Every single day hundreds of women ask me hundreds of different questions about their ex boyfriends and I have to say that lately I have been noticing a trend.
So, for those of you who know me extremely well (and I like to think that some of you do) any time I see an uptick in questions like this I like to go out and write massive guides giving you as much insight as I possibly can about your ex boyfriend. Well, here I go again ?? .Want to Know EXACTLY How Likely You Are to Get Your ExBoyfriend Back, in Only 2 Minutes? It’s the fact that I can be completely honest with you about your boyfriend and because of that I can help you gain incredible insight into him. Some of the thought processes that men have when they give you mixed signals may be hard to hear.
I decided to combine part 3 because I figured it would be easier for me to give you the mixed signal and then the solution to the mixed signal in one fell swoop.
So, being the generous person that you are you go into the hat shop (after I have left) and you decide to buy the hat for me as a birthday present. I gave you information that led you to believe that I liked the hat when in actuality I didn’t.
Mixed Signal- A person feeds you information that makes you believe one thing when the reality is that, that one thing isn’t necessarily true. For example, if you have just broken up with your ex boyfriend and he tells you that he wants absolutely nothing to do with you then his words lead you to believe that he isn’t that into you anymore.
Of course, if the very next week he is hitting on you or acting like a breakup never happened then those two actions will probably lead you to believe that he is still into you.
Think of it like this, if your exes words and actions do not agree then he is most likely giving you a mixed signal.
Do you see how this synergy works to decipher whether or not you are getting a mixed signal? Because I am going to be letting you in on all the deep dark secrets that most men are afraid to tell you. Last night when I was brainstorming this guide I took out a sheet of paper and jotted down all the reasons that I think an ex boyfriend could potentially have for giving you a mixed signal.
Lets say that during your relationship with your ex boyfriend he was constantly telling you that you were the one, that he wanted to have your kids and that he was going to marry you. Now, you took him at his word when he told you that you were the one but his actions didn’t back his words up and as a result he gave you a mixed signal. Getting married, having kids and big life goals like that essentially end a mans bachelorhood forever. It takes a special woman to pull him away from it and if he isn’t 100% sure about the woman then he is not going anywhere. For example, lets say that one day your boyfriend asks you to meet him out for a cup of coffee.
Well, he probably assumes that you are flirting with this guy and all of a sudden doubts start to creep in his mind. All of these thoughts your boyfriend has happen in a split second and they start to make him question a long term commitment with you.
That the two of you were meant to be but when he is faced with a situation like the one above and he starts to question you he begins to backtrack on his word. It all just boils down to the fact that men don’t want to give their bachelorhood very easily. And when I say I wanted it I mean I really wanted it and was ready to do anything to get it. Not a lot of people know this about me but before I got married I was single for a long time.
It wasn’t the fact that I was scarred by a past relationship or anything like that either. Any small hesitation like that in my mind pretty much hurt any woman’s chances with me. Ok, a long time ago there was a girl who had a pretty big crush on me and she wasn’t shy about it either.
Eventually she was so forceful with trying to get a date that eventually I broke down and agreed to go on one with her. Obviously now that the two of you are broken up he is no longer going to receive those benefits from you. I almost look at being there emotionally for your partner like the safety nets you see at the circus with the flying trapeze. Now, can you imagine doing this without a safety harness or net and you were in front of a crowd where one mistake could end your life? They look at the emotional support that you gave them during the relationship as a safety net and they can’t stand to live without it. This is where mixed signals come into play because you interpret them trying to get their safety net back as them trying to get you back.
He decides to see if he can get you in bed without getting into a committed relationship with you.


The mixed signal comes in when you interpret him trying to get you in bed as him trying to commit to you again.
Because if your ex boyfriend says he loves you right after the breakup he is still highly emotional and the feelings of an emotional person can be a little bit inconsistent.
While he may mean it I would still take everything he says immediately after the breakup with a grain of salt. Of course, when you look at the other situation, situation 2, the chances are a little bit higher that he means what he says. If your ex boyfriend tells you that he loves you and you don’t say it back it will raise your value in his mind. He will probably be happy for a split second and you will have verified to him that he can still get you whenever he wants.
Of course, when push comes to shove and you are down the road the two of you aren’t even close to getting back together. This results in a very big mixed signal since you were under the impression that the two of you would get back together. Well, the first thing I want to explore is whether or not your ex boyfriend actually means it or not. While I don’t want to give you a false hope to hold onto I will admit that there are men that really do mean it when they say that they want to get back together later. We actually went out for a beer (a few years ago) and he told me something really interesting. Lets just assume that your ex boyfriend has told you that he will get back together with you down the road.
Reverse friend zoning is the art of putting your ex boyfriend in the friend zone instead of you. When most women hear these three things from a man that they are in love with they experience very strong emotions that tie them closer to their man. Most men understand this so they will say (A), (B) and (C) to achieve more sex, more admiration and more love from their woman.
So, when a breakup does occur and a woman is confused as to what the heck happened to her life plans with their partner this is usually what is going on. If your boyfriend is promising you a marriage, kids and a white picket fence then you have my permission to get excited over it because the thought itself is very nice. I have a lot of experience with this in my life because I have come up with a lot of pretty lame excuses for standing girls up at the last minute. After the breakup you and your ex boyfriend seem to be making some positive progress towards a reconnection. Notice how Kakistos (I will give a free ebook to the first person who explains this reference in the comments ) was very receptive to the cup of coffee.
Now, in the world we live in everyone has a busy schedule so you decide to forgive Kakistos and decide to ask him out again on Friday.
I mentioned above that I have come up with a lot of lame excuses over the years for standing dates up. Well, right now I don’t want to focus on the excuses I want to focus on why I came up with the excuses.
You are probably wondering why I would even agree to a date in the first place if I thought I couldn’t fall in love with the girl, huh? Well, a lot of times I wouldn’t reach this conclusion until right before the date when I had gotten to know the person a little bit better.
Anyways, he may be concerned that the two of you tried it once before, failed, and he doesn’t want history to repeat itself again. Look, right now it’s clear that he is having doubts that the two of you can fall for each other again. Men will find this approach too aggressive and instead of bringing him closer you will push him farther away.
Instead, I would say that your best approach to overcoming his doubts is to use his emotions against him.
If you can get your ex boyfriend to daydream about you that way then he will say yes to meeting you in the parking lot of McDonalds for heavens sake.
If you become his UG (ungettable girl) getting a date with him should be the least of your worries!
My name is Chris, and I help millions of women per year improve themselves, and get back with their ex boyfriends to finally have the life they dreamed of.
Like I said, light chat continued on the 18th to show his comment had no effect and then I stopped contact again. I’ve come to realize this week that most difficulties we have stem from his passive aggressive tendencies.
He proceeded to write letters to two of my family members received on March 28 and March 30. I jokingly said ok well if you bail on your friend at 8pm let me know, we can do something lazy.


I know he’s not lying about his situation because I knew something was going on with him at the time we broke up. For whatever reason there has been an uptick in the inquiries revolving around exes who give off mixed signals.
I mean, something tells me that you would get annoyed if I gave you all the mixed signals in one place and then I made you scroll down the entire page just to see the mini solutions to the mixed signals.
Now, being the very cool person that I am, I am what you would call a certified hat enthusiast. In your mind you are thinking that you did an incredible job with this present because I made such a big deal about it.
If his words and actions end up agreeing then he is most likely not giving you a mixed signal.
When it was all said and done I had determined that there were six main reasons for why an ex boyfriend could potentially give you a mixed signal. However, when push came to shove and it became time for him to step up he didn’t and as a result the two of you broke up.
Now, since you are a bit of an early bird you get there ahead of time and as a result a guy comes up to you and starts flirting with you. Of course, you get very confused when you have these mixed signals but it’s not that confusing at all if you really think about it.
In fact, the last fight you had over finances was so bad that it actually resulted in your breakup. In fact, that fight hurt him so much it is his prime reasoning for not getting back together with you 100% in a committed relationship. It simply means that what I am going to be doing in this section is listing the most common mixed signals you can potentially receive from an ex boyfriend and then I will give an in-depth description as to what it going on in your exes head when he gives you the mixed signal.
Nope, after I give you the in depth description of the mixed signal I am also going to give you a mini solution as to how you can overcome the mixed signal. Yes, he may be hurt at first that you don’t say it back but in my opinion it is a better option than saying it back. I like to tell women that an effective way to do this is to treat their exes just like they would with a gay best guy friend.
Your ex boyfriend, who you love more than anything has just painted a picture of pure romantic bliss for you and you had no choice but to believe him.
So since my birthday where he wanted to invite me out and then changed his mind, he initiated text conversations with me every day. I am in Australia and my ex is in Argentina and I kept myself away from contacting him until yesterday.
So, as I look at the hats in the window and there is one hat in particular that catches my eye. It is at this moment (when this stranger is flirting with you) that your boyfriend walks in and sees you and this guy talking.
To be honest, I didn’t quite know what I wanted so not many women would have made a huge impression on me. Of course, he doesn’t seem to be getting the hints that you are dropping that you want him to ask you on a date. I mean, I am supposed to be writing a post about ex boyfriends and here I am going on and on about her again. In fact, I make such a big deal about it that it seems like that hat is the holy grail of hats. He then explained to me that he had to deal with grandmother dying of lung cancer and that these are tough times for him. I am livid at this point and tell him again that it’s not ok to suggest doing things then backing out.
I replied back with a bit of long text saying that hope everything is okay with his grandmother and told him my period of stay. Then I asked for quick coffee and his reply was very short (he was at work) and it was just too friendly to me… “Sure!
I got mad and texted that it’s not cool to suggest doing something then bailing on it. Then he kept making excuses to not go, such as he only will get home late so we’d be starting the night late. I told him ok well tonight is clearly a disaster, and said would you like to do something tomorrow.



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