Even if a man and a woman are on opposites sides of the world while in a long distance relationship, the woman will stick by her man and be 100% faithful to him if she feels that he is worth it.
If your woman feels proud to be with you and feels a lot of respect, love and attraction for you, then there is no need for her to cheat on you or break up with you.
She will know that it would be a big mistake and a huge personal loss for her to choose a lesser man over you. Many soldiers go off to war and come back to a woman who has faithfully waited for months or even more than a year for him to return. That is what is possible when you have the right relationship dynamic and make a woman feel increasing amounts of love, respect and attraction over time.
Continuing on with the soldier example here, many soldiers come back to find that their girlfriend or wife is no longer in love with him, has moved on with someone else or has been sleeping around behind his back. The fact is, you may not even really know how to deepen a woman’s respect, love and attraction for you in a relationship. If there are problems in your relationship that keep happening over and over again and you haven’t been able to fix them, it means that your relationship is in trouble.
Unless something else in her life, such as a hectic work schedule or having a crazy study schedule, is taking up all of her free time, a woman will always make herself available for the man she loves; especially in a long distance relationship. No matter how busy she gets, a woman who is in a loving relationship will crave to get a “love fix” from her guy.
This means that no matter what else is going on in her life, she will proactively talk to him by returning his calls, or at the very least text him a quick, “Sorry, I’m really busy right now, but I’m thinking of you! Personally speaking, since working out the attraction and relationship techniques that I teach here at The Modern Man, I have never had to proactively call my women to stay in touch.
Now that I’m engaged and planning to get married in the future, the same rule still applies. The reason she can’t stand to be apart from me is that she feels so much love, respect and attraction for me. The love that we share in our relationship is far beyond what we would experience if either of us hooked up with someone new.
Part of what you have to accept when you have a long distance relationship is the fact that your girlfriend will be going out without you. She will be going out to coffee shops and restaurants, to parties and even to bars and clubs with other people, which will most likely include other guys in the group.
This is the challenge of not being together; you both still have to have normal, fulfilling lives without each other. However, if you’re sitting at home pining over her and avoiding going out with your friends so that you can call her 3 times a day or night and she’s out partying it up and never telling you where she’s going and who she with, it is a clear sign that she’s either opening herself up to meet a new man, or is already dating and having sex with other men without you knowing about it. If she loves you, respects you and wants to be with you, your girlfriend will be very open and honest about what she’s doing and whom she’s hanging out with while she’s away from you. Personally speaking, I have come to realize that you can never trust a woman 100% in a relationship, but you simply have to. In a loving relationship, a couple wants to listen and share details about their life, even if those details aren’t even very important.
If your girlfriend isn’t telling you what’s going on in her life, she is clearly beginning to distance herself from you. This may be because she’s tired of having to be in a long distance relationship while all her friends are able to kiss, hold hands and have sex with their boyfriends, while she can only talk to you on the phone, Skype, Facebook video call, Facetime, etc. Her being distant with you may also be because she’s trying to push you into taking the lead in the relationship by making plans to bring the two of you together. One of the most important aspects of a long distance relationship is the number of times a couple can get together in person. By getting together in person and creating memories with each other, you will create a special bond that she can hold on to when she’s at home alone, or when she’s out with her girlfriends who are hugging and kissing their boyfriends. When she can remember the last time you went out together on a romantic date, had passionate sex and spent time building a deeper connection, it will be easier for her to remain faithful and happy until your next hook up. On the other hand, if every time you suggest getting together in person, she gives you a lame excuse like, “It’s just not a good time for me right now,” or “I think you should concentrate on work (or your studies). A woman who is in love with her man and needs to feel his love in person will do anything and everything to try to meet up with him. To make a relationship with a woman last for life, she has to feel like she is lucky to be with you. If your woman feels like she is more valuable than you and that you’re the lucky one, then she may open her heart to another guy who makes her feel lucky to be interacting with him.
If you don’t know how to make your woman feel that way, I recommend that you watch Better Than a Bad Boy right now. To be successful in a relationship (long distance or not), you have to make your woman feel the default types of attraction for you by at least being a confident, masculine and emotionally strong man. When in a long distance relationship, she will be meeting other guys throughout her daily life and if the only recent memories she has of you are that you are insecure and feeling desperate or lost without her, a new guy’s confidence will be even more appealing to her. She will compare you to him and wonder why she is with you when you can’t even make her feel attracted. In a relationship, you have to give the woman 100% of your trust and let her take care of it.
Yes, a woman does want to feel appreciated, love, wanted and missed, but she doesn’t want you to be insecure about it. In a long distance relationship, it is very easy to ruin things by becoming jealous, clingy or even angry when she takes a bit too long to call you back or when she goes out with her friends. Always remember this: A woman in a long distance relationship doesn’t have to put up with a nervous, insecure, jealous guy.
As the man in the long distance relationship, it’s up to you to create, and keep creating, attraction between you so that even if she goes out and meets other guys, the only thing on her mind is, “I can’t wait to get home to phone my man. As a man, it is your responsibility to take the lead and make her feel the way she wants to feel in a relationship. As long as her man makes her feel attracted, respectful of him and in love with him when they interact, a woman will remain interested. If you don’t know how to make her feel intense attraction for you and really want to see you, she will probably just hook up with another guy and move on without you. Simple, easy-to-use attraction techniques that instantly begin to fix your relationship problems, get the spark back and prevent a break up. After getting cheated on and then dumped by a girlfriend many years ago, I went on a personal mission to discover how to attract women so I could have my choice of women. I then worked out how to deepen the love, respect and attraction in a relationship so I wouldn't get dumped again.
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The Taurus Soul lesson is to go beyond dependency and access the unpredictability of emotions. The Gemini soul lesson is to go beyond inner restlessness and reach beyond the world of pure thought.
Leo’s soul came kicking and screaming into the world, longing to explore the excitement around them.
The Libran soul lesson is to judge fairly in a world of opposites, a world of shadow and light. The Capricorn lesson is to warm their souls and their toes, Cappy’s suffer from slow circulation. Aquarius soul lesson is not only to hold up his finger to authority, but to step out of his heart’s airy detachment and fall into passion.
Therefore, as you reach out to seek for your soul mate, know that the one who challenges you to opening your heart the widest is the one who you can spend the rest of your life with! My name is Liz and I am not any spiritual teacher on the topic of soulmate but just an ordinary soul who got a nudge to pursue researching on soulmate signs and twin flame. About MeMy name is Liz and I am not any spiritual teacher on the topic of soulmate but just an ordinary soul who got a nudge to pursue researching on soulmate signs and twin flame.
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I regret staying in a long distance relationship when I studied abroad in England for a year. He was my first boyfriend actually, I hadn’t really ever dated until I was 21, and 10 years my senior, he was a sense of security to me as I sold off most of my belongings, left my apartment and made myself virtually jobless and homeless right before I set out to live in student housing for a year in London. Long Distance Relationship can be very hectic and if the two parts are not on the same state of mind? I just simply regret allowing myself to focus on something that I should have realized wasn’t working rather than making the most of something that is a once in a lifetime experience. That happens and it’s sad that people some times let others linger on the idea that there might be a chance for something greater. You may be one of the guys who are making the mistake of just hoping that the relationship works because you’ve been a good man to and have been telling her how much you love or need her in your life.
You have to grow and become even closer by fixing any problems that come up and becoming a more harmonious, in love couple. If she’s still into you, she will call you up and be worried about why you haven’t called her. My fiance is madly in love with me and can’t stand to be apart from me, even though she is a perfectly confident and emotionally secure woman. It feels good to be around me, even if we are sitting on the couch and watching TV or if I’m in my office here writing up new posts for The Modern Man and all she gets is a 15 minutes with me every hour or so when I take a break. When you have that type of love in your relationship, there is no need to break up, cheat or fight. She’s almost always unavailable when you try to reach her and she’s vague about the people she hangs out with. This is natural and normal and if your girlfriend keeps you up to speed with what she’s doing and whom she’s with (and visa versa), there shouldn’t be anything to worry about.
Likewise, she can never trust you 100%, but she has to in order for the relationship be harmonious and for the love to mature between you. She isn’t very interested in sharing many details about her day-to-day life with you. You love her and care about her, so you are willing to listen (even if it’s just for 30 seconds to a minute) as she tells you about something she was thinking that day or that happened during her day.
She might not want to lose you, but based on how she is feeling, she is beginning to become open to not having you in her life.
She wants to see if you will step up and make something happen before it is too late, even if that means arranging for her to come to see you or to meet half way. Even if it is once a month or once a year, seeing each other in person helps to keep your feelings alive and fresh. We can get together when things aren’t so busy for you,” she’s likely moved on with her life (maybe has even found herself another boyfriend), but just doesn’t want to come right out and tell you. She might even work two jobs or sell items from her house or apartment to be able to afford a ticket to come and see you.
She has to look up to you and respect you and feel like she is lucky to be with a great guy like you.
It’s about being what women refer to as a real man, which is what I teach in my groundbreaking program called, Better Than a Bad Boy. A woman wants to feel excited to be with her man, rather than feeling like she is doing him a favor by being with him.
If you are insecure and emotionally weak, it will turn her off on a deep level and she will find it difficult to hold onto any feelings of attraction she once had for you. She will think about why she feels attracted to the new guy and, if the love and connection that you share isn’t very strong or worthy sticking around for, she may decide to open herself up to being with the new guy. Being insecure in a relationship is never, ever something that will make your woman feel more attraction and respect for you. Yes, she may still cheat on you or leave you depending on how loyal of a woman she is, but that is not something you can prevent by being insecure. In the past, when women had to save their virginity for marriage and stick by their man for life, that would have been a very shameful thing to do. Of course, some women are immature and disloyal and there’s not much you can do about those women. They are the new born babes of the Star Family and their best astro mates are likely to be Leo and Saggy, for they burn to the rhythm of each other’s flames, but the fact is Aries will learn emotional maturity through a more challenging liaison.
Taurus will love hanging out with fellow earth signs mates, Virgo and Capricorn, but their karmic lesson is to overcome possessive attitudes to relationships.
Gemini energies split into twins, one that shuts down with superficial judgments, and the other that opens out to versatility. As they gaze at the moon and wish for true love, they will be attracted to fellow water signs Pisces and Scorpio whose sensitive musings reassure them. But adolescent crushes broke their hearts, and their soul lesson is to now learn their passions need self control.
As they grow within the constrictions of society’s mores they analyze bizarre challenges and take things apart to understand them. But nobody would guess it as they wander around life like fools, tripping up on banana skins and walking under ladders.
The sobering facts of life weigh upon our Cappy friends, as can straight laced responsibilities. He will explore the meaning of his visions with fellow air signs Gemini and Libra, for they can talk “perceptions” all night, but inside this extrovert is a lonely soul yearning for a place to rest his weary mind.
A soul love is stimulating, challenging and could help you to learn who your “real you” actually is!
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I regret all of the opportunities and enjoyment that I truly missed out on because I spent too much time missing him and wishing that he was there.
If even one person in the long distance relationship have a problem with not having the person they are with around it will always end in regrets. A few of my friends were in LDRs and they had the most depressing lives (a fact they only realized later).
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The feeling that you get together when in a relationship is better than a new person could offer you in a relationship. When you use the techniques from the program, she will instantly realize that other guys simply do not compare to you and she would be losing the right man for her if she doesn’t stick by you. However, if you are constantly checking on her or asking her if she has been with other people, you are sending her a clear signal that you’re an insecure man who needs her more than she needs you. I've already helped thousands of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you too.
As we voyage through “time” we start to comprehend the significance of a soul mate’s challenge, which is to teach us to be the best we can be!
For example, Taurus could teach Aries the intensity of commitment and responsible love, as without it the Aries Soul tends to shrivel.
As adept as they are at recognizing the pure joys of sexual fulfillment their spiritual gifts need to be stimulated. Yet fiery sun ruled Leo will tempt Cancer away from moon musings, help them to step out of their shell and go on some great adventure. Although they will feel great in the company of fellow fire signs Aries and Saggy, tuning in as they do, to the same expansive traits, their true soul mate could come in the form of earth sign Virgo. Their soul lesson is to overcome their intolerance of humanity’s flaws, and open their hearts. Libra will love to spend time with fellow air signs Gemini and Aquarius and lose themselves in musings and intellectualization. Unafraid of the dark side, they are more than capable of clearing up the messes they leave in their wake.
Jupiter will not want their charges to meet a soul mate on some far off shore but in a Capricorn country manor spread. They do not dig over the top emotional displays, so are likely to hang out with sensible earth signs, or the odd and watery Cancer. His visions seek recognition, someone who really understands his plans to heat the world with solar panels.


It is sometimes hard being an old soul, like a Pisces, because they know more than many, and what they do know might make them yearn for oblivion rather than face the physical planes of existence. This was the biggest and boldest move I had ever made which left me feeling the most unstable I had ever felt in my life. We went on adventures and explored the entire city, but all I could think of is how I let my boyfriend down and how much I missed him. He hadn’t gotten his passport yet, something we had attempted to do for him back before I left.
He was distant and even when I specifically asked him to hang out with me (which at first I posed as a joke) he couldn’t find time to hang out one on one.
Lamenting over our relationship and feeling crazy because jealousy was a new feeling that I had never experienced before.
Constantly on their phones, constantly worried about their SOs, rushing home for Skype in the evening. View customer success stories, browse my products or watch this mind-blowing video about success with women. As we pass through this earth love opens our hearts and moves us to compassion, even to go beyond that Mars (sexual) and Venus (romantic) response to love. The Taurus recognizes the Aries is reaching for resonance and that its fiery being yearns to embrace another’s imperfections with an open heart. So a soul mate relationship with a Pisces or Cancer could get their emotional waters flowing and open them out to soulful concepts of existence. As much as the will get on with friendly Aries and fiery Leo, their true soul mate could be the caring Cancer, who will overlook Gemini’s faults with an ever loving gaze, and cause a transmutation of Gemini’s Destiny that could lead them to their Higher Purpose. The challenge of this connection could be water sign Cancer’s tendency to burn out Leo’s flame, yet generous Leo’s respect for the crab will more than make up for any emotional twisters. Virgos like hanging out with fellow earth signs like Taurus and Capricorn, but their soul mate might be found in the lessons Libra teaches.
But the true soul mate, the soul mate that could change their lives forever could be found in a Scorpio mate.
They have come to experience the intensity of emotionality, and they will risk their lives, to do just that. Cappy will forget they are straight laced and laugh with Saggy the moment they see them rolling up on their wild horse. However, when detached Aquarian’s nutty logic wobbles Cap’s serious demeanor, this old goat might snort a little. And then he saw Pisces, floating around the edge of his life at first, in a beautiful current of watery light. They will fall into the watery reaches when stressed identifying with life’s undercurrents sometimes with drugs and alcohol. I was just happy that I wasn’t going to also lose the guy that I had fallen in love with.
Everything that I saw I wanted to share with him, I bought him stupid little presents and sent home care packages. I never felt crazier in my life and he would send me depressing emails about how much he missed me, but act all cool when I called him.
Six weeks later he broke up with me, and then I heard from various friends about some girl who had been hanging around quite a bit.
I truly think I would have enjoyed myself if I was single and didn’t get wrapped up in placing my sense security on him. I could not help but think they should’ve been living where they were living, not online with someone they almost never saw. Aries will respect the earthy depths of the Taurus, and be unable to manipulate the heart of their stubborn lover.
As challenging as this might seem the evolved Taurus will soon learn to stretch love’s capacities and become the trustiest of lovers. In fact, Saggy is one of the few privileged ones that can tickle Capricorn’s toes, mess up their front room and spill prestigious wines on to their carpet. Pisces can inspire the Aquarian to reach into his depths, into places he has never touched before. But as they seek for the purest and best soul mate surprise, surprise, they return to the beginning of the journey. Email via Myspace (remember that!?) was our main source of communication, which was BS because I even bought him an international calling card to bloody call me! I left him a card with money for his passport when I left for the airport to go back to school, hoping that would alleviate at least one of the problems with his lack of motivation. I would rush home from class for these sad emails and spent countless hours on my computer waiting for communication. I might have grown, I might have found a career or stayed longer had I not wanted to rush home to him.
As a result of these relationships, they did miss out on potential encounters, and just on enjoying their time wherever they were. The Virgo tends to remain unmoved by leonine explosions, they know that fire can burn the earth, but never destroy it. But a profound physical connection plus the intensity of Scorpionic love will inspire the Libra to grow beyond indecision and emotional vacillation. Their search for symbiosis with soul can be ruthless, so they like to relax in the company of fellow water signs Cancer and Pisces; they literally flow into the infinite together.
Saggy inspires Capricorn to teach that “knowing” and spirituality need containment, and help Saggy to hone into reason rather than instinct. Yet, in the end it will be the Water Carrier’s dedication to the evolution of humanity that shows a solidity and decency Cappys admire. It is realistic Aries who teaches them their greatest soul lesson which is to wake up from watery slumbers. I asked him to visit, I even offered to pay for half of his plane ticket even though I was broke spending US dollars that were worthless in UK pounds. If only someone had warned me that long distance relationships are bad, not because people get lonely and cheat, but because they distract you from enjoying your own experiences.
Instead, they were choosing the constant fears, expectations and disappointments that inevitably come with LDRs.
Strange as it might seem, a soul mate is not necessarily the perfect astro mate, but “the one” who loves us for our faults and teaches how to become passionately committed to our personal evolution. However, when Virgo begins to pick apart Libra’s love of trifles, Libra will shrug, and by so doing teach Virgo the coveted gift of tolerance. But could it be Saggy the fiery Archer who will challenge the Scorpio to fall into soul mate love?
When Saggy has tripped up over his last banana skin, he will run weeping into Cappy’s arms and feeling that earthy grasp, know he has come home to true love.
In fact, Capricorn might end up going to a “Save the Dolphin” gig with their Aquarian lover, and let rip with the rest of them.
Piscean moods, their gazes into the distance stimulate Aquarius to search beyond limitations.
The Aries will be fascinated by sensual Pisces realizing they have many secrets to reveal, and for all Aries’ hard headedness, they will want to walk across the bridge to higher understanding with Pisces. I believe one needs to think often about whether or not the relationship contributes more positively than negatively to one’s life, but very few people do that.
A human being can meet various soul mates during their incarnation on this earth, the following are our more challenging partners. Saggy’s are unafraid of Scorpio Spookiness, and dark manipulations, in fact they laugh so hard at them, Scorpio will be tempted to giggle too! As Pisces stares into their aquarium Aries will be running around the block, yet somehow, somewhere they will meet halfway.
Saggy will tolerate Scorpion jealousy by galloping off into the distance, with a toss of their locks. You could even see them overcome by the giggles when the Aquarian tickles their funny bones! Something other than them, perhaps a Higher Will, might have pulled them together, who knows?



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