It’s quite dated to consider text messaging a low-grade form of communication when articulation by way of smart phone has effectively become the modern day equivalent of a love letter. If he responds to your text without another question, don’t respond to his statement. He probably just wants to watch TV and leave the non-existent buttons on his phone unpressed. Your mom leaves out vowels in her text messages, meanwhile my mom is over here sending me a million different smiley faces in each text message. The only topic I believe inappropriately averted was the essence of proper text response timing. I had a boss once who was addicted to her iphone and would insist on texting as our main form of communication. Sometimes I think I am with the zeitgeist when it comes to communication, and other times, I think the world’s gone crazy. I would also add that it’s good to wait a few minutes to write back, if the other person is as well. As a foreigner from a middle-to-eastern European country (Poland, to be precise) I can tell ya (!): it gets only more complicated!
I’m from the netherlands and used to use lot of english phrases as well, whilst talking and whilst texting but after spending half a year abroad (where I spoke english all the time and eventually started thinking in english) I came back to the netherlands longing to speak my mothertongue again. When I was a teenager I downloaded all my text messages from my phone to my computer, and I’m glad that I did it.
Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. To make you want to stay with him.  This may sound hard to believe but this is a powerful strategy that your boyfriend may be applying to improve your relationship!
Instead, there are a few steps that you should follow and get your boyfriend feel that leaving you is the #1 mistake he ever made.
On the positive side, you want your boyfriend to be perfect because you love him so much that you really want to stay with him for the rest of your life. On the other hand, you may not realize that by trying to make your boyfriend perfect, you had been pushing him away day after day! Imagine you were the boyfriend sitting comfortable in the soda enjoying your favorite TV show (well, with some junk food too), and your girlfriend comes by, not to sit down and hold your hand to enjoy the show (unfortunate absolutely rubbish from the girl’s point of view anyway), BUT to yell at you for 5 things WRONG with watching this stupid TV program!
And then imagine that this happens not once but several times a day, and 7 days a week, none stop.
Unfortunately, man needs respect too.  You can tell him that you do all these only because you love him.  BUT he may not be able to enjoy all these little lessons at all! Now it’s the time for you to decide whether you want to accept your boyfriend as an imperfect, ordinary man.
If you are a romantic girl, you may assume that your boyfriend should understand what you mean every time you talk. Now, your immediate challenge is how to tell your boyfriend that the communication will be a lot smoother and his life is going to be a lot easier IF he comes back? Remember that if you don’t do it correctly this time, he’s going to get confused and scared again and decide to stay away from you forever!


Do you want to know how to get your boyfriend comfortably convinced and come back to you arms with no fear? There are reasons why the breakup happened.  There are things you really want to sort out with him. There is nothing wrong with all these.  However, the bottom line is that you want him to be back and continue with a healthier relationship.
Getting your boyfriend back takes time, especially when your boyfriend is reluctant to talk with you. The first step you need is to establish proper communication.  Keep in mind that your boyfriend may be very sensitive now to any attempt from you on your relationship.
Instead of trying to talk about the relationship, your strategy is to ask simple questions that lead to a Yes answer and then move from there step by step. To make it even easier to get the Yes you need, you may also suggest to have a drink with friends, play miniature golf, or other things that he likes.
Well, you are right but the solution can be a lot better and faster: Please read the next section on using romance to get him back really quickly!
Do you want to know what these buttons are and how you can use the full power of these romantic emotional hot buttons to get your ex boyfriend back right away? This one is rather usual considering the character restraint in #1 but according to another friend, restricting the use of acronyms in early messages may help catapult later messages. You can send a nipple and you can send your face, but you can never send them in the same message. Your text message is not a social media tool and as such, the journalistic rule of thumb remains in tact and mandates that you get but three exclamation points over the course of your career (budding romance). Finally, be weary of text-message bombing (which is considerably different than photo bombing). In fulfilling the guidelines of this monologue, you break almost every rule in some capacity, display your inability to countdown (eight and a half comes before eight,) and perhaps most dangerously: allude to emotional illness. I’m also married, though, which implies that occasionally, being who you are is rather endearing. I’ve probably broken each and every one of these rules, during both long and very, VERY, short term relationships. Can we get a post about how to go about at least attempting a normal phone conversation without dramatic pauses that leave the person on the other end wondering if you have, in fact, died? Am I weird to think that texting can convey so much that gets lost in awkward phone conversations? Some people (me included) use English phrases while texting sometimes, like: miss you, wtf, and so on. I had a good laugh at some of them and cringed thinking that people actually do some of these. So I told her to turn to Say Yes To Dress (irony at its finest) because she loves those "girly" shows her ex-husband hated. It's the little things listed below that you have to go through to separate your life as a we to a ME. The side that was reserved for you and the side that was reserved for him doesn't exist anymore.


According to the author of this quote, (her name is Amelia and she loves horses in the literal sense not to the large genital sense,) in the first phases of conversation, shorter is always sweeter. This suggestion comes from a friend of mine who has more or less been out of the dating game a full decade.
Now, are there any specific do’s and don’ts not listed here that you subscribe to? Between not re-reading and not giving a shit, you couldn’t understand anything that she said. And it is usually something along a quotation, we are pretending to be Americans, we watch English-language TV shows in the original, oh aren’t we cool!
But if your ex-husband (when he was your husband) used to call you until you answered, well you answered eventually.
You can thoughtfully consider what will go into crafting the perfect message and in some instances, wholly create that immaculate vision.
She suggests that even though she does not agree with the following dramatization, it is likely a fantastic way to disengage the other end of your message.
This is probs due to the fact that I actually use these in my everyday vocab, as in I dont just type and read them, I say them as well.
One, you can jump on the bed or do a snow angel (why not?) but on the other side it reminds you that they're not there. They force uncomfortable conversational fodder and an inevitable dialogue about the weather.
You are definitely not rolling on the floor and your ass has definitely not dispatched from your body due to my highly advanced sense of hilarity. Besides the physical benefits, there’s nothing greater about having a serious boyfriend than being able to rest all doubt on whether my next text will be the breaking point on our relationship. While it is ok with friends and such, its gets really difficult to read while a flirt goes on.
Sometimes my ear will begin to hurt and when that happens I will have to surmise that I have probably contracted brain cancer. No matter what you think you have to say, how witty, charming, convivial it will be, there’s always tomorrow morning (and a pretty profound headache) to make up for short term radio silence. If he uses an English ‘miss you’ instead our own native language, does it mean he means it less? I believe us non-english speakers need to get creative with our own languages before we forget just how rich they are!
You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life. Two simple words in damn English, not even a sentence, and I go off overthinking for an hour!
So: I am quite tolerant when it comes to texting, yes, I even learned to like the ?? or xD, you can use caps lock on me all you want.



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