will he think that it’s finally over between us?
I just want him to ask me to be his girlfriend, we went to elementary school together and we have great chemistry. And seen ancounslor was everything i wanted him to be than bam 4 months later same the thing back to his old selfish ways breaking up with me.
What I’m against is girls getting plastic surgery just to try to impress someone else or, in this case, make someone else jealous. Doing any of these 10 tips will make him so jealous he won’t believe he ever let you go in the first place. Don't post sad status updates on your Facebook and don't tweet out heartbroken Taylor Swift lyrics.
Do productive things that make you happy, like joining an art club or taking up a new sport.
Wearing something you love that you just bought will make you feel great and anyone around you will be able to see how happy you are. Instead, make new friends - guys and girls if you want - and post pictures of you guys having fun on social media sites.
On September 2014, I traveled to United Kingdom for a year to go and study a master degree program. Then we spoke and he told me that it is because I said if he fines someone else he loves he should go for her. I did a lot for this guy I paid his school fees, whenever he has no money, I give him money.
Others might not know what you mean, but if you’ve recently broken up with your boyfriend, he will instantly guess what this finally means! As in…even though the relationship ended, there were good things you both brought to the table at some point….so when it fails, know that the relationship didn’t fail simply because YOU didn’t work. What POSITIVE things did you learn from that relationship about friendship, love, life, yourself?


His article basically went on to say that you should never use jealousy to try to get your ex back.
IF you are looking for in-depth details and step by step guides to getting an ex boyfriend or husband back I would like to point you towards Ex Boyfriend Recovery PRO, my E-Book. Here is the kicker though, if a couple like the one I am describing (a man who is comfortable and not tending to his woman’s needs) go out to a bar and the woman starts flirting with other guys the dynamic will completely change. Sure, he will be angry and sad but I promise you at the end of the day he is going to question why he ever let you go.
However, if she doesn’t challenge me, intellectually or emotionally, I will lose interest. Anyways, she dominated the conversation so much that I literally felt like I had no chance so I just gave up even though I really liked her.
Also, not that I think this is going to happen, but what if he contacts me before the NC period is up? I just have to accept the fact that he doesn’t want me for a serious relationship only to sleep with once in a while because even for that I was the one initiating it.
I don’t want to sound like a nagging mom or anything like that, but plastic surgery is a big deal! You don't need to shove it down his throat (making a status like "so much happier without YOU" is obviously a call for attention), but try something more subtle, like a status update with just a smiley face.
Once your ex sees how awesome you're doing, he's going to feel super jealous of your new, exciting life. If he happens to see them, he'll be all like, "Whoa, look at how much fun my ex is having without me." Score. If you act like a brat or say something immature, he's going to walk away thinking, "thank God I don't have to deal with that anymore." Get it? He might have given you some trouble when you were together or he was irritating or something else that bothered you.
Find someone you trust, who is a good listener, and tell them literally how you are feeling. The truth of the matter is that the amount of free information that actually works is a rare commodity but I think I have done a pretty good job of leading the way in that regard. I have found that the rules I am about to describe are the most effective at making your ex a little jealous. All is fair, so I knew he had started to talk to other girls and I did the same by testing the waters with other guys. It worked because a week later he started messaging me telling me he made a stupid drunken mistake again and that this isn’t what he wanted. This will make him wonder exactly what you're smiling about when you're supposed to be crying over him. I was worried and I happen not to be experienced when it comes to relationship, he is the first guy I have ever dated.
So I called him, I was sounding friendly and telling him about my luggage and he didn’t say a word except OK and I hung up. Whatever the reason be, hop along on this wonderful ride and read the below mentioned quotes if you want to make your ex-boyfriend jealous!
Fully express it to them, and then tell them what you would LIKE to feel and let them help you figure out ways to feel them. Someone in need…preferably someone random…and watch how the words they speak into your life and the way they look at you begins to re-fill your self-value bank account. If you use jealousy in a smart way it is almost guaranteed to bring up previous romantic feelings that your ex had for you. I still love my ex and want to be with him but I think he’s conflicted with his feelings. This is definitely not something you should resort to in order to try to make an ex jealous.
My dad sponsored me to school in UK, in order for me to finish within a year and do my PhD program immediately. Then one day, we had an argument and he broke up with me, by telling me that I will not be a homely type and submissive woman, i make him feel inferior, i am authoritative and that is all about my career.
I remember a lot my friends back in my homeland kept telling me that this boyfriend of yours have not being in school since 2013 till now. He says he still loves me but in a way it has changed because when he looks at me he sees all the hurt he has caused me and the mistake he made and he doesn’t know if he can forgive himself. However, after agreeing to be friends, he found out other guys had been approaching me and he continued to get jealous and started yelling and saying mean things to me out of anger, saying I didn’t consider his feelings.
I said things for the sole purpose of just trying to make him jealous and I took it one step too far and he snapped. I just want to know if I have a chance at getting him back, and if so how do I go about it?
In UK, I make sure that I kept calling him every day, because he has financial problem but I don’t.
He knows from the start when he ask me out, I told him my career means a lot to me and he accepted it.Despite my conditions i asked of him yet he accepted.
I would like to be with him again at some point as crazy as that sounds, and want to give the NC method a try.
So how do i follow no contact rule when every day i have to see him bc he pickings up our son from daycare dont nsg him in less its about daycare or are son. Also That I am controlling him (yes it was the truth, I did that to make him a responsibly person) and now he suddenly sees that as a problem.
And I simply said we can’t be friends and also he should never say a word like he owns me, then finally I said that all the best wishes and happiness that I have forgiven him. While I was in UK a lot of my new friends over there kept telling me that my Ex could be cheating on me.
Besides a lot people kept telling me while we are dating that he does not belong to my class. I also ask him how long he started the relationship with the other girl, he said that it is almost a year now.
So I thought of what they told me, I felt that I should test him if it is true, because we have never being distance apart before.
So I told Him that in case he fined someone else he should let me know, and I do not want to be selfish. Besides i happened to know the lady, she sells top-up recharge card to people who want to top up credit on their phone. Because he was also working while schooling, but the money he receives wasn’t enough.
But I couldn’t just listen, I just wanted to be sure at all cost that he is not cheating on me, in order to prove to my friends that is not true. So, I said that statement for 3 times to be sure and then I kept asking if in case he is having an affair.



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