I wanted to create a guide that can teach men how to make their ex girlfriends miss them the way that they miss their ex girlfriends. I suppose the best way to start this thing is to talk about the feeling of missing someone. It’s called Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO and it is probably the best book online right now for winning back your ex girlfriend or husband. A clear precise step by step game plan that will walk you through every single part of the ex recovery process. We have all been in relationships here so we all understand what it’s like to miss someone. This may sound a little strange but I feel it is very accurate with how relationships work now-a-days. If I can get my partner to say these things then I know I have made an amazing impact on their life and I like this fact.
If a girl actually verbalizes that she misses you then it means that in that moment she is indeed probably missing you. The non verbal missing emotion is something I made up based on my own experience with missing someone. This emotion literally never goes away until you are with that person and the second that you leave them the emotion lingers and doesn’t go away until you see them again. Lets say that your ex girlfriend got used to the routine of texting you every morning and every night. Well, according to a study done by Maxwell Maltz, a cosmetic surgeon, it takes 21 days to form a new habit. If we apply this information to what we already know about your ex girlfriends interrupted routine we can assume that after 21 days it is possible that she won’t miss you as much. Of course, there will always be those girls out there that are ready to move on immediately after a breakup.
The thing you have to understand about women and relationships is that most of them aren’t very logical when it comes to their relationships.
Forget about how hard you think it will be to make your ex girlfriend miss you for a moment. As long as you are able to tap into her emotions you have the ability to make her miss you.
Before I give you the actual plan to make your ex girlfriend miss you lets talk about what the overall goal of this page is. If you want a clearer game plan on how to get your ex girlfriend back I suggest you read my monster guide. So, the game plan that I am about to unveil strictly focuses on one thing, figuring out how to make your ex girlfriend miss you. Now, I have written a lot of content for this site already so one of my greatest fears is repeating myself and not giving you enough valuable insight into how you can improve your situation. However, if you sense that my stuff is too generic please make me aware of it in the comments section and I will do my best to improve my writing in the future. Now, there have been plenty of studies also refuting this habit rule but lets take a leap of faith and assume that it is correct. If we assume that the 21 day habit rule is true (which we are assuming it is.) It would take 21 days for your ex girlfriend to not miss you anymore.
This means that during that 21 days it is up to you to do things that forces your ex to remember that she misses you. Is it possible to make your girlfriend miss you if she has forced herself to move on from you via the habit rule? I thought a lot about this predicament when I was researching the stuff on habits and I came to one simple conclusion. While making her miss you after she has moved on is very possible the percentage of being able to pull it off drop.
After you do this you are going to be greeted with 10 organic results (on the first page) from my peers trying to teach you their own methods of making your ex miss you. For example, if your ex were to call you ten times in a row you wouldn’t be allowed to pick up on any one of her calls until the time period of the rule is completed. I have a lot of experience dealing with ex boyfriends and ex girlfriends since I run two websites dealing specifically in these situations.
Of course, there is one thing I think you need to take into account if you want to maximize your chances of making your ex girlfriend miss you.
Of the 10 results on the first page, 7 experts talked about utilizing the no contact rule to make your ex girlfriend miss you. Of course, I like to think that I try to be a bit more insightful than the average expert out there. You see, when I was brainstorming for this page I realized that there is a bit of a dilemma that you can potentially face if you use the no contact rule. With the habit rule I hypothesized that if your ex girlfriend wanted to she could potentially get over you in 21 days which will drastically decrease your chances of getting her back and making her miss you. The real dilemma here is that sometimes the best way to make an ex girlfriend miss you is to ignore her for a little bit via the no contact rule. This puts the two rules at odds with one another because if you are ignoring your ex aren’t you technically giving her time to get over you via the habit rule? I am sure that when you read about the habit rule you automatically assumed that immediately after a breakup the habit rule goes into effect.
Trust me when I say that women don’t want to stop missing you until some time after the breakup.
Now, while this would be incredibly rare and probably won’t happen in your situation lets assume the worst case scenario occurs and your ex girlfriend tries to break her habit of missing you immediately after the breakup. What are you supposed to do if she is trying to miss you and you aren’t able to contact her? Well, the smartest thing you can do is to do things during NC that you know for a fact will remind her of you. The reason I won’t be going into all of the detail that the no contact rule requires is that I am just going to be focusing on what you can do during the no contact rule to make your ex miss you. Right now lets pretend that you are in the midst of a 21 day freeze out with your ex girlfriend (the 21 day no contact rule.) It is your job to do subtle things during this time to remind your ex girlfriend that you are still out there. I don’t know if you and your ex are still Facebook friends after the breakup but I sure hope you are. So, its not a stretch to assume that your ex girlfriend will be keeping an eye on your Facebook profile.
I guarantee you if you posted something like that on Facebook your ex girlfriend would sit up and notice.
I want you to always remember that the chances are very high that your ex is looking at your profile. For a long time I have peddled the theory that women had to make up for their lack of physicality by learning to be more social.
You are going to use this knowledge to your advantage when you are trying to remind your ex girlfriend that you are still out there. Because I guarantee you that, that best friend is going to go running to your ex girlfriend and give her all the precious little details of the interaction. She is going to have no choice but to think of you and as long as you are on her mind it will increase your chances of making her miss you. I have found that the smartest way to approach this situation is to be a little vague and confusing.
Oh, and when you add in the fact that you are doing the no contact rule it could make your ex feel a little upset that you ended up contacting her best friend as opposed to her. At this point it might be a good idea for me to explain how you can kind of be vague and confusing which will ultimately cause your ex and her best friend to dissect your discussion.
So, lets pretend that you decide that you are going to text your ex girlfriends best friend. Because the best friend will probably say something about the breakup and this is exactly what you want to happen.
The more confused you can make your ex girlfriend the better because she will probably run to the internet and read a million advice columns trying to figure out what you were doing. The underlying point I am trying to get at here is you are forcing her to think about you continuously thus interrupting her habit change.
Before I dive into this section lets do a quick recap of everything that is supposed to have occurred before this point. Eventually your own no contact rule is going to come to an end and that is when you can start communicating with your ex to re-spark that non verbal missing emotion. This section is going to be dedicated to teaching you exactly what you can do through text messages to maximize your chances of making your girlfriend miss you.
I have found that when you are talking to someone you are in love with (and make no mistake about it you are probably in love with your ex girlfriend still) it is very hard to remain patient. The second that you receive a response to a text message from someone like this you probably want to respond to it within seconds. No, it’s to make your ex girlfriend miss you and that is going to require patience on your part when it comes to text messaging.
Lets say that you send your ex girlfriend a text message and she responds to it 5 minutes later. As some time passes she will be checking her phone wondering when you are going to text back.
As more time passes she is going to be getting impatient that you haven’t texted back.
After 20 minutes she will have convinced herself that you aren’t ever going to respond to her text. The key underlying principle to achieving this roller coaster effect is by having the patience to spread your text messages out, to not be too available for her. In other words, give her some time to miss you and worry that she will have lost you from the conversation. In this section I am going to go over a few of the text messages that you can send to your ex girlfriend if you want to make her miss you. The truth of the matter is that if you really want your ex girlfriend to miss you, you have to earn that right.
Rather, it is going to take a combination of many text messages to hit all the right emotional buttons. Really what I am trying to drive home here is that if you really want an ex girlfriend to miss you then you almost have to master her emotions. Sure, there are a lot of men out there that can make her laugh and probably make her very happy.
However, if you can drive her emotions absolutely wild (make her laugh, make her sad without you, make her happy, make her sad, make her feel cared for.) If you have the ability to do that, well, then no one is going to be able to compare to you. So, your goal when you text your ex girlfriend is to take her on a POSITIVE emotional roller coaster. In this section I am going to show you the exact type of text messages you should be sending to your ex to make her miss you. Now, before I get started it is important for me to mention that I am focusing specifically on the type of messages that will make a girlfriend miss you. If you don’t know any of that I suggest you read my texting guide before continuing on here. This is one of the most challenging messages to pull off because our goal here really isn’t to make her sad.
In other words, you have to find a way to make her feel that her life really sucks without you in it.
Well, it’s to take a risk and talk to her about something that will force her to want to care for you. This is a bit of a risky message because it is a little sappy but if you have done a good job of giving her that roller coaster ride of course she is going to want to be there next to you and care for you.
If you can successfully make her feel like she wants to take care of you that is a very good sign because it means she wants you in her life.
Jealousy can be a very powerful emotion and while it’s not absolutely perfect for making someone miss you it is perfect for the emotional roller coaster that leads to someone missing you. So, by the time you actually send this text message make sure you know for a fact that your ex girlfriend is ready to hear it. No, the truth is that talking to your ex on the phone can be one of the most effective ways to make her miss you.
When I have fallen for someone I always feel more when I talk on the phone as opposed to texting.
Therein lies the problem though, playing your cards right on the phone is extremely challenging. Did you know that there is such a thing as overstaying your welcome when it comes to the delicacies of getting your ex back?
Lets pretend for a moment that we outlined your entire phone conversation with your ex girlfriend on a graph. Now, I understand that this graph is for financial analysis and not for talking to your ex on the phone but it actually illustrates the point I am trying to make perfectly so I chose it. Unfortunately, as I stated above, it is possible to wear out your welcome on the phone and with the pace and intensity that the two of you were going at, at the beginning of your conversation it is going to be impossible to maintain forever. Continually ending the conversation at the high point is going to really tap into your ex girlfriends non verbal missing emotion and trust me when I say that things become much easier from here on out. Well, we know that there is a non verbal missing emotion that women have to have in order to miss a man on a deep level. However, it also highlights the fact that every moment you do spend with her in person is that much more important because what you do in that time is going to be a springboard for how powerful her NVME is. No, I am talking about how the majority of them are looking for something deeper than a physical connection. If you really want her back take advantage of the fact that you have a better emotional connection with her than anyone she can think of. My name is Chris, and I help millions of guys per year improve themselves, and get their ex girlfriends to come running back. Would i t be ok to send her 3 white roses with a message explaining… ( symbolizing 3 weeks of not drinking?) the day will the 18th of No contact.
In just a moment, I’m going to show you how to get your ex girlfriend back… so buckle up, because there’s a lot to cover.
If you recently split up with your girlfriend then you’re probably hurting REAL bad right now.
I know the pain you’re going through right now and I know that it won’t stop for a LOOOOONG time. Sure you can carry on with your life… bang a few new girls at a party, go out with your friends and try to forget about the girl you lost. OR you can use proven techniques that thousands of guys are using right now to get their girlfriend back fast.
There are a few areas of “getting your ex girlfriend back” which I want to cover, so by all means skip to the section that makes most sense to your current situation. It’s been a few days, weeks, maybe even a month and the wound is still raw… now what do you do? Understand why she left you – The first step is to understand why she dumped you in the first place dude!
Leave it at least 2 weeks – Don’t be needy or act desperate, it’s not going to help you.
Get back in touch – After a couple of weeks, get in touch either with a text or a Facebook message. Keep it casual – Always meet up with her in the day for lunch or coffee so it’s casual, like you’re meeting a friend.
Go in for the kill – After several casual meetups, invite her along on a night out with your friends or say to her that you’re going to be somewhere and she should come along.


The key to remember here is that you’re laying down the important groundwork with the casual meetups. Pimp up your Facebook profile – Your Facebook page is a constant message that your closest friends and acquaintances are reading.
Get in touch – Go back to “situation 1” and follow all the steps from “Get back in touch”.
Right then, you haven’t spoken to her in months, you know that she doesn’t have a boyfriend and you’re still kicking yourself about the breakup.
Write to her – The very first thing you need to do is write to her, Facebook, email even a freakin hand written letter dude. Rinse and repeat – Follow everything from the first and second situation, until she takes you back.
There are a few ground rules you MUST follow that I haven’t mentioned yet, they are solid mindset tips that will help you get her back (trust me they work). Be persistent – Think alpha male who knows what he wants, not a pathetic needy loser who’s begging for attention. Embrace change – Show her that you’re willing to be a better you by changing your ways. Don’t sulk – The moment you accept your defeat, is the moment you will never get her back, so stay positive and know that you’re going to get her back in time.
So as I said earlier, I used Text Your Ex Back which really helped me get my girlfriend back. But I did try a another product that I think is seriously worth mentioning because I picked up some killer tips from it.
I got some really great tips from this guide, if I hadn’t have gone through the other two then I would have just used this one but it would have taken me a while longer to get her back. Then you’re not doing the steps correctly or you’re still portraying the same crappy qualities that she dumped you for in the first place. So there you have it, this is without a doubt the best advice you will get on understanding how to get your ex girlfriend back in the fastest way possible.
My girlfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago, we were talking frequently until 3 weeks ago when she moved to Portland, OR (we lived in California together).
Hay, I broke up with my girl like for 2 years now, but it’s all coming back to me, it was my fault, I physically assaulted her. Im a lesbian and was with this girl for four years going 5 on july.she ask space for 3months no communication,no seeing each other so I gave her space but i broke my promise not to call,text and see her. I had already been arguing with my girlfriend for awhile, I had been sick and on alot of medication one night when she called and tho has got heated. I have been in a releshp wth my ex grlfrend for 4yrs she was my school sweethert we came from far she loved meh soo much we did everythng toghet na untll she had a crush on some guybt she found out the guy is in arelshp wth anther person she came back to meh cryng i accpted her back bt then after a mnth se change start sayng we break up bt then she apologies back for her word iknw ehe was up2 smthng i broke up wth her she didnt even say why or sory she said alryt naw its been 3weeksi tryed callng her bt she nat intrested shes is sayng she want to be single an forcus… so do you think she is a relshp wth smeone else i need advice shoild i just move on? I recently lost, my girl it was my fault I got hooked up in internet adiction, porn sites and dating sites, she read my corespondance to the other women and even contacted them to see if we had met up. We've all been there: You're newly single, still reeling from the sting of being dumped by your ex -- and desperately trying to avoid texting him or her.
But let the texts in the slideshow below be a warning to you -- though it's tempting to text, those post-split conversations never go as planned.
So, in order for a reunion to happen with your ex girlfriend she has to agree to come back to you. Thus, winning her back is a function of convincing her to re-enter a relationship with you. Have you ever looked up the word “regret” before?Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back?
Regret- a feeling of sadness, repentance, or disappointment over something that has happened or been done. Regret is a very powerful emotion and if you can get your ex girlfriend to feel it when she thinks about you, you are going to be that much closer to getting her back. In the ultimate turn of events you are in the drivers seat on whether or not you want to take her back.
Using the strategies I teach on this page you can slowly but surely raise your chances of making your ex girlfriend feel the kind of regret that makes her want to take you back. Now, I realize that this page may be a little advanced for some of my new readers so I have done my best to even things out so they are very easy to understand. Well, on the outside when you divide things up into three sections like that it makes things look pretty easy. Before I teach you anything about bringing out regret in your girlfriend you must first know what to look for to determine if what you are doing is working. Below I have compiled a list of all the signs that a woman (who has regret about breaking up with her boyfriend) will have. But before I get to that I would first like to submit a fake scenario to teach this fun little trick to you. Is this a “get back together” drink or is this just a friendly meet up drink where nothing happens?
If you really want to know what a woman is thinking in her head then ignore everything she says. However, I do have to say that as good as I have it in my life I do have one pretty big regret. For example, five years ago going out to crowded bars or clubs was definitely not my scene.
It wasn’t until a few years down the road that I finally worked through my shyness and got the courage to go out more. Of course, looking back in my infinite wisdom (I am not really that old I swear) I really do regret being so shy over something silly like what people would think about me. Do me a favor and go back up to the top of this section and re-read my little introvert story again.
No, If I was being completely honest with you (and I am) I would say that I was more in a depressed mood looking back on the past. I can’t repair the friendships that were altered as a result of my insecurity about being around people. The two of you don’t talk as often as you used to and you are both a little cold towards each other. Now, nothing seems too out of the ordinary here as this behavior is very common for ex couples.
Your ex girlfriend is reminiscing about the old times and she is filled with sadness upon remember them.
Because the way she felt when she first met you was incredible and she hasn’t ever found that with anyone else since she has broken up with you.
If your ex girlfriend is sending you depressing or sad messages like the example above then there is a strong possibility that she is starting to regret breaking up with you. Your ex girlfriend, who is super depressed about the breakup, decides to take her frustrations out in a woman’s favorite place to take her frustrations out. Just to prove that this phenomenon exists I am going to log on to Facebook right now and screenshot the first one that I see and post it here.
Oh, and to make things even funner I am going to time how long it takes me to find an indirect comment from a woman to a man. Now, you may have noticed that I have blacked out the person’s name who shared this lovely quote. Because it is this persons way of indirectly telling her boyfriend to get his ass into gear. You will find that as you get to know women more and more that they will post little messages like this on Facebook to indirectly serve a message to you. Well, in my professional opinion I think that mere fact that she even mentioned regret is a good sign. All we care about is if she is feeling regret and most likely if she is posting something like the picture above on her Facebook after a breakup she either thinks she made a mistake or is regretting something. Well, I did that for this article as I couldn’t think of any more regret signs and I wanted to have a minimum of at least four. Here’s the catch though, usually what will happen is that if your ex girlfriend were to tell you that she regretted breaking up with you it would be down the road a bit after the breakup. Women need time to process things and sometimes they need other experiences to put their experience with you in perspective. For example, if your ex girlfriend breaks up with you when you were basically the perfect boyfriend and she starts dating a guy who treats her like dirt she is going to start to regret her decision of breaking up with you.
Usually what happens in this case is that your ex girlfriend gets back in touch with you (while she is dating the scumbag boyfriend) and mentions to you that there are times when she is really happy with this new guy but then there are also times when she regrets her decision of leaving you. No, she disguised it within the fact that there are times when she is happy with the new guy. So, instead of just being forward with you by telling you these things flat out she finds a way to structure them so they are socially acceptable. Like always, I am going to go down the list, one by one, and give an in-depth explanation of what you need to be doing for each of these sections. When you think of the actual act of “regretting” what has to happen for a human being to experience this feeling? Of course, in addition to these thoughts enough time has to pass for them to experience regret.
Sure, there are cases where after a breakup occurs the person who broke up with the other person immediately regretted it but in my experience this is a rarity.
The main point I am getting at here is the fact that enough time has to pass for most women to feel regret. The no contact rule is the perfect compliment to regret because not only does it allow time to pass but it allows time to pass without an emotional crutch for your ex girlfriend to lean on. Oh, and then there is that added plus that the no contact rule forces time to go by so it can expedite her potential regret.
Some of the more tenured men reading this article are probably already aware of what the no contact rule is.
Of course, for those of you who are new to Ex Girlfriend Recovery don’t fret because I got your back on this.
The no contact rule is a period of time in which you ignore your ex in every way imaginable (except in certain instances) for a certain period of time. Usually I recommend going into no contact for 21 days but there are also 30 day and 45 day rules that I have seen success with. My book, Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO explains the no contact rule in a much more in-depth manner so check that out if you haven’t already.
Most people would consider these things to be successful but it doesn’t matter what other people thing. While I can’t predict with 100% accuracy what she is going to think I do know one thought that is likely to creep up in her mind.
If you can get your ex girlfriend to say these five words you are doing something right and it will be that much easier to get her back.
The main point of this entire section is to show you what striving for success can do for you.
Lets move on to another thing you can do to make your ex girlfriend regret breaking up with you. There you can find a step by step layout of what you need to be doing to really have a chance of winning her back.
If you are trying to get your ex girlfriend back (which most of you reading this are) you can’t just contact her out of the blue with the memories I talk about here. No, you have to follow the game plan I lay out first to advance to a point where you can bring this stuff up. If you really want to increase your chances of creating regret within your ex girlfriend it would be incredibly smart to write down a list of the top 5 or 10 memories that you have with your ex girlfriend. For example, lets pretend that instead of my wife and I going to Paris your ex girlfriend and you ended up going to Paris. Your ex girlfriend is going to read this and immediately be transported to the night that you were sitting on a blanket, sipping on wine and watching the Eifel Tower light up like crazy. While you are strategically battering your ex girlfriends mind with powerful memories you should also be working to create new memories on that same level. I am talking about the kind of dates that when she goes home at the end of the night she calls her friends up and brags to them. So, lets pretend that you ask her this question and she tells you something like skydiving.
I want you to plan an incredible date that culminates in her achieving her dream of skydiving. If you do this right you will substantially increase your chances of making her regret her decision to break up with you.
Ok here it goes hello my name is Brandon sorry for any typos my spelling isn’t very good my ex girlfriends name is A** and I am certain she is the one for me. No I’m not very active over social media I have skype and a steam profiles but that’s as social as I get on line, also a mutual friends birthday party is soon should i just pop in and say hello drop presents off and get a photo with the birthday girl and be off (while looking hot as hell obviously) would this be the best plan?
I know this is the forth time today but I was talking to my dad and he said because she said she felt like we were only friends sins Christmas then I was friend zoned then and it is hopeless because she lost feelings for my a wile be for we split up and was already over me be for we split up.
It hade been 4 days from my last attempt to contact her an ot that Tim I think she hade purposely gone to old private photos online and deleted all he comments (this hase reely hurt she hase literally erased some of are old memories) and she might have blocked my number I don’t know that for siren thow so question 1. I think she might have a new boy friend and got him wile I was I nc what do I di now the nc hade destroyed everything. Also we are on collage and the closet lessons we have together is maths in adjacent rooms so are likelihood os seeing each other is low would I change where I hang out to increase the probably of us seeing each other (I changed it during NC to decrease the frequency we sore each other)?
Ok so I just talked to her in the library and i was flustered but managed to maintain my composure but this led to me not cutting the concussion off at the high point so I hade to make a second and cut the conversation off there wich didn’t feel as affective.
I spent two weeks compiling research and prepping for how I want this guide to be set up and I feel I have enough to say about the topic to get some amazing results for people. What I would like to explore is what this emotion means and how you can use it to your advantage. That means that probably at one point of your relationship with her she has already felt this non verbal missing emotion for you. So, it is up to you to do things during this 21 day period to make sure she misses you continuously.
I am not saying this to be sexist or anything like that (I am probably more of a feminist than anyone you know.) No, I am saying this because it is the truth. Generally speaking it isn’t that hard to make your ex girlfriend miss you if you know what you are doing. I took the liberty of going through each of these results to see just how many of them recommended the no contact rule as a way of making a girlfriend miss you. Well, those differences often come in the form of how long the actual time period of the no contact rule is. You are going to have to trust your gut on this one since you know your specific situation much more intimately than I ever could. That’s a whopping 70% of experts who say that NC is essential for making a girlfriend miss you. Well, if you are asking my opinion on which timeline you should choose to best maximize your chances of making your girlfriend miss you I would say that the 21 day no contact rule is ideal. Of course, you want her to miss you more so you decide it would be a good idea to implement a 21 day no contact rule immediately after the breakup.
If you would like more information on the full details of what you are supposed to be doing during the no contact rule I suggest you visit this page. One of the things I found very interesting about my other site, Ex Boyfriend Recovery, was the fact that the word of mouth was incredible. When your exes best friend reports back to her you want them to sit for hours dissecting everything trying to figure out why you even texted the best friend in the first place. Good or bad, whatever she says relating to the break up I want you to simply duck out of the conversation and not respond.


Of course, I am always a fan of taking things slow as opposed to fast when it comes to stuff like this so I think the next step in the logical progression is to text with her a little bit first before you try to ask her out or call her. While this can be good for keeping a conversation fast paced the main goal we are trying to accomplish here isn’t being able to keep a conversation going quickly. Well, if you respond to her response within a minute it isn’t giving her a lot of time to miss you is it?
Well, if you are responding super quickly to text messages then that is a strong statement that you are missing her back and while that can be a nice feeling for some women, deep down most of them won’t be adding anything to their NVME. Well, if you are patient and wait 25 minutes to respond she will be thinking a lot of thoughts during those initial 25 minutes. You see, as much as the gurus out there want you to believe that there is a magic text message that you can send to suddenly open your exes heart the truth is, is that it is going to take a lot more than one text.
Lets say that you send this text message to your ex girlfriend and she absolutely loves it. If you have read this far down the page then one thing I know for a fact is that you want your ex girlfriend back really badly.
The two of you will probably have a lot to talk about and it may almost feel like you two are dating again. The decline that comes after that is going to be slow but it signifies that the conversation won’t ever be as good as it was during the high point. We also know that the only time that this emotion can develop is actually when she is not around the man (or you in this case.) This is all pretty much common sense really.
This is your opportunity to shine and you aren’t going to do it by immediately going in for the kiss, trying to cop a feel or go for the grand slam. Have your own life so, when things are okay for her it would be easier for you to get back together.
Just seems like that is a little bit of game playing to me, I don’t want to put her friend in the middle. You feel sick to your stomach, with no energy, you can’t be bothered to see anyone and you just want to be left alone.
Let’s say that you broke up, it’s been a few months, maybe even a year and you’ve heard through friends that she’s got a boyfriend (perhaps you even saw it on Facebook which would really suck).
Get some new threads, workout at the gym (get the body most women want), eat right and drum some positive thoughts into your head. It’s crucial that they see the guy you want to be seen as… which is a confident, independent, happy and outgoing guy.
It’s vital that you find out why she hates you… because this will help you to build a solid action plan. Apologise for what you did wrong and say to her that you respect her wishes, also that you truly wish that she finds a guy that will make her happy. If you did, then that’s awesome, keep the communication flowing and suggest meeting up for a coffee because you want to stay friends with her. It took me exactly 4 weeks, but I have a friend who used the same techniques and it took him 7 months. He started stalking and harrassing me, and would harrass any guy I dated.I told him never to speak to me again, but he still tried to get me back, was watching and following me in person and on line ,so I called the police and filed a report, and later filed a no contact order. We broke up because she got jealous about other women who were giving me attention, and i lied about one of these girls at a party and i just got too comfortable and didn’t show interest.
My gf mentioned to break up due to another man and no more feeling with me, I’ve stopped this action taken as I can’t take it! In the mean time go and get your self together work out hang with friends and make your self happy.
You are her comfort zone you know each other so she is just there with you after what she thinks is good is not.
The next day I saw she had took us off of a relationship on Facebook and I lost it, I gave her my password and she out of current mistrust searched through my emails. Express your self about what was the underlying problem with the situation between you both. However, the truth of the matter is that making your ex girlfriend regret leaving you is not an easy task.
She told him that he was boring (or rather the relationship was) and that they should see other people. While I am not super shy when you talk to me there are certain situations that make me uncomfortable. More specifically, I was afraid of talking to not just women but anyone in general outside of people who I already knew. The truth of the matter is that I missed out on a lot of great experiences all because I was just too afraid to step out of my shell.
If you just think about it logically no person who regrets something is going to be very upbeat or positive about that regret.
I think she is starting to feel regret and is posting something on Facebook to convince herself that the regret she is feeling over the breakup is a good thing. Now that you know what to look for lets turn our attention on what you can do to really work to make her regret breaking up with you. Well, she isn’t going to regret her decision to break up with you until a few months have passed. Imagine that after your breakup with your ex girlfriend that you worked really hard and secured an amazing job that paid you a million dollars a year. She dumped me, but i still care a lot about her and i want to get her back if it is possible. So background we were in school together we shared the same friends we crushed on each other for a year but we were both to nervous to ask the other how they felt then came prom she spent a good portion of the night dancing with her friends (hoping I would join in) eventually she strait up asked me and then we danced to all the slow songs anyway that summer I asked her out on a date.
Can I be hearting my self with the no contact rule even thow she hade only tried to contact my once reely (she sent also sent me massages letting me know when party’s are, when she put pictures on my memory stick and to ask when and where I want her to give me my stuff back) ? Your dad maybe right and her being angry is one way of trying to be empowered over the situation. Also we are in the run up to exams should I not try to elevate us past text till the summer or should I be supportive of her to make myself look better?
I tryed to bring up old memories wich were not powerfully this happened with the concussion rather naturally I was just probing to see if it were possible to take further in the future.
Yes, I understand you want your girlfriend to miss you but just making her miss you probably isn’t going to be enough.
However, the problem with a girl verbalizing that she misses you is that she is talking specifically about that moment in time.
She is the first thought on my mind when I wake up and it literally feels like I am obsessed with her. Since the two of you are no longer together do you think she feels this level of “missing” for you? Every single step outlined above is a small stepping stone that will increase your chances of making your ex girlfriend miss you. However, it is possible that if you wait too long to put your plan into effect her habits will change and she will have forced herself to not miss you as much. As the days progress she discovers that she kind of misses you but she feels kind of bad about it since she was the one who broke up with you. However, the one thing that all of us experts agree on is that the no contact rule is a period of time where you aren’t allowed to talk to your ex in any way. Any time you receive messages through these mediums you will not be allowed to respond until the time period is completed.
For example, some ex girlfriend experts swear by a 90 day no contact rule while others will live and die by the 60 day no contact rule. Not to mention they give your ex girlfriend plenty of time to get over you and lower your chances for making her miss you. In fact, she loves it so much that it sparks an amazing conversation between the two of you for the next few hours.
You can touch them on an emotional level so much easier when you talk on the phone as long as you play your cards right. That means that when you do finally advance to a point where you can talk to her on the phone and thing start going well you aren’t going to want to get off the phone. Women are way more emotional than us and I am not talking about them crying or acting crazy during that time of the month.
As she was in college and i was working usually we would chat at evening time as she stays in hostel and cannot use her cellphone during daytimes.
Something like “Hey, so I got the job… (yay for me) starting in a week” fancy a celebratory coffee? This means you need to upload pictures of you partying with other pretty girls, smiling, traveling, doing things that you NEVER did whilst in your relationship with your ex. Well then after we broke up i made out with one of the girls and i told her about it and it devestated her.
She she leave it becaue she thinks she found the one to replace you then she finds out the grass is not greener on the other side so she comes back. She took a light hearted conversation to be factual and believes that I am a cheater and our relationship was over a long time ago.
Maybe she has gained some more life experience and looks back on your relationship with fond memories.
Eventually you will advance to a point where you can bring up good memories and really work to create some of that regret within here. She said to me that she no longer see a future between us because she bored and she feels that whenever we are together there is no topic to talk about because we already talk everything.
If you see each other in school, take it slow with a short smile when you bump into each other and you still have things with her right? But I do agree she did get angry because of the nc because it looks like she likes having control.. I understand how you are feeling because I deal with so many men and women that go through your situation on a daily basis. No, you are going to need a more complete game plan for that and that is what Ex Girlfriend Recovery PRO can provide for you,Do You Even Have a Chance of Getting Your Ex Back?
Your best bet of making her miss you is during that short time frame (21 days immediately after a breakup) where her mind is constantly on one thing, YOU!
Facebook is at the top of the food chain when it comes to social media and we are going to use Facebook to our advantage. I know it can be a little annoying to post pictures on Facebook but bear with me for a moment here. Remember, all that matters here is that you want your ex girlfriend to be tapping into her emotions. Whenever she texts me i was at office and could not reply her back at the same time and after that we used to have usual talks.
How would the 21 days off work to my advantage and still have the great possibility of getting her back in my life. Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t using her friends and Facebook playing games? You may push her limits till she is afraid of you or hates the very thought of you.If you are a good man, she will miss you and call you. I made a lot of mistakes after the breakup, begging to come back to her, argued a couple times, freaked about her dating. She is blaming you for cheating because she is not being 100% with you about what she is doing.
I just started the no contact phase and am giving her time it’s been 3 days no contact.
It’s still fresh, I have sent her a very brief letter trying to keep an image that I have calmed down now, and apologized once again for how cruel I was, and for even saying the things I had. She begins to wonder about that Martha girl and takes another trip on the emotional roller coaster. Now after that when she had holidays and when she came home which is near to me she texted me that she wants to quit this relationship as she wants to concentrate in her studies. In my case my ex is already upset that I asked her friend why she was upset before the breakup, then used that as further ammunition to breakup. We’ve hung out like 7 times since the break up and things got pretty affectionate 4 out of the 7 times.
I was leaving the state around half year and she had ask me to stay but, I insist to leave due to good opportunity.
I sent her mother a 4 pg front and back letter explaining in order of occurrence everything, assuring I am not a cheater and just everything, I was completely honest, and mature in every way. I thought thst i could not get over my ex but I am living and making the best of the situation everyday. I’m not sure if this method of using her friend is a good one in my case, any suggestions?
It’s just been a rough past summer for me in general with my grandpa passing away and adjusting to all this change. One is a love letter and the other is an apology letting her know I accept the breakup and wish her the best.
When we were together I was a jerk and didn’t make a big deal about it and it hurt her. Your dad maybe right because when she sees you as a friend that means she lost attraction and desire for you.
She also used to tell that her parents will not accept the relationship and her father will sue her for doing this.
I do love the girl and I’m attempting to get her back by going to her school which is an hour away and serenading her wih a guitar right on campus haha.
So now what Idk is should I text her the night before and say something about it like goodluck don’t be nervo use it’ll be okay, just good luck or nothing at all? We’ve broken up before about 2 years ago and I did the same thing just outside of her house.
She keep saying no more feeling with girl, what can I do to get her back again coz I too love her. Should i send her a text ( i just don’t want to be rude and not sending a happy birthday because she dumped me is showing that i am immature) ? She has me blocked on facebook and snapchat, yet we still keep in touch through text and phone calls and shes friends with my mom on facebook still haha. Never saw her again, but sent a letter admiting my fault, compromising myself that I will change and asking for another chance.I sent anotherone saying I was selfish, guilty and that I willl understand whatever she decides, just want to see her happy. Moreover, i know she has a lot of pride to not text me and i am scared that she will not send a single message to me in this 30 days of NC. And on the day of break up, she still had it on the wall, when she already had packed my bags, and put away my other picture. Atleas give a consideration that i was a faithful dude down to be in it for the long hall . I know if i pull at her more while she still mad and bitter shes just going to pul away more.
On top of that ahe has the type of girlfriends who like bashing dudes cause thwy dont have one or not satisfied qjth the ones they have. She would always tell her friends about me and how much she loved me and even tod them all about our sexual life.



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