Your ex boyfriend might have refused to talk to you, but that doesn’t mean you can’t get him back. Speaking for men, we don’t really cut off communication with a girl unless we have a pretty solid reason for it. In my experience, the most common reason for a guy to stop talking to his girlfriend is because she has been harassing him.
When you are messaging him constantly or commenting on all of his facebook status updates, you are telling him that you are not still needy and desperate. Maybe your instincts will have you believe that harassing him will make him come back, but it’s not so. OK, I understand it’s a little hard to comprehend the fact that he might move on during the no contact period. If he has a new girlfriend and she is not letting him talk to you, then you have a serious situation. Basically, when you stop pushing, he will start wondering what happened and will try to contact you. However, if he doesn’t contact you during the no contact period, then you will have to take the matter in your own hands and contact him. For the reply, you can either pick up a message that I wrote in the fourth step of the 5-step plan.
After you initiate contact with him, you have to make sure you don’t project an image of neediness. I am on the NC right now after I broke up with my girlfriend, but her birthday is coming up, should I send her a birthday wish text message or not at all?
I would really appreciate your advice as ive read a lot recently & your piece has been the most hopeful for me so far. Yes, I do think there is a chance and you should read this article to know how to implement no contact rule in your situation. Hey Kevin , me and my ex have been broken up for 2 weeks and I’m heartbroken we had been together 2 years.
So me and my boyfriend have been dating for around a year, and he said that he just wanted a break and that he is very stressed right now. My best friend’s birthday is approaching, like it’s less than a week to go and I’m VERY excited, more than I’ve ever been on my own birthday actually which is pretty unusual but it’s alright, it’s her. Then in tenth grade we were shuffled into different sections and I started dating and we grew apart, not so much but well a bit.
When you call him and tell him that you miss him, you are telling him that you are miserable without him and you will do anything to get him back. There is literally nothing you can do that won’t make you look like a crazy, jealous and stalky ex girlfriend.
If you are lucky, it’s just a rebound (Read more about him and his new girlfriend) and it will end soon.
He might not even be able to cope with your silence and start acting a little crazy (angry texts, angry phone calls, mean facebook messages).
This means that the only reason he was so calm about the breakup is because you were making him feel like he still has you. Of course, before you contact him, you should make sure you have gone through the no-contact period and have done everything you are supposed to do during this time (Read the things you should do during the no contact period). You can go ahead and message him right away if you want as long as you don’t message him something needy.
Everything you do or say should send out a message that you are a confident and happy person who is living her life to the fullest. My best guess is he is having second thoughts about the relationship and he just wants to explore his options. I was somewhat needy and text him about 6 times no response so should I just not contact anymore? Apply no contact and realize that you and your baby are better off without him in your life.
So this is wholly and solely to declare my love for the one woman who I call mine in every sense of the word, and very proudly so. But somehow our friendship has never been about how much we talk or we much time we spend together.
He understands that you are hurt from the breakup, and he understands that you want to convince him to get back together, and he is tired of it. In fact, everything you do that makes you look needy is going to make your ex boyfriend less attracted to you and more sure about his decision of breaking up.
If this is the situation, then there is nothing you can do unless he decides to end his no contact. If he decided to start no contact, then every message you send him is only going to make you more needy in his idea.


If you are unfortunate, he might end up marrying the girl and you will never get to talk to him again.
The second one is an obvious ploy to get him to talk to you and the third one is simply boring. You can set an alarm for 30 minutes on your phone and not reply him until the 30 minutes is over. If you want, you can become acquainted with her, but I think it’ll be better for you to just contact with him and move on. He kept texting casual convo which made me mad because I thought he felt bad for me and would move on and him not wanting to be with me made me feel like a doormat. I was with my boyfriend for 5.5 years, in this time we were madly in love with eachother, we brought a house together & everything was fine until about 4 months ago i would say!
As for whether or not he will come back, no one can say for sure, but it’s worth trying.
A month after the first break-up, we saw each other in our hometown and we got back together. However, I made a mistake and texted him a few days afterwards and he said that it is over and that he is moving on.. At first he said we can get back together and in the mean time we’ll just be friends. Not that I don’t do it enough because I do it all the time, but because it’s her birthday, And because I’ve promised to make every birthday of hers special till we’re 80, or till I drop dead.
I know I’m going to feel the exact same way about her even if I see her ten years down the line and we haven’t spoken even a bit. To her I could be a mother, a friend, a sister and a completely unbiased stranger too if she needs advice. I am sure that’s not what you want, that’s why you should take a step back and go on no contact for a while.
One day I missed him a lot and I threw a little tantrum saying things are getting tough whenever I miss you. He told me that he regretted breaking up with me, that he missed me,loved me, and I missed him too really, but a few days later I had to leave back to college and that meant not seeing him again.
And one of his kind of close friends said that he really didn’t want to do this that his grades were just slipping. As it is it’s very hard for me to not say what I feel and when it comes to her this urge increases manifolds. If he still doesn’t respond, then you can either try again after 15 days or try to move on (my advice will be to move on, but I have a feeling you won’t take it).
I don’t want to sugarcoat it but if a guy lets a girl decide whom he talks to, then he is pretty serious about her. As well as all this i was very unhappy in my job to the point ide cry at breakfast from frustration, i let go of myself & the person he fell in love with, i nagged him a lot & made him feel bad for having fun! If he doesn’t want a relationship right now, does that mean that he doesn’t want a relationship all of school? I’ve known her for 7 years now, and strangely enough we spoke for the first time on her birthday too so I remember that very clearly.
She was too reserved, I was new in the school, and her friends at the time, well, she had some fancy tastes. Still, I don’t think I’d ever be mad at her for not trying to contact me, I wouldn’t be able to complain. I told him I would be home that night after having an emotional breakdown but ended up falling asleep on my friend’s couch. We decided we only wanted each other and to stay together until they were in College and then be married. You see our relationship was starting to head south at the end of our relationship, and it was apparent that he was very stressed out because of school, exams, and pressure from his parents. Because wherever she’d be I’d sincerely hope to god that she’s doing great, and there isn’t a single wish of hers that goes unfulfilled.
He said the more we love each other, we would miss each other more and he don’t want a girlfriend who lives 100s of miles away.
He told my mum that there is zero hope for us he doesnt want this no way no how despite the fact that i found out that 2 months ago he asked my mum for my hand in marriage! I saw something on his profile then, got me pissed and I deleted him, him and all of his friends then.
I just want to fix and revive our relationship, I realize that he still has feelings for me but I am terrified that he is going to just give up and move on completely.
Plus I had come from a smaller town, I didn’t know the ways of the big city and I was lost. Then i went into stupid phase recently begging him to give us a chance while he says theres no hope & he doesnt love me the same way as before!


So basically, we started talking during our tests in school because our roll numbers were together so we’d cheat from each other.
We own a house together & hes already called someone to come talk to us about our options & either selling or getting one of our names off! And then we went on to get closer as we played stupid Truth Dare and Stare games during lunch breaks on in free periods.
I took a flight to see him without telling him, he opened the door for me then kept saying we can’t be together. Im my heart im praying to God he sees sense because he is truly the man i wanted to have a future & partnership with. We were together in the next class too, and we’d sit together and chit chat and play games, and we had this big nerd group, but we managed to somehow incorporate stupid girly fights in that too. Together, were strong enough to overcome the worst of the worst; Alone, we struggle to find meaning. When I said something about it he sent a text he was fed up and wanted a break and for me to leave him alone. When he got home he talked saying that I could live in the apartment and he would stay elsewhere. But there’s this unconditional kind of affection that I feel for her that’s free of all the envy hatred jealousy and any negative feeling there is. He said I just kept bringing him down with me when I was upset and that he couldn’t take it anymore. You know those times when you look at a person and they’re happy and you just know that you could do anything to keep them that way. He left to go spend time with family and when he came back we got in a fight and I ended up calling my parents saying I couldn’t be there anymore.
I was too angry at the time and I wanted time alone as I know he just don’t want me to stay in his flat. And it’s a very one in a million kind of a feeling because I don’t think you get to feel something like that very often.
And I still love him a lot…I try so hard to distract myself but deep down I still want him. Years have passed; we’ve had some beautiful memories, and only one little stupid fight that I can remember. And maybe I get a little insecure for the same reason sometimes because she’s showered with love from left, right and centre that sometimes I begin to feel like I hope I don’t lose her to someone. On the way home he began to cry, which he never does, and I tried to get him to talk to me. We sat in the car and he told me he didn’t want to be distanced from his daughter and cried more.
I then told him he cant force himself to have feelings for me that aren’t there and he began to cry more. That night his mom came to get him to try to take his mind off of things and she ended up telling me I was being selfish. I responded by saying I needed to leave to get help for my depression that made him feel like I brought him down with me.
The next day my parents came to get me and that night he texted me saying he hopes I made it safely. The first few days I texted him saying I missed him and that I loved him but he would ignore my texts. He called saying there is no chance of us getting back together but we can be friends and see where it goes from there. I also noticed he was talking to his ex who from what he told me didn’t make him happy. A week after he broke up with me I texted him an update of the baby and that I did indeed tell the doctor that I have been depressed for years and I had gotten anti depressents. He said Thats great to the baby update and Thats good to me getting help and somehow it got brought up about us getting back together and he said he would never have feelings for me again. We didn’t text for two days then he texted me asking a question about something and I asked him about his family who has been ill and how he was doing. His response was just the word alright and he said he was tired so I said okay and to text me later. He keeps telling me one thing then tells me another and Im confused and I feel like he is too.



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