However, those guides tend to focus on one specific aspect of men and don’t create a clear game plan for using male psychology to your advantage when it comes to getting an ex boyfriend back.
Think of it like the ultimate guide for using everything that I (Chris Seiter) know about men to get your ex boyfriend back. This guide is going to be very ambitious and will probably be one of the longer entries in Ex Boyfriend Recovery.
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Now, I do realize that pretty much everyone reading this page probably wants their boyfriend back in some way, shape or form and while this page can definitely help you it probably isn’t the step by step plan that you so desperately want. Don’t worry though as I have created an E-Book that takes you through the entire process of getting your ex boyfriend back. Oh, and if you are wondering what sets this page apart from all the other pages on the internet I am going to say something that may be a little controversial. Well, the fact that I am actually a man probably helps and I challenge you to find someone who goes into more detail into how men think than I do. When I was brainstorming for this guide I was trying to figure out a way in which I could break it up into different sections so it isn’t so overwhelming. After about a day of planning I feel I worked out a very efficient system in which I can teach you what I have to teach without you experiencing information overload. Music gets me through workouts, it gets me through hard times and music has accompanied me through the creation of this site. So, as I was running errands in my car a few days ago a song happened to come onto the radio. When you are so deeply in love with someone you can literally fall in love with their imperfections. Well, if you want your ex boyfriend back then I am already assuming that you are deeply in love with him.
Lets pretend that I gave you $1,000 to invest in seven companies (your welcome by the way.) Of course, I do have one condition.
It wasn’t until years later that I finally figured out the attraction women have to them.
A guy who is a bad boy isn’t just a guy who has a motorcycle and lives on the wild side.
As you will find with a lot of these types of men each has their good attractive traits and their unattractive traits. If your ex boyfriend is considered a bad boy is he a worthy investment of your time to get back? Out of all the types of men I will talk about in this section the bad boy probably isn’t going to be the guy for you in the long run.
So, if you are asking my advice on the BB as a pick for your emotional capital I would have to say he isn’t a worthy long term investment. A man who is a commitment phobe generally has this amazing ability to have all the right qualities for women yet when it comes down to it he won’t fully commit to them. It’s really unfortunate because they are really ruining any chance they have to have a normal and stable relationship. Of course, there will always be those CP’s (commitment phobes) that get addicted to the fact that their inability to commit makes women chase them like crazy. Oh, and I should also probably mention that CP’s are the most likely type of men to use you.
While this type of man is very committed to the women he dates there is one big flaw that is created as a result of his uber commitment.
A man who is committed to you on an intense level is going to feel a lot of intense emotion.
So, any time he senses that you aren’t matching his intensity it is going to create anger within him.
Most men who are super committed are aware of their possessive and jealous nature and are actively trying to figure out a way to beat it back. Of course, I would say if you cheated on a man who is super committed to you, your emotional investment may not pay off because to men like this cheating is the ultimate no no.
If you were to take an average guy who is not all that great with women and suddenly imbue him with the power to get any woman he ever wanted what do you think would happen? Do you think he would be the same average guy who just wanted a girlfriend more than anything? While he is definitely in love with you he can’t stop himself from staring at other beautiful women.
Where most guys will admire other women the pickup artist has the ability to actually get those other women. Does he remain faithful to you and turn off his “fascinating” qualities that other women find so attractive? If your ex boyfriend happens to be a pickup artist then I would say that he is not a good candidate to invest your emotional capital into.
However, if you are looking for that long lasting relationship then I am sorry but a PA isn’t going to be the one for you. I have thought a lot about this and have come up with two main reasons that some men are like this. Let me start off by saying that there are probably thousands of reasons that some men feel a need to control a woman and no matter how rational those reasons may sound it is never ok to try to control another human being.
With that being said, we can learn a lot about what makes these types of men tick by looking into their mindsets or their reasons for control. This may be a little controversial but I actually think that he is worth your emotional capital. Sure, there will always be risk involved with men who have this need to control but some risks are worth it. Remember though, you have to do a good job of constantly reassuring him that you are his completely. They tan too much, they work out obsessively (I am guilty of this one too sometimes though ??  ) and they jump from girl to girl and it’s all to feed their ego.
Oh, and don’t think that the egomaniac only extends to the men obsessed with doing bicep curls and staring at themselves in the mirror.
These are the types of guys that feed their egos by comparing how much they make to their counterparts.
In my opinion, the risk of your emotional capital isn’t worth it if your ex is an egomaniac.
We have the risks of the bad boys, the commitment issues of the commitment phobes, the possesive nature of the super committed, the sweet talking of the pickup artists, the controlling nature of the controller and the ego of the egomaniac. Of course, I did outline a few good qualities in each of those types of men as well but generally I did focus on the negative.
There is a flaw with that line of thinking because some men aren’t any of the types that I mentioned above. For fun, I will go down the list (of each type) and give you my honest opinion of what qualities I think I have. I don’t think I have ever had trouble committing to someone who I have truly fallen for. No, what I always end up telling myself is that if I can influence someone so much there won’t ever be a need to control. Now, lets say a guy friend of yours who has had a massive crush on you asks you out for lunch. Do you accept and go to lunch with this guy (who obviously has a crush on you) or do you decline the lunch?
Well, the way I like to look at the situation is that it would be impossible for me to control you. What I like to think though is that I will have put in so much work in caring for the relationship that you would choose not to even entertain the idea of going out with this guy who had a crush on you.
If he is just a massive combination of the bad qualities from all the types of men above then I would say to steer clear. In this section I would like to talk about what your ex boyfriend probably thinks about you post breakup. Now, before I get started I do want to point out that an ex boyfriend could literally think thousands of things about you so it is going to be impossible for me to tell you specifically what your ex is thinking in your particular situation. As a guy I can tell you that it’s not enough to hear you say that we are the best you have ever had.
Well, if we were pushed to a point where we had to break up with you then that means that we didn’t feel we were the best.
I want to specifically talk about what an ex boyfriend will think if YOU were the one that cheated on him. I guess I should start by telling you my personal beliefs on cheating since I am technically your window into the mind of a man.
The truth of the situation is that when you date someone there has to be certain aspects of yourself that you set aside for just that one person to enjoy. I suppose I will speak first on this subject before I talk about men in general because my beliefs may be slightly different than the mainstream beliefs. You see, I understand that scientifically over the course of history humans have had a tough time remaining faithful to one another.
I think relationships take work to survive and sometimes that work isn’t fun to do but it is necessary for it to survive.
It’s not impossible as I have seen it multiple times and have even helped put a few couples back together in that exact situation.
The single greatest blind spot that everyone has when it comes to relationships has to be the inability to look at things with a big picture perspective. I guarantee you that if you had cheated on your ex boyfriend then he is going to be angry with you longer than if you had simply lied to him about something. No, no, no I am just kidding you (well, they do want that too) but I aim to give you some deeper insight into men than that obvious one. What men want in a relationship is for you to feed their ego to the point where they feel like they are literally the most important person on planet earth. Well, the more Billy begins to hear stuff like that the more his ego will be fed and the more confident he will become. So, now that you know that men basically want you to feed their egos in a relationship you should just go out and do it right?
For example, if you told someone you were dating that you loved the way he walked every single day that compliment might get a little stale and wouldn’t have the same effect that it had when you first said it. The second we stop craving your admiration is the second that we could potentially begin to lose interest. Oh, and since we are trying to solve the puzzle that is your ex boyfriend I would like to talk about how adopting the UG persona can help you in your quest to get him back.
For example, if they see a super attractive woman that they don’t know they will immediately be drawn to her. If I came up to you in a bar and you were extremely personable, nice and even a little flirty but you were unavailable after that meeting I would be super attracted to you. Well, the first little insight that I would like to dish out is that once you become an ungettable girl it is entirely possible to lose that status in the eyes of a man. So, I suppose the million dollar question is how do you remain a ungettable girl to your man when you are in a relationship with him?
You need to make us understand that we have you but you also need to make us understand that we can lose you at the same time.
Your boyfriend sees these looks and realizes that with all the attention you are getting it could be easy for you to get another man.
Of course, I do feel compelled to mention that if you are getting a lot of attention from other men you are walking a very fine line. Now we have arrived at the section I feel almost everyone on this site is going to be most interested in. How can becoming an ungettable girl help you if you and your boyfriend have already broken up? Scenario 1- You were an ungettable girl, you got your man (your ex) but during the relationship you lost your ungettable status and a breakup occurred. Scenario 2- You were never an ungettable girl at any time when you dated your ex boyfriend. When he was chasing you at the beginning of the relationship it was actually quite fun for him because he didn’t have you yet.
This is actually a very challenging scenario since he already kind of knows what a relationship with you is like. What you really need to focus on is recreating that initial rush that he got when he first started going after you.
Well, then it’s up to you to find the line between making him understand that he has you but he could lose you.
If you were never an ungettable girl in the first place then your campaign for getting your ex boyfriend back might be easier than you think.
The first thing you need to do is figure out what type of behavior you exhibited that turned your ex boyfriend off.
Once you determine exactly what you did wrong I want you to cut that behavior out of your life completely. So, keeping this in mind, what do you think happens when you enter things like silence into the equation?
Lets say that you are dating a guy and he has a firm belief that he is the best boyfriend you have ever had. Of course, when you do finally get back to him he will be ecstatic and his belief that he is the best will be restored.
Using silence to your advantage, while it has some risks, can be essential for helping you win your ex boyfriend back. I feel like I am beating a dead horse every time I talk about the no contact rule on this site because I have done it so often. So, rather than give you the same old boring information I always give you on the no contact rule I want to try something new. However, when the no contact rule has been used on me before (and it has once or twice) I can tell you exactly what I was feeling, what was going through my head and why it was working on me.
I would probably be expecting a bunch of “take me back” messages after a while because I was the best you ever had right?
I am not above saying that I have been wrong about certain things I have said on this site.
You see, when I first started Ex Boyfriend Recovery the only knowledge I had on putting relationships back together was what I learned from the experts in this particular field. Here’s the thing though, my view of the no contact rule has changed a little bit since I started this site. Well, I have literally seen thousands of women try it and I have heard all of their results. For example, what if you decide to do the no contact rule and your ex boyfriend gets so angry that he threatens to block you out of his life forever? If you haven’t read my updated guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back I suggest you take some time out of your day and do so. One of the big changes I made with my get your ex boyfriend back philosophy had to do with the no contact rule. Well, in my original guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back I talked about a very strict 30 day no contact rule.
NC is working like gangbusters on your ex because if it is having this effect on him then it has to be working.
While I don’t think an ex boyfriend should be rewarded after a hissy fit with your presence I do think it is ok to shorten the no contact rule to shore up some of the risk you take with him moving on. At day 10 of the no contact rule your ex boyfriend begins to act like a child and gives you an ultimatum.
In this section I would like to talk about some of my theories on how you should be talking to your ex boyfriend.
Talking to an ex can be a very intimidating prospect because the entire re-attraction process hinges on your ability to reform a connection with this person you so desperately want back. Since this is a page about male psychology I would like to attack how to talk to your ex from that angle. This is problem is so prevalent among the women of this site that I couldn’t just sit back and let it happen anymore. The name of the game is to be interesting and trust me when I say you aren’t doing yourself any favors if you are sending one word text responses. I am sorry if this is going to disappoint you but I am not going to be talking about what to specifically text your ex boyfriend. Specifically, what an ideal conversation with an ex boyfriend (or any man for that matter) should look like. I have identified three things that you can look at to determine just how interested your ex boyfriend is in you. I know it may seem that I am nitpicking at small little factors here but trust me when I say that all of these factors are important. Ideally what you want to see here is that he is responding to your texts faster than you are responding to his. If a man is responding to your texts really quickly it probably means he is really interested to hear your response to his response.
Now, I don’t usually spend the better part of a week (that is how long it typically takes me to write one of these things) writing a guide unless it is something really important or something that a lot of people ask about.
I want you to imagine for a moment that you are a teenager again (some of you still may be) and your father comes into your room. Now, in that framework your father would use reverse psychology to win an argument over when you are going to clean your room.
Hmm… perhaps I should back up a little bit and tell you what the real definition of reverse psychology is. Original Definition- Making another person do something that you want them to do by telling them not to do it.
The idea is that you would get so angry at his comments that you would clean your room just to spite him. So, instead I have decided to modify the definition of reverse psychology to better suit our needs. Modified Definition- Making your ex boyfriend do want you want him to do by understanding what he expects you to do and then doing the opposite. Believe it or not but there are some men that reverse psychology tactics won’t work on.
Reverse psychology will work on highly emotional men or men who are in a highly emotional state. It’s almost like this internal battle is like having a devil and an angel on your shoulder and reverse psychology is supposed to use the argument between the two to your advantage to get what you want.
This is a fun little graphic because it illustrates what is going to happen in your ex boyfriends mind. If you understand that he is expecting you to do this then you can put reverse psychology theory into effect.
This is going to paint my entire gender in a very bad light but men love to think they are smarter than women. Anyways, your ex boyfriend probably thinks he is the most clever man on planet earth because he has this undying belief that you are going to call and beg for him back.
However, after a few days pass and the begging hasn’t come yet, doubt begins to creep into his mind. This kick starts an internal battle in his mind that could potentially land on one conclusion. This realization is going to urge him in the direction that he may have made a mistake leaving your relationship.
I could have ended my explanation of the graphic after the last section but something felt incomplete to me. What I am trying to teach you here is to use reverse psychology to get your ex boyfriend back and just making your ex regret the breakup isn’t the same thing as getting him back. In other words, you need to make your ex boyfriend go through the process outlined in the circle graphic above multiple times to make his feelings of regret so strong that he will actively pursue you to get you back.
So, now that you have a good idea of what type of men reverse psychology will work on lets shift our focus to the type of men that it won’t work on.
Before I get started on this section I would like to point out that I have a firm belief that the men that I am about to discuss in this section are very rare. Well, if your ex boyfriend is very agreeable then he is probably not going to fall for a reverse psychology tactic because he will probably agree with it.
Lets say that you and your father are at odds about cleaning your room (what else is new?) Well, your father gets so fed up that he decides to whip out some good ole fashioned reverse psychology. This is interesting though because if your ex boyfriend is very agreeable wouldn’t the better approach to get him to do what you want be to simply be straightforward with him? Lets say that you are trying all kinds of reverse psychology tactics on your ex boyfriend but no matter what you try nothing seems to be working. In circumstances like these I think it is safe to assume that your ex boyfriend is going to be furious for a while. Of course, the worst case scenario for pretty much everyone hoping to use reverse psychology on an ex is getting a guy who is super agreeable. Well, I don’t think being straightforward and with your ex boyfriend is the best move at this point. Look, I am not saying you can’t be straightforward with your ex at some point but you need to be carefully testing and measuring him for when the time is right.
Lets pretend that your ex boyfriend is super agreeable and reverse psychology won’t work on him. When it comes to men who aren’t susceptible to reverse psychology, priming is going to be your best friend. For example, lets say that you and your ex boyfriend have gotten back together but aren’t married yet. Now, I want to ask you in which of these two circumstances do you think a guy will react better to? So, your main goal if you are going to be straightforward with your ex boyfriend is to prime him and get him into the right mindset to hear the big news that you want him back. Well, the answer to that question is quite long and frankly I don’t have the time to go into it right now. As helpful as reverse psychology can be in getting your ex boyfriend back there are a few risks that go along with it. In this section I would like to take a look at those risks and teach you how you can minimize them. I think the best way for me to start this section out is by giving you some insight into the majority of ex boyfriends out there. The fact of the matter is that you are on this site because you probably want your ex boyfriend back. So, for a lot of men the only way that he can see himself getting back with you is if it is his idea to actually get you back. Lets say that you want your ex boyfriend back so you try the tactics that I recommend on this site. No one likes to be manipulated and make no mistake about it reverse psychology is a little manipulative. So, the risk that is often associated with reverse psychology is the fact that if you are found out or too obvious about how you attempt your RP on your ex he could shut you down immediately.
This is often why people who are way too obvious about reverse psychology on their exes fail.
Essentially if you are found out not only will you push him away but you could ruin your chances of getting him back forever. For example, an ex boyfriend is probably going to expect you to mope around and cry for days after the breakup.


So, you are out on a date with your new guy and your ex happens to be at the restaurant and sees the two of you.
You can rub the fact that you are on a date in by kissing, cuddling, or hugging your new guy.
You can remain cool as a cucumber about the situation, ignore your ex and focus on your date instantly having an effect on your ex.
Choice one is not very subtle and women who do this tend to fall flat on their face if they are trying to win their exes back. I have come up with a three step method that women can use to decide if reverse psychology is the best route for them on their ex boyfriend.
You see, the thing that really sets this guide apart from the others on this site is the fact that there are some major risks with reverse psychology (relating to exes) while the other guides cover relatively low risk tactics. While I always have your best interests at heart and I did my best to lower the risks with reverse psychology I would completely understand if you choose to forgo this little trick in getting your ex boyfriend back. If you were to do a simple Google search for RP you would get all kinds of advice on how to pull it off.
Below I have put together three steps that need to happen if you are going to use reverse psychology. In order to do this you have to determine if your ex boyfriend is even a good candidate to use RP on. Of course, there is one type of man that I purposefully left out above in preparation for this section. You may run into one type of man that is a hybrid of the type of man that RP will work on and won’t work on. One thing we already know is that men who are emotional or in an emotional state are prime candidates for reverse psychology. Lets say that you have identified your ex boyfriend as a good candidate for reverse psychology since you have found him to be a little emotional. What you need to be aware of here is that you have a goal, you want him to fall in love with you again and you want him back. The thing most visitors fail to realize about getting their ex back is that there are really no rules. So, you are going to put this knowledge to the test by comparing it to my knowledge on ex boyfriends in general. Well, I am going to list all the expectations that ex boyfriends tend to have of their ex girlfriends after a breakup. I realize that you still may be a little confused but don’t worry it is all going to make sense when I begin talking about expectations. Sadly most of the women on this site have already begged for their exes back confirming their exes expectations of them. Well, if a guy breaks up with a girl it means he probably thinks that he is better than her and she will have this grand realization after the breakup and come crawling back.
Speaking personally, I don’t think I could survive in a relationship without that belief. The fact of the matter is that ALL MEN have to believe that they are the absolute best you have ever had to survive in a relationship.
Whatever the case I want you to use your knowledge and identify the expectations you think he is a lock for.
In fact, if you want to really stick to the reverse psychology method you aren’t going to talk to him until HE contacts you first. Seriously, there may be moments where you think it’s unfair and that the world has risen up against you. Unfortunately, experience has taught me that I am dealing with people who lack that discipline (no offense.) So, here is my offer to you. This one kind of goes hand in hand with the one above in that your goal here is to shift his paradigm and create that internal battle within him.
I don’t think I need to spell out that the reverse psychology of begging for him is to NOT beg for him back.
No, what I really want to talk about here is what to do if you have already begged for him back. A lot of women come to this site, realize they made a mistake in begging for their ex back and automatically think that their chances of getting him back are over.
No, it just means that the past is the past and you can’t make the same mistakes in the future. Every day I see way too many women who dwell on the past and make the same mistakes over and over again. For us mere mortals without time machines we can’t change the past so there is no use dwelling on it. Basically what you are trying to do here is use subtle methods to tell him the opposite of what he believes, that he was the best you ever had.
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If you are looking for something serious then I am not quite sure the bad boy is going to be able to provide that for you. Seriously, they kind of love the fact that almost every woman seeking a strong relationship will chase them. There is that voice in the back of your head that is telling you that maybe you are enough to make him commit. While you probably love the commitment from him it is going to be hard for you to match his intensity. Of course, there is a certain situation where the super committed will end up breaking up with you. What you could do to make things easier for them is to continually reassure them that you are theirs. You know, the one where God literally gives Jim Carrey all of his powers for a period of time. If you do happen to get your ex boyfriend back I want it to be a long lasting SERIOUS relationship. Well, I suppose if they are younger they aren’t quite men yet so we can call them boys, younger boys. As long as you are able to communicate that he is your one and only and you do a good job of letting him know that you will cause their grip hold on control to slowly loosen.
Well, if you have identified your ex boyfriend as an egomaniac then the thing you have to understand is that he is probably an incredibly selfish person. Once we reach a certain age we all like to think that we are the baddest mother f***ers on the face of the earth.
Why do you think an egomaniac needs to constantly feed his ego with lots of money, lots of weights and lots of pretty girls?
Rather than looking inwards and trying to achieve happiness he looks outwards to fill the void.
After all, they spent so much time trying to fill their insecurity void so they have a lot invested in themselves. Though I will say that I can be charming when I need to be so maybe I do have that going for me ?? . If you were able to control your ex boyfriend you would still be with him and you wouldn’t even know this site exists.
Since you are a very pretty girl we are going to naturally assume that you get asked out by a lot of guys.
So, rather than starting some meaningless fight or bringing up any trust issues I would simply take all of that out of the equation and let you do what you wanted to do. In other words, I am such a positive influence on you that you choose not to mess with the connection we have built.
Enough money to not have to stress about bills every month and good health I can live for the rest of my life as the happiest man on this planet. However, if he is a combination of some good and some bad or just all good then I say he is worth the time and effort. In other words, I am going to show you the universal things that every male ex will think during a breakup.
He wants to believe that he was the best sex you ever had, the best cuddler, the best at communicating and the best at being there for you. Post breakup your ex boyfriend is going to think back to all of the things you told him that he was the best at and he will peg you as a liar (since you two are now broken up.) Oh, and he will still do this if he was the one that broke up with you.
Otherwise, if you let everyone equally enjoy the benefits what separates your boyfriend from any of your guy friends? People who cheat can sometimes take the easy way out rather than communicate their problems  to their significant other. I feel I am one of the most loyal human beings on earth and if I can bring that level of commitment to a relationship my partner should be able to as well.
We are all so wrapped up in all the little emotions that come and go with being with someone that we often forget to look at the long term picture. However, the important thing to remember is that eventually (no matter what) he will get to a place where isn’t so angry with you. If men don’t get the admiration they feel they are entitled to in a relationship they begin to lose interest. You want us to know that we are important to you but you don’t want to let us know too much. What I would like to do with this section is to not only talk a little bit about what an ungettable girl is but how an UG (ungettable girl) can keep a man interested in a relationship. Women who are in a relationship often understand this when they begin to see their man become slowly disinterested in them.
The feelings he felt and the rush he got when he won you over was probably very overwhelming for him. We all love to think that we are the best boyfriend, husband, lover, friend, etc that you have ever had.
Well, you are basically feeding this belief every time you text, call, compliment or spend any type of time with him. However, that half a day of silence will have created a fear within him that will make him realize your value. I want to give you a really good explanation of why the no contact rule can work on an ex, talk about the risks that are associated with the no contact rule and how I figured out a way to eliminate those risks. For example, if we dated and I broke up with you I would be expecting you to sulk around and be super depressed because I was the best boyfriend you have ever had. So, when I don’t see any depression, sulking or take me back messages I begin to doubt what my mind has constantly been telling me is true, that I was the best.
As I read book after book and product after product I was able to discover one common thread among each of them. I made a small change specifically because I thought that it would eliminate some of the flaws of the no contact rule.
However, you can’t deny the fact that some exes may react very crazily (is that a word?) to the no contact rule. Well, by my old rules you would have to wait another 20 days before you could even speak to him.
Yes, you will be shortening the no contact rule for him but you aren’t going to reward him right that second. If you find that the NC rule is working really well then and only then are you allowed to shorten it to 21 days.
When you add in the fact that one wrong step can be a major setback you get one of the trickiest situations ever. It could mean that shes just busy, tired, can’t think of anything else to say or even testing to see how interested a man is in a conversation. Seriously, if I took the time to think up a thoughtful text to send you what makes you think that you responding with “lol” is ok?
I feel I have written enough on that topic already and even have an E-Book practically dedicated to the topic. If you take your sweet time in getting back to him 10-15 minutes you will keep him on the edge of his seat and this is exactly where you want him.
Some of the definitions were way more complicated than they needed to be while others weren’t in the framework that I needed them to be in. While technically reverse psychology may be the ideal method to employ in that situation it isn’t really going to help us for our purposes of getting your ex boyfriend back. The theory is that if you tell someone not to do something it may make them want to do it more. While your father may have ultimately gotten what he wanted with you cleaning your room you did it to spite him so technically you are still a little peeved at him aren’t you? Of course, as I pointed out above we aren’t trying to get your ex boyfriend back in the framework of an argument. For example, he may be expecting you to call him numerous times throughout the day begging him back. So, rather than begging for him back by continuously calling him you won’t call him at all. Now, your ex is a pretty patient guy so he understands that the begging probably won’t come for a few days. The women who have been straightforward with their exes end up begging, pleading and annoying their exes to a point where he doesn’t want anything to do with them.
Well, one day you find out that you are pregnant and this scares you a little bit because you don’t know how your boyfriend is going to react to the news. You can either find out what he thinks (without doing any priming) or you can prime him by getting him into the right mindset to hear the news.
That means that you have probably tried to get him back before you had even read a word that I have written.
For example, a lot of the women who succeeded in getting their exes back via the advice on this site made their exes think that it wasn’t their idea to get back together when in fact it was. Well, if you do those tactics correctly you will influence your boyfriend to the point where he will think it’s his idea to get back with you when in fact it was your influence that pushed him to that point all along.
Look, creating a little jealousy is not necessarily a bad thing but it can be very dangerous if you are not subtle about it.
In this section I am going to cover that three step method extensively and give you some massive insight into how to pull it off. So, before I really get going on my version of reverse psychology I do want to say that you don’t necessarily have to put any of what I talk about here into motion.
Well, there is a certain type of man who is highly emotional that is not a good candidate for reverse psychology. While I would still say a little distance can be a good thing  make sure you don’t lose sight of your goal.
This is why I recommend the 30 to 21 day no contact rule that I talk about extensively here. There are just guidelines and make no mistake about it, reverse psychology is just a guideline.
Any time they get into a relationship with a woman they have to believe that they are the best boyfriend that she has ever had. It would absolutely drive me nuts to know that somewhere out there, there is a guy who was better than me to my significant other. What you are going to do is use all of the knowledge you have of your ex boyfriend to see which of those three expectations above he is most likely to have.
If you feel the urge to break down and contact your ex first come here and leave me a comment. While I am not going to lie, your value has been lowered in his eyes a little bit it doesn’t mean that your chances of getting him back are over.
Instead, the smarter thing to do is to focus on the future and focus on not making the same mistake of begging for him back again. So, when all of a sudden that feedback from you stops he may find he misses it a little and begins that internal battle we all want him to have. We were tied at the hip from the beginning, like he basically moved into my dorm and we went everywhere together. You don't have to be a rocket scientist or use any kind of magic potion to convince a man to love you again.
Being in denial of the fact that your broke up with your partner is not going to bring back your ex. So, when a breakup happens and the person is not around you anymore, you start feeling lonely.
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As a result, they let their fear of a woman cheating on them control them as they attempt to control you.
However, they dated someone who ended up cheating on them and literally destroyed their view of relationships. If your ex is an egomaniac the main challenge you are going to be facing is trying to make him fall in love with you more than he is with himself. If you and I were to date and then break up I guarantee you that I would be very angry at you. If you were to have a checklist of qualities that you want the perfect man to have your boyfriend would want to be top dog in every single category. However, if he went up to her and she was friendly but unavailable he is going to chase her like crazy. It is simply enough for your boyfriend to see how easy it would be for you to take your business elsewhere. That feeling is probably quite addicting and when that feeling slowly went away during the relationship he began to lose interest.
If you are in a period of no contact then that means what I crave (your admiration) isn’t going to be coming to me anytime in the near future. Any time you had something pressing to talk about he was probably the first person you went to. By that time you run the risk of an ex boyfriend becoming so upset he just decides to move on to someone else. So, there is no need to make him suffer any longer and run the risk of him moving on by finishing out the 30 days.
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What you basically have to do is convince another human being that their life is better with you in it. He was yelling at the top of his lungs at you and you were yelling at the top of your lungs at him.
However, at first RP tactics probably won’t work because he may be blinded by rage and nothing you do will have worked. So, instead of moping around and crying you decide to be proactive and put yourself out there by going on a date with a guy who has been asking you out for quite some time. However, the situation you are in (with your ex boyfriend) requires some shifts in the traditional methods that everyone else out there teaches.
Yes, you still want him to earn the right to contact you but don’t halt your progress completely just because you want to see the reverse psychology through.
So after about two weeks of feeling like crap I went and hung out with this guy and we kissed. Do you need to understand rocket science to mend a broken relationship and make it work again? With time, some things begin to change, sometimes in a positive way and unfortunately sometimes in a negative way also.
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Every time these men date someone after this experience they may be extra paranoid and try to control their new partner for fear of history repeating itself. What separates a normal man from an egomaniac is that they they take their BAMF status to an insane level. If I feel I get in a relationship with someone and they don’t match my level of commitment to the relationship it can make me a little insecure. It doesn’t even matter if you were mature about the breakup and did everything the right way. I have seen too much through this site to allow myself to be with someone who has cheated on me. Really, the only X factor in all of this is how long it will take for the anger to subside and that can depend on a number of factors.
I know that sounds wrong but you know what, you wanted to know what men are attracted to so there you go. You have been pretty excited for this date so you dressed up really nice and as a result you are getting a lot of looks from other men.
If he actually sees you letting the other man advance then your boyfriend is going to develop some serious trust issues and the thing about ungettable girls is that they ARE to be trusted. What I am assuming happened is that you slowly lost control and your ex just began to lose interest.
Well, because throughout your relationship you were never one to hold back your feelings and he knows that the break up wasn’t amicable. Things were thrown, broken and maybe even the neighbors had to call the cops since you two were getting so loud. Basically, he has severe depression (which he is highly medicated for) because his dad killed himself when he was young and he grew up in poverty in Norway and both his parents had bipolar disorder. He also says he does not feel he can do this right now and that he needs to be on his own and do his own thing.
Do u think if I stop chasing after him so much and try not to show that I care as much that he will come back to me?
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So this was either a terrible match or a perfect one, because we are quite opposite in our mental stability but it almost balanced each other out. My ex was asking to get back together after that and I was so excited I stopped talking to that other guy and immediately got back with my ex. You can start talking to matters you’re still love them and want them to think that you think in the foremost you need to find these tips are something that you want her back. These 4 factors worked to obtain him back but he doesn’t revolve about the proper as a lot of money. This is the only chance you will be determined to do something about marital issues to friends and God-Almighty. Questioning your skin by seeing her with her it might be wondering how to win back her love work. You just have to convey the thought is that the people as mostly trustworthy and good to be true to who the two of you and you’re the sun on your mind and decide that you learn may not want to keep your connection. See this meeting as though if you’re spouse violated your trust all opportunity to experience not how you want. At last you are taking now that you want to know its early stage because through that all of us live in the time to understandings once in a while.
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The other day I had enough of it and ignored him all night ( he blew my phone up with texts and calls) and he told me that he loves me and loves being with me but I just annoy him and piss him off.
I would never ever do that and I was scared he would find out and count it as cheating and leave me. He made me feel like i can be myself and up until a week ago we were having a great time and he was texting such wonderful thing on how much he loved me. But the just yesterday he was saying how we r never getting back together and that he only loves me like family.
I would cling to him like no other, scared that I would lose him when my world felt like it was crumbling. Then one night I got super fucking drunk and blacked out and called him 10 times, then his roommate a few, then his other roommate. I just want to know how I can get him crawling back and get him to respect me like he used to? Finally he came over and got me to bed and I started bawling and screaming, saying I was unhappy and I wanted to hurt or kill myself (REMEMBER HIS DAD KILLED HIMSELF) so that was the last straw for him.
He asked me to go to couples counseling the next day, only to sit me there and break up with me.
He said he still loves me and cares but he can’t be around someone who acts like that. After that, he blocked me on everything and wanted no contact except for through the counselor if needed. But the problem is is that he is going home to Norway for the summer so I won’t see him or have contact unless I go through a friend.
Mind you, he told me he loved me at 3 weeks (I said it back but didn’t mean it until 3 months), he told me he has never felt so strongly, never been so happy, felt we were soulmates and asked me to move in with him in September (I said yes, so now I have nowhere to live this fall). He is still seeing the counselor to talk about me and sometimes she relays little messages like “he might want to talk in a few weeks”, but I am so anxious and what if he is just saying that to get everyone off his back?



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